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Beware that the psychological issues associated with living with an alcoholic are in no way limited to you yourself becoming an alcoholic. The reason why the offspring of alcoholics are more likely to become drinkers isn't because "LOL BEER TASTES GUD" it's because of the unhealthy behaviors that we learn from them. I'm speaking as the child of an alcoholic/drug addict who has met and listened to the life stories of literally hundreds of others with alcoholic/drug-addict parents at different stages of life over the years. There are always problems. Even if it's the problem of running away from your parents' problems.
Really sounds like a shitty situation though, anon. Where in Cali are you located? I'm in So Cal. Culver City, specifically.
I would also say that if your parents are not completely insane, moving back in with them would not be a bad option.
How I look at it is like this:
You are going to be fucked, no matter what you do, the only thing you can change is how.
For example:
Would you rather be fucked by living in a mad house with no privacy while getting fucked financially (rent) or would you rather be fucked by not having privacy with your gf at your parents' house and having/saving more money (which doesn't sound like that bad a thing, relatively speaking) The point is just to make lists of pros and cons to help you weigh the decision.
It sounds like the privacy aspect is already lost at your apartment, so it wouldn't be any different moving back with your folks - the only difference would be you having more money.