The ever shilling woman, always with her guilt-trip and social blackmails at the ready. Her hunger for benefit and security, to consume and hoard will never be satiated.
There's no fixing. Woman in the relationship wants her motives and actions hidden and ignored for as much as possible so the years can pass and the leeching can continue till old age and death do them apart. Now that the state is backing them up in the extraction of wealth its all even more rotten.
The idea of relationship needs to die along with the state enforcing these robberies. With nobody subjected to a culture of marriage and family, without the state-aided contract and hopefully with a few many rights less, women will have to go down several notches and hopefully they will become harlots and street meat. Thai-tier level of poor.
And then nobody will care if the whore blames it on the patriarchy since everybody knows she cant evolve past prostitution anyway.