/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

>>5280

I have the same living situation as you, I'm still living with my parents. I normally kept all my diapers and such hidden and out of sight, but my mom decided to go on a cleaning spree one day on her day off when I was at school. When she came to pick me up from school, she confronted me about them, asking if I was wetting the bed & needed to see a doctor or something. It was sooo embarrassing telling her that "no, I'm not wetting the bed, I just have those for fetish reasons." Spent the entire drive home with a massive blush on my face, and we both let the subject drop, because it was kinda embarrassing for both of us.

Out of curiosity, where'd you order your paci from? I just ordered one from AwwSoCute, just waiting for it to ship.

>>5281

well, the paci from then was just a regular baby paci from Amazon just to see if i liked using one, and was also super cute

i did order NUK 5 paci and bottle from fetware recently, i'm excited to give it a try

>>5282

Question: I'm guessing you need to wash the pacifier occasionally. How do you do that, because I'm guessing the dishwasher is completely out of the question. I know adult ones need to be cleaned differently from baby ones, but I don't know how to clean either.

>>5283

my current one is silicon, so i just rinse it off in the sink with soap

but i think you need to boil latex

>>5281

you know this shit wouldn't happen if you kept your room clean.

>>5287

also, store your fetish material in a locked travel bag.

I've been thinking about getting a pacifier, but I just realized a potential problem. My front teeth on the top and bottom don't touch each other when my mouth is closed, so there's a gap between them that's wide enough for my tongue to stick out of. Will this cause any problems when I try to suck on a pacifier?

>>5297

I'll need to see a pic of that.

Do you mean you have an over/underbite that's pronounced enough to squeeze your tongue between your teeth?

Are your molars/premolars significantly longer than your incisors?

>>5298

I'm not really comfortable showing real pics, so I'll try drawing an image later.

I don't think there's any under/overbite. My front teeth just aren't long enough to reach each other. Underdeveloped palette I think it's called. My back teeth can touch no problem.

I do notice that my bottom front teeth aren't as straight as my top ones, but they're not super-crooked or anything. There's also more bottom front teeth, which are smaller than the fewer top front teeth.

I'm still trying to find a good babyish pacifier.

The adult NUK is pretty good, but it's not perfect.

Anyone know any alternatives?

>>5520

i don't know what you're looking for exactly, but BPs has some good ones

http://www.baby-pants.com/pacifiers.php

I can't believe you people who do this shit while living with your parents.

Why would you risk other people finding out unless you had some degree of independence?

>>5522

i have a relationship where they respect my privacy?

>>5522

I always feel legitimately sorry for these people who live in such an unstable home that their parents would get angry or throw them out over something so silly.

I live with my mother, and I keep it from her because it's embarassing, but if she found out she wouldn't get upset or anything. She'd think it weird I'm sure, but my life wouldn't drastically change. It makes me mad at these asshole parents, you're supposed to be there for your kids, this isn't nearly big enough a deal to freak out over.

>>5522

well i dont live there anymore but when i did…

my mom found out. Absolutely nothing changed.

She actually bought me a lock box and would sometimes remind me to "clean my room"

>>5582

I don't *think* my parents would throw me out or anything like that, but it terrifies me because I don't know what they would do.

I have some tips for discreetly getting diapers so as not to arouse attention.

First get a lockable box from a hardware store like Home Depot. If it doesn't come with a lock, buy one. Then look up the brand of diaper you want to buy. Assess the price and buy a prepaid Visa card with the amount of money required.

Order the package and wait for it to ship. As soon as it arrives, take it to some private place (usually your room) and open the box, storing the diapers in the storage container. Remember to only buy the number of diapers that can fit inside your container.

Then take some scissors or a knife and deface important parts of the box, like where it was shipped from and any phone numbers. If the box came with a receipt immerse it in water to fade the writing. Then throw the receipt away. Tear up the plastic wrapping and dispose it in a neighbors trash bin if it has any obvious images. Dispose of the box as you see fit, now that it has been defaced. This system has been working well for me recently.

>>5552

>>5592

THAT'S RIGHT DANGERZONE! LOL

If you're in the US, get a PO box. I can't remember if you need to be 18 to do so, but you will need to provide ID (driver's license, passport, university-issued ID, etc.) and pay a monthly fee, which is generally under $15 for small boxes. Get the smallest box they have to save money, since anything they can't fit in the box will be placed in a nearby locker. The locker can be opened with a key that will be placed in your box.

I did that to stock up on stuff the summer before I moved out. Everything from small toys, plushies and a NUK 5 to bags of Bambinos were delivered without a hitch. If you're really concerned about meeting people you know at the PO, get one in the next town over. Chances are if you're that paranoid, you're already driving out there to get your babby stuff anyway.

>>5585 brings up some good tips as well. I've also heard of people storing stuff in old computer cases and gutted electronic devices. If you've got a dresser in your room, removing the bottom drawer will usually reveal about one to three inches of storage space between the drawer and the floor.

Same anon as >>5297

I decided that I'm going to get a pacifier anyway. I hear that the NUK 5 and NUK 6 are both good, but I think I'll stick with a NUK 5 since the 6s can apparently irritate your mouth. I have a few questions:

1.) Do I have to boil latex like >>5284 said, or will soap and water be enough?

2.) Is there a particular reason why you have to boil latex?

3.) How long does a NUK 5 nipple last? Do I need to get another pacifier, or can I just get another nipple to slip onto my existing pacifier?

>>5298

Fucking kill yourself creep you're not getting a picture

I'm 18 and I'm going to start living in a dorm soon. I'm worried about how I'm gonna make this work, any tips? Should I just buy a lockbox for all my babyish stuff?

>>7162

Yes, buy a lockbox or hide your dips in the trunk of your car like I did.

>>7162

>>7163

Keeping a lockable container for your ABDL stuff is just good to keep around in general.

Wearing in a dorm isn't that hard if you know your roommate's schedule and you're there when they go home for weekends and shit like that.

Be friends with them, so it's easier to check up on where they are so you can have your privacy.

I dunno about you guys, but even grown and married, I gotta keep it out of sight, out of mind. Messed around and married a girl who hates it… although she's otherwise awesomeness.

It's also why I'm not 24/7… because responsibilities… the same ones that make me want to be 24/7 even more…

>>11565

Man, my sympathies. I know how strong those urges are and I would've been incredibly regretful if I never got the opportunity to play out the fantasy, at least for a while.

Here's to hoping you get the chance somewhere down the line