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6b3151 No.444

Hello /Adv/ this is my first time posting here, I'm sorry if I break any sort of rule, i don't have any friends and you're basically the closest thing.

I met a wonderful woman a couple of weeks ago, i met her at a beach and we started talking, turns out she's being abused by her husband. I tried comforting her and after a couple of days we really became close, eventually I asked her to be my gf and she accepted,

Everything was great but eventually everything started to seem very dull, and i even suspect I may not be the only one shes been cheating on her husband with.

I tried breaking up with her a couple of hours ago, and she said she will kill herself if I leave her.

The problem is that this is not your regular 16 year old trying to manipulate you.

This is a 32 year old woman who's been going to therapy for several years now because of suicide tendencies.

And her dosage was actually doubled a couple of days ago, and even tho I don't love her as a partner I'm still afraid she actually go through with it,

What do /Adv/?

TL:DR Trying to break out of a relationship with a woman officially diagnosed as suicidal and she will kill herself if I leave her.

9633aa No.445

Is it confirmed that her husband abuses her? She could have been using that as an excuse for her cheating.


a58a47 No.447

>>445

No, i've never seen her husband and she never has marks on her, I honestly just took her word for it.

It os confirmed tho that she's officially diagnosed with Suicidal tendencies, I even had a word with her therapist once


9633aa No.448

>>447

Wouldn't be surprised if she's lying tbh.


a58a47 No.449

>>448

I decided i'm not gonna talk to her anymore anyways.

regardless if she was lying of the abuse or not. I still feel like she's entertaining other guys as well, I was okay with her being married but im not okay of there's a 3rd individual


9633aa No.450

>>449

If she's cheating on him with others, then she probably tells she'll kill herself to all the others, not only to you. If she's already going to a therapist, I hardly think there's anything you can do to help.


e7f4eb No.451

>>449

>i have no friends

>became close

>not going to talk to her?

Niggah why? Not to be a dick but it sounds like you don't have a ton of friends. If you dont want to bang her anymore, fine. Why not have a female friend so you can

>have someone to hang with

>have her wingwoman for you

>fun


baea8b No.452

>>444

Come clean to her husband, and explain the whole situation. Be open about it, and try and use his help to fix the mistake you should never have made. Consider getting a professional (ie. her therapist) before attempting that to help sort the mess out.

Anything else you do makes you an even bigger douchebag, unless you have a more creative solution than mine.


9624b5 No.485

>>444

show her /pol/

she will either leave you or become a credit to her race.




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