/adv/, Im really stuck right now. How do I break up with a girl? Keeps gaining weight with no motivation to lose weight, currently 80lbs overweight. Fights me whenever she doesnt get her way with plans, events, food, etc. And shows no interest in trying to

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Anonymous 10/08/15 (Thu) 19:42:00 d730ae No.745

/adv/, Im really stuck right now. How do I break up with a girl? Keeps gaining weight with no motivation to lose weight, currently 80lbs overweight. Fights me whenever she doesnt get her way with plans, events, food, etc. And shows no interest in trying to get into or even learn anything about my hobbies.

We've been together 5 years now and that is only cause I've not been able to bring myself to end it. I've tried a few times but she always ropes me back in because I keep saying she can have another chance.

How do I stop letting her take advantage of me?

Anonymous 10/09/15 (Fri) 07:00:08 98085c No.747

Tell yourself this: if she isn't making an effort now when you ask, she won't make an effort in another five years time. She'll just get fatter and fatter, and you'll become more miserable.

If you give in to her so easily, maybe pack your things and stay at a friends for a little while, until you sort out new living situations. Don't give her the chance to rope you in.

Anonymous 10/26/15 (Mon) 10:48:46 84414f No.769

>>745

If she doesn't respect you, why would you respect her?

Anonymous 11/17/15 (Tue) 17:53:14 9414aa No.787

OP here.

Not that I really think anyone will see and/or care, but I do have an update. I did end it with this girl. At this point it is just trying to avoid all contact with her for a while. Which sucks since everything feels quite a bit more empty, but I really dont want to go back into that relationship. It just wasnt working at all.

Now to just be single for a while and focus on my hobbies.