/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

Eh, ambivalent. They were young once too. We're eventually going to be old people into this fetish. Mentally they're functionally the same as us with regards to the fetish.

Getting old sucks and all I'm sure, but I don't feel like they're a separate class to be socially shunned or anything. That being said, my potential relationship pool doesn't include them :p I'd be open to the distant possibility, but I'd rather be with someone that's a part of my generation.

>>6753

Yeah, I don't really want to look at pictures of them or have playdates with them, but they're no different from us. I don't know why anyone would have an 'opinion' on older ab/dls.

For the most part, I'm indifferent. As long as they aren't being creepy ala ababy_jeffie(don't ask if you don't know who I'm talking about; you don't want to know), I don't have an issue. It's the creepy mother fuckers like him and Stanley(the fat fuck that went on TV twice who was/is living off the government's tit) that piss me off.

As someone else said, any relationship does not include them and I don't see myself playing with them, either.

>>6767

Dude there's creepy fucks that are younger too. It's not an exclusively "old person" thing. Just check the cringe thread for examples. Not saying you're wrong, just don't see how it's relevant.

>>6793

I disagree that this will follow in our generation but, for now, it's true. The previous generation grew up before the internet. They were more private. I'm sure there's plenty of old ABDLs who's spouses are cool with it and it just always stays behind closed doors and they're otherwise normal folks.

Its the old ABDLs that want to mix now because they're freaks and could never find a partner that gives old ABDLs a bad name. Also, older ABDLs are more likely to have a community reputation and something to lose - only the one's with no status are willing to put themselves out there.

Stands to reason that, as far as the older generations go, only the useless and unlovable want to mingle with us youngers.

>>6798

I want you to remember this post for the rest of your life and live by it. The moment you turn 55, you best get the fuck out of every community and group and retreat into your home where you'll live alone forever.

Oh wait, probably not any different from right now rofl.

>>6798

I agree with most of what you're saying here, but I think you're wrong here:

>Stands to reason that, as far as the older generations go, only the useless and unlovable want to mingle with us youngers.

It's sort of a correlation doesn't equal causation thing here. We've got a couple of people, probably 45-60, that attend our local munches and are pretty chill. Really they seem like the rest of us: just trying to find people with similar interests to talk to and hang out with. Generally the creepers, young and old, move on pretty quick when they realize they're not welcome. Maybe our area is the exception that proves the rule?

>>6801

Was the rofl im so much better than every one of you freaks LOL im so smart XD necessary? Not really

>>6798

It doesn't really have anything to do with the internet. Most people shake off their fetishes during their sexual prime. But creepers don't.

>>6806

Yes, it was. He obviously has no fucking clue about IRL interaction with anyone outside his age range(even in his age range maybe?) and needs to understand how fucking retarded he is. I'm one of "you freaks" too and have no problem with the older people in my local community. Neither do the 30+ other people that attend gatherings and events.

I guess it's hypocritical in a way, as he doesn't want anyone over an arbitrary age in his community and I don't want people like him in mine. Equal-opportunity disgust.

>>6810

not that anon, but i've only had bad experiences with older people, your anecdotal evidence isn't law.

>>6813

>>6813

me too fam

that guy is projecting so hard right now he shouldn't come to a cringe thread without having an open mind instead of flailing his arms at whatever disturbs his ego

>>6816

> he shouldn't come to a cringe thread

Oh, I'm sorry. Is that what this thread is about?

> without having an open mind

Says the person who apparently believes that there's some sound logic behind the argument of exiling everyone over a certain age. I guess we eskimos now boys.

I'm not saying you need to love every single old fuck you meet. Only that you should heed your own advice and keep an open mind. But nah. Old = cringe. No arguing that.

>>6813

Double post, because I realized I fucked up my link in a previous post, possibly causing some miscommunication.

>>6801 was meant to be a reply to >>6793, not >>6798.

Literally the only thing I'm taking issue with in this whole thread is pretty much this line:

>So uh, old people need to fuck off from the communities. If they want to dress up by themselves, more power to them. But they're nothing but creepers online.

Fuck old age players.

Hell, I'm 22 and there's maybe 2 or 3 regular members my age in the scene.

Everyone else is pushin thirty, with the leader being a 40 guy with a greasy ponytail and there body of a melted action figure doing everything in his power to creep out new blood.

I'm just going to man up and see a shrink when I hit 30, I don't wanna be as oblivious as these jackoffs.

I feel you. One of my biggest fears is ending up in a cringe thread

god damnit hotwheels

>>6821 meant for >>6820

>>6820

Pushing 30 isn't old wtf. Past 40, yes.

>looked 30 at 25, cuz balding

>never went to munch, cuz creeper status

>now actually 30, alone, and insecure

>fetish won't go away

it's a beautiful peoples' fetish

Let it die now please. These kind of threads really attract the worst of people.

Funny how many people still in the binge and purge cycle in this thread. Sorry, you're stuck with this shit for life. The only escape will be death.

>>6845

can you still be in a binge purge cycle if you resist the urge to purge?

>>6819

I got married, settled down. We know a couple of couples who are also ABDL. We have fun and small private parties. We don't need new people, it would just put our careers and families in jeopardy. Young people aren't exactly discreet or intelligent. Why the heck would I want to party with a bunch of 20s somethings? Their conversation is childish, they drink to much, and they sit on their cellphones the whole time.

I assume most of the older ABDLs going to your guys stuff are, as much as they won't admit it, hoping to get laid. Why else? And that's why we all know they're creepers. Decent ABDLs still get married and stop looking for a casual lay.

You guys are getting the dregs of the older ABDLs that couldn't make close friends in their younger partying days.

>>6845

that's not true, i can give this up anytime that i want.

>>6856

It you're convinced you'll purge this fetish at some point in the future, then yeah. Haven't accepted it at all, just comforting oneself with the lie that it all go away later.

>>6873

Whatever helps you sleep at night anon.

ABDL should be used for bridging generational gaps at all cost.

We're a community if people who focused on something most thing of as being for 2-year-olds, we should be BSing people about age.

>>6747

They're no different to the rest of us. They might look old on the outside, but not much changes in the human mind between 30 and 90.

We can only hope that at some point the technology will exist to freely modify people's bodies and prevent them from dying of old age.

>>6793

>>6798

If you were to just die, I wouldn't be the slightest bit sad. I would literally feel more sympathy for a serial killer dying than you.

Same way I feel about older gay men. I have no interest in being around them, but they're part of the same group as me.