So let's tell stories about getting found out by someone close, family, gf, friends, etc and how things went afterward. I'll start
$$\color{green}{greentext}$$>Be me, 21
>Been into Abdl on and off for about 7 years
>Started to buy nice diapers after getting first job at 18
>Would occasionally take pictures of myself to see how it looked
>Get gf senior year of highschool 7/10
>Fast forward 3 years, about 5 weeks ago
>Had kept it a secret from everyone, except people online
>Gf comes to my place one morning and I get a shower
>We go to the store and on the way back she starts a conversation
>"Anon, I was going to change the background on your phone and saw a few pictures of you in what appears to be a diaper. What is this?"
> My heart and stomach dropped and decided I would just tell the truth
>"Well… I wear diapers, and like it."
>"Do you use them? And is this a fetish to you?" She asked
>"Yes and yes…do you think I'm weird?"
>"Well, it is shocking, but weird no."
>We discussed it some more before she had to leave later that day
>I told her I would test the waters with her and probably start wearing around her
>She said that is fine and told me she loved me and left with a smile
>After all of this I have spent about 1/2 of the time around her diapered
>It has brought us closer actually I feel and will soon ask her if she would be willing to participate