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c1ebd6 No.269

Hey there, /improve/, I'm currently going through a bit of a rough patch here. I'm a college student in sophomore year at a pretty good (and therefore really fucking hard) university and I'm trying to get my life on track.

I let myself go physically because classes are hard and muh STEM degree, but I'm starting to exercise again and get back in shape. I've got a pretty chill gf, we play Diablo and shit all them time and we've been dating for a year and a half now. I couldn't have found a better girlfriend one, and I'm not going to have any real debt because I'm from a poor family. I have a lot going well for me, and yet I keep having these call of the void type thoughts just like, "Hey, I should go fuck that girl over there because I can" or "Hey, I should just fucking drop out and drive my way out to Washington or Colorado ad live there and just chill all fucking day."

I can't help but wonder if when we talk, this is what I'm going to be doing for the rest of my life and I don't know if I'm ready for that kind of shit. It's that kind of thinking that makes me wonder if I'm actually stagnating where I am or if I'm just being a little bitch about it. That and I feel like I haven't learned anything since I got to the university. Classes are so hard that I basically can't get by without looking up answers from chegg and shit like that.

Any advice is appreciated

569103 No.276

>>269
If possible it would be a good idea to take the GF on a date far away from uni.

Once at the location go with what the feels tell you to do.

Best of luck Anon.

26d09e No.278

>I don't know if I'm ready for that kind of shit
Don't bother planning out the future, just let it happen. If you like hanging out with your girlfriend now, and that doesn't change, then you can marry her when you are ready. You don't have to decide everything now. As for your classes, try to understand WHY something happens rather than just the result itself. If you can't figure it out, read more books. If you're learning you won't stagnate. Also wait until you're on break for the road trip.



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