db34e3 No.267
How does one become more social?
I get invited to stuff, and i can get along people on a daily basis pretty ok.
But the thing is, it tires me to no end. I never organize stuff to do, i just choose from the invitations that people make to me (if any at the moment.)
I feel that i might end up alienating people in a not so far future, probably because they might think that deep down i'm a conceited asshole or something like that.
Thank you /adv/ in advance.
Oh, and i'm still learning English, if you wish, correct any mistakes you find in my little wall of text.
b63340 No.268
This isn't the advice your looking for but I'll give my two cents.
I've given up on being "social". Because exits just full of plastic people doing stupid shit for the shits and giggles. And by the end of it, I just feel empty after the "high" of happiness.
Its much more fulfilling to have a small group of friends that just hang out every now and then. You know, the type of friends where you don't really have to say anything. But when you do have to say something, they'll lend you an ear and if you need help, they'll help.
53f388 No.408
That's just pretty classic introvert behaviour, anon. Social stuff is bound to wear you out, and you'll need some time to recharge your batteries between social situations. Just try to be a nice person to everyone when you're invited out, and if people ask why it's so tiring, just explain it to them. People are pretty understanding.