>>5884
>The thing is, lust is in many contexts an inherently sinful thing.
Debatable. It generally means "to covet" in our translations, and that would be sinful in any context (and that was the meaning of "to lust" in King James'). Mere sexual attraction is never portrayed as sinful in the Bible for all I know; it only is said to be sinful in conjunction with coveting that which is not yours, whether a wife or a camel.
>even thinking about a woman sexually, who isn't your wife, is bad.
If you're a healthy human being, this will happen, provided the lady has any charms relevant to you. You would probably agree that it is better than to feel no sexual attraction to women out of being a homosexual. Sexual attraction is a process in which you have very little control, if any. And I don't mean closing your eyes or looking the other way.
>but its not ideal and a man ought to be locked in a perpetual struggle against those thoughts.
From which you develop mental issues that are potentially threatening to the rest of your psyche. I doubt that any Godly way can lead to such extremities.
>essential to having a good relationship with God.
Certainly, but why this way and not the other? Why can a religious man stare at the beauty of a waterfall and marvel at God's creation, but the same man can't do the same with regards with the beauty of a woman's body? Did He not create both?
>Thus, you have to dominate and maybe even chastise it (depending on the individual, this isn't for everyone) the Natural Man so that the Spiritual Man can flourish.
I've tried this and felt no spiritual growth from it. At best, nothing, at worst, general lack of energy and motivation.
>>Inb4 Gnosticism
>This is different though; like really different.
Yes, but not in the part I meant. Gnostics believe the world to be a trap created by the Demiurge, a false God, and as a result, they hold the world in contempt, and that includes the body.
Christians hold the view that the world is fallen but still God's creation, so their view is mixed but some of the most extreme behaviours concerning the body sound more like hate than respect. Mortification of the flesh and all, which isn't the sole specialty of the Catholics, by the way, plenty of others do it, sometimes in far more extreme measures.
My current opinion on the sex stuff is this: there's precious little of it in Scripture, whenever adultery is mentioned as "lust" it is actually about covetting that which isn't yours, not sex feefees per se; the Bible is far less prudish than commonly believed (Song of Songs, some passages of the OT mentioning donkey dicks and collections of foreskins, etc). Then there is Paul and his warning about "sexual immorality", which I assume to be the same as mentioned in the OT, all of which are acts and not thoughts. It isn't the homosexual who is condemned, it is the man who literally has sex with another man, which is a significant difference.
Man has a natural problem with sex, shown to us from all societies, and it is no surprise that this problem gets tacked on religion; I am just unsure that this is a warranted move. What Christians have done centuries after Christ does not fit anything from Biblical times and most attempts to bend Scripture can be debunked quite simply (Onan, for instance).
I think we tend to project our immaturity onto Scripture and religion to turn it into something to be used for our personal ends, and I don't find that very spiritual or religious. It also tends to take most of a believer's focus and I believe this weakens one's spirituality too.