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I can help here, anon. I have been married for 5 years after having met wife on OKCupid.
The trick is to get her away from the site. So what I mean is the site is just a means to organise a first date or exchange numbers. It is not the place where you get to know one another.
But to get the date.
Your first few lines, or the intro lines, have to get them. But don't write stupid shit like "athletic footballer seeks…"
It needs to be something that will get them to read the rest of your profile. Along with a good picture, this is all that matters.
Seriously, normal white male seeks attractive white woman is what most chicks are looking for, even if not explicitly.
Remember your profile shouldn't be too long. Do mention things you're interested in, but also make sure you talk about who you're looking for. Girls who have read that much of your profile will assign those attributes to themselves and then you're already starting with them thinking you're a good match, without even talking to them directly.
That isn't a cue to just list all traits because that will be seen through or they'll figure it out after a date.
Beware of fat chicks in dating sites. They are generally a bit nutty because woman are panicky self conscious enough to begin with;add a visible reason to think they're unnattractive (like a lard arse) and they will be borderline insane 24/7.
Take careful note of the photographs. Clubbing, drinking etc you got yourself a slut. Anyone that thinks otherwise is just an idiot. Clubbing chicks are all sluts, just waiting for chad. If you think not, you've been friendzoned by one. Maybe that's what you're looking for, which is cool.
Could also mean she's post wall slut looking for Mr right. Stay away. These are very bad choices, don't be a fool.
Wholesome activities. Daytime photos. Family events. This is the girl you want. A lifetime of sexual oppression, possibly broken up by a couple serious relationships, possibly a one night stand or a FWB. These chicks are dynamite in the sack because they have wanted, for so long, to let it out.
What I found, is this type of woman has always tempered her sexual desires, even with a FWB type deal. You can get it all out.
Plus, she's up for a lifetime of devotion to you.
I am happy to answer follow up questions specific to your profile. Like what to write etc