213e8a No.153
ok so I need some advice on this because I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not.
I don't smoke pot. I never have and have no desire to. Maybe one day I will and that's fine, but right now I don't. I also have no problem with pot or people who smoke it. A few of my friends smoke every day, or do shrooms or even LSD. Drugs don't bother me.
But I found out last night my girlfriend, who I thought had never done anything. Smoked pot once. Well not even, just had like two drags off a joint. She was drunk and said "the only time I ever smoked anything was like a tiny bit of something at X's party." So I was like "when was this? And what was something?" And she said "a few months ago and I think it was pot, I was wasted and it felt like nothing to so I didn't take anymore."
This really bothers me and has been bothering me all day. Not that she smoked pot. But that she just willy nilly smoked something at a party without even knowing what it was, assuming it was pot. Just because people were passing it around.
I would be ok with it if she made a conscious decision to smoke pot and said "im going to try this to see what its like" and then went to a party and did it. Just the idea of her getting handed a joint and doing it just cuz bothers me so fucking much.
Am I being insane? I realize I'm not her parents and don't get to pass judgement on everything she does but damn its bothering me.
230539 No.154
It is really a bigger deal than you're making it. It'd be one thing if she was a closet pothead, but once?
Dude, tons of people smoke "just once". Be happy that you have a gf
897a1f No.161
Yeah no, stop being a diva OP. lol…
5a2563 No.165
Do you think there are parties where they pass around crack pipes?
67c76c No.207
I think you're right. After first I was going to call you a faggot for caring that she smoked pot… not that you were worried that she smoked something when she didn't know what it was.