/bbw/ - Big Beautiful Women

>>5140

On paper, they can get away with it. On just about any dating/social networking site, guys will just about always approach girls first. And given how desperate some guys are, all but the absolute ugliest girls will get approached (If you're at LEAST a 3/10, you'll most likely get a fair amount of attention).

The problem is, the chasers that aren't abusive assholes generally settle for girls who don't give off the "complete bitch" aura (e.g. the ones in your pics). So they're either left for "ugly" guys who may or may not be decent people, or "decent-looking" guys who end up making relationships a living hell (and, in some cases, making them paranoid of guys in general). Hence why they're so common on dating sites.

The actually decent fat girls are much less common because they tend to be taken.

tl;dr Dating site dynamics allow for their stuck-up mentality, but they probably won't get into a good relationship anytime soon.

>>5146

well having sex is gonna be kinda difficult with two 400+ lbs fatties .

>>5140

>having physical preferences or standards at all

>all this butthurt

Those sweet delicious salty tears. It's like freshly brewed ambrosia.

Women have been destroyed by feminism. Its a sad affair all around not sure any are left that are worth putting up with (aka marriage material) for more than a quick fuck.

The problem is that normal girl takes off her clothes and I'm cotton soft. But when a fat girl walks in my general direction I'm diamond hard. I tried fapping to them until I got bored of them but I just wanted up exhausted and wanting more. I have an unquenchable thirst. Anybody got any tips to help me.

>>5156

Cut down on fapping altogether as you ween yourself off fapping try looking at chubby,curvy and thick chicks and work your way down to something thinner.

>>5140

I know this may make me sound like an asshole, but this is why I hate the fat acceptance movement. I think this is the reason why things like FatPeopleHate exist: To bring people back to reality and let them know "Not everyone wants to look at you.". I honestly see at at this point as something that I hope will get those individuals to think and respect those who actually care about them. I say this as someone who has been bullied and who thinks bullying can be a positive thing if done correctly.

Thanks to the internet, vanity in women has exploded, especially amongst women who would normally think of themselves as unattractive. I feel bad that some women go through bullying, and not feeling like they are deserving of someone, but all this crap on the internet has gone from helping those individuals feel better about themselves (A noble cause IMO), to just flat out extreme vanity.

I honestly wish we could live in a world where neither existed since people wouldn't be so vain, but that's not going to happen until they learn to be more modest and have more humility. Until then, their unquenchable thirst for Vanity will just keep fueling this fire.

Don't mind me though, just getting those feels out.

>>5152

>I'd argue the decent ones too are the ones who go out and live their life instead of spending all day on a dating site. Dating sites have really ruined the whole dating dynamic in our society.

It's a combination thereof. The decent ones are content just being single, but they also have an easier time finding someone to be with as a result.

Honestly, it's a Perfect Storm: a sense of entitlement, Vanity (like you guys said), mass victimization, and this mass liberalization (not that I'm condemning libs, is a cross dressing murderer worthy of a bravery award?) in society. In this vain and shallow society, it's ironic as hell that some fat woman who won't work on her physique will hold out for some dude who will, and carry the attitude that we should be greatful of her existence in society.

And +1 for the "it's a preference camp". I was five and six getting erections and drawing fat ladies.

As far as weaning yourself off fat girl porn? Why? You like fat chicks. Enjoy your freakin' life, like what you like. I think that while InternetFatGirlWorld is being poisoned by the trendy pink/blue green Danger glasses wearing Feminists (I'm looking square at you, Tess Munster fanbase), it shouldn't represent every fat girl. Think about it… There are 7 billion people on this planet. Not every fatgirl hashtags Effyourbeautystandards or feels compelled to wear her grandma's glasses. There are still beautiful, not batshit crazy sane women who have thighs and bellies that make your dick hard. I usually save the dimestore wisdom for Curvage, but if you are looking at fapping to smaller girls, fuck smaller girls! Like, literally stick your wiener in everything. Enjoy being single and doing whatever the fuck you want! Your time will come. If you live your life awesomely, like attracts like. A wonderful girl will come your way when you have a deficit of fucks to give about dating or relationships.

I think that in about ten or fifteen years this SJWism will start to die down as these girls realize their vapid militant bitchiness is the reason they are alone and their friends have the white picket fence on Wisteria Lane.

While I think what Tess is doing is wonderful, a lot of her message is getting lost, and now we have the non-binary genderqueer Tumblristas are driving us to the General attiude of this thread. I see the shit on Curvage too, and I swear it has flatspun about a year or so ago. It's a cancer destroying our community. I would expect the touchy, feely hug circle to be contained on Dims, but I'm seeing it more and more elsewhere, and a lot of complaining on Curvage. Again, people like my favorite Canadian SJW paysite model aren't doing anything to help. The other heartache is there are beta males who are eating her bullshit up with a ladle. If my girlfriend is hashtagging "kill all men" on Tumblr, that's one less girlfriend, don't care how hot she is. She knows there will be a supply of men with the "Nah, bro Chill, what she's doing is cool" attitude.

Here's your tl;DR, and if you have read any dating advice of mine on Curvage its this:

Find a cool girl, that is a blast to be around. Make her happy. Put a ring on it. Happy Cool Sexy Girl + Ring = Happy Cool FAT Sexy Girl who doesn't buy into the SJW horseshit. I can't math anything past that, but that's an equation we can all understand.

>>5162

Since when is dumping false praise on anyone good?!

Want to feel better about yourself? deserve it go out and build your character with actions/deeds and merit.

Telling everyone they are special snow flakes and a gift to humanity is the problem. "Everyone gets a blue ribbon" mentality which breeds this sickening situation in the first place.

>>5170

Call it what it is this is subversive anti-human marxism.

"Put a ring on it."…..You realize its the oath before you family friends and the girl as well as God, universe, the state or whatever (if you believe in that) that's important. The ring is a superficial piece of nonsense that has gained too much importance in recent times as have the expensive overly extravagant weddings for that matter.

fixed it for you:

Seemingly Happy Cool Sexy Girl + Marriage = Happy divorced girl that has ruined your life. Is sleeping with 3 other guys, is stealing half your stuff , has sole custody of your your kids if you have any (this happened to a friend of mine).

I'm not saying there are not any good ones out there but I don't believe any are marriage material, in 2015 marriage has too much risk and no real profit.

>>5171

>I'm not saying there are not any good ones out there but I don't believe any are marriage material, in 2015 marriage has too much risk and no real profit.

>>>/mgtow/ plz go.

Also KFD, that was great post!

>>5172

I don't believe that women are inherently terrible or trash or whatever they do. I'm saying the world is screwed up. Feminism/SJW and this new mgtwo is schizophrenia of the species while it commits suicide.

You can not deny the many incentives for women to abuse the system as well as the open encouragement to do so by the media, government, programs,etc.

>>5175

>You can not deny the many incentives for women to abuse the system as well as the open encouragement to do so by the media, government, programs,etc.

I don't deny it, but you said:

>I don't believe any are marriage material, in 2015 marriage has too much risk and no real profit.

There are ones fit for marriage, it's a matter of filtering out the women who are trash from the ones who are not. I'm not going be idle and let a bunch of feminists dictate what I can't have in my life, and them ruin marriage. If you do, you're doing exactly what they want, you should man up and fight back by defying their bullshit.

>>5172

>you HAVE to get married.

Make me, asshole.

>>5180

I didn't say you have to get married, I said it's foolish to think that all women are like this.

If you're going to be scared that every woman is going to screw you over, you're beta. Are there many that will? Yes. Will all of them? Hell no. I also stated in my second post not to let them decide whether you should get married or not. If your going to be controlled this easily by them, don't reproduce, we have enough betas as it is, especially in Canada.

>>5181

Funny, I think it'd be more beta to knowingly sign up for a financial negotiation that's rigged against you from the start; especially in a time period where it's lost most of its relevance since most couples don't even stay together.

The post you initially responded to even said not all women are like that, Yet you still vouch to have >>5171 removed. All for heeding probability and choosing not to take part in an overpriced contract.

>>5188

>sign up for a financial negotiation that's rigged against you from the start

You know there's such things as pre-nups right? For a lot of women it's way more about the ceremony of the thing (literally and figuratively) than the money. Personally, I can't see myself getting married unless I meet an awesome girl that I can actually imagine myself staying with for a looooong time if not forever. If you're that fucking paranoid about women or getting ripped off, you've got bigger problems than if she gets to keep the coffeemaker or not once you've proven how much of an asshole you are.

>>5190

Problem: Prenups mean shit, the judges throw those things out fast so that doesn't actually work.

Hell, even not getting married doesn't work because in Ontario at least (Canada) if you live together long enough with your partner you are officially married, whether you married them or not.

It's a shitty game that you play with the possible threat being screwed out of money.

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All that being said,

I think the thing that pisses me off the most is how an attraction and a fetish got taken over by politics.

Pretty much all of them subscribe to some form or another to the SJW bullshit since it makes people feel good about themselves and if you don't want to have to deal with that bullshit you pretty much have to sort through all of em, especially if you're into feederism as its very online based.

Politics mixed with believing the BS that pathetic internet fappers tell you is one sure way of ruining the "community".

How does it ruin the community?

If you believe you're gods gift to Man then you're going to have ridiculous expectations. In the case of feederism, I've seen this as the moment where people expect feeders to pay for ALL OF THEIR SHIT and to treat them like a queen. Why? Because it's the "privilege" of being in their presence and unless you tolerate all of their bullshit, you're a shitlord.

I'm also not interested in hearing insane political bullshit with any disagreement making you an evil human being.

I'm fucking tired of it.

I just want fat chicks without all the drama and politics thats become attached to the scene.

Is that so much to ask for?

>>5190

Pre-nups aren't worth the paper they're written on.

All my girlfriends have been bbw. My main fetish is tall fat girls with huge tits, the kind of Robert Crumb style. I'm 5'4 so I get off on being crushed by the weight and height I guess. None of them have had a particularly bad personality, I guess I just got lucky. One girl I hooked up with had my ideal height and weight, big G cup tits, fucked like a champ. Shame she was a bit mentally unwell in the end.

I can see what people are saying about the entitledness and victimisation, I tend to avoid loud mouth BBW (who always tend to smoke as well for some reason) because it's a red flag. I'm there to fuck, not to get a lecture.

>>5191

>I just want fat chicks without all the drama and politics thats become attached to the scene.

>Is that so much to ask for?

This is now the world we live in unfortunately, and it's tearing communities, relationships, and people apart. One just has to look at what is going on to see people fighting with other people, man against woman, woman against man, race against race, and so on.

There has always been fighting yes, but there used to be some unity that brought us together. Thanks to Feminism, SJWs, stupid crap like BLM, etc. it has ravaged many individuals and made them unfit for any kind of human interaction.

It's a scary thought to think what the world is going to be like in a few more years. We are not even at the bottom yet.

I'm a fat admirer and I hate feminism and social justice warriors. All my other turn-ons are sweetness and girliness. I want a girl who's both ultra-feminine and fat. Why the fuck did the SJW crowd have to get into fat acceptance? I can handle NAZIS better than them, and I hate Nazism. I'd give anything to be into skinny girls. I'm not attracted to them, but I'd rather date a sweet skinny girl with a great personality than a fat bitchy controlling girl with a great body. Hell I'd rather be gay! Liking fat girls is like getting kicked in the balls every day. It's hell on earth. I'm fucking sick of all the nice awesome cute fat babes losing weight and the mean ones getting into "fat acceptance". I don't support "fat acceptance" any more because the wrong girls got into it.

The problem with a good amount of BBW's is that they're all big time SJWs. Anytime I want to see some really hot BBW on tumblr its most of the time shitty feminist crap and shit about supporting Bernie Sanders. Now i'm not saying all BBW's are like this, but those BBW's are giving the ones that are cool a really bad name.

>>5258

buddy, like a beehive, tumblr may be where the honey comes from, but it's home to some pretty nasty stingers as well.

>>5258

Source for pic? Any other girls like her?

>>5253

>Before you say I'm a beta. Its way easier to steal a girl from a guy. Then it is to change someone's sexual preference.

Outright impossible to change someone's sexual preference provided they're not faking it/more flexible than they think to begin with. I've noticed most women you're describing are bi though. I've yet to see an actual lesbian on the BBW scene.

>>5140

/fit/

>>5191

>where people expect feeders to pay for ALL OF THEIR SHIT and to treat them like a queen.

>hurr derr why won't she pay for HERSELFso I can indulge in MY fetish

m8

>>5298

except if they're a part of "the scene" and are gainers then it's not just "my fetish" and I don't expose this shit to people outside the scene.

Don't forget the whole E begging BS that goes on where they ask people to give them money to help them "gain".

>>5134

Maybe your going after the wrong kinds of bbws? Me and all my friends have the opposite problem, we're usually insecure af so that's why we're not used to it when a guy approaches. That's probably just me though.

>>5321

Some are more picky than non-BBWs, while some are more similar to yourself, from personal experience. I guess BBW women are as varied as any other kind as far as that goes. By all means, don't be insecure. Some of us guys love the attention.

>>5322

Thanks, I try not to but I got alot of shit as a kid so mentally I just kind of assume all guys find me repulsive so I generally don't put myself out there. Sometimes its really hard to undo that mental rewiring.

>>5325

Trust me, you're far from alone on that. There will still be a fair number of guys like that (but I'm sure you're aware), but there's also a good number that either don't mind or prefer you the way you are (as I'm sure you also know).

It took me years to shake off some of the negative things I thought of myself due to how I was treated by my peers during childhood. It's not easy. I feel ya.

>>5325

Sorry you had to go through that. As someone who was bullied myself I know it can be hard to trust people.

I agree with >>5537 that there are guys that either don't mind you or prefer you. Even when you were growing up, there were probably even guys who liked you, but never summoned the courage to say anything. I say that as someone who liked a BBW in school, but never told her, and was too much a pussy back then to stand up for her either.

Bullying sucks, but don't let it control your life. I did for a long time after I left school, and I really regret that I did. You have no clue what you are missing out on if you live your life in fear.

>>5353

>I say that as someone who liked a BBW in school, but never told her, and was too much a pussy back then to stand up for her either.

Ugh I know that feel. There was a girl I met in high school who I thought was flirting with me but I could never bring myself to even flirt back let alone ask her out because my friends made fun of her sometimes so I knew I'd never hear the end of it. We're friends on facebook still and sometimes I'll see one of her posts on my feed and feel so much regret.

can confirm. 3 years with a big girl, she was nice but totally sucked to try and shag. no effort in bed, extremely difficult to get in bed in the first place. also wouldn't do blowjobs.

>>5134

A lot of them have major mental/emotional issues unfortunately, much more so than regular women. The problem is most people don't want to be fat, so those that are fat have usually failed to look after themselves and achieve their goals in life. Usually the reason for their obesity is not good new. It's a god damned minefield.

>>5470

Not to mention women are:

>Have higher employment rates then men.

>Have a ton of resources to help them at every tiny step of their lives.

>Can just say "fuck it" and be a stay at home wife/mother (Though, STHD's are becoming more popular in recent years).

>If they are minority, or are harassed by society, they'll get pity in the forms of jobs, reviews, and extra services. Even BBWs, and MTFs.

And I know it's real. My mom got a Job over me, and I'm the qualified one. At least she's based and doesn't kick me out, but feel bad mooching off her.

Been awhile since this topic was posted in, and since this is a feels thread and I feel like bitching.

Apparently, BBW is now considered "Normal" weight. I've been seeing people ramble on about how a woman with a BMI of 19.2 is "BBW". I figured this was just a few dumb people, but it seems to be catching on.

What the fuck is wrong people these days? Do Normies honestly not Google the term they're using? I mean, it was already bad enough that BBW started meaning "A few pounds" overweight to most people, but at this rate, a few pounds overweight will be SSBBW if this shit keeps up.

And it's effected dating sites too. Slim girls setting their body type to BBW. Ugh, maybe euthanasia being legal here isn't such a bad thing.

>>5134

They're harder to get because they are often have the most insecurity. They keep their standards really high because they want to bag the hunk that will validate their existence. All the bbw are beautiful, society standards, talk and all that shit is invalidated in their eyes if they catch a less than handsome alpha as fuck man. They are scared of dating because "Fatty could only be with ugo and/or fatty ." and in all of that there is self loathing which once again brings it to external validation. Its a weird thing where fat acceptance for oneself leads to fat hate in the opposite gender. At the end though, not much you can do about it, things are what they are, you can probably get yourself a cute fun chubby gal and just let her become the bbw she probably will become.