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 No.370[Reply]

Am I still asexual even though I fap?
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 No.457

According to the website, yes

 No.484

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>>370
According to tumblrites and various special snowflakes who like to label themselves as "asexual" to play the ultimate hard to get card in order to boost their ego by generating a permanent "don't hit on me ya sillyboys" cockblocking field even if they absolutely experience sexual desire since like I said they use the asexual label to artificially increase their sexual value, yes.

According to the real definition, no, since asexuality is the absence of sexual desire.

If you fap but don't have sex, you're celibate (broad definition).
If you don't fap and don't have sex, you're chaste/celibate (strict).
If you have no desire, you're asexual.

You now understand that "asexual" waving flags and constantly talking about their asexuality aren't asexual at all, since there's nothing to say about asexuality and asexuals are not targeted by specific violent acts and asexuality is not an "orientation".

 No.554

>>370

It's certainly possible. Asexuality is a sexual orientation, not a lack of sex drive, and some do still experience the urge for sexual release. Others may have sexual fetishes or masturbate to porn, but have no desire to experience sex acts IRL.


 No.555

>>484

if you think about it it's kinda like eating when you're full or don't want food. nothing's stopping your body from doing it


 No.557

>>484

>>554

these two anons are going to have to fight to the death




 No.31[Reply]

I'm asexual.
Does that count?

 No.34

I don't have sex for legal reasons.

Also theres people out there that don't have sex because they just can't find a partner. Its a complicated issue.

 No.36

>>31
If you don't have sex or masturbate, then yeah you're celibate.

Your "practice", as it were, is different as you don't need any willpower and you have nothing to overcome. It appears to be your natural state of being.

 No.51

>>34
Legal reasons?
What the hell did you do?

 No.52

Nothing I simply became so old I could no longer have sex with the age group I liked.

 No.553

I'm asexual and consider myself celibate in the traditional sense since even though I have absolutely zero desire for partnered sex I still have the urge to masturbate, but have come to realize it just messes up my emotions and doesn't really bring me pleasure.




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 No.520[Reply]

>>>/am/ here.
What's your favorite anime to watch while saving yourself for your waifu, /celibacy/?

 No.549

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I became celibate because I was inspired by Utena.

I also really liked Sophia in Chuu2koi Ren. Everyone thought her issue was the guy she liked liked someone else, but since I knew that she was really having a conflict about staying celibate.

As well, Alleyne in Queen's Blade, the thousand year-old virgin. She's my hero!



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 No.507[Reply]

Does anyone here try to practice sexual transmutation?
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 No.514

>>507

I believe that Hill was confused when he treated sexual energy as some kind of powerhouse that can be unplugged from reproduction and plugged into production, but this mistake has been rectified in his censored book.

The unrestrained will to reproduction is literally the will to destroy the soul and all the genius that goes with it. It is the desire to have the lifecycle of a bacteria, blindly and unreflectively reproducing. Going nowhere and producing nothing. The end of history.

The reason that continence is conducive to genius has nothing to do with being deprived of 'energising fluids' and everything to do with the fact that it does not allow itself to be swallowed up by the present moment, but reveres the timeless and ideal.

All morality is based on the ability to transcend the present and turn your life into an object from which lessons can be learned and transgressions repented for. Sexual indulgence longs to be swallowed up by the present cannot even recognise evil, much less repent. It is less than immoral, it lacks morality.

All technology and abstract thought depends on historicity or the ability to transend the moment and consider all that is and was simulataneouly in order to bring about what can be, but sex does not care about wealth and power and is satisfied with dumbly reproducing what already is.

In summary, one becomes what they will to become, and the unrestrained urge to meaningless sex is the urge to become unreflective like an animal. Genius is intensely definite reflection, constantly transcending the moment and giving meaning to the past and present in order to determine the future.

 No.515

"The mass-man would never have accepted authority external to himself had not his surroundings violently forced him to do so. As to-day, his surroundings do not so force him, the everlasting mass-man, true to his character, ceases to appeal to other authority and feels himself lord of his own existence. On the contrary the select man, the excellent man is urged, by interior necessity, to appeal from himself to some standard beyond himself, superior to himself, whose service he freely accepts…. Contrary to what is usually thought, it is the man of excellence, and not the common man who lives in essential servitude. Life has no savour for him unless he makes it consist in service to something transcendental. Hence he does not look upon the necessity of serving as an oppression. When, by chance, such necessity is lacking, he grows restless and invents some new standard, more difficult, more exigent, with which to coerce himself. This is life lived as a discipline — the noble life.

For me, then, nobility is synonymous with a life of effort, ever set
on excelling oneself, in passing beyond what one is to what one
sets up as a duty and an obligation. In this way the noble life
stands opposed to the common or inert life, which reclines
statically upon itself, condemned to perpetual immobility, unless
an external force compels it to come out of itself. Hence we apply
the term mass to this kind of man- not so much because of his
multitude as because of his inertia.
As one advances in life, one realises more and more that the
majority of men are incapable of any other effort
than that strictly imposed on them as a reaction to external
compulsion. And for that reason, the few individuals we have
come across who are capable of a spontaneous and joyous effort
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>>513
>>514
>>515
Upboat for you.

 No.519

>>513
Reading it right now. Thanks.

 No.548

>>513
Jesus H Christ, please post the unannotated version. I feel like I'm reading a jehova's whitness pamphlete.



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 No.257[Reply]

24 years old, never had a romantic or sexual relationship. I've had issues with porn before which I am getting better at handling. ~~not that there was a lot of content I was in to in the first place.~~ I'm trying to improve myself because of my beliefs and I don't want to repeat the same mistakes some of my family members made regarding sex and relationships.

I'm waiting for whoever is meant to be my husband, but if I'm meant to die a virgin, I'm cool with that. Besides, it seems that the men that I found attractive were either already married, taken, want to have a sexual relationship before marriage,or gay. I know there are good men out there and I'm not giving up hope, but with a small pool, being in the military, and moving around, there really isn't a lot of fish biting.

I'm just glad I found this board, and I just wanted to get that off my chest.
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 No.465

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>>257

>The words abstinence and celibacy are often used interchangeably, but are different. Sexual abstinence, also known as continence,[8] is abstaining from some or all aspects of sexual activity, often for some limited period of time.[9] Asexuality is considered distinct from abstention from sexual activity and from celibacy,[10][11] which are behavioral and generally motivated by factors such as an individual's personal or religious beliefs.[12]


Wrong board sis. You're still looking for your man. You don't get a pat on the back for willingly doing what people have been forcing women to do for millennia.

 No.470

>>350
serious question, which branch (navy/army/marine/chairforce)? being a christian male in the army who is going for abstinence, and potentially lifelong celibacy, I understand the struggle.
Also pic? what does intimidating woman mean? like are you super buff?

 No.471

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>>413
hmmmm, that is wrong. All she has to do is find men in a church, or those who are active in ministry. they desire chaste women.
Pic is you

 No.473

OP's back. It's been busy on my end of the world so I do apologize for the delay in responses. Priorities and what not.
>>465 No one is forcing me to do this and I am doing this of my own choice. I'm not expecting pats on the back, I'm just trying to find people with a similar mentality. You do bring up a good point about the difference between celibacy and abstinence. Currently I am more in the abstinent category than celibate, but I would be fine with being celibate if it came to that.

>>413 I'm perfectly fine if it doesn't happen, but I do have a lot of personal reasons as to why I stand by my choice.

>>470 Navy, and I tend to carry myself like a hardass. It's a little hard to explain, basically I tend to give off an unapproachable vibe and I look like I'm mean.

 No.546

>>473
>I tend to give off an unapproachable vibe and I look like I'm mean.

Could just be a simple case of RBF?



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 No.540[Reply]

hey /celibacy/
which Pokémon would you fuck?


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 No.539[Reply]

Have you taken the brown pill yet, mateys?

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Swallow the brown pill today! Red pills are for fedora wearing faggots, blue pills are for the ignorant masses. Ignore the other le epin /pol/ maymays, this one is the readl deal. niggers


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 No.493[Reply]

You chose celibacy, i was born into it, molded by it. I didn't see intercourse until i was already a man.

 No.498

>>493
I aspire to this, so I can make it as an official 40 year old virgin. So far I am succeeding

 No.538

Well congratulations, you didn't have sex. So what's the next step of your masturbatory plan?



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 No.494[Reply]

>tfw you will never find a girlfriend to be in a completely sexless, exclusive relationship in

Just because I don't want to partake in sexual activities doesn't mean I don't want love ;__;

 No.533

You are thinking of friendship. That is what men are for anon.

 No.534

There are other forms of love that have nothing to do with romantic love.

If I were you OP I'd look into metta meditation, it may help.

 No.535

Find an asexual woman, they're looking for the same thing.



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 No.521[Reply]

How do I stop lust? is it even possible or can it only be lessened?

I feel I'm comfortable with noFap, and I've deleted my porn a long time ago - but as a result I am significantly more lustful.

In the real world I can't help but eye up girls/women. My eyes wander and they can wander back multiple times if the girl is wearing something suggestive. In fact I can sometimes find myself staring for quite a while without realizing it and it disgusts me.

As for online. I stay away from porn websites/boards for obvious reasons, but when it comes to places like 8chan, arousing pictures/video are bound to be posted, even in completely irrelevant topics, I find it very difficult to scroll past without looking, and if I do look I get even more lustful and look for more in the thread.

I should mention that I'm also a hebephile (though I'm attracted to adult women also), which is one of the major reasons for doing all this. I feel disgusted with myself and could get into trouble if I'm caught staring at a young girl.

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 No.528

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.
Getting all soppy and mawkish about it will only reinforce the problem.

Just remember that you are not an animal with a lust repurposed to creative endeavour, but a Man with Will perverted to lust.

I've heard that God said 'A prince is not flustered' and that rings true. You are the master of matter and environment. It must work for you. Never be flustered.

(http://www.templeos.org/Wb/Adam/God/HSNotes.html#l104)

 No.531

>>527
>>528

Thank you both of you. I've just gotten to the point of my previous noFap streak today so I appreciate the help now especially, thanks.



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 No.5[Reply]

I'm on day 50. I struggled a lot for 2 months before that, failing every time, but one day something clicked into place and since then abstaining isn't hard at all, it feels like the natural, unforced option.
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 No.243

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If we're talking actual sexual intercourse, I would say 3 to 4 years. If we're talking fapping. Uhhh 5 hours.

 No.244

>>233
The thing is, as a base animal you will not ever be free of sexual desires. It's more down to suppressing them. Really the only way to be free of it is damaging the hypothalamus in such a way that it does not impede its other functions and that in it of it's self is dangerous to say the least.

 No.268

>>244

It's a good thing I am more than a "base animal" then.

Learn2religion.

 No.523

For actual sex - my whole lifetime (just over 20 and a half years).

As for masturbation - 11 days. The furthest I've gone (excluding when I was a child of course) has been 14 days (two weeks).

I don't know why but it's always around this point where my desires force themselves on me. I've been having sexual dreams and waking up with a boner ever morning.

This time round I've finally gotten rid of my porn, so hopefully that will make the difference I need. It's hard to avoid arousing imagery on 8chan, tv, etc though.

 No.530

Sex, my entire life, and masturbation, I wouldn't be able to tell you, have stopped keeping track of it.

To embellish, I've done nofap quite a few times now and have made it 90 day and farther, but now I do not worry about it, and dwell on it less, and it happens less often. Yes I do, occasionally fap (and way less then I ever have before), but, frankly it often feels like a chore to take care of but it can be damn hard to sleep with a boner so i just get rid of it.

>>14
Smiley shouldn't you be off farming loosh or od'ing on protein



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 No.43[Reply]

>tfw socially isolated from all female contact

 No.47

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This could be a blessing for you anon. All you have to do is forgo pleasures of the flesh by not masturbating and the path towards enlightenment will be open to you.

Perhaps, it is nativity or wishful thinking but maybe certain people have never had the opportunity to engage in physical contact with the opposite sex to further their spiritual attainment in this life.

 No.524

I know that feel OP. It is a blessing in many ways because we are free from temptations in the real world, but I do want a life partner at some point, and it's very difficult to find someone like that in such social isolation.

Of course I could meet with girls quite easily through clubs and dating sites - but those sorts of girls will want to "hookup" - they won't be prepared to sexually abstain until marriage.

I've considered finding a girl through church (I'm agnostic with a preference for Christianity), because religious girls should understand and possibly practice celibacy, but I've rejected the idea because it seems immoral to use the church like that.



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 No.510[Reply]

>lack muscle
>have natural bags under my eyes
>unkempt hair
>freakishly tall
>can and have said politically incorrect (off-putting) shit to random people's faces at will
>capable of giving one of the creepiest insane stares I've ever seen at will

This'll ward off the demons.

 No.511

>>510
Oh, and I have fucked up teeth

 No.516

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>>510
EDGY!!!!!!!



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 No.492[Reply]

Celibacy is most commonly associated with eastern monks, I've found this interesting article on all websites… dailystormer.

http://www.dailystormer.com/aryan-continence-the-ancient-art-of-sexual-restraint/

It seems celibacy is well and live.

>When surrounded by temptation, the male brain is clouded and easily manipulated, which is well known to those who seek to manipulate us, as well as to women (many of whom deliberately use this unequal balance of hormones to achieve short term gains for themselves). Pornography plays a big part in this and it is not so much demeaning to women as it is abusing men’s natural weakness in this respect, which was designed to ensure the husband would provide for and protect his wife, rather than so that women could use it to manipulate men. All the while men and women were limited to one monogamous relationship for life, the sex drive helped to ensure they stayed together, which is the best situation for any children to be brought up in.


>The Vedic belief is that we project our world from within and when we waste our seed it causes much internal upset, which then manifests in our external world projection. Bad things happen quickly after a relapse and good things slowly increase the longer you go without wasting any. The right decisions present themselves to you as you learn to recognize when life is trying to steer you in a particular direction and the correct action to take becomes much easier to define, once that creative power is being utilized instead of discarded.


>There is no greater penance or austerity than continence. It is well known that fasting and meditating can produce altered states, but continence is more powerful than both of those and has the potential to change the individual’s state of mind and influence the outcome of interactions with the world around them. It will give insights into situations that would have been missed entirely before, as it increases intuition and focuses the intellect. It gives everything an extra edge from peaceful religious contemplation to physical feats of strength. It is the most holy of self-sacrifices and blessings are guaranteed through it, but it will only work for you if it is a conscious decision to avoid the tem
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 No.502

bump

 No.505

Great article. It seems celibacy (temporary up until marriage at least) is an integral part of our hertiage.



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 No.499[Reply]

1. Signal poverty. If you have wealth, don't show it. If you are already poor, all the better. If you deliberately avoid success in life, you will pretty much guarantee dedication to higher pursuits, as you will have nothing else to ensnare you.

2. Do not shave or make yourself "pretty." It is ideal to grow a very long beard and let your hair grow out. Consider trying to find the most unattractive cut to women (I haven't bothered because I don't see any, but I know looking like you're out of a cave should spook them).

3. Display bizarre, and even unpopular, political/spiritual/ect. views.

4. Be the opposite of an alpha male, but do not display affection either. So, do not display confidence. That is what attracts women. Be a beta male, without giving them attention.

5. Never be "light" with them. Always keep serious. Teasing is the worst thing you can do.

6. Basically an idea for 3, talk about aliens and conspiracies ect. ect. ect., the only issue being if she's a nut and actually agrees with you. So perhaps, before bringing it up you should ask her what she thinks. Or you can just invent the most bizarre and paranoid idea ever, which no one but yourself believes. Should work

 No.500

Or… you could simply not make advances towards a woman, and decline hers in the (unlikely) event she makes them.

 No.501

>>500
Females can often have a strong psychic pull on males. The feminist idea that sex is rape is quite true in some sense. Precautions have always been taken by priests, ect.

 No.503

>>499

Salient points indeed, thank you OP. Now I know why Ive been single for nearly 7 years as I have pretty much adopted all 6 of your recommendations. It seems I have quite the natural talent in avoiding and repelling women.

 No.504

Avoiding women is the easy part. The hard part is avoiding the internet females.



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