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Celibacy support forum

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 No.19[Reply]

This is the new /celibacy/ forum. It is basically, nofap for virgins. If you are on the quest of celibacy then feel free to discuss anything you want on this forum.

Rules are as follows:
1. Do not talk about having sex
2. Do not post NSFW content
3. Do your best to respect free will

The third rule can't be enforced, so see it as a general guideline to posting.

We'll see if we can get this board moving.
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 No.571

FUCK YEAH SEX!!!

8===============D~

FREEWILL IN THE CORNHOLE



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 No.598[Reply]

http://web-chat.moy.su/

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http://web-chat.moy.su/


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 No.596[Reply]

Why do you think more people do not choose celibacy?

 No.597

I'd like to say that they're mostly subhuman animals, but while that's certainly part of it, I think the main reason is that they're exposed to social influences which determine their attitudes and behaviors. I think I can speak for most of us when I say that we're a solitary crowd. This has allowed us time to think and develop unique ways of seeing the world.



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 No.440[Reply]

Should A for Asexual be added to LGBT?
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 No.562

>>440

LGBT is already extremely outdated. Now it's something like LGBTFJIPABCDEFGHIJKLMONPQRSTUVWXYZ


 No.564

>>440

Never, OP. NEVER. The "asexuals" that want to get political about it, and "raise awareness," and march in disgusting pride parades are all closeted lesbians anyway.


 No.566

>>560

>Your "movement" is about being an attention whore and force people to see your fetish everywhere, and don't get me started on your "prides".

>We are tired of regular borderline porn everywhere and if we ever militate for something it will be to have less sexualised movies/commercials.

I'm fine with culture being less sexualized however I think a large part of the problem is that straight sexual culture is already so prevalent that we don't realize it's there. Basically, if we're going to oppose the LGBT group for making their sexual stuff too public, then straight people should be held to the same standard. I don't have any problem with people showing affection in public, however I really don't think its appropriate to talk about sex acts except in very specific circumstances. It's really not necessary and more often that not is used as a form of bragging, which I really think just contributes to the idea that being a virgin is shameful, while I think should it should be more shameful to have sex just to lose your virginity or because it's expected of you, rather than because one really wants to.

>>564

Not all of those asexuals are female though. And I can understand being uncomfortable with pride parades, not even all people in the LGBT+ community like them. But I think raising awareness is good, if done in the form of basically teaching people that there's nothing wrong with choosing to have sex, and that some people simply don't desire sex to begin with. People shouldn't feel that they need to have sex just because it's "normal" and expected of them.


 No.567

>>566

In the last paragraph I meant to say "that there's nothing wrong with choosing not to have sex".


 No.595

I have nothing against sexualization. I couldn't care less if everyone was nude, wearing sexy clothes or fucking in the public. I simply do not care. I do not get any enjoyment out of sexual things. I do not get aroused by anything. This is the stage you should achieve, not being bothered by outside influences. This is celibacy.



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 No.594[Reply]

Have you taken the brown pill yet, mateys?

it's a tough pill to swallow! The brown pill was founded in 1999 by Sir Reginald Brownpill, who presents and narrates the attached video.

Forget red and blue pills, brown pills are the way of the future.

Video related. Please leave your questions, comments, and concerns below about this radical new paradigm of thinking!

Swallow the brown pill today! Red pills are for fedora fucking wearing faggots, blue pills are for the ignorant masses. Ignore the other le epin /pol/ maymays, this one is the readl deal.54757456


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 No.589[Reply]

Are you working to eradicate sexual desire or to redirect it?

 No.590

>>589

I want to redirect it, and I used to try to do stuff like draw the female form, and write stories about women. But I have no self control, and I keep feeling the urge to masturbate anyway.

So for now I'm just trying to eradicate it, unless I can find a good way to redirect it without getting turned on in the wrong way.


 No.591

They seem pretty easy to not have at all when not eating well.

I'm more troubled by the pressure by parents to find a significant other, which obviously conflicts with my intention to keep my virginity.


 No.593

>>591

Find something else meaningful to do with your life and your parents will still be able to be proud.



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 No.575[Reply]

Gentlemen!

I've been doing NoFap for about four weeks now, and it's been going great. No fapping, no wasting my time watching porn any more. However, the last two weeks in particular, I've been having wet dreams.

I wake up about five in the morning, and realise I've cum in my boxers. It's happened twice this week already, and I didn't have this problem before starting the NoFap.

Anyone else suffering the same problem, or know how to stop it?

 No.592

Keep going, it will stop soon.



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 No.580[Reply]

Have you taken the brown pill yet, mateys?

it's a tough pill to swallow! The brown pill was founded in 1999 by Sir Reginald Brownpill, who presents and narrates the attached video.

Forget red and blue pills, brown pills are the way of the future.

Video related. Please leave your questions, comments, and concerns below about this radical new paradigm of thinking!f

Swallow the brown pill today! Red pills are for fedora fucking wearing faggots, blue pills are for the ignorant masses. Ignore the other le epin /pol/ maymays, this one is the readl deal.6456456546456

 No.581

this is actually a pretty good video to watch if you want to turn yourself off. So I guess this isn't spam.


 No.582

>>581

Think of the poor scat fetishists, you inconsiderate fuck.


 No.586

>>582

I am a scat fetishist, and this turns me off. I want to see poop come out of a girl's ass and onto my face, I don't want to see some old guy eating his own shit out of a dog bowl.


 No.587

>>586

>I want to see poop come out of a girl's ass and onto my face

Out of curiosity, how do you even get to a point where this shit turns you on?


 No.588

>>587

It was a very gradual process. I started with regular porn, then regular femdom. Eventually regular porn stopped turning me on. Then I moved on to more extreme femdom. Then regular femdom stopped turning me on. And then I moved on to scat.

Basically, I kept searching for more and more "extreme" stuff. The whole process took about 8 years, from regular porn to today.

Moral of the story, don't watch porn. Because whenever I look at a girl now all I can think of is her shit on my face.



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 No.585[Reply]

Genesis: fapping clashes with my long-term goals.

Fermentation: sex too clashes with my long-term goals.

Ascension: the very act of sexuality is IMMORAL.


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 No.558[Reply]

Why would you deny yourself sexual release?

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 No.577

>>573

Also this makes you feel like the most dark and nihilistic person alive and you're getting into a whole other topic

and you skipped the rest of the post where he said it makes him feel worse than before


 No.578

and more randomness I just thought of: In today's society the urge for sex comes from laziness, hopelessness, or both. It's become just a desire to pass your responsibilities on to the next generation. It's a society of spoiled brats who run from the least bit of difficulty or discomfort. Sex is not supposed to be used to make you feel better about yourself when you don't deserve to


 No.579

Because there's no white women around here, and I'm not a traitor.


 No.583

Because I'm a masochist and this is the purest form of masochism that I can think of.


 No.584

>>558

Why do supermodels deny themselves chocolate cake?



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 No.299[Reply]

I want to get my innocence back. No masturbation, cigarettes, alcohol, parties. Not even coffee, perhaps. I wanna have the innocence of childhood back to my life. A pure, simple mind. Do you guys think celibacy will help me?
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 No.327

>>316
not how you spell orthodox

 No.428

>>299
sure but if your addicted to all that stuff you mentioned you should tackle one addiction at a time or not youll just be overwhelmed and butthurt

 No.570

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>>299

Do not look the past, the past is gone to never come back. Look foward. Transform yourself into a real man, a good man. That should be your goal now. Be better, be more. Fight to be saint every day, improve your flaws, control your impulses.


 No.572

>>570

I dig the helmet Michael's rocking.


 No.574

>>317

magic undaroos will keep your peepee locked up tight



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 No.489[Reply]

will going celibate stop my hair from falling?

there is definetly a link between hair and sex hormones, castrated dudes never go bald, MtF trans people regain their hair when taking hormone therapy, the best product to stop hair loss on the market kills your libido/erection
After I fap I notice the temples and top of my head getting red and hotter.

What about celibacy?

 No.490

Not sure about this. Maybe you could do some research on this topic or just try celibacy out for yourself and see if it makes any difference.

 No.541

yes

 No.542

>>489

thats becoz blood is rushing to your veins for fucks sake
and no it won't help you with your baldness
celibacy does not prevent you from producing testesterone which is one of the causes of premature balding

 No.543

>>489
This might be of help:

http://immortalhair.forumandco.com/t9967-reddit-thread-masturbation-and-hairloss

 No.568

>>489

The most reliable way to stop hair loss is to increase your estrogen-to-testosterone ratio, from what I've heard. However that's obviously pretty drastic unless you already want to be a girl.



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 No.166[Reply]

Tell me your story, celibates. What made you choose this path? Was it religion? Philosophical epiphany?

I am 20 years old, and lost my virginity in January of this year. Since then I've been with two more women, and in all cases the pleasure was minimal and did not make up for the general inconvenience of intercourse. As such, the decision to give up sex was an easy one.

Masturbation on the other hand (ha!) was and is much harder to avoid. I choose to refrain from it because I believe that if cannot control my most basic desires I am no better than a wild animal. My first attempts to stop failed because of the constant bombardment of sexual imagery from to which I exposed myself, and because I lacked a well defined reason to do so. Since I stopped seeking pornography, temptation has been minimal and easily ignored.

As I have no desire to have children, I believe it is very plausible that I will refrain from sexual activity for the rest of my life.

Celibacy is only one of the aspects of my life that I have changed in the last few years, and it is part of my general code of conduct. I am happy with my decision, and see no reason to abandon it.

For the mod:
Can we post without images?
Was my mention of sex a breach of the first rule?
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 No.529

I'm a christian - born and raised (and calvanist for those who want to know).

I've always held that I was not to have sex until marriage, and I've kept by that. It seems as of recent events that I may keep my virginity for longer than that - not due to lack of relationship though, but because my current partner is an asexual, and we've had discussions on this that have lead more or less to 'If it happens then it happens then but we shouldn't dwell to much until marriage.' which is damn good advice

I've also given thought to studying at a seminary and would like to spend some time in a monastery but I doubt there are many monasteries that would accept a protestant such as myself.

 No.532

>>525

>But can you objectively prove that desires of lust are immoral?

That depends on your views towards God.

If you do not believe in God, then no aspect of morality can be objectively "proven" as you have no objective reference point to base it upon.

Whereas I personally lean towards theism so God is my objective reference point. He is omniscient so he cannot be wrong. That is why his teachings on morality must be objectively true - and he teaches abstinence, restraint, and celibacy so it follows that they must be true.

Please do not misunderstand me - I am not one of these people that believes atheists cannot be moral - in fact many atheists are more moral than theists in practice, but you can't possibly have *objective* morality without God as an objective reference point. Only ever pros and cons.

In any case - regardless of whether it is objectively moral or immoral - restraint has all kinds of practical benefits, such as giving confidence in your own strength of will, freedom from addiction, more free time, better health (mental and physical), the experience to help others, and a generally cleaner view on life (i.e not seeing people under the veil of some porn-inspired perversion for example, or applying porn star standards to real women). The challenge can be a reward in itself really though.

It's not for everyone, I understand that, and I don't mean to sound rude - but I think you should keep your negativity away from here as it can discourage people from succeeding. Ideally we an encouraging environment where we all help push each other to keep going.

 No.537

This anons story? The celibacy came before the religion. I realized early on - observing others who were less temperate - that whores/whoring are a sure path to destruction. Since then, with the decline in balanced traditional relationships, it's become all the easier to avoid the filthy cup altogether.

I'm not aiming for permanent celibacy but baring an extraordinary - and thus unanticipated - event I am not changing my position until marriage has occurred.

 No.550

I guess I got really indulgent here.

I used to want to be a slut and spread happiness everywhere, but when I was 16, I saw an anime which changed my life, called Revolutionary Girl Utena, where the protagonist faintly remembers a prince giving her a ring and how she wants to marry that prince. I thought it was so cool how she had these principles and I wanted to be like that. The story's aim was probably actually to break that kind of thinking but too bad. From then on, if I were to have a first love, I wanted them to be ideal, so I didn't want to 'officiate' my first relationship unless I could confirm it could be my last. But I'm also gay, and the idea of, for instance, waiting a year before putting out is ridiculous to other gay men.

I met someone I was interested in in college, but he dropped out and moved, so we talked online for about two years (we never officiated a relationship in any sense, though) with the promise that he'd come back some day. As that prospect became more distant, I realized a few things that helped me become celibate:

1) The way I act while I like someone is very unhealthy– worrying about whether they like me, worrying about other people trying to get in their pants, archiving their entire internet footprint…

2) I look down people who base their personality on their sex life, especially other gay people who can't shut up about grindr (the guy I was talking to became this). I want to be unable to relate to these people and stay alienated from them. What can I say? I enjoy looking down on people more than sex. (there's actually a couple more things like drinking that I won't do for the same reasons)

3) Part of my ideal is that my ideal other holds the same ideals. The expectation others to want their 'first love' to be 'their last' developed into a purity complex– If someone failed, they were scarred. He was nothing close to the ideal I was looking for, and as I get older, the pool of gay virgins shrinks a lot. But I love myself and I want to be my ideal, so I want to protect my innocence, even when I'm no longer cute, even if I can find that significant other.

I still jack off though. Would like to downsize on that but I have no big reason. I've only been celibate for close to a year now and I'm confident in doing it for life, as I've done other things like choosing to be straight edge for close to ten years, but I worry about regretting it when I'm too old Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

 No.563

Practical reason. Already I don't want to have a relationship or spend time fapping, and I rather spend my time with hobbies, studying, or projects.

As for any background that led me to think this way, I got niche preferences to an extent there's almost no porn (that is to my standards and that I'm willing to look) for. Whenever an urge comes around, masturbation isn't actually satisfying anymore- another was a concern to actually be satisfied is to be with another person, which is something I don't want at all. So unsatisfied urge just becomes a distraction.

I don't have a religion; however it does annoy me when it obstructs scientific research/understanding, when it's involved in political correctness (i.e parody, drawings, and offended Muslims), or fanatical cases of ignorance, violence, etc.



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 No.561[Reply]

I have never actually won a single one of these threads. Everytime I see that comically anthropomorphized banana holding his peel in a suggestive manner, likening the peel to clothes and his peel-less nature to human nudity, I bust up laughing. This happens every time, no matter where I am, be it the house or the bus or in class. Sometimes I laugh just thinking about it. This is a dark memory but a few months back I had just gotten done with a fit of laughter caused by one of these hilarious threads. Suddenly my mom walks in and she's crying. I attempted to suppress the growing urge to laugh but it was getting more difficult. Face red, tears running down her aging face, mom grabs my shoulders and says "Your father's dead."

It was at that moment that I couldn't hold back anymore. I burst into a banana-induced fit of laughter, but the horrible news drew tears to my eyes. I laughed while I cried, tears streaming down my wide open grin, memories of daddy resurfacing and being melded and combined with the naked banana.

I lost two things that night.

What did YOU lose?


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 No.556[Reply]

What do you guys think of antisexuals?

 No.559

I didn't know that was a thing. I agree with them. I hate sexuality.



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