/younglove/ - Pedophilia Discussion

Young children are incapable of keeping secrets.

Even if the reward was hours of naked tongue induced orgasms?

>>20403
So are most adults. Your point?

>>20405
>So are most adults
Don't you have friends, anon?

A secret is something that is only known by one person.

>>20407
But I want to share one with a hot tot!

Before I give advice here, I just want to say, secrets are bad. They're destructive and stressful. Please don't try to coerce a child into keeping a secret for you.

Anyway, have you tried treating them like the intelligent person they are? Explain the situation to them. Give them all the information and reasons and conclusions you've come to. Let them ask questions about it. Show them everything about the situation so they can fully understand why you want them to do what you're asking. Just because they aren't an adult, doesn't mean they are incapable of understanding your point-of-view.

Don't do it.

>>20406
A lot of so-called "friends" have betrayed me throughout my whole life.

>>20404
Even if she loved it and told her parents how awesome it is when you do it you WILL go to jail and she will be forced into a victim role. Not fucking worth it.

Try killing yourself.

>>20400
>tot
Sounds too young.

>>20441
What a good age?

>>20442
11+

>>20443
Nah. 1 to 8 is great!

From personal experience I will say secrets are bad only "IF" you are trying to keep them secret through force or threats/demands

Many seecrets with kids are fine. I myself had many secrets with adults. Some good some bad but I was constantly worried about the secret (whether good or bad) only if I was constantly reminded of the bad and was told what harm would come to us if I told said secret. It made me a very anxious and stressed out little boy and I wouldnt want to put anyone through that

Now when it comes to girls. I did the route of "Do you love me?" and it worked fine with multiple girls for years. I sat them down before we got serious serious with our play time (Meaning we had instances of fun but now are taking things further) and talked to them seriously and candidly. The poster above is correct. dont trick them or talk to them as children (even if they are)

I would ask if they truly love me and if they do, do they want me to get in trouble? Answer is always no then just go over how much trouble you can get if anyone finds out. Dont hype shit and always be calm. I didnt ask them to keep a secret. I just asked them to only talk about what we do privately to ONLY each other and dont bring it up in conversation to anyone else. It gets de-escalated from "OMG I HAVE A SECRET" to just "Oh….i only talk with anon about our touching time". Which makes more of an impact than you guys might think and it takes the action as kind of a back of the brain thought so they arent constantly worrying about it

Only semi backfired once. My cousin grew up and in her late teens started to distrust me (unsure why since i never lied to her) about things since what we did when she was younger. She acknowledges she has many happy moments with me and I gave her much pleasure but cant believe all the things i say anymore. I blame this moreso on her ultra conservative parents who sheltered her and kept her "normal"

Other girls are fine. We talk and joke and all that

>btw this is with girls between 5 and 13 so under that I dont know and pray you are single father

>>20454
I know long post but also want to add

Think back when you were a kid and all the things you remember but never talked about outside the house. Its just like that

Young kids (again basing off of 5 and up) understand boundaries and privacy much more than you give them credit for if you just treat them as such with respect

So instances of mutual masturbation should only be talked about in my apartment

or

Certain substances do in fact taste funny baby. Other girls your age might not know about it yet so just talk to me whenever you are curious and have questions, okay?

>>20454
>I would ask if they truly love me and if they do, do they want me to get in trouble?

yea its totally ok to manipulate a childs emotions and guilt trip them into compliance

>>20458
Parents, cops, teachers and government do the same thing on a much larger scale that has just as much impact on a childs life

hell even on the lives of adults

Since you actually read my post i did state it was from my experiences, it was the route I personally took, and explained that it doesnt work 100% of time

Thanks for reading but you seem a bit too normal for my liking

>>20458
Also wanted to add guilt tripping is the EXACT OPOSITE of what i wanted/did

They need to understand the importance of loss and consequences before we engage in certain activities hence the "Do you love me?"

its a general thing and term used in even adult relationships so im going to assume you havent had a long time gf

>Babe go cook breakfast
But im sleepy
>do you love me? how much do you love me?
what do i get if i make your favorite breakfast?
>we'll see

Well, I wasn't a tot, but I kept guys' secrets (probably not what you think) because I felt no need to share them. I had never really taken stranger danger crap seriously, and I was more than familiar enough with what it was like to have a sex drive, so nothing about interacting with hebephiles seemed "creepy" like people would want me to believe.

But I guess that was their gamble and there's no telling what someone's been taught.

>>20466
If by FBI you mean: Fouryearold Butt Inspector

That's me

>>20459
>its ok when they do it!

no it isnt

>>20463
Wait, are you a guy or a girl?


>>20454
>multiple girls
You fukken playboy….

>>20473
Btw, where do we hide our CP again? ^^ I forgot XD

>>20483
I keep mine on ICloud. My password is password.