How do i learn about and stop being so impatient with women, or is that correct behavior?

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How do i learn about and stop being so impatient with women, or is that correct behavior? Anonymous 02/15/16 (Mon) 08:38:29 701505 No.866

I'm very thankful for taking the time to read this.

I dated my old gf, i was so happy at first, and as expected later the relationship sucked. I've been exposed to true beauty and there's no personality like no personality. Women look so ugly for the bullshit they're expecting me to go through while dating, it's like everyone is an MKultra victim and i'm suppose to work a miracle and save them.

I have dated two women, both were in high school, and i'm 25 now. I've had chances and ignored numbers, but i know once i get to know them enough they remove their sleeps clothing.

I'm trying really hard not to be r9k or just shit on women, because i genuinely like women and not in the faggy nice guy obsessively feminine kind of way. I've hung out with conservative and liberal women who i thought were cool at first then started displaying their periods more honestly.

( i guess this is one questions, why do girls get so comfortable with their periods around me, i think i'm enough of an asshole that i don't come off as a push over, or maybe i not enough of an asshole or too much)

question 1 is (i know this sounds juvenile but) how do you know when a woman is using her period as an excuse to be angry, and even if she was angry is the period making it worse?

When my ex liked me she become so emotional, was this her or the period? it was a terrible relationship that should have ended early, so i guess it was dead on arrival.

question 2 when do you take period talk seriously??

The main reason i posted her and why video is related is because i feel like women aren't worth it. ==I wish women could be straight forward==. But women are so difficult and controlling despite being able to fuck up my shit.

There are so many pleasant depictions of femininity, that i can enjoy that don't require a stressful relationship for "not flat or big" meh tier breasts. Why are women in relationships so difficult, everything in life is stressfully difficult and the family unit is a drain on the father, if he can somehow keep the family from this emotional time bomb.

When i see a beautiful/kind woman who i don't know anything about, if i don't immediately see signs of whoredom, they're probably as demandingly difficult as they look. They're the jews of gender.

question 3 is there somewhere i can visit or a documentary that i've missed that goes "No, not all women are biologically difficult monsters", or "women do like men" or is this just a personality trait of the two relationships i've had, do nice women exist?

I know i sound stupid, and i don't know that many women now. In high school i had an anime style HS experience, i knew so many beautiful slender and well-endowed girls, who were on drugs and were so nice. Was it because they were friends or the drugs or was it just them. ==I feel like theres no trade off with women, they're ugly and they act ugly, i don't consider myself that attractive but they're just delusionally confident.==

The idea of women liking men sounds bizarre to me, despite how irrational it is.The last girl that clearly liked me was this fat lady of a similar race, i got so angry that someone overweight liked me that i felt really terrible and guilty about it, she was probably a nice girl but i hate the idea of give another monster a chance at an awful relationship. I don't want to hate or be so angry at women it's exhausting.

Sorry for all the bitching, i tried to express my disillusion concisely.

Anonymous 02/25/16 (Thu) 22:32:24 b5fcd8 No.880

It doesn't matter.

If she's using it as an excuse, and you somehow have proof, and you call her out on it, you think that will calm her down? No, it will be making her look "bad" which will make her even more angry.

The only way to diffuse a woman's anger is to let it burn out, or extinguish it by making her feel bad. Notice that her feeling bad is VERY different from her "looking" bad.

Example about the difference:

If she's yelling at you, and you correct her with perfect logic in a public space, she knows she's an idiot, but she isn't mad about that, she's mad that you pointed it out, which makes her look bad to other people. This is what she cares about: Image.

If she's yelling at you, and you start to explain that "You're just doing the best you can, and that when she yells it makes you feel terrible" then you start to cry, if she feels guilty, then she feels bad, and will maybe work to improve her behavior.

But you see the difference? You can't have a logical approach. You must fight fire with fire and manipulation with manipulation.

Question 2:

>when do you take period talk seriously?

I'm not sure what you mean by this.

Question 3

>documentary or whatever

One thing to consider: Not physically, but psychologically, you may be attracted to, and attracting, these women that you don't like.

Young women are over-valued in society, and as they age, their value drops dramatically and their standards lower, so consider that, too.

Anonymous 02/29/16 (Mon) 19:05:56 701505 No.882

>>880

>It doesn't matter.

>The only way to diffuse a woman's anger is to let it burn out, or extinguish it by making her feel bad. Notice that her feeling bad is VERY different from her "looking" bad.

>But you see the difference? You can't have a logical approach. You must fight fire with fire and manipulation with manipulation.

That makes complete sense, i should have realize male autism can't combat female autism, thank you for such a clear explanation, i've been lost with this for years. Everyone would just get offended or tell me not to react/be more masculine.

>I'm not sure what you mean by this.

I was asking when a period stops being just exaggerated hormones and when it becomes genuinely personal anger. When should i say something about her shit talking during irrational periods? or does this go into male logic vs female manipulation?

>One thing to consider: Not physically, but psychologically, you may be attracted to, and attracting, these women that you don't like.

I am clearly attracting/attracted to unstable women do to my traumatic past, i'm going to therapy for this. If you've found a way to deal with this i'd love the advice, i'm guess it's best not to date women i'm attracted to?

Thank you for replying.

Anonymous 03/01/16 (Tue) 07:14:59 1560d6 No.886

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>>882

>thank you for such a clear explanation

No problem.

>or does this go into male logic vs female manipulation?

Yes, it absolutely does. Whether or not she is on her period is irrelevant.

> i'm going to therapy for this.

I hope it works.

> If you've found a way to deal with this i'd love the advice, i'm guess it's best not to date women i'm attracted to?

Sorry man, but I don't have the answers for you; I don't have them for myself. I'm the same as you - attracted to insane women, because I am insane. I don't feel attracted to any woman who isn't emotionally powerful enough to really challenge me, and that kind of emotional power only comes from trauma and insanity, unfortunately.

My only "solution" is the same one you came with: Avoid women I'm attracted to. But I will never be sexually attracted to a woman who doesn't have some grasp of this psychic phenomena, and so will never date one. Intimacy aside from masturbation is pretty much off the table for me. Such is life.

Anonymous 03/02/16 (Wed) 03:12:31 701505 No.888

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>>886

>Such is life.

Love Line is a show with an addiction medical specialist who knows psychology with a comedia who take calls from people looking help in unstable relationships. They've also covered our problem, as well as constantly go through the warning flags of an unstable woman/man. Video related.

Therapy does indeed help overcome this intimacy problem.

Anonymous 03/02/16 (Wed) 23:38:17 701505 No.891

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>>886

Also there is this guy, even though hes black, bluepilled and anti-religious, hes pretty insightful on the errors in masculinity/femininity and dating. Hes a little feminist but ultimately hes for the family unit and the principals behind masculinity/femininity in men and women.

>Refine yourself, then you will have something to offer to who you date.

Anonymous 03/03/16 (Thu) 12:14:01 16f730 No.893

>>888

>>891

I already know how to spot people that are full of shit, I've been taken advantage of my whole life, and been lucky enough to meet some people who aren't full of shit.

>overcome the intimacy problem

I don't need to change my preferences. It would just be convenient to find a woman whose insanity is compatible and balanced by her own effort. I'll never compromise that I need an insane woman. "Perfect" people who were the cheerleaders in HS, got good grades, partied, "normal" shit, etc. are hopelessly boring, psychically devoid, and hollowed of personal depth.