I'm sure nobody really uses /adv/.First time poster here, and I wouldn't really come here unless I didn't need to, but I suppose I could use the help, if anyone's willing to give it.In 2013, I met the girl. Let's just call her Anon. But Anon basicall

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Anonymous 11/20/15 (Fri) 07:43:13 596382 No.791

I'm sure nobody really uses /adv/.

First time poster here, and I wouldn't really come here unless I didn't need to, but I suppose I could use the help, if anyone's willing to give it.

In 2013, I met the girl. Let's just call her Anon. But Anon basically came into my life out of no where. Our love for the same type of music brought us together, and we just kind of clicked. I had a pretty shitty upbringing, and lost my mum to a car accident in 2007. So I was always kind of miserable in it's own way. But for once in my life, I was happy. Someone made me feel like I had a reason for something. We kinda had a thing, which was on and off for a few months, then someone else came along and just took me off her. So basically anon and I stopped talking in late 2013, and I guess that was it. We weren't a part of each others lives. I got into another relationship in March this year, and Anon just walked into my life in maybe August this year. (She just got out of a relationship). Then we started to get close again, but not close close, if you understand what I'm saying.

So basically, I'm still hopelessly in love with her, like I was years ago. I can't bring myself to tell her, because I'm still in a relationship. I guess in a way I feel guilty, and I can't come to terms with what's happening, it's all so sudden and I feel like I'm fucking choking.

What should I do? Pic related

Anonymous 11/23/15 (Mon) 13:29:44 bc71e8 No.794

Is that her? Cute, minus the nosering. Im not a fan of those. Anyway…

Ive been in a similar situation. I was going out with a girl and ending up crushing on a friend I knew for a while. We just shared a lot more interests and such. I ended up talking to my friend about it, since we were good enough friends to talk about anything.

You really have to weight how much your current relationship works for you, and is Anon better. For me I should have broken up with my gf way sooner, and I may have actually had a chance with my friend. But now it is too late since she is now in a long term relationship.

Main point being, try to talk to someone about this. Either talk with your gf about how she can improve the relationship so you can feel better, or talk with Anon about your current relationship and get a third person perspective on how it is working.

Maybe my ramblings help somewhat?