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Bruh, it's been like, two days chill with the "bump" posts we see it.

If she isn't wetting your whistle clothed, doesn't look like she's doing it for you.

Find that girl that makes your heart pound. It won't matter what she looks like naked or clothed.

>>4852

I really really like her though, but there is confirmed not much physical attraction. Really pretty face but I guess I dont like big girls.

Honestly, I'm probably gonna keep seeing her because lonely af.

>>4855

Dude, seeing her out of desperation isn't doing you or her any favors. That's not fair to her at all. I'm just pixels on your screen, but I can dispense some dime store take it or leave it advice: We've all been at that point in life, in my early twenties, I wanted a girlfriend SO. FUCKING. BAD! I settled. I spent three years in a relationship that was two and a half years longer than it should've been. Save yourself heartache. Sometimes being in relationship for a personal reason "I don't want to be lonely", isn't what predicates a relationship. Don't string this girl along for some self satisfaction, and honestly, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. You are unattached right now, and guess what? You can do whatever the hell you want right now. Relationships will come soon enough!

>>4855

Don't see someone out of despretness

What are you, 14?

>>4855

>staying with someone only because you're lonely

you, your relationship, and your happiness are fucked

>>4861

Well I do like her "emotionally" I guess, I just don't find her attractive, and sex doesn't really work out much. Which is what I might tell her if I get the balls to say so.

And on the "other fish in the sea" bit, no, for some maybe. For a below average fat guy with no self confidence, intelligence, or interesting traits, she's probably one of the very few people within 1000 miles of me who will actually like me for me.

>>4865

It's been that way for a while so whatever.

>>4846

She is a bit bigger than that. The pic in OP is old I think.

>>4861

I literally just got out of a similar situation.

I'd been with my (now Ex) girlfriend for almost 3.5 years, and realistically shouldn't have been in that relationship for at least half of that.

I was just in the relationship because she was soft and it was comfortable and I didn't want to hurt her. :\

>>4866

Man, I felt the same way about the relationship I was in here >>4867.

It was kind of the opposite of yours, I was attracted but the romantic love was gone and we weren't fucking at all, literally nothing erotic almost ever.

It's better for you to get out, as hard as it is.

I don't know how much money you spend on the relationship, but that's a legitimate thing to think about, I was spending most of my paychecks on mine.

Maybe take a week apart and only talk a little, nothing on the phone, just some texting.

Do you truly miss her, or do you just miss snuggling and stuff? That was the big decider for me, I only missed cuddling my Ex, but not the woman she was.

>>4861

This is some sage advice, OP. Seriously.

>>4866

>your happiness is fucked

>"It's been that way for a while so whatever."

Well, I hope you enjoy your illusion that things couldn't get any worse, because they absolutely will. When you use somebody and the "relationship," that you built on deceit explodes, you will realize that not only was she somebody who genuinely liked you, but that on top of not deserving you, you abused her emotionally, and that that is why you are alone and nobody wants to be with you: Because you have no fucking consideration for anybody other than yourself. If you think that doesn't sound bad, just wait until you experience it. I'm single, and have been for many years, and will be single for many lonely years yet, but I can sleep at night.

>>4883

>but that on top of not deserving you,

on top of not deserving her*

>>4883

Just because I don't feel attracted to her sexually? Just to clarify, emotionally I like her a lot, and already feel a bond.

And I don't really find her *unattractive*, I just don't find her attractive. I still get turned on with her, and at this point, the only thing I don't like about her weight is the fact sex doesn't work (I have a below average cock, 5.5 inches, so I can hardly get in there).

Let her go, OP. You won't be giving her what she needs. I was in a relationship with a guy when I was 19-20 who loved my personality but hated my weight (I'm 5'2" and was about 180 at the time). I wanted to desperately for him to love me completely that I made myself miserable with a horrible destructive diet (alternate day fasting). I dropped down to 140 but It never seemed to be enough for him.

Don't put this girl through what I went through. If you don't love her completely then she's probably not the one for you.

>>4886

5.5 is nearly exactly average. If you can't figure out how to have sex with a larger woman, she doesn't deserve you.

Er… you don't deserve her.

>>4891

I can have sex with her, it's just not that great for me. She either likes it or is pretending to like it. I don't like it because I can only get 2-3 inches in.

I've just been fucking her for her, then cumming from handjob/blowjob.

>>4892

Period. End of sentence.

>>4886

You should be honest with her just say you don't find her physically attractive but find her mind attractive, then let her choose

don't push for sex if you can't do it