No.1012
>You will never get a girl to wear diapers
>You will never have diaper sex
>You might not even have normal sex
Feels bad man
No.1018
>Get a girlfriend/fuck buddy
>Tell her you want her to wear diapers
>???
>Profit
Every girl i have asked has agreed to it. It's not that hard, really.
No.1019
No.1020
I think what is difficult about it is the fear of social ostracization. If things don't work out with that girl and the diaper thing didn't fly with her, you're in for some bad rep…
No.1022
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>GF a solid 8/10
>Girlfriend is okay with wearing diapers.
>"It's going to be awhile before I think about having sex in diapers though, anon, so give me time."
>"So there is a chance!"
>Have normal sex all the fucking time.
Just get a girl with an open mind.
No.1024
>>1012Just get a submissive girlfriend and then introduce her to it, easier than you think actually. When I told my girlfriend about it she didn't even think it was that weird, now we have ageplay sessions and she's realized that she loves being a baby.
No.1027
>>1024How do I find a submissive woman in the first place?
No.1029
>>1020Yeah. If it backfires, it backfires hard
Even if a girl likes you in the first place, telling her about the fetish will destroy her image of you
>anon is a cute guyTell her…
>whoa, this guy I was attracted to is a fetish freak? EW EW EW I don't like him anymore No.1033
>>1029Oh well, vanilla gf is worst gf.
No.1034
No.1035
>you will never be a diapered qt
No.1037
>>1018Well you have to remember some of us are lonely autistic 20-something virgins who can't even get regular sex. Adding diapers into the mix just makes it more farfetched
No.1040
>I will never be forced into diapers.
No.1345
>have long time friend who knows you're into diapers
>she doesn't think it's really odd
>sends you pictures of herself occasionally
>will never be able to fool around with her because she has a trashscum unemployed boyfriend she won't leave
Feels bad. Can't even just hang out with her because of the leeching bastard.
No.1600
>Tell gf that I like diapers
>is ok with but won't wear any or baby me
>skip ahead a year
>Haven't had sex since then
worst feeling in the world
No.1601
>>1600You havent had sex in a year?!?
Sounds like an issue with the relationship rather than the fetish bruh
No.1614
>>1020I had a girlfriend in highschool that flipped out when I told her I liked diapers. Fortunately she had no interest in ruining my life by spreading that info.
No.1623
>tfw no cute mommy gf
>tfw you'll never be a daddy/mommy combo with your gf
>tfw you'll never play adult's version of house
No.1624
>tell vanilla girlfriend when you're both 19
>she thinks its awesome
>ten years later still together
>she's kinkier than you now
No.1688
>tfw no man who is into respectful, tasteful, emotional romance.
No.1692
>>1624tell us your story, anon
No.1695
>>1688That should not be so hard to find.
What's the trouble?
No.1702
>>1688have you tried not being between 13-24 years of age
No.1704
>>1702>Not liking to romance while youngDo you even romance anon?
No.1707
>>1704i had great friendships that turned into great relationships
many of whom I am still friends with
despite the examples of the contrary, this seems to mostly be a problem with younger age relationships
No.1709
>You will never be the cute mommy to a 12 year old boy
No.1759
Okay anons, I'm in this situation
>dating girl for three years
>she's into most if my weird stuff (bondage, roleplay etc)
>want to do diaper stuff
>can't bring it up
What do? Mind you I'm slightly ashamed of it, but its hot as all fuck
No.1760
No.1761
>No one mentally stable would want someone incontinent
No.1766
>>1761i'd overlook it.
obviously me being here is a factor, but fetishizing what might be a really embarrassing thing for someone is wrong too so i'd probably not mention abdl kink to them either, i could go the rest of my life without it.
No.1769
>>1766This may sound weird, but I think it'd be better to have it fetishized by than to have it be repulsive to the person I love.
If there's some aspect of me that can be enjoyed, I'd rather it be enjoyed than not. Does that make any sense?
No.1774
>>1769Nevermind, I am probably just weird.
No.1780
>>1769>>1774no you're right, it's probably better if someone can see it as a kink rather than a complete downside
No.1785
>>1688Tell us more
>>1040Tbh most you guys could score if you just delevoped a shred of selfconfidence. Ps fetish porn doesnt help this.
>>1624So damn lucky. Tell us more!!
No.1811
>>1785Something about seeing a diaper being put on somebody turns me on so fucking much.
No.1825
>tfw no qt gf to cuddle with as a daddy or a baby
>tfw not a good enough person to deserve it
i have accepted the fact that the path to happiness is paved with hard work i'm not willing to put in so i will be alone forever
No.1862
>>1695Every guy I had contact with, ever, eventually started with the powerplays. Eventually wanted to be punished, or restrained/bound up, embarrassed or humiliated, or similar things.
I told them SPECIFICALLY at the beginning that I'm not into that sort of stuff. Please, go look somewhere else if you're into that kind of thing.
Not one has tried to talk about life with me. Nobody wanted to be a gentleman to me, and let himself be taken care of in turn. Not one wanted to be subtle about our fetish, to experience it with happiness and gentleness and care. It drains a lot of my energy and motivation to have my needs ignored like this. I don't have endless time either, and I'm really getting tired of this.
No.1863
>>1862I could do that but you are probably a dude and I'm poor and ugly.
If I was you I will handdle them a recipe of what I'll want to do.
No.1864
>>1863>tfw you'd be fine if he was a guy>tfw poor and ugly and lost in a country left of the hand of godlet's just all feel a feel together lads.
No.1866
>tfw abkingdom actually pulled the plug
God damn it, I've had an account there since I was a curious teenager 10 years ago. Too many faps there and now it's all gone. It's all gone. Can you feel me /abdl/?
No.1867
>happily married
>husband knows and for the most part doesn't mind I like to wear diapers
>doesn't seem into it though as he always avoids grabbing my butt when diapered
>too shy/embarrassed to ask him to get more involved
No.1872
>>1862that sucks, i'm assuming you're girl, right?
yeah, it's probably easier to get a non-abdl to indulge you than to find someone with mild sensibilities. the problem is that most people actively trying to be in a relationship with an abdl are doing it for the expressed purpose of indulging their fetish and not be in a mutually beneficial relationship
No.1880
>>1867I didnt read much of the thread but I did kinda twilight zone to see a woman in the non-interested partner scenario.
So sad to know there are sexually adventurous ladies with not-terribly-so men..
>>1862> you sound like exactly the type im into but are hardest to find in this fetishEmail me maam?
No.2218
>trying to date through fetish sites
>all the qt grills who seem compatible with me, or at least decently close enough to my area haven't logged into their accounts for a year or more, on average
>all the hambeasts don't want anything to do with me because I'm a skeletonman
>just want someone to smoke weed, play vidya, and occasionally have weird sex with
>probably not that unattractive, too neurotic to work up the confidence to try dating in normal fashion, and live in a rural area without much opportunity to go and meet people
>get noticeably flirted with by females on-campus, can't make myself do anything about it
somebody kill me, please.
No.2220
>>1862>want to do those things, can't find anyone to do them withSuffering.
I'm this sad fuck:
>>2218 (You)
I don't even care so much about the fetish as a primary part of the relationship so much as just getting to know someone and eventually becoming attached. I haven't had much feminine contact since high school, I'd really prefer to not be alone anymore.
Please have a vagina?
No.2344
>tfw you shave your chest, ass, and balls
No.2347
>>1880Those glove things are stupid, but holy shit a Verbal Abuse shirt
No.2351
>>2347Locking mittens are cute as hell
No.2356
>tfw a minority of assholes scare away almost every girl into this fetish
>tfw there are girls who are forced to lurk or pretend to be male just to avoid them
No.2357
>>2356>tfw you know this is true>tfw girls receive billions of messages a day from scummy dudes>tfw it motivates you all that much more to become a better personHang in there, bucko, we're gonna make it.
No.2359
>Been dating pet trap for about a year and a quarter
>She calls me daddy
>Got her into my fetishes
>She does anything sexually for me
>Passable too
I am one lucky motherfucker, for real.
No.2378
>>2356>>2357>>2359Trans or just a trap?
No.2389
>>1018>>Get a girlfriend/sure, ok. I'll just go down to the GF orchard now and pick a nice GF to take home.
Isn't it great that getting a GF is this easy!?
No.2393
>>2378I don't understand the question. Trap is a type of trans.
No.2395
No.2529
>>1012>>1012classic neckbeard syndrome. If this is what you believe, then yeah youre right.. you will never have a gf that wears them for you. If all else fails, put an add up on craigslist. I've gotten 2 girls to wear and wet for me
No.2646
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god damn you guys are gloomy
>playing vidya in a thick diaper and sucking on your paci
absolute heaven, no negative feel can penetrate the awesome feeling of a diapered kill streak
>watching movies in diapers
pls, nothing quite compares to enjoying a Sergio Leone masterpiece while padded
No.2667
>>1012>desiring coitusBabies are better off not thinking about lewd things.
No.2668
>>2667If you don't like the idea get the fuck out of the thread
No.2669
>>1035>you will never be any kind of qtftfy
>>1037This.
>>1040You could try paying a hooker or finding a web domme.
>>1623Tragic :(
>>1761I don't see how it'd be much of a turnoff.
>>1825I know that feel
No.2670
>>2344I'm too lazy/afraid to do all of that, I was going to try using liquid hair remover instead.
>>2351I concur
>>2646I wear 24/7, keeps me quite relaxed. It's great not to have to leave the game/movie and run to the toilet.
>>2668I'm sorry ;_;
No.2684
es falso hombre, just gotta be genuine with her, confident and also realize that you are too weird for some people, but that's on them. my 17 year old ass had my first girlfriend in sleeping in privatina every night for 6 months. (ow my paychecks) next girlfriend thought it was kosher but made it clear it was not happening, and the side girl at the time was cool with it when it was ageplay but dropped my ass like a ton of bricks when the word diapers was mentioned. (she was fiiiiiiiiine in shortalls tho)
No.2685
@OP and others, wise words from a wise man,
"rambunctious kids, wait for the second date to cuff the wrists"
paraphrasing: get the girls first, then get them in diapers
No.2687
xancokederall got me triple posting like a fuck, but I feel the main issue with this fetish's public perception is some of these moffukkin exhibitionists going to walmart (and in the public sphere generally) loudly padded and proud, because about 104% of those people look like chomos. there are kids there yo, and no parent wants to explain wtf a 300 pound, 50 year old man is doing wearing diapers to their kid, with the possible exception of some "all you zombies" style situation.
you say adult baby and the first image in every 'nilla mind is an obese old white dude in just a diaper. and lets face it, most of us would rather avoid that image and we're turned on by diapers. it's just gotta get out there that the ageplay/abdl scene is a diverse group of people with diverse interests. maybe then y'all neckbeards can approach your female about padding with the same confidence that people into light bondage do.
No.2739
>>2687TFW I'm a 287lb balding white dude. 1 reason its hidden from everyone, except for a few close friends.
No.2751
>>2344trying shaving your legs too and all around your pubes and taint and then pad up! It's quite amazing.
No.2785
>>2687I find it funny as hell because now on tumblr you have an entire AB/DL community that grew independently of everyone else, and is almost entirely made up of women. It's downright bizarre, to the point that some of the feminist ABs think that men aren't allowed to regress or anything like that.
No.2788
>>2785>I find it funny as hell because now on tumblr you have an entire AB/DL community that grew independently of everyone else, and is almost entirely made up of women.Yeah. I mean I can understand why they wouldn't want to join a message board where they're being spammed with harassment, but on the other hand it seems like the only answer is to hate male abdls
It's all bad and only ever will be
>male abdls will always make internet miserable by harassing them>female abdls will always use social justice to ensure male abdls will always be unwelcome>nobody gets laid>porn models hate their clientbase>everybody losesIn a nutshell, the abdl community is FUBAR and it will never be fixed. All we can do is watch it burn
No.2791
>>2788only thing to do is get off the internet and find submissive girls and get them interested in wearing.
No.2794
If you feel the need to argue about SJW with a girl instead of just nodding or just talking about anything else, maybe u don't deserve the delicious fetish sex
sometimes you just have to make an effort, cheer up guys and stop hating on every little thing
No.2802
>>2788Just find a kinky submissive girl and then make them wear diapers, that's what I did. My girlfriend and I never argue about anything
No.2808
>>2794If you're dating SJWs rather than politely telling them to fuck off, you're just asking for an accusation of rape after they wake up and regret the consensual sex they had the previous night. As the saying goes, don't stick your dick in crazy.
No.2809
>tfw having a mommy>tfw she's muslimShe never brings it up, neither do I.
>>2808To be fair, almost every girl on tumblr is an SJW because that's what people on tumblr are supposed to be like, it's the state religion. Not all of them believe it to the letter.
No.2812
>>2809I was just pointing out something I found really ironic after having seen the dark days the mid 2000s AB/DL websites and how much of a sausage fest those days were compared to now.
No.2822
To the SJW TUMBLR weirdo.
Another request for you to please stop posting useless blabber about your hatred for "SJW" and girls who use tumblr. Nobody cares. Its annoying.
Mods please delete his comments. And mine f you see fit. Thank you.
No.2829
>>2822You are kidding right?
If so that I some supreme acting.
Otherwise you know modding doesn't work like that here. Only illegal things are removed here. Other than that anything goes.
I hope I was of help.
No.3127
>>1345
She enjoys teasing you and gets off to how obsessed you are with her. Doesn't think of you as actual relationship material; uses guys she fucks as an excuse as to why she can't see you.
No.3155
>tfw found a diaper guy on growlr somewhat close, but don't have much in common
>tfw not much to talk about
>tfw afraid us hanging out would be awkward
>tfw diaper bf so close yet so far
No.3161
>>3155
>put out my skype info to try and find like minded people to talk about diapers with
>every time, they chat it up for one night and then the next day pretend I'm a stranger and never talk to me again
>now my skype contacts list is full of people I don't want to remove in case they decide to chat again, and skype bots
I feel you homie
No.3162
I don't want to know this feel. I want to believe that diaperbros are flakes, but i suspect they all quickly decide i'm not worth their time.
No.3869
>>3162
>tfw you flirt with guys because you desperately want to entertain the idea you're gay so you won't feel alone
>tfw despite all the pics, chatting, and whatever you two share, you flake at whenever they wanna meet up
I'm sorry.
No.3909
>>3869
I think I know this feel. I have had my first real 'boyfriend' now for maybe three weeks and I don't feel the same thing he feels for me.
>tfw straight after all(?)
>tfw he's into piss-play, which is compatible with diapers
>tfw not sure what will make me happy
No.3933
>>3909
>mfw when I see that pic
Spoiler that shit, some of us don't like scat.
pun unintended
No.3953
>>3933
Sorry anon. Did it trigger you?
No.3959
>>3953
>implying that i'm a tumblrina
Try harder, faggot.
No.3962
>mfw I've done all of those things
>mfw I've done all of those things with guys as well
>mfw one blissful time in my life I was in a bisexual diaper sex three-way
Feels impossibly good, man
No.3973
>>3959
Just…wow.
That oppressive language you chose to use (f****t) both oppresses people who don't identify as straight and fosters a non-inclusive environment. Don't you want this to be a safe space?
Remember, hate speech is not free speech!
:^)
>tfw diapers, lots of them.
No.3979
No.3995
>Had a fiancee whom was into the lifestyle
>She drained my wallet very quickly
>Sat around and did nothing all day
>MFW she's still like this even after breaking up with her
You anons aren't missing anything.
No.3997
>>3995
HOw did you met her and how did she drained your wallet?
No.4006
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No.4022
>>3978
>>3979
>>3982
>>3991
>>4006
B8ing out of control. Seriously though, have another feel for you all.
>tfw wake up to the sound of the diaper deliveryman ringing your doorbell
No.4031
>>3997
Met her on another diaper-themed forum. We fell in love after being friends for a couple years, decided to move her out here, she didn't bother to look for a job or anything, just deciding to play video games all day and thinking Twitch streaming is an actual job, despite my continuing pleas for her to do something worthwhile.
No.4035
>>4031
I want to do something worthwhile but I'm fucked until I can get back on medicine and shit.
I'm sorry she thought Twitch Streaming was a great idea. Then again, tits.
No.6111
>have diaper themed dream
>wake up padded and wet
yes
No.6189
>tfw non-abdl gf
>she knows I'm into diapers
>Last night we had sex
>usual foreplay, blowjobs and nipple sucking
>we have sex for like 5 minutes
>"Anon please diaper me and diaper yourself and fuck me"
>I do it and ejaculate in mere seconds
>feelsgoodman.jpg
No.6191
I'm 22 and still virgin. Was in bed with a girl, but couldn't get hard. Now I've realized I'm a bottom, and I like dudes too. Now I'm actually super happy about being too old to be a virgin, since it makes me feel subby and babyish.
No.6197
>>1624
>>1692
Finally replying to this.
In my two previous serious relationships I had carried a lot of guilt about concealing the ABDL aspect of myself from my partners. I resolved that the next time I dated someone for more than three months I was going to tell them, because I really wanted a relationship that could understand and appreciate all of me. I was ludicrously nervous, we were in a Wal-Mart parking lot in the car after shopping and I was just like, "I can't wait any longer to tell you this important thing." Hilariously, she wasn't really surprised at all, or aghast, or disgusted. She had some questions and I didn't do a very good job of answering them.
For the first couple of years after that, she would play with me but didn't want me to wet my diapers or do anything sexual with them. I never pressured her, but I also didn't conceal my desires from her for more humiliation and coercion in our play. Eventually she realized how much SHE got off on control, and then realized how much ABDL play could bring that out in her. Things escalated quickly from there.
Currently she's working on the other side of the country for the summer. Its lame. But she sends me a text almost every morning instructing me whether to wear a diaper or baby clothes or use a pacifier or if I get to cum that day. In a month we'll be living together again and it'll be great. I think this time apart and the long distance play has increased her desire to control me (in fun ways not lame ways) even more.
Be patient, be not demanding, be honest, be not ashamed. Find someone who loves you for you. You don't need to look inside the fetish, you just need to respect and love both yourself and your partner.
No.7192
> know a couple who we'll call sam and jake. (both ftm's, as am i) met them on a tumblr roleplay tag for the same fandom we're both in.
> SJW's infiltrate tag and harrass the masses for shipping something they dont like or roleplaying a fetish they dont like.
> Jake gets bullied.
> Jake gets brought into a cool skype group for the tag and gets support. i am one of the peeps who had his back.
> meet sam by extension/interaction with Jake.
heres where shit gets interesting
> half a year later after tumblr drama is forgotten i need to let out a long stupid heated rant over something dumb and no one is on– except for sam, who i havent talked to in a long ass time
> we talk, expecting it to be a one time thing and then stop talking to each other again. instead we have a lot of fun and get along great why the fuck havent we been talking before. Then one day
> talking about fetishes
> sam: oh yeah im into beast and bad dragon and REALLY big into omorashi
>*cant help but think of diapers*
> so uhhh… what kind of omorashi? like golden showers, wettings or diapers or….
> Sam: lol what? diapers? nah diapers make things weird and diapers are weird. haha. yknow.
>*sweats buckets*
> OH HAHA YEAH SAM I KNOW LOL WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT??? FUCKING WEIRDOS. SO GROSS AMIRITE???
>Sam: so what are you into???? i showed you mine you show me yours.
>*sweating damn loads*
> UH..
> Sam: wait… no. dont tell me…
> UH UH UH UH UH UH
> sam: oh fuck shit i am so sorry.
> both of us apologizing profusely.
> Sam admits he didnt wanna be rude. he just doesnt know a lot about infantilism.
>not to subtly offer to teach him stuff about it
> i do so
> the more i tell him about it the more he likes it.
> end up getting him super into it.
> sam realizes oh fuck hes a Daddy.
> sam like "FUCK THIS IS SO CUTE. I WANT A LITTLE!! I WANT ONE!"
>Sam hints more but I dont notice until the last fuckin second
> finally take the goddamn hints and slowly get into a relationship with one another.
> I am so fucking happy right now you guys i cant even tell you
> but oh fuck Sam is still with Jake.
. . .
> dont give a fuck. i am a home wrecker.
> jake visits sam and it turns out jake is a shitty asshole and sam dumps his ass.
> me and sam are still in a happy, very very kinky, relationship. <3
No.7195
>>7192
This the greatest thing I've read on a while
Super cute, super romantic and I love transmen, wish more of them were into diapers.
No.7200
I don't have a gf that's into it but I lucked out big time and got several close friends who are both accepting and encouraging with it.
>Be last year
>be really depressed over a lot of stress and shit
>Talking to close friend who knows
>"anon didn't you say that diapers are comforting for you?"
>"yes?"
>Don't necessarily want to do it cause I live with family
>spends next couple days asking me about it and telling me I should go buy some
>eventually give in and go and buy a pack
>Spend that night padded for the first time in years and play games with her online
It was honestly one of the nicest think anyone has ever done for me and I try my best to be a good friend back to her too
>Another friend used her writing skills and drew my a diaper girl for my birthday
>same one told me they saw a pack of 100 diapers at the store and immediately thought "omg anon would love this"
>A third friend was drunk and said that I should "shit myself in a diaper and then send her a pic so she can see my 'poopy baby face'
>she sobers up the next day
>she was serious about me shitting myself but doesn't 'want to see my poopy baby face'
>She jokingly and seriously reminds me every time any metnion of diapers comes up for any reason
>got another friend in on it
> I have been convinced and will try messing next time I get to wear
Some people are just weird.
No.7207
>>7192
Enjoy your internet fantasy while it lasts, friend. They're often all too short. I truly hope yours ends up being the exception that proves the rule.
No.7209
>>7207
We met in Las Vegas irl at a hotel a couple months ago. Guess I forgot to mention that part, ha.
I brought a couple of diapers along with me for play purposes, during the trip. And after a couple days we did eventually get to use them. The rest is history.
( we still need to spend more time together irl and don't yet live close enough (he's in NY, I'm in Cali) but we're still together and we're still loving it.
No.8723
Dont lose hope, I recently had a gf that on our last night (i was moving to a different city) went into my diaper stash and got on a diaper and called me in. I peed and came all over her in the bath then we cuddled in diapers to sleep
No.9107
>In seven years, dated three women. Get into phase of relationship where we're admitting our kinks:
>Girl 1: Wants to get cut on with a steak knife
>Girl 2: Rape fantasies
>Girl 3: Wants both my hands and one of my feet in her vagina at the same time
>Me: diapers!
>Them: fuckin' gross, no way
>them, ~three months later: breakin' up now, peace!
>non-acrimonious breakup, no real drama, just go our own ways
>ran into all three at some point afterwards, they are all lesbians now
>all three times, I was their last boyfriend
conclusion: I subconsciously identify nascent lesbians and push 'em over the edge, also nascent lesbians are weirdly prudish
No.9115
>>9107
wow, i know that feel
I've been the test driven twice. That's usually some painful shit because you don't know why it happens. Attracting lesbians is a curse.
No.9534
I never thought I would be a DL.
Now I have a daddy who loves to diaper me and read me bedtime stories.
I love when he comes in my dirty diaper after fucking my messy butthole.
No.9535
>>9534
I can't track the picture but I'm sure you're just roleplaying.
No.9536
>>1012
I got a fatty I met on Fetlife to diaper me, but that doesn't really count.
>>9107
"Lesbians"
I'm glad these stupid cunts are out of our gene pool.
>>6191
That's good Anthony Burch.
No.9678
>>9535
I'm in a dd/lg dynamic relationship.
That's my daddy.
No.9684
>tfw found an ab/dl girl on tumblr that lives in my city
>tfw she already has a partner
No.9698
>>9678
If you're from /b/ you should know that using a name and talking about yourself is a no no around here.
No.9701
No.9715
>>tfw no qt incon gf
I'm starting to realize how absolutely absurd of a feel this is but it won't stop bugging me. Being a daddy dom is suffering.
No.12789
>tfw wetting the living fuck out of a snuggies/tykables overnight
Feels fucking good man. I've got a weird thing for diapers that swell a lot when they're wet…it feels really lewd to me.
annnd now for sadfag shit
>afraid SO will never be as into this as I am because I kinda had to introduce him to it
Reading about really passionate daddies who truly love their role instills me with the most heartbreaking jealousy. I feel like that sort of thing is hard-wired into someone, and I'd feel bad making my BF act out a role he didn't care that much about.
No.12828
>have a very cute girlfriend
>petite, adorable eye, cute voice, cute laugh
>bed is covered in stuffed animals
>always wants to watch cartoons and kids movies at my place
>asked if she could start calling me daddy, i never even brought it up
>also asked for me to spank her, didn't even mention it or hint at it at all
>pisses herself every now and then since she has kidney issues and was born with a mishaped bladder. Even pissed the bed once when we were sleeping together.
I feel like I'm so fucking close
No.12829
>>12828
also forgot to say she sucks her thumbs when she sleeps a lot.
No.12835
>>12829
I dated a girl like that once, who apart from pissing herself, did everything else you mentioned.
However, she was really conservative sexually and wasn't interested in anything fetish related.
No.12880
>>12828
Aside from a few things (bladder thing, the daddy thing) my fiance is almost exactly the same way. I'm a DL, no interest in little stuff but she loves disney movies, colouring, we have a ton of stuffed animals in our house, and she is generally a "little" but doesn't do the diaper thing. I am fine with it, our relationship is amazing and living with her is awesome.
She lets me wear anytime I want really, just not in bed and she doesn't grab my ass when I wear. If she would wear I would be in heaven but beggars can't be choosers, she is the perfect woman to be in every other aspect that I can overlook the fetish stuff for :)
No.12890
>>12880
It doens't bother me or anything that she's not into. I've talked to other people in this fetish and they say if I can't bring it up with her than I should just end it now, which is ridiculous. I think they're a little deeper into the rabbit hole than me. I'm guessing they've never felt like genuine real deal type of love and I'm guessing for them, ageplay is the only way they can get off.
No.12896
>>12890
There's some merit to what they're saying, but I don't agree that it's a situation where you have to make choice where one option is breaking up.
This sort of shit has a way of coming out eventually and it usually ends up being better coming from you than the person finding out on their own. That being said, if it really is love and your sex life isn't suffering due to your kink, then it's super unlikely that her finding out would be a relationship-breaker. Could definitely result in lost trust though.
No.13052
>desire diapers at bedtime bc of childhood bedwetting
>am a side sleeper
Tfw
No.13053
No.13054
>>guts got off the boat
>>samurai jack confirmed for another season
>>I actually got a qt incon gf
Brehs, I don't want to count my dippergrills before they hatch here, but I think things might be looking up.
No.13064
>>13054
>>>I actually got a qt incon gf
Details requested!
No.13101
>tfw your non-abdl bf is okay with you being diapered around him and lets you dry-hump him in your wet diaper
No.13135
iktf OP. Lately the feels have been hitting me pretty hard. My kinks are just too far out there for women. Theres no way I could ever have a real relationship. I thought about hiring an escort, but I doubt they'd want to do any of this. I just want to move out and get a sex doll at this point. That would at least help curb most of this I think.
No.13151
>>13135
Money has a way of motivating people.
No.13153
>>13151
Yeah but money will only go so far in a lot of cases. Like I said, I thought about hiring a prostitute/escort, but at the end of the day, if they arent interested and have other clients, I dont think it will make a difference.
No.13174
>>6111
>have diaper themed dream
>wake up in panic that i've wet the bed
>I haven't
No.13186
>>13153
Just be willing to pay more. At a certain point it becomes worth it to get paid the value of 2 or 3 clients.
No.13187
>>13174
>go to parents' house to dogsit
>first time alone in months
>diaper time
>go to sleep
>have nightmares about parents unexpectedly coming home & finding dirties
>wake up multiple times that night
Felt bad man
No.13189
>sitting cross legged
>feel something on my legs and feet.
>freak out and think that i leaked all over
>oh wait this is just sweat.
No.13219
So recently I found a guy near me that likes me. Sorta an online hookup but he seems pretty alright. We get talking about kinks and stuff pretty early on and I found out he's into a form of ageplay. When I told him I'm into diapers he said that he's not really into that except he's had a fantasy for a long time where he has to care for a younger partner that's wearing a diaper and while changing it he subtly molests the partner.
It's like a win / win, right?
How do I bring it up without being like "please molest me"?
No.13248
>>13219
Just be passive about it.
>Do you wanna try out some roleplay tonight?
>How about that thing you mentioned that one time? I'd be down for that if you are.
He should be all over that, especially since he told you it was a fantasy in the first place. This is of course assuming you're a woman of some sort. I'm not very well versed in gay thermodynamics.
No.13470
>>2669
>You could try paying a hooker or finding a web domme.
Even if a hooker agrees to engage in diaper play, it's hard to imagine she'd do a good job of playing mommy.
No.13700
>tfw live on an island
>tfw severe lack of diaperfags
>tfw no big strong daddy
No.13702
No.13703
>tfw I take a big stinky shit in my diapee :p
Rawrrr :)
No.13705
>>13703
this is why people should use trip codes
No.13746
No.13750
>Be incontinent for years do to surgical complication
>Majority of guys in university aren't interested in a girl who wears diapers all the time
>Look into diaper fetishes because the only way you'll find a boyfriend is if they are cool with diapers
>Lean about Adult Baby stuff
>Realize I'm pretty much an AB
>Have always loved kids shows
>Have always loved dressing cute
>Entire room is pink and full of stuff from when I was a kid
>Start considering diapers to be a somewhat sexual thing
>Like not having to clean-up after masturbating
>Read about the people who ageplay 24/7
>Start fantasizing about being able to live like a kid instead of having to work a 9-5 job after I graduate
>Try joining Fetlife
>Get 100s of people messaging you
>Realize diaper fetishes are more popular than you thought
>Guys your age want you to be their mommy
>Be submissive as fuck
>The only dominant guys that messaged you were either in a different city, were into violent stuff, or were over 60
>Find a few somewhat dominant ABDL guys your age
>They all, at some point, decide they don't want their entire life to revolve around a fetish
>They leave to try to get a "normal" girlfriend
>Reach maximum levels self-consciousness about incontinence
>Want a serious boyfriend, but are too scared he'll decide that living with diapers all day everyday isn't as fun as he thought
No.13751
>>13746
and you can't travel to australia?
>>13750
LONDON?
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Anyway, 24/7 ageplay maybe too much for most people, give your bf time to brath outside of play and thing may last longer.
No.13754
>>13751
>LONDON?
Nope, I'm in Canada, sorry.
>Anyway, 24/7 ageplay maybe too much for most people, give your bf time to brath outside of play and thing may last longer.
It wasn't ever 24/7 ageplay or anything close to that. Besides, it was never really the amount of ageplay that was the problem, rather the problem is those times where me being in diapers in certain situations causes issues for them. For example, they don't want their friends or their families finding out that they are dating a girl that wears diapers because they think it might lead to their friends and family realizing they have a diaper fetish. Originally, I thought it would be perfect for them if their friends and family found out I was incontinent. That way if anyone ever finds their diapers they can just say that they're mine.
One guy would never bring me to his friend's parties because when I go somewhere like that I have to either wear something really absorbent (which would be really thick and impossible to hide) or I have to bring some changing supplies. The supplies are always in my backpack, and there's nothing about it that would make someone think it's anything other than a backpack. The only way someone would find my changing supplies is if they opened my bag and searched around at the bottom under all the "normal" stuff. Even if they did find something I'd never tell them anything about his fetishes or anything like that.
I just hope guys become less paranoid about stuff like that after university. I just need to find s guy that is: around my age, friendly, not ashamed of me being incontinent, relatively good looking, and able to get along with my friends.
No.13756
>>13751
>LONDON?
Nope, I'm in Canada, sorry.
>Anyway, 24/7 ageplay maybe too much for most people, give your bf time to breath outside of play and thing may last longer.
It wasn't ever 24/7 ageplay or anything close to that. Besides, it wasn't ever really the amount of ageplay that was the problem, rather the problem is those times where me being in diapers in certain situations causes issues for them. For example, they don't want their friends or their families finding out that they are dating a girl that wears diapers because they think it might lead to their friends and family realizing they have a diaper fetish. Originally, I thought it would be perfect for them if their friends and family found out I was incontinent. That way if anyone ever finds their diapers they can just say that they're mine.
One guy would never bring me to his friend's parties because when I go somewhere like that I have to either wear something really absorbent (which would be really thick and impossible to hide) or I have to bring some changing supplies. The supplies are always in my backpack, and there's nothing about it that would make someone think it's anything other than a backpack. The only way someone would find my changing supplies is if they opened my bag and searched around at the bottom under all the "normal" stuff. Even if they did find something I'd never tell them anything about his fetishes or anything like that, why would I?
No.13757
>>13754
>>13756
Crap, double post, my bad.
No.13759
>>13754
Dammit girl, I was writing a long post about the dangers of 24/7 ageplay, but it looks like that's not really the issue.
Provided that none of the ageplay stuff leaked into meeting friends and family, it sounds like you've had some pretty low dudes for boyfriends. I mean seriously, what are they expecting? "The Incontinence Affair: A Tale of Intrigue and Subterfuge"?
Friends and family are supposed to be supportive. If they've got something to say about your girlfriend that wears diapers? You give them a stern telling off. Getting the fetish found out is a non-issue, since you could easily just lie and say it got picked up from numerous diapered sexytime encounters.
People tend to level out once they're out of school and dealing with responsibilities. Getting all that you're looking for from that list could be hard though, especially if you're only looking locally. Take it from someone who's discovering the hard way that meeting enjoyable people post-college is actually pretty hard.
No.13761
>>13759
>Dammit girl, I was writing a long post about the dangers of 24/7 ageplay, but it looks like that's not really the issue.
Well if you put all that effort into it then you might as well post it :P
>>13759
>If they've got something to say about your girlfriend that wears diapers? You give them a stern telling off.
Honestly, that's what I thought they would've done, but I guess I was wrong. I mean, if someone found out some weird thing that a boyfriend of mine did and they tried to shame him I wouldn't let them do it. Who cares what people do if it doesn't hurt other people?
Really, the list of wants boils down to just: Being OK with the diapers and Having a personality that is compatible with mine. For age really I just want someone that's relatively close. Like, I'd be open to dating someone who is in his 30s if he was fine with the diapers and a fun guy to be around. For the "relatively good looking" part I more meant I want someone who is normal looking. In my mind around 90% of people are "relatively good looking".
I'm pretty lucky in terms of the numbers game because I'm a girl looking for a dude, and the number of guys out there looking for a diapered GF are pretty good, the hard part is finding one that lives in the same city and wants a serious girlfriend.
In high school I was this nerdy five foot tall girl that learned how to play Magic instead of learning how to do my make-up. I thought I'd change things in university but right after grade 12 ended I had that surgical complication that left me incontinent. I went from being a short nerdy girl with small boobs in high school to being a short nerdy girl in university with small boobs that poops her pants. It's kind of hard not to laugh when I think of it like that :)
No.13762
>Well if you put all that effort into it then you might as well post it :P
Bah, I scrapped it already. Didn't think it would be of much relevance once you clarified. I could type it back up later perhaps, gotta get to sleep soon so that I can actually make it through work tomorrow.
>Who cares what people do if it doesn't hurt other people?
In your case it goes a bit further than that, since you don't really have much of a choice when it comes to the diapers. Making fun of you for it would come pretty close to the top of the Asshole Scale.
>I'm pretty lucky in terms of the numbers game because I'm a girl looking for a dude, and the number of guys out there looking for a diapered GF are pretty good, the hard part is finding one that lives in the same city and wants a serious girlfriend.
From the sound of your experiences it seems like there are a lot of dudes looking for a girl in diapers "in theory." If they can't even introduce you to friends then they woefully misunderstood how a relationship works. All that aside, one should be looking for personality, confidence, and shared mutual interests in a girl, not whether or not she wears diapers. Nerdy hobbies should be what drives guys to ya; the fact that you "poop your pants" is just the wildest bonus imaginable.
Based on how you described yourself in the 24/7 thread, you sound pretty darn cool. Find guys that want you for that, rather than the diapers.
No.13764
>>13762
>Bah, I scrapped it already. Didn't think it would be of much relevance once you clarified. I could type it back up later perhaps, gotta get to sleep soon so that I can actually make it through work tomorrow.
Nah, no worries then. Don't feel obligated to type it out again.
>In your case it goes a bit further than that, since you don't really have much of a choice when it comes to the diapers. Making fun of you for it would come pretty close to the top of the Asshole Scale.
That is exactly the reason why I'm happy I become incontinent after high school. If it happened during high school I would've been remembered solely as the "diaper girl", and that would've sucked. Pooping in class in university just means I get up, leave to go change myself, and come back to class. No one knows anything. In high school even if someone notices that I've pooped just once then I'll be the girl who pooped in class forever in their minds.
>All that aside, one should be looking for personality, confidence, and shared mutual interests in a girl, not whether or not she wears diapers. Nerdy hobbies should be what drives guys to ya; the fact that you "poop your pants" is just the wildest bonus imaginable.
Yeah, but having a guy see me pooping my pants as "the wildest bonus imaginable" is pretty great. Guys that are tolerant of incontinence would be grossed out at least somewhat if I pooped while we were cuddling. The smell would permeate and if he grabbed my butt he'd feel it squish. He might be kind enough to not say anything, but it would be upsetting for both of us if the mood keep getting ruined because of me using my diapers. An ABDL guy's reaction to me pooping while cuddling would be the total opposite. It would just lead to stronger cuddles and making-out. Having a guy who praises me for using my diapers makes me feel amazing, and a guy being grossed out makes me feel gross. Being called a "good-girl" and receiving cuddles is infinitely better than a scrunched nose and being pushed away.
Plus with an ABDL guy I get to wear cute underwear again. A non-ABDL guy might think a Space diaper or a Tykables diaper is weird, but an ABDL guy would be excited and happy if I lifted my skirt a bit and they saw a cute diaper.
But, I do agree with your point that the diapers should be a bonus and not the main reason a guy is into me.
>Based on how you described yourself in the 24/7 thread, you sound pretty darn cool.
Honestly, that means a lot to me. Thank you.
No.13766
>>13764
>Having a guy who praises me for using my diapers makes me feel amazing, and a guy being grossed out makes me feel gross.
My apologies, I really wasn't thinking about it from that angle. I imagine when you're incontinent in a largely non-incontinent world, having someone react with smiles and hugs must be pretty rare, and a great feeling. Also; Tykables, weird? Never! Those things are cute as fuck yo. I've got my own tiny stash of them for whenever I'm feeling like little time. Which is more and more often lately, since you can't really dom much when you're living by yourself.
>Honestly, that means a lot to me. Thank you.
Not a problem dear Anon. I figure you're in the Feels Thread for the same reason most of us are. It can get pretty easy to forget how much good you have going for you when it doesn't bring lasting emotional connections with people. It's a feeling I know pretty well. I hope that self-conciousness doesn't bother you for too much longer; you've got every reason to be proud of yourself.
No.13770
>>13764
I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with incontinence, not just in terms of finding a relationship but in day-to-day life. But based on your posts you seem like a smart, self-aware person and I'm pretty sure you'll eventually find someone. I know that's often seen as empty, generic, shitty advice around these parts but you being a girl that seeks a boy who is into a fetish where the male to female ratio (real or perceived) is extremely high makes me think that it really just is a matter of time. Yes, lots of guys (ABDL or otherwise) are extremely self-conscious of how they are perceived, during and after university, and wouldn't be comfortable enough in their own skin to say "yes, my girlfriend is incontinent, if you have a problem with that fuck off". But there are plenty of others who are mature enough to handle and embrace it.
As an aside, have you ever considered finding someone who is also incontinent? I would imagine there are support groups for young people who are diaper-dependent for medical reasons.
Anyways, since this is a feels thread….
>>1012
I was in love with a girl, who I told about my diaper fetish after swearing I would never tell another soul after a previous betrayal of trust. She was the first person that really made me feel okay about liking this. To her it absolutely wasn't a big deal, she couldn't understand how it wasn't as simple as a preference for a different kind of underwear. She had an acting background so she loved roleplaying, it was like a game to her. She never "got into it" herself but indulged me because she loved me, and I think she enjoyed the aspect of making me happy as well as getting to pretend and convincingly take on different personas.
Over time she stopped having sex with me, and then cheated on me with another guy and moved in with him. She never said the diaper fetish was a problem, but I can't help but feel like I got way too comfortable with her initial acceptance and pushed the envelope too much. Having a kinky desire for fluffy underwear is one thing, but exploring the psychological aspects of regression, dominance, submission, dependence, and loss of control may have been way too much for a person who was basically vanilla.
There were certainly other problems in the relationship, but every time someone has dumped me they have never been straight with me about the real reasons for their decision. Since this has been a point of shame for me for most of my life, the whole experience messed me up pretty bad. So I have gotten a girl to wear diapers and have sex, but I feel like I will never even have normal sex again because I'm too emotionally damaged to get to that point with another person.
I feel like an untouchable, not because I have a diaper fetish but because I know I need ABDL to be sexually satisfied and I don't have very many other things going for me in terms of being an attractive person. It's one thing if you are "normal" and have a weird but harmless kink, but if you're strange and then on top of that have a niche fetish that you need to get off then what would possibly incentivize someone to love you?
No.13778
>>13770
>I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with incontinence, not just in terms of finding a relationship but in day-to-day life.
It sucks at times, but after dealing with it for years I'm used to it so it isn't really a huge deal anymore. I think getting over most of the shame and whatnot associated with being incontinent has helped a lot for being able to deal with the challenges that arise from it. The biggest thing for me has been being able to just accept it and not worry about it constantly. The biggest issue medically has been the doctors and nurses not wanting me to wear diapers. For them, having an incontinent patient wear diapers is seen as having failed to help that patient. At first, they constantly tried to get me to switch to a catheter, but after trying that for a week I told them that no matter what I'll be sticking to diapers. Over the past year I've been developing some fecal incontinence which has gotten to the point where I don't really have control over it anymore. Now the doctors and nurses want me to do all these tests and consider all these procedures, but honestly I know it's a lost cause, so I'm happy to just wear my diapers.
>But based on your posts you seem like a smart, self-aware person and I'm pretty sure you'll eventually find someone. I know that's often seen as empty, generic, shitty advice around these parts but you being a girl that seeks a boy who is into a fetish where the male to female ratio (real or perceived) is extremely high makes me think that it really just is a matter of time.
Yeah, that's what I'm hoping for.
>Yes, lots of guys (ABDL or otherwise) are extremely self-conscious of how they are perceived, during and after university, and wouldn't be comfortable enough in their own skin to say "yes, my girlfriend is incontinent, if you have a problem with that fuck off". But there are plenty of others who are mature enough to handle and embrace it.
I really wish that there wasn't that stigma that led to ABDL people having to constantly hide in the shadows and be eternally self-conscious. It's such a simple innocent fetish, yet it's treated like it's the most hardcore thing ever by some people.
>As an aside, have you ever considered finding someone who is also incontinent? I would imagine there are support groups for young people who are diaper-dependent for medical reasons.
I'm totally open to dating an incontinent guy. There really isn't that many though among younger people, so there isn't a huge amount of selection. Also, a lot of the younger people with incontinence are pretty negative when it comes to their incontinence. I try to maintain a rather positive outlook on things concerning diapers, so it would be a downer to be around someone who constantly places them in a negative light.
No.13781
>>13766
>My apologies, I really wasn't thinking about it from that angle. I imagine when you're incontinent in a largely non-incontinent world, having someone react with smiles and hugs must be pretty rare, and a great feeling.
Honestly, it's an amazing feeling. I've come to terms with my incontinence, and if I'm with someone who has no issues with it then it really isn't a problem at all, but rather it's just a fun little part of life. Being able to turn incontinence into a fun thing makes it so much easier to live with.
With an ABDL guy it becomes such an easy fun thing to do. I absolutely love sitting in a guy's lap, and that's not really something I could do frequently if I'm dating someone who isn't a fan of diapers. If I use my diaper while sitting in the lap of an ABDL guy he'll respond with stronger cuddles and happiness. I'm happy to have someone who makes me feel good about my incontinence, and he's happy to have a girlfriend that wears diapers and uses them. It's a win-win for everyone.
Plus, having my diaper changed by someone can be really cute and romantic. And if he's wearing diapers too I get to change him, which makes him happy and gives me access to the man-bits, which is always great.
>Also; Tykables, weird? Never! Those things are cute as fuck yo. I've got my own tiny stash of them for whenever I'm feeling like little time. Which is more and more often lately, since you can't really dom much when you're living by yourself.
I love tykables. they're super cute and can hold a ton. Plus, now there is tons of pics out there of guys wearing them, which is amazing!
No.13787
>tfw gf is extremely self-conscious about her weight nearing 200 lbs
>tfw her depression over this is one major reason for the lack of ageplay time with her (other than the fact that we live with her parents) along with none of her lolita dresses fitting
>tfw she feels intimidated by the amount of skinny women she sees in the abdl scene
>tfw I used to be a DDR tourneyfag a decade ago but she isn't as autistic as I am at the game so it wouldn't be an effective exercise
>tfw she doesn't want to take the effort and exercise and would rather just become vegan
It took a while to type this out in order for me not to sound like a shallow dick, but this is triggering to me because while I alright at problem solving, I am useless in trying to help. I'm debating on saying fuck it to this fetish until she gets her bearings straight because I don't like being forceful or anything, but time can only tell.
>>13219
The problem I have is that in my head the scenario goes off without a hitch. The reality and mental wall I hit when ageplay turns sexual is that I will be perceived as the P-word after we're done playing. I might have to have an intimate chat with her over my concerns at a later date.
No.13789
>>13781
I have to ask Anon, would you be interested in chatting now and then on a non-imageboard client of some kind? You seem like a person well-worth knowing, and I'd be lying through my teeth if I said I wasn't interested. Been a while since I've stayed up that late talking to someone. In return I can offer deep conversation on numerous topics, wit, laughs, and more solid life advice than you can shake a stick at.
You probably get more of these offers than you can possibly manage, but I'd like to assert that I'm interesting enough to be worth getting to know as well, even if it's just a single chat. Reaching out is something I'm pretty bad at, so the least I can do is take an embarrassing shot at it.
No.13805
>>13789
Not the anon you're looking for, just piggy-backing off your comment.
I'm the same way as you are with regards to reaching out and stuff. I'd love to find someone, anyone, who would be willing to chat about random bullshit from time to time.
No.13816
>>13781
Different anon here, read your posts and man those feels :/. I'm from Canada too (Sask.), I posted a few up about myself. >>12880
Honestly, If it wasn't for finding my fiance I thought I would have been alone too, And even she said to me "I would never leave you over something as silly as a fetish". My GF is completely vanilla and is accepting of it but doesn't participate. It sucks but it never gets in the way of having fun together and what not, I actually enjoy the teasing a little when she asks if I'm "squishy" or not. Just hold in there, things will get better. I'm 23 now, 5 years ago I would have NEVER thought I would be this happy and be so "accepting" of myself, self loathing only leads to more depression. Hope you find that person to love you through all the good and bad :)
No.15006
>tfw finally met a girl who might be more than eager to try something like this, but I just can't date her because she's the exact kind of girl that I promised myself I would stop dating
No.15080
A few days ago one of my first Girlfriends randomly texted me after 7 years of no contact, and asked to hang out again. (we broke it off because I joined the Marines and she couldn't handle being with someone in the service.)
I went over to her house and we drank a bit of scotch and beer plus screwed around a bit..(which she says she hasn't been with anyone since I was with her last.) and I stupidly told her I had a thing for diapers, and acting "little" (which I had to explain a bit because she didn't quite get it.)
She is the first person I ever told that to but damn did she make it easy to talk to her. She made it out to be no big deal and shrugged saying "everyone has their own kinks"..but damn I was still really freaked out about it all because I realized what I had just done and what it could have meant for me socially.
Ever since then she's made little jokes and things about it and today she says she bought me a present and won't tell me what it is.
The little part of me is super excited and I'm halfway expecting it to be some sort of pacifier or other babyish object, but I still have no idea what the present could be. Maybe she's open to accept that part of me and possibly try some things out or it could just be some other random object. (She told me it was green and had paw prints on it.)
Maybe there's hope that she'd be open to try the diaper thing I just ain't sure…damn I sure talked a lot….
TL;DR
>Told old GF I was into diapers and she made it out to be no big deal and bought me a present.
>She still wants to have a relationship and potentially embrace my little side.
No.15081
>>15080
By "jokes about things" I meant jokes about diapers and other babyish things.
No.15118
Lets talk happy feels.
This kink has had a weird effect on my the last few months. A year ago I felt like an emotionless robot going through the motions of a vanilla relationship. Work was shit and it turns out I had depression for a long time. We broke up but it urged me to explore my kinky and abdl side.
Fast forward to now and I've made leaps and bounds in terms of emotional and personal growth. I've discovered my little side and the non sexual side of abdl. Diapers and so on are still a turn on for me but I sure do appreciate chilling out, padded in PJs and cuddling in front of a fire. I've met friends from all walks of life who I deeply care about and I dont have to hide anything from.
Now lets talk not so happy feels.
Seems I've been dealing with my depression in the worst way possible and burying everything. While the last few months have made me happier, by opening up more it's a lot easier to slip into that deep chasm of negativity and apathy. All of these friends live so far away so meeting up with them takes hours of travel time and weeks of preparation. It's fucking tiring sometimes trying to deal with this shit in a healthy way.
No.16348
Anyone have experience with paraplegic girls? I imagine some wear diapers for incontinence… Seems like an easy way to get a 24/7 diaper chick
No.16350
>>15080
Marine bro, what was the present? I want part 2 to this tale.
No.16352
>>16348
diapers don't seem to be a huge thing for paras; a lot just self-cath on a set schedule.
No.16376
No.16377
>>16376
Roasted and Toasted -NL2016
No.16402
>had accumulated a rather large stash of diapers of the past months
>hadn't really been wearing that often
>decide to start wearing in the evening and at night
>do this for about 3 weeks
>am going really easily
>get to the point where i'm just dribbling every 10 mins or so
>starts to effect me when i'm not wearing
>i have to pee often, and it's always an emergency
>not that bad, actually it makes me feel really little because i know what it means
>be today
>out for walk
>about a mile from my house
>suddenly have to pee
>almost home, using all of my focus to wet my pants
>get through my front door
>the relief of being home is too much
>start to wet
>grab my dick and run to the bathroom
wew
i wish M4's weren't so stretchy, i feel like they're never snug enough
No.16405
>>16402
As much as I fantasize about this happening to me, I would never want to risk going fully incon.
No.16409
>>16402
This will be me someday. why m4s?
No.16410
>>16409
because m4 is very cheap and is better than most non-ab diapers. Personally I think anon should get something thinner like tena so he can wear more easily outside
No.16411
>>16410
> very cheap
Where?
No.16414
>>16411
Savexpress has them at 12 euro for a pack of 14 at the moment, but they usually have them at like 9-10 euro/pack when they're on sale.
If you're US-based I'm not sure where to send you.
No.16415
>>16411
http://www.xpmedical.com/dtest.html
They are roughly $1.43 per diaper if you buy by the case.
But to be fair if you wanna go absorbent, and really cheap. Then you would need to go Level 4 A+ for roughly $1.39 per diaper.
No.16445
>>16415
They really don't get any cheaper than that? I'm wearing an L4 now because I took advantage of the diaperbuys bogo deal last month. Other than that though, the A+ are both better and cheaper than abenas, and 24/7s are 10x better and 10% more expensive.
I just don't get the abena hype. For the money, they're not that good.
No.16452
>>16415
All the brands I'd normally wear seem to be significantly more expensive on XP Medical, though that's probably due to import costs.
From the cheapest European suppliers I'm aware of:
Tena Maxi are €0.66/diaper
M4s are €0.86/d
MyDiaper Night are €1.11/d
New Crinklz are €1.20/d
Level 4 A+ are €1.38/d
Old Crinklz are €1.58/d
Dry 24/7 are €2.22/d
No.16470
>>16415
The in-house brand of XP Medical don't have standing leakguards AFIK.
No.16472
>>16470
That's correct, but the crotch is super wide. Never had a problem with leaks.
No.16533
>>16452
Where the fuck did you find Tena Maxi's for 66c a piece?!
No.16538
No.16539
This seems to be the thread where people are talking about ABDL dating in general so I'll go ask this here?
Does anyone have any experience in how girls from different countries, cultural backgrounds, ethnicities, etc. might react to ABDL play?
I'm American and white American girls can be pretty prudish. Especially with fetishism.
I've never brought up the ABDL thing to a black girl before, but from what I've seen black girls might be willing to have sex but tend to not be interested in anything out of the ordinary in terms of sex.
I've never been outside the US before, so I don't know how it goes in different countries. but from what I've heard girls in Central American countries and South American countries are also pretty squeamish about fetishism.
A guy on reddit who said he was living in Japan said that dating Japanese girls most of them are already familiar with various forms of fetishism and much more open to it, but I've also heard that the exact opposite is true in China and Korea.
Also, I hear that in Europe it differs a lot by country, but that Eastern European girls tend to be pretty submissive sexually and are ok with fetishism.
So anyone have any personal experience with any of this? What country or ethnicity would be the most likely to be comfortable with ABDL play?
No.16544
>>16538
Oh, those are the ugly as shit older Tena Maxi, not the last one.
Still thanks.
No.16550
>>16544
To be fair if you're wearing tena you're wearing then under your regular clothes for discretion, not as play diapers.
I think it's a bit weird the way it's a plastic core with cloth sides but they're fine really as long as you don't pull too hard and tear them.
No.16757
My feel is that I really fucking hate myself for liking this stuff, I feel extremely guilty and disgusted with myself every time I fap to it. It's especially bad because when I get horny I go out and roleplay with people (too scared/disgusted with myself to try it) and as soon as I finish I just sit there like "what the fuck are you doing" and usually cut contact with the person no matter how much I enjoyed the conversation/roleplay with them. I'll straight up get gay with a dude cybering but as soon as I come I just think why the fuck did I do that. I don't know why I can't either just accept it or dump it but I'm just stuck here I guess.
No.16848
>when you realize how cringy and disgusting acting out this lifestyle would be in reality
feels bad
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EefqtS7Es-Y
No.16994
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.
I feel so unwelcome
When you're a caregiver and you have nobody to take care you feel like you're on a different world. Everybody talk about how happy they are with just using diapers and playing by themselves and other things you can't care for. Nothing on this fetish caters to what you like and nobody needs you around.
Being a caregiver may aswell be a different fetsh, I could leave this fetish and not feel any different.
No.16998
>>16994
Want to be my e-big and help me go 24/7?
No.16999
>>16994
I think as a caregiver it really is a bit of a different fetish. I mean, they usually still love diapers and baby stuff, just in a completely different light. One that requires someone else to participate.
And man, I would sympathize with it being a lonely role if it weren't for the fact that the AB to caregiver ratio is massively slanted towards the ABs. Someone in your position really gets the pick of the litter tbh, or at least shouldn't have much trouble finding a play partner at the very least. Hell, you even got an offer almost 3 hours after your post. Not saying said anon is going to be a good fit for you, but you obviously have options here.
No.17000
>tfw 6'3" lanklet guy
always expected to be the dom
always intimidate people shorter than me
look silly in ab clothes instead of cute
legs going everywhere, don't fit in anything small
fugggggg :–ddddddd
No.17004
>>17000
reminds me of this guy I know who's a 6'7" bear of a little.
He pulls off kigus/footed sleepers well enough though, maybe they would help you.
No.17014
>>16998
And what could I give to you that the 24/7 thread can't?
>>16999
I already accepted I'm going to die alone.
My biggest issue is how to be satisfied without another person.
No.17021
>>17014
Are you genuinely asking, or just telling me no?
No.17028
>>17014
>And what could I give to you that the 24/7 thread can't?
Direct 1 to 1 support.
No.17046
>>17014
I'd say a more personal caring feel to the whole thing.
As >>17028 mentioned, I'd also add to it that little babies need encouragement from a big to make them feel proud of doing something the big approves of. The big rewards the little somehow to show them they approve of those actions.
No.17052
>>17028
>>17046
Eh… I don't feel it'll be much fun, I'm not in the mood to meet new people right now and I don't like to meet people just because they share my fetish. I'm sure we have nothing in common beyond that.
Sorry man.
My concern now is how to be fullfilled alone.
No.17054
>>17052
You don't know until you actually get together and message each other friend. Don't have to make any form of commitment or anything, just chat a bit and see if you share any other interest.
No.17057
>>17004
thanks for the suggestion, i'll see what's around :)
No.17145
>>tfw playing vidya with your qt incon gf and she has a messy accident without noticing
Life is really amazing sometimes, brehs.