/bbw/ - Big Beautiful Women

>>1993

never been in a serious relationship with a woman under 275, married to 320 lb (ish) woman right now.

what I look for is technically irrelevant because of the whole married thing. it's also been so long I wouldn't know where the fuck to start

>>2004
What kind of specific type of guy do you like?
That is if you don't mind sharing it with us.

>>2026
Are you a cute fat girl?
Because if you are I would totally want to get to know you outside of 8chan.

Around 220lbs is my threshold. I couldn't be assed to care about what others think if I had a ham for a partner (though I am conscious about being a skellington, I'd look much better with some muscle). Besides weight, I value
-patience
-foresight
-a pleasant disposition
-selflessness

>>2033
raise your standards dei, you deserve the best ;)

I have no intentions of actual marriage, but I'd be fine with a lifelong partnership with a fat girl.

Outside of weight, I look for…
>Not wanting kids
>Similar interests
>Similar personality
>No tats/piercings (Not mandatory, though)
>Not a SJW
>No crazy emotional baggage

Easier said than done, though.

>marriage in general
yuck

but I'm overall really open about being into fat girls, everyone around me knows it. my dad keeps criticizing me about it (just like about anything else really), saying it's just a phase or that I'm confused, but everyone else seems rather chill about it so no reason for me to be embarrased. if anything, I had to continually encourage my chubby and bbw exes to go out with me to places, get dressed up pretty or have some fun with their rolls

so I guess the answer to the last question, what I'm looking for most besides the additional weight would be confidence, ESPECIALLY about her body. aaaand also she'd have to at least somewhat share my love for nerdy shit cause there's no chance in hell I'm ever holding back with it

>>2167
actually, I'm more against the institutionalization of a relationship than staying with one woman. but of course what comes out of this is that a divorce is much, much more of a hassle than just breaking up if she doesn't turn out to be The One for whatever reason (stuff like that happens even after years and years of being together you know), and that discourages me all the more

>>2170
this is also a good reason, I just didn't think to type it out.

>>2026

How about just eatinglow calorie foods like fruits?

Weight is an energy problem,there's no way your going to stay fat if your calorie input is lower than the input.

I've been married to a fatty for over 6 years and have been in a relationship with her a total of 10. After a while you stop seeing the fact that she's fat as fuck and hopefully you legitimately enjoy spending time with them. Looks do play a role in determining your partner but if you base your entire relationship around it you're doomed to fail.

>marry/date

Hell yes, assuming that being fat wasn't her only positive trait. Having a sexy body means jack shit if you're an asshole, and while faces aren't everything, like most people I'd prefer not to hook up with someone with an objectively-hideous face.

>embarrased to be seen with a fat girl

Nope. As someone who doesn't give a shit about peer pressure, and as someone who's a firm believer in the "we're all gonna die eventually, so die happy" philosophy, the idea of openly being with a big girl sounds excellent.

>what are you looking for

Body-wise, I'm good with any degree of fat, even none, albeit I prefer at minimum at least a little chub. I have really lax upper limits on weight, but I'm not into any girls big enough that they have major physical impediments or extreme health issues, such as difficulty walking or joint damage. Not into girls who use weight as an excuse to be extremely lazy, slobbish or bossy either, since most of the ones that do that have a few screws loose to start with. Shape-wise, bottom-heavy with focus on the thighs is my personal favorite, but top-heavy and middle-heavy are great too.

In terms of mind and personality, someone who's very laid back and likes to solve issues calmly would be amazing for me, since I'm the same way and have a shitload of trouble getting along with people who have to yell and pick fights over everything. Someone who could actually work things out with me without it devolving into a yelling match, and someone who shares my generally-calm and collected worldview sounds perfect to me. Definitely not into the idea of being "dominated" though, I fucking hate being straight-up bossed around by anyone at all. Also, being comfortable with weight is a wonderful thing in a girl to me, especially if she considers herself more sexy than thin girls and flaunts it in the open.

Being generally okay with light drugs would be nice, bonus points if she's a functional stoner. Nothing hard necessary though, since the hardest drug I've personally ever done is weed. Being at least tolerant of video games would be nice too, although a girl who actually enjoys gaming would be over-the-moon in terms of excellence.

As for the kinky shit, her being into being impolite or sloppy within reason at home would be great. Something about girls who act politely and in a pulled-together manner in public, but drop that shit like a hot potato at home in favor of putting personal comfort and pleasure first are bonerrific. Stuffing and gaining are fucking great too, but they're not very feasible unless she's closer to being thin and wants to get bigger with some form of stopping point, in which case all aboard the gain train. Strongfat and fit-fat are damn good too, if difficult to find and unnecessary, specifically if she is decently fit but has a high enough calorie-intake to offset it and remain chubby/fat.


Overall though, I gotta say, despite liking fat it's not a deal-breaker if she isn't. If I meet a nice girl who isn't chubby/fat and never will be, that's just as good as a big girl, but of course I'd go for the big girl with the same personality every time.

>>2212
>>2214

Did you two hack my brain because those are almost exactly the words I'd say, as well as images I have.

Your post accidentally got censored, too, I've fixed it. Glad to have alike minds on board.

>>2212
Would you really want to be with a girl who ate until her body got as huge as in that 4th image?

Because that'd be lewd.

Married guy here.

I knew that I was serious about wanting an LTR that led to marriage, so after a couple awkward early relationships, I held myself to a strict rule of asking “would I be romantically interested in this person if she wasn’t fat?” and declining the relationship / hookup if the answer was no. This meant some painful dry spells, but it also meant that I could be confident about starting a serious relationship when I finally met the one.

The largest girl I ever dated was 500 lbs. The sex was mindblowing, and she was a good person with a sweet personality, but outside of the bedroom we didn’t have enough in common to keep the relationship going. I was the one to break up with her, and she took it pretty hard. That was what inspired the rule described above. (The good news is that she had a happy ending as well and is now married to a guy who’s a much better match for her than I was.)

My advice to OP, and other fat girls looking for an LTR/marriage, is to listen carefully to what the other guys in this thread are saying in posts like >>2014, >>2098, >>2154 and >>2212. (Warning: controversial opinion ahead, so please understand that I’m not saying this as a “HURR SJWs” troll, it’s my honest observation as a happily married thirtysomething guy of the mistakes that a lot of younger people are making.)

A lot of girls who get into size acceptance think that being a “confident fat girl” means cultivating an abrasive, sarcastic personality, dressing in a trashy style with lots of tats and tacky bright patterns, generally being loud and obnoxious… and then getting angry about how men only want to use them for short-term sex. Whereas what the guys who would actually be good relationship material are saying is that they want a kind, supportive, low-drama personality in a girl who shares their interests. If you can be that girl, while also being confident about your size… you’ll be in a much better position to meet a guy into fat girls who’s actually willing to commit.

>>2228
Trust me, a number of "confident fat girls" I've met have had their own mental issues that have prevented me from attempting to enter a relationship with them.

While I do prefer big girls, I certainly wouldn't mind being with a non-BBW chick. And if they wanted to lose weight, I'd be nothing but supportive of them.

I expect it to be a while before I find a relationship in general, and I'm in no hurry. I hope to minimize on the mentioned mistakes.

I was never into bbbw's as a younger guy. However, I met a slightly chubby girl when she just started college. We dated and fell in love.

She was never an active gainer, but effectively gained quite alot over the years we have dated. She would now be easily classified as a bbw.

We have been married for 3.5 years now and I absolutely love her.

I have come to appreciate bigger women in a way I never imagined.

15 years ago I would have answered no. Today - hell yes, over an over!!

Love the bbw casually (most girls posted here are too big for me). Dating a grill who is 5'10 250 but carries her weight very well in my opinion.

I was really lucky because we started off at really close friends and developed into something intensely sexual later. At first I thought to myself that id never fuck a chubby grill.

A lot of times when you like someone foe their personality the secual attraction fills in.

I like rail thin boyish girls, tradiitionally hot types, skinny fat to chubby, but its rare to find someine you can just kill hours on end with like its nothing.

Hipe this helps

I've been in long term relationships with 3 slim women, 1 average build woman and 1 BBW. I would marry a fat girl for sure, but of course, current and future health is an issue like with any potential mate. I don't date smokers either.

When I would go out with my BBW gf I could not give a fuck about other people. If anyone talked shit, I would give it back. And I thought she was sexy as hell so no shame.

What I look for:

I like 'good girls' - caring, strong empathy

Intelligence and a thirst for knowledge

non-religious

somewhat down to earth/practical

>>2033
>allot of guys get turned off by the fetish stuff
I'm right here, anon!

Marry? Hell, I can't even manage to get a date with one around here. I can't help but feel creepy when i think about asking someone out, especially when they're big.

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