[ home / board list / faq / random / create / bans / search / manage / irc ] [ ]

/adv/ - Advice

The Advice Board

Catalog

8chan Bitcoin address: 1NpQaXqmCBji6gfX8UgaQEmEstvVY7U32C
The next generation of Infinity is here (discussion) (contribute)
Name
Email
Subject
Comment *
File
* = required field[▶ Show post options & limits]
Confused? See the FAQ.
Embed
(replaces files and can be used instead)
Options
Password (For file and post deletion.)

Allowed file types:jpg, jpeg, gif, png, webm, mp4, swf, pdf
Max filesize is 8 MB.
Max image dimensions are 10000 x 10000.
You may upload 5 per post.


Check out our friends over at: /philosophy/ - Philosophy, /biz/ - Business & Finance, and /doc/ - Documentaries

File: 1436241778192.jpg (30.95 KB, 550x366, 275:183, think dammit thnk.jpg)

aca424 No.464

>met a QT girl online early last month; lives a couple states away and there's less than a year's age difference between us

>she started talking to me, figured she seems cool so I started doing likewise and really got to know her

>soon found out she was in a relationship

>in just a short time we'd gotten on such good speaking terms we could comfortably say provocative/lewd things to each other (it's why she's even friends with me in the first place, in fact)

>a short time passes and I ask about her relationship

>it's very uneventful; he's hesitant and doesn't speak forwardly or openly whereas I simply say what I intend to say and it works greatly with her

>give advice on how to handle the relationship, that if she's unhappy they should try to talk things out; if neither can make things work out then they shouldn't be in a relationship

>eventually things escalate just a little - one of her IRL friends invites her to meet up with him at a local fair, she declines and opts to stay home marathoning some TV show and talking to me instead (actually includes that detail btw)

>he gets jealous and contemplates sending me a threatening message and tries to cut off communications between the two of us

>his plan doesn't go through and she and I continue talking

>earlier this evening she messages me

>she just can't make things work with her and her bf, took my advice and realized it's probably best she breaks things off

>agree with her

>she's going to tell him soon

The question is, now what do I do? I really like her and want to be with her but the relationship she's already getting out of is long-distance, ours would be the same. Unless one of us was willing to travel then all the usual complications of an LDR would be present. We're still very close in spite of the difference in location, though.

c0f6ad No.522

>>464

What's your work/living situation(s)?




[Return][Go to top][Catalog][Post a Reply]
Delete Post [ ]
[]
[ home / board list / faq / random / create / bans / search / manage / irc ] [ ]