>1. She lives 30-40 minutes away.
So? If you both have cars you can meet in the middle. If not, then you can just go out once/twice a week.
>2. We are in a lot of the same groups and clubs.
Again, so?
>3. She's prude. Not a problem I'm just afraid she won't want a relationship.
Everyone wants a relationship of some sort, and you shouldn't worry about this if you're flirting already.