/bbw/ - Big Beautiful Women

I wish I knew anon. Hopefully others here might be able to give some insight about meeting up with them, or how to pick them up / ask them out.

>>4741

>I wish I knew anon. Hopefully others here might be able to give some insight about meeting up with them

Really you can find them anywhere. Especially online. I'd avoid tumblr like the plague, while they might be cute, self-entitlement and a slew of psychosis follow those girls. You might get lucky with casual games like WoW or Second Life (I'm not much of a gamer anymore so sorry if I'm limiting this). There's also the staple dating sites like OKCupid and Plenty of Fish (awful site), I've heard match is okay. IRL? I'd say a college campus but again, the SJW indoctrination. Just keep your eyes open everywhere.

>or how to pick them up / ask them out.

I can't give any 'game' advice outside of just be yourself, kind and upfront with your intentions without being aggressive. That's what works for me.

>>4743

Or give up hope and learn to satisfy yourself.

>>4744

Yeah or that.

>>4739

Fat girls are literally everywhere (dependsin where you live anyway. They're everything in America at least). Meet them the same way you'd meet anyone else new. Or, like >>4743 said try online. I've looked at the girls in my area on OKCupid and like 85% of them are fat.

As for courting, you usually have to go after them. Speaking as a fat girl, I can say I don't go after guys myself unless they're seriously dropping hints but even then I'm reluctant. I don't want the guy to reject me and then go tell his friends about how some fat chick was hitting on him. I've met a lot of guys who have said they have no preference when it comes to body type but I'd rather be with someone who's a chubby chaser so I feel less insecure.

>>4739

tell them they're cute, don't talk about her fat unless she mentions it, if she does tell them that you see them like the other girls, compliment the way they dress, tell them that it goes well with their shape, act hungry so that she doesn't have to feel awkward when she is, make her feel feminine and stuff

don't be afraid to correct her when she goes in the "real women have curves bullshit", explain her that all bodies are beautiful, that all preferences are valid and that beauty standards are bullshit for everyone, you'll sound smart and open minded

when she will ask you if you like fat girls, tell her that you like a wide range of shapes, saying that you exclusively likes fat girls will make her think that you came for her lard and not the woman she is

if she's ashamed of some stuff, act completely unimpressed

stretch marks can be weird at first sight, like darker skin areas or stuff, tell her that all women have that and that she's still beautiful…

don't be afraid to give up if she's batshit crazy

>>4746

>Fat girls are literally everywhere (dependsin where you live anyway. They're everything in America at least). Meet them the same way you'd meet anyone else new. Or, like >>4743 said try online. I've looked at the girls in my area on OKCupid and like 85% of them are fat.

Very true. Quality ones tend to be a rarity around here.

>As for courting, you usually have to go after them. Speaking as a fat girl, I can say I don't go after guys myself unless they're seriously dropping hints but even then I'm reluctant. I don't want the guy to reject me and then go tell his friends about how some fat chick was hitting on him.

I get what your saying about not wanting to ask someone out. It can be embarrassing.

So essentially, just be genuine when talking with one? Show genuine interest? That sort of thing?

Since you are fat girl, is there anything you would suggest someone do to start up a conversation with a bigger woman? Or just general things not to do? I'm curious what women think since I know a million things about any given situation can be going on in their head.

>I've met a lot of guys who have said they have no preference when it comes to body type but I'd rather be with someone who's a chubby chaser so I feel less insecure.

I think some guy say they have no preference because they're not confident enough to say that they prefer bigger women, or a Chubby Chaser. I don't use this term personally as it sounds like I'm fetishizing a fat woman, for me I personally say my preference is bigger women.

>>4747

That's some pretty good advice. I always wanted to know what kind of questions someone might ask so I could have a good answer ready ahead of time so I'm not stumbling for an answer like a dumbass.

OKCupid is great, because all the girls that are there that aren't crazy are usually there because they're fat. There's fat AND crazy ones, but their profiles have a ton of red lights usually (their style, stuff like "if you aren't a feminist I'm not interested" etc). So, if you can have a decent conversation over OKCupid messaging, odds are the date will go pretty well. It's a lot less disappointing than dating thin girls on the site.

Also, speaking from experience, don't ever mention your fetish until waaayy later. Don't ever compliment anything to do with her weight. Compliment her like she'd expect a man to compliment a thin girl. So boobs, hips, thighs, butts are okay. Things like bellies (which seem to be a popular preference) are not okay to compliment. I'll repeat myself, but I think it's a really important point: fat girls want to be treated and complimented as if they were thin.

>>4755

All of this.

OKcupid is the way to go for online dating. You will find nice fat girls, like anon said, compliment and flirt them like they are thin.

It really helps too if both have things in common, of course.

It might be my area, but most fat girls around here will give you some sort of action on the first date.

>>4748

>Since you are fat girl, is there anything you would suggest someone do to start up a conversation with a bigger woman? Or just general things not to do? I'm curious what women think since I know a million things about any given situation can be going on in their head.

When it comes to conversation, just talk to them how you would talk to any on else. In conversation, be honest and confident but not overbearing. Don't just say straight out that you have a bbw fetish; that gives the impression that you only want her for her body or that she's a sex object rather than a person you want to get to know. It's best not to tell a girl that unless she asks (like "what do you think of my weight" or "Do you have any fetishes").

It really depends on the girl though. Personally I'm not very confident but I appreciate honesty. And as I've said before, I like when a guy specifically likes my body type because I know that they think I'm beautiful. There's a lot of self hating fat girls that will be offended by anyone mentioning their weight but there's also a lot of confident fat girls who use their weight as a charm point. You've gotta gauge the girl's personality and work from there.

>All the people saying OKcupid is great

I've had less than good results on there myself

For one thing, I live in Commiefornia, so most of the chubs here are SJWs

I've oddly enough met more chub girls through facebook than anything really

Join some BBW groups on there, you have a somewhat alright success rate if you're attractive enough

>>4739

Same way you meet any other girls. I found my current gf on tinder.

Also, why would you want to deny it? It's the best fetish ever.

>>4747

>when she will ask you if you like fat girls, tell her that you like a wide range of shapes, saying that you exclusively likes fat girls will make her think that you came for her lard and not the woman she is

I haven't found this to be the case. Saying yes to this seemingly inevitable question has always worked out well for me.

>>4777

This. If a guy told me he was into all kinds of body types, I'd be afraid that he's just saying that to make me feel better and that he actually prefers thin girls. Maybe I'm just paranoid though.

>>4775

>SJWs

There are plenty of rainbow-haired liberal fat girls from California that have non-stupid opinions. The girl I'm seeing at the moment is just such a person.

>>4778

>Maybe I'm just paranoid though.

I think it's safe to say that sort of paranoia is pretty much universal among fat girls. Saying you like all body types to a fat girl so she doesn't feel like you only like her for her body makes less sense than saying the same thing to a skinny girl.

>>4755

>fat girls want to be treated and complimented as if they were thin.

Unless they don't. There are fat girls who fetishize their own weight as much as we do. Do not assume you will never meet one, because I have, and I've slept with probably four girls in my entire life. So that's 1 out of 4 in my experience.

>>4778

Yeah I was thinking this same thing in the shower this morning. I think it's better just to be honest about it when the two of you are comfortable with each other.

>>4778

>>4781

Which is why you don't say "I like all body types" the same way you don't say "I like fat chicks". Guys don't say to thin women "I like thin women", they just say variants on "you're beautiful", which is the most safe and appropriate way to compliment a BBW when you don't yet know how she feels about her weight (which may potentially take a while to discover).

>>4789

And to add on to this anon's post, it might be beneficial to think about what you would say ahead of time. If she says "I'm fat", always respond with something like "And you're beautiful".

There's hundreds of things you can say, you just have to think about what to say.