guys I am fucking worried.- my girlfriend is acting distant.- I can't have sex with her. she literally keeps her hand in front of her pussy when I get my hand close.- she's started going on birth control- she goes out a lot "with the girls"- sh

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Anonymous 02/09/16 (Tue) 14:05:59 c9d608 No.857

guys I am fucking worried.

- my girlfriend is acting distant.

- I can't have sex with her. she literally keeps her hand in front of her pussy when I get my hand close.

- she's started going on birth control

- she goes out a lot "with the girls"

- she has tinder on her cellphone, when I made a comment because of it (it was running in the background) she said "she wasn't even using it every day"

- we haven't had sex in like 2 months

- there were 2 empty bottles of wine in her kitchen (she says doesn't drink and she is very petite, she doesn't eat or drink much) 2 bottles of wine is like 10 glasses of wine. it looks like she had a party or something? But it's not even her birthday, or something to celebrate in the last month.

- when I ask her if I can see her, she declines most of the time

I am fucking worried.

when I try to talk to her about it, tell her I am worried, tell her I love her, tell her I miss her.

she says I shouldn't worry so much.

HELP

Anonymous 02/10/16 (Wed) 05:59:14 87f616 No.858

I'd let her know your concerns and if she's just kind of "meh" about it, dump her and never look back. Don't get me wrong, it'll hurt. The goal here isn't to do what's easy in the short run but to do something long term. If she's distant and not talking to you, it's clear that there's a lack of trust there from perhaps both parties. If you can't clearly communicate all truths amongst each other, what's the point of pursuing a lifelong relationship?

Also no sex and all the other red flags seem kind of obvious. If you want to be a stalker, just follow her without her knowing. Though ask yourself this before following that route: "What then?" You find out she's fucking around on you or is legitimately just kind of a distant person, then what?

Anonymous 02/10/16 (Wed) 22:58:12 17c020 No.860

Honestly dump her, When I started fucking my gf she took some convincing to go on birth control.

Sure it might be normal for her to decline sex once every so often so she seems playful/cute, but for 2 months no.

She's cheating on you bro

Anonymous 02/12/16 (Fri) 13:48:21 f0bbb8 No.861

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It honestly sounds like you're done. Sex always ends before the relationship itself. It seems like she has little respect for you. End it now before you get jerked around even more. Your girlfriend's behavior is nothing but red flags. It's over.

I've been with the same girl for 8 years, just so you don't think I'm being bitter.

Anonymous 02/14/16 (Sun) 03:20:43 b355fe No.863

Anon, I'm sorry, but >>861 is completely right. It's over.

Hope you come back to dump about what might be the issue. How long were you together?