>Lusting mindlessly after women (and boys, in your case)
Hmm, I can see that the shitposts I make in jest on /4chon/ are taken seriously on occasion. Truthfully I don't lust after women, boys, or what have you. There are many goals in my life which I actively pursue, but sexual relations are not one of them. Periodically however a desirable person will be placed into my path, and this event will be appreciated, though without substantial clinging on my part.
One can enjoy riding a roller coaster for the duration of the ride, and then walk away from the ride without craving it further.
>By becoming attached to sex, even addicted to it, you only further diminish yourself and become a slave to your physical urges.
Of course. What I'm saying here though is that one should pursue their goals, or in the event that such goals are not obtainable, the goals should be changed.
>The only difference between the chad who fucks 20 women a week and the virgin who spends 4000 dollars on a rubber doll is one of social perception. Both are slaves to their sexual desire, and both manifest the traits of preta
Yes, they're both slaves to lust, however Chad in this context happens to be the one who has the capacity and will to obtain that which he desires, which is the quality(ies) that the virgin lacks.
The virgin doesn't desire a realdoll, the virgin desires flesh and blood females. Therefore he should change the factors in his own person, and his life, to be able to obtain females. In the event that is impossible, due to deformity, or if the effort far exceeds the pleasure gained, then he should change his goals so as to reduce his suffering.
Pursue the true goal, not inferior replicas- or change the goal.