/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

not a troglodyte but not necessarily beautiful or in good shape

willing to put up with me and give me encouragement, and who i could do the same for

interested in some stuff i like but who would get me into other cool things (and vice versa)

that's all really ･ิ_･ิ

>>16556

I have the same sentiments, although ideally I would like her to be sexually attractive as well.

Ideally someone who I could easily get along with on a regular basis and as far as ABDL stuff goes, it would be nice if she was just able to let this be a semi-regular part of our lives. I'd like her to wear whenever we're alone together just doing whatever. Stuff like that.

Someone intelligent, pragmatic, accepting, and confident. If I could find those traits in a woman, everything else would just be a bonus. Finding all of those things combined with an ABDL fetish though? That'd be like hitting the lottery, so I can only hope the acceptance would pull through and she'd be fine with exploration.

This fetish has been making me feel more and more like a pariah lately. I can't bury it without feeling like a fake, and I can't embrace it without feeling like any sensible person wouldn't just shove me away. It's been a lonely year. Hopefully this one's a little brighter.

Biologically female and not fat.

>>16566

Shooting high there buddy.

>>16568

A man can dream

Guys I met my girl in college she was not a abdl already, but she was very open. Now she loves diapers and loves being dressed up. I guess u can say I got blessed

I've lost any hope in finding a partner at such point that I no longer think about it, I don't have an ideal mate.

I was kind of up for a girl who sometimes shy and sometimes confident. I was also hoping that she would be an ABDL somewhat. I'm mostly DL if anything, so I thought I would be some kind of diapered caretaker of some sort.

She would be up for pretty much anything.

Also it's never going to happen but I was hoping for a girl who may or may not be a herm/futa but that's never going to happen

There was one girl in my local kink group that expressed interest in being a mommy and I went into a bit of an autistic anxiety attack and listed all the reasons why I wouldn't be a good little to try with. It was a very "Shut up and get in the robot" moment and I shouldn't have been such a whiny bitch.

Anyway, she probably would have been really close to what I was looking for. For one she had a very caring and motherly smile. She was also bigger and stronger than me but without looking like one of those freaky female bodybuilders. I was taller by a couple inches, but I'm pretty skinny and she definitely had more muscle mass than me so she wouldn't have any problems physically handling me. Her praise also put me into little mode pretty fast. I did one of my first rope scenes ever with another person and she commented on how I made such a good rope bottom afterwards and it made me all blushy and stuff.

Now I feel like I've kinda missed my chance to try stuff with her and I'm too afraid to bring it up and ask.

>>16665

I don't make good decisions when I'm nervous.

A girl, obviously. Broad hips, a bit chubby, a large bossom.. preferably black. I find it easier to describe the appearance of my perfect partner than her personality, apart from the usual intelligent, kind and accepting. Above all I want someone I don't have to feel on edge with, all the gf's I've had till now, I really had to impress them, work for it. I want someone I can be silly with, someone who makes me feel safe.

Physical appearance of a pre-teen or early teen girl.

Mentally either an adult human or an AI willing to roleplay. I'd want them to be kind, generous, accepting, and intelligent.

Smooth, attractive twink that I can baby. Much preferably intelligent and outgoing. I don't think I could date someone socially awkward again.

>>16689

Hi there >>>/loli/

we missing people like you around here

I'm not joking, I always felt like a pariah because I like lolis

My fiance is honestly damn close to a lottery winner to me in want I want, which is why I asked her to marry me lol. But I just wanted someone who I could have spend time with and just generally not have to worry about being myself. We enjoy doing many activites together, share very common views on lots of "social/society" issues. She is smaller than me (I'm a small guy, 5'8 and 149-155lbs) and is very accepting of my weird DL side. Only thing that would make life better is if she would wear with me but it is getting closer and closer to that as she does mention it now that she might try it :)

>>16549

close to my height (6'3") so we can agree to build a tall-people kitchen.

intellectually/creatively active in some way

obviously, a plus if we share similar kinks

in decent shape - not asking for perfection, just someone who works out once or twice a week like I do.

willingness to rail me with a strapon a major plus

someone who isn't a fucking autist or and old fuck

i just want to find someone into diapers who is relatively normal

>>16880

it's really not that easy. i've met a few people in town into diapers who were normal and around my age (one person a few years younger), none of them worked out.

well, i mean, some of them we got on very well, but they stopped responding to me randomly… so i dunno if i'm the fucking autist or they are. :^)

An attractive body but humbleling ugly enough face, but not defectively ugly. Above all not fat or big breasts/thick.

Is kind and has solved all her childhood trauma so she has no problem with intimacy (althought would a psychologically healthy girl enjoy diapers?)

Loves being taken care, and shamelessly enjoys being a girl.

mentally challenged girl who loves being a baby, would also be nice