Hey /adv/. Recently two of my friends seem to be excluding me but I can't tell if it's intentional or they just want to talk privately for some reason. Usually we play games while talking over skype. Recently they've started not letting me in when they're talking with each other, and just flat out ignoring me. Everything seems fine if they aren't talking with each other before I contact them, and I don't think I've done anything wrong. If one of the friends joins into a conversation that im having with the other they don't suddenly want to leave and go do things secretly together
What is bothering me here is unless they are playing games together, which is something I can determine myself,they refuse to even tell me what they' doing, or even that they just want to be alone together. It's hurtful when your best friends you've known for years are excluding you from stuff you normally do together.
What I want to do is ask them If I've done something wrong because this is really abnormal behavior from them, but I don't want to be weird. How can I determine if this is just benign and how do I deal with this without hurt feelings? How do I make it clear to my friends that being weird and excluding me is hurting my feelings, especially when they don't even tell me what's going on.
tl;dr friends are excluding me from activities and I have hurt feelings.