>>8803
Nobody's stopping you from working your ass off for simple living in your little cabin in the middle of the woods. You're fully free to do that if you'd want to.
Cooking with food you'd grown all by yourself, knitting every piece of clothing you'd want, needing to treat your own wounds if an accident were to happen, living with a limited amount of technicality in some remote area.
The thing is - most people don't want to live like that. In a stateless society - sociability would still vastly out-favor isolationism.
They see the benefits of a commune where you share the labor power to free as many individuals from as much labor as possible, to be left with more time to do fun things, while minimizing the time consumed with boring day-to-day routines.
Instead, you'd have a communal food/cooking center, a communal medical/emergency center a communal garment/clothing center and a sufficient supply for the large amount of energy that each household would expect/require. Infrastructure and supplies would be well-designed and readily available, close by, in abundance.
But again - you're completely free to live in a cabin far-far away from people and activity.