I'm heart broken

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I'm heart broken Anonymous 01/18/16 (Mon) 19:08:32 44fa64 No.836

I learned that good guys never finish recently

>be me

>lonely.jpg

>roommate meets girl he likes, asks me to come along with her and others so he's not the only guy

>go there, instant connection between her and I

>I act like good friend, I stay out of it and let him try to do his thing

>fast forward two months, he never asks her out, is basically a beta orbiter

>I later meet up with her to discuss the situation

>we talk about him for a little bit, rest of the time we talk about our feelings and we confess that we like each other

>because of situation, we decide not to do anything for a while until we tell him the truth

>we text frequently all throughout winter break

>Inlove.webm

>get back to school, she starts talking to me less

>we haven't seen each other in person ever since

>feel alone and forgotten, but at least my friend has his chance now

>he tells me he lost interest over the break, now just friends with her

>mfw I lose the perfect girl for me being the good guy

>mfw he just loses interest despite my sacrifice for him

>I've never felt so alone, so forgotten, and so betrayed in my life

>I don't know what to do /adv/ anymore

Thoughts?

Anonymous 01/21/16 (Thu) 09:39:33 54ac71 No.837

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Well, be prepared to be let down in much worse fashions than this.

Few things you need to realize:

1) If he's your bro, and she doesn't like him, you're not doing your bro (or the girl) any favors by leaving her with a guy she doesn't like. "I was here first" is not always how things work.

2) You backed away from her too, weren't willing to say "Hey, let's keep in touch" so how the fuck is that supposed to communicate to her that you're interested, either?

3) This will be the hardest one for you to swallow: She did not pursue you. And all that that implies, and you'd better get used to it if you're going to continue playing "The game" we call dating/relationships. Women RARELY pursue, RARELY put in as much effort into casual relationships, and will expect you to do essentially everything that you did not do (which she should also, morally, be expected to do, but she gets the pussy pass on these things.) Things like:

1) Stand up for her to your friends (this must have a healthy balance)

2) Pursue her

You did not get exclusively fucked over, anon. You made mistakes too, and you'd better learn fast. The most important thing in the fucking world is communication, and once you start down the path of blaming other people for shit they didn't do, for shit you should've done, you are a lost cause. Resist displacing responsibility and emotions at any cost.