Hikikomori with a disability here (SEID/CFS). I'm lonely what with no friends and not being able to leave the house most days because I'm so exhausted and nauseas etc.
How do I go about messaging old classmates, etc to find someone to hang out with? I mean there is no way I can not sound desperate, and even after ages of online dating nothing has worked. How do I make friends as a hikikomori? How do I convince someone to even come talk to me?
I live in a small town of 10,000 but with not many people my own age (22) around, although it's less than an hour away from San Francisco, there's a few channers around and I organized a meetup some months ago when I still felt well enough to drive…but I can't expect them to drive out to me, not very often at the very least. So I have to make a friend locally somehow.
How though…..pls help….