/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

oh dude, I just found out I can't get anymore plastic covered M4 anymore here, I'm super pissed about this, the cloth cover ones don't feel babish at all, AT ALL!!!

>>5393

It's hard to get a plastic-backed non-ABDL diaper these days. Manufacturers have moved almost entirely to cloth, or to cloth-plastic hybrids which aren't much better.

Now if only ABDL diapers weren't so depressingly expensive…

>>1804

>>1804

I know this is from months ago but Bambino was not the first ones to make ABDL specific disposable diapers. There was a company called Classy Comforts: http://classycomfortdiapers.com/ which was actually the first. They were supposed to have been really thick and really high quality too.

The website is still up but as far as I've heard they haven't filled orders in years and they don't respond to inquiries anymore either. I tried sending them an email myself.

They show up on ebay now and again for really high prices.

>>1084

Can you get the M4s at any retail store?

>>5498

Most of the time, no. If you have a good medical supply store in your area they might be stocked there but Abena is phasing out the plastic backed ones and replacing them with cloth backed.

>>5411

… for ants.

>>6264

Ok, I'm really, really impressed but… is this fetish your whole life? How do you explain this room in your house to friends or family? Do you have a partner who participates? How did you get to this point?

>>6267

Eh, I'm not a fan of calling it this, but it's semi-lifestyle I guess. My partner is in the know and participates, I have my own house, and I keep this stuff in a separate room. Most friends I have either know I'm into AB/DL stuff and don't give a shit, or are AB/DLs themselves, so that's not a big issue. This stuff isn't my whole life at all, but I won't deny that it's a big part. I've got a bunch of other interests and things I like doing, but this is probably the one that I put the most money into and get the most enjoyment out of. I guess that's living the lifestyle? I dunno.

With family or new friends/acquaintances, I generally just keep the door locked and if they ask, I just say, "None of your business." And really it's the truth. Let 'em speculate, lol.

How did I get to this point? I dunno, really. I think a lot of it has to do with having a stable job, social life, and partner, all of which facilitate living the way that I do(Jesus fuck, is it easy to conceal diapers under pants). It just sort of felt comfortable to fall into this submissive baby role at home/with my SO and since nothing was stopping me and it didn't seem to effect my life negatively in any other way, I said fuck it.

/novel

>>6270

You're living the dream, my friend

>>6271

I know, man, and I appreciate it every day. It's the one I chased and I haven't been disappointed in the decision yet.

>>6271

indeed, living the dream *3*

>>6270

Are you gay? It's hard to imagine a straight guy in a relationship with a straight girl who would be ok with this sort of thing unless she was an ABDL herself.

>>6282

I don't really feel like my orientation matters much honestly, but yeah, I am. My boyfriend is also an ABDL though(more of a kink for him, as opposed to a fetish for me), so there you go. Still, I've known a couple straight pairings where they've developed an AB living situation when one side started off as vanilla-but-openminded or kinky-but-not-into-diapers. It just takes a kinky guy or gal with a relatively open mind. I know saying "just" there makes it sound easy, but it does happen!

>>6270

>Jesus fuck, is it easy to conceal diapers under pants

Any tips for that?

>>6313

Plastic pants and a onesie are the most important things. Cuts down on the noise like crazy, reduces any urine smell by a huge amount(mess too, but it's pretty rare that I've actually needed that benefit), compresses everything tight to you to minimize any diaper bulge, eliminates the risk of diaper-peeks, and you get some extra protection against leaks to boot. Aside from that, getting pants a size or two too big is a fucking *necessity* if you want to wear anything thicker than a Molicare(24/7s, Abena x-plus, Comficares, etc.) or use any stuffers. A loose jacket or long shirt combined with some tight boxer-briefs can help too if you don't want to use a onesie to get the compression and peekage protection.

Anecdotal evidence time! I wore a 24/7+Abri-Let Maxi combo to work every day for ~2 years using the onesie/plastic pants/loose jeans combo and never caught anyone staring, heard any gossip(this was the type of place where shit got around), or had any general idea that people noticed whatsoever. You'd have to be looking hard to discern any bulge and any urine smell was at a minimum since I stayed well-hydrated and the plastic pants did their thing.

To be fair, although I worked in close proximity to my team, it *was* a desk job. I don't think this would work in, say, construction or restaurants.

If you're just wearing out and about as a one-off though, just loose pants and some boxer-briefs/tight underwear is really enough. It's weird. People really seem to not give a shit about anything that doesn't immediately effect them, including making note of some slightly puffy pants or the odd crinkle.

>>6407

Wow.

>>6579

>That fifth pic

I'm jealous, but I would be able to use all those in, I don't know, two years, since I most use during weekends or to just sleep.

I also like looking at stashes, specially when they're casually exposed in the picture.

I wish I lived on my own so I could have a stash

>>6628

>I also like looking at stashes, specially when they're casually exposed in the picture.

People say the same thing about my guns.

So many large stashes, what jobs you guys have that you can just buy cases at a time?

>>13720

a case is $100 at most?

When I was making $20 grand a year it felt expensive but if you wear infrequently that $100 provides enough diapers for a while.

>>13720

I literally got an education and entered a well-paying job for the explicit reason, and all through my life, motivation, of being able to afford all the diapers I want. I built the size of my stash, and earned it with my own work.

>>13743

I feel the exact same way…except I'm currently not successful or able to afford all the diapers I want :\

I suffer from depression, and I would characterize half of it as a "chemical imbalance" and half of it as existential. Of course the biological part is treated with various prescription/recreational drugs pretty well, but I can't really figure out the existential part.

I've never been very motivated by money because I grew up upper middle class and never wanted for anything material and because I don't have very expensive tastes. Even if I won the lottery I wouldn't buy a luxury car, take expensive vacations, or really change my lifestyle aside from not working. But I have considered the idea of going back to school with the intention of getting a high-paying job so I could afford to live alone and buy all the diapers (and diaper porn) I want without worrying about the cost.

I guess the main thing stopping me is I don't know if I can handle a 4+ year delay of gratification.

>>13771

Are you in high school? I'm 25 right now. When I was in high school I felt depressed all the time and the main reason I did it was not to be left alone in my shitty small town when all my friends went to school. It gets better over time. It seriously does. Even if it's just going through the motions for a few years things gradually start to level out emotionally.

As far as jobs go. College is worth considering but only if you get a degree you're fairly certain will make you money afterwards. I got a Bachelor's in Psychology, my whole reasoning for it was just that it interested me so why not study it. I realized afterwards that I couldn't get any jobs with it so I went back to school and got a Master's degree. I've already put up with way more school than I really want to.

If you don't want to invest the money or time for a 4+ year degree that's totally understandable. I'll echo /biz/ and say in that case maybe you should consider a skilled trade. Or, maybe look into a programming boot camp or becoming an IT specialist. I know a couple guys who got 2 year certifications in IT, started working in the oil industry, got some additional training and are now making over 100k a year.

Skilled trades like welding and electrician school can pay pretty well depending on where you are and what kind of work's available. Also, I'm just assuming you're in the US.

I'm job hunting right now. But it's promising, and you know one of the first things I'm going to do once I'm gainfully employed is buy a shitload of diapers.

Right now I'm planning on buying one bag of every ABDL disposable diaper on the market right now if possible. Alll the European stuff is expensive as fuck.

If I end up doing it I'll post pics here.

>>13720

I make ~$34,000/year at a job that's 32 hours a week. Last year I only made $25,000 but I was still able to afford a large amount of padding. I use around 2 diapers per day on average. Let's assume that with shipping and whatnot the average cost per diaper is $2.

365 * $2 * 2 = $1460/year for diapers. That can be a lot of money when you're living on your own, but I always made sure that my budget always included diapers. The main motivation for me to move out and get a full-time job was so I could wear diapers as much as I wanted too. Honestly, I don't care too much about making a load of money in the future if it meant I had to give up diaper-time.

If diapers are a priority you'll be able to find a way to work them into your budget. Think about it; lots of people spend $30 at a bar or club once or twice a week. Right there that's around $45 per week. Diapers (2 per day at $2 each) are only $28 per week.

>>6266

I looked into those enema things but couldn't find any reviews from an ABDL perspective. How well do those things work? Are they just water, or are they some other liquid?

And then there is me, making 30 k a year (pretty nice in my country) and I feel guilty to spend 100 a year on diapers. But most of that probably has to do with the idea of wasting, because I am just using them for fun etc

>>13720

I work on the tech side of the finance industry. Just got a big promotion this month, so I'm making around $90k if you count bonuses and stock options.

Finally moved out on my own (had roommates all through college) this May, and have been going kinda hog-wild on the diapers ever since. Only limit is how much I'm able to hide quickly, as none of my friends know and obviously coworkers finding out would be a disaster. It's all very fun, though terribly lonely at the same time. Feeling little is great for relaxing, but I'm a dom at heart. I spend far too much time on /aco/ teasing people to fill that need.

>>13773

I have a bachelor's degree in math, no internships/"real" work experience, living at home because I'm underemployed. My degree is good for going to graduate school and getting another degree in something that will actually get me a job, but on it's own it's basically as good as psychology.

Also grew up (and am living in) a shitty small American town, I tried everything I could to go to college somewhere far away and get the fuck out of here but I just couldn't make it on my own…combination of mental illness/not making enough money.

I guess I'm a bit of a masochist because I constantly read stuff like /biz/ and other redpill career advice saying to do a skilled trade if more school isn't an option or something tech related if it is and the only thing I can really take away from it all is that I'm not cut out for any of it. I'm not very good at doing stuff with my hands so electrician/welding/etc. is out of the question, not to mention the obvious lack of culture fit in those lines of work. I could probably force myself to do a master's in data science or something like that but I just really hate the idea of more school and am not sure I can really handle it at this point, or ever. The biggest problem is I got really burned out during undergrad on the whole go to class, take tests, get a piece of paper to work a job you have no interest in. I can't emotionally commit to that kind of sacrifice because I can't internalize the "reward" at the finish line, not that there's even a guaranteed one these days. If graduate school didn't put me in debt I would be considering it more, but the prospect of not finishing and having more loans to pay off is a big deterrent.

It really sucks because I don't think I want very much out of life, just to live in my own shitty apartment, wear diapers, and go to local concerts or taco trucks and shit like that. Like I said, I have no desire to travel, have the latest i-device, have children, date, wear fancy clothes, or participate in expensive hobbies. And yet these demands are too much because I can't afford it, I'd need about twice as much income as I'm pulling now.

I'm not looking for a solution because I know I'm just bitching about things most people would have no problem dealing with, but thanks for reading I guess.

>>13858

If you're serious about all of this my advice is become a trucker. Depending on who you work for the pay could be pretty good. You're on your own 90% of the time so don't worry about fitting into the culture. And if it's something you want to do its one of the only jobs where wearing 24/7 is practical.

Although automation is going to hit the trucking industry eventually drivers will likely still be employed and the automation will act more as an autopilot making your job easier. Also most companies are starving for drivers right now and are looking to hire younger so it should be at least worth looking into.

>>13828

So what kind of work are you involved with that you get 32 hours per week. If you don't mind me asking

>>13933

>So what kind of work are you involved with that you get 32 hours per week. If you don't mind me asking

Nah, I don't mind at all. In simple terms I work for a company that sells insurance to companies for their receivables, which basically means they are insured against people and other companies not paying them the money they are owed. I mostly do admin work and whatnot. It's pretty great since I get experience in the sort of field that pays insane money (easily $100k+) to those with a few years under their belts. The reason I get 32 hours a week is that my boss has this theory that low level staff produce just as much in a 40 hour week that they do in a 32 hour week. The result of this is that I get a four day weekend every other week, which is used mostly for diaper time.

>>13828

They work well! They cause a very strong urge to mess that quickly builds up to being impossible to resist. They're a saline solution that's a combination of water and sodium phosphate that work to pull a fuckton more water into your bowels. Basically getting the effect of a larger enema with a smaller amount of liquid. Not the guy you're replying to, but I'm definitely a fan

>>13927

Not that anon, just another anon in a somewhat similar situation sans the degree and upper middle class bit. Despite a few IT certs and living in a sizable city (~300k), the only job I've manage to actually pick up is fast food, which I'm pretty sure is slowly draining my soul away.

Do you think going the trucking route would be feasible in a decent amount (6 months?) if I don't even have any sort of license as of right now?

>>14012

Yes depending on a few things. If all you want is a CDL then you can start studying the manual right now and see what the testing options are at the DMV. However it would probably benefit you to look into nearby trucking schools trade schools or your local community college. They probably have different levels of training courses available. Also I hear from a lot of truckers that you have to get hazmat certification in order to make decent money but I don't know what the process for that is. There's also other certifications out there for things like public transportation or sensitive cargo.

>>13843

That's something I think of from time to time - those more morbid thoughts, like how many trees died to make this fun device I can only enjoy for a few hours. Goes alongside ones like "if I'm wearing and am in a car crash/die, at least my cleanup will be easier."

>>13743

How are you able to focus on living a life of diapers all the time? I'm still in the state of being conflicted about my involvement with the lifestyle - having this guilt about needing to keep the abdl life and "normal" life (including many gaming sites/games) separate, friends included.

You or anyone else have advice on how to reconcile those issues? Like, I totally want to lose weight to fit into diapers better, but without the option to reall live for an abdl lifestyle I find it hard to commit. (Like, similarly, I don't wanna get littles clothing because idk if it'd be worth it at my size, like a bodysock/onesie when my weight could easily change positive or negative and make the fitting irrelevant)

>>14002

Thanks for the info! I'll definitely look into get some of those.

>>14305

>How are you able to focus on living a life of diapers all the time?

I eventually just hit a point where I stopped being ashamed of it and just focused on maximizing happiness. If my life was going to shit I would feel like crap while padded, but when my life was doing great I wouldn't feel bad at all while padded. If I was a guy with a great job, great social life, and a fit body then there's no reason I can't enjoy wearing diapers if I want to.

So that encouraged me to do as well as I could in all areas of my life. Now I have a great job, a long-term relationship, a fuck-ton of friends, and my own place. I wear diapers 24/7 and I don't feel the slightest tinge of shame since there's nothing wrong with celebrating your success with some weird quasi-sexual stuff.

>>14314

hey what do you think about the hybrid from bambino

>>14319

It's pretty much a beefed up bambino. Claims they're the most comfortable diaper, but doesn't compare to the sensation of wearing & wetting a DC Amor. Otherwise, yeah. Padding is featured like any other of Bambino's products - emphasis on the butt rather than the crotch; ended up like a brick of wet cloth for a while until it started to break down and movement became easier. Then again, I stayed inside/immoble for most of the test, so I would love to run it again while being more active.

The plastic was thinner than anything else I'd encountered before. Inner weaving was better, more like a cloth and resembling the inner weave of the DC Amor, that part was good - nice and resistant to tearing by high use/pressure/weight, but the outer shell felt thinner than most. I did not test its tearing strength, though.

The tapes are the selling point, though - if at all. Able to adjust to almost any size and very breathable at those hips - an area I find can get itchy / irritated if I let a diaper get too wet/wear too long. Only real big problem is it's unable to be rolled up/bundled, as the velcro hooks don't fasten to the balled up used diaper. All in all, they remind me of when I had worn some cloth Cushies.

If I could take the DC Amor and put the Bambino Hybrid's tapes on it I'd have probably the best diaper. I'll wait for ultimate judgement until I can get my hands on the ABU high-capacity line, though~

Not sure where to post this, but if you live in the states and order from rearz, how does it ship? I ask because i need to be able to hold the package for pickup when i order diapers, which is easy with UPS or Fed-Ex.

>>14348

If I'm remembering correctly, they ship by Canada Post from Canada, then get transferred to USPS once they hit the border. You can just put the shipping address as a UPS store and it'll effectively work as a "hold" though.