Dating Girls Outside of One's Faith Part I

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Dating Girls Outside of One's Faith Part I Anonymous 09/30/15 (Wed) 17:57:18 No.6613

/christ/ians, do you think it is appropriate to date or marry girls from outside your own denomination? Does your church have an official position on this?

What are some of the challenges that may be expected, from your won perspective, when dating an outsider to your faith? If you've any experience on the subject, please share.

In a hypothetical scenario in which conversion is an impossibility, would you date? Why or why not? 1. Catholic 2. Orthodox 3. Protestant ( Conservative) 3. Protestant (Liberal) 3. Seventh Day Adventists 4. Mormon 5. Asatru 6. Muslim 7. Buddhist 8. Atheist 9. Agnostic 10. Jehova's Witness 11. Christian Identity 12. Eastern Christian 13. Jewess (of any kind) 14. Scientologist (either mainstream or Free Thetan)

Feel free to add any to the list

/christ/ fun thread

Anonymous 09/30/15 (Wed) 18:15:12 No.6614

I would not marry someone outside of my faith, I think that brings too unnecessary disputes, if she doesn't care about it then she is not serious about the faith and that too is undesirable.

Dang it, I want a qt.pie christian wife

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 05:12:56 No.6620

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I also think it would be too hard for an Atheist to marry a Theist. There would be too many arguments on Sunday, and I couldn't even crack all my anti-religion jokes or share all my research without making an ordinary pious person blow up from hurt feelings. It's just more rewarding to find someone more similar.

Arguing about whether to send the kids to Sunday school would be unnecessary stress, and not even be exotic mental intercourse because I already know how Christians in my family think. At least a Buddhist spouse might allow for more conversations that I haven't heard before.

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 07:16:20 No.6623

>>6613

> do you think it is appropriate to date or marry girls from outside your own denomination?

Yes, if you love them.

>Does your church have an official position on this?

It's dandy as long as you stick to our moral rules yourself and all your children are Catholic baptised and raised. ALL

> If you've any experience on the subject, please share.

I've recently strted to date a non-catholic girl. She is the SJW type on the one hand, on the other hand she's pretty based, she's not brain dead or something, it's not her fault that she grew up in a liberal city after all ;_;

I've never talked with her about religion though. She recently wanted to bring it up, she doesn't even know I'm religious, but I immediately blocked it because I'm a bloody disgrace and a coward ;_;

>In a hypothetical scenario in which conversion is an impossibility

I don't care tbh

1. Catholic

2. Apostolic

3. Everything else

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 07:17:34 No.6624

>>6613

>Part I

Explain

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 14:51:04 No.6627

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>>6614

Pretty much how I feel tbh. That and the church discourages dating gentiles. Ditto for marrying them, because marriage between a Mormon and a gentile is no marriage at all basically.

And yet, Christian qts in my vicinity still tempt me with their golden hair and inviting, colored eyes. Pray for me.

>>6620

Any "religious" person that marries an Atheist in the first place is not really all that devout. Especially from the position of the Woman (I'm assuming you're a man), you want a husband who is going to be an early analogue for God, especially during Childhood. An atheist cannot do that.

>>6623

I think this

>It's dandy as long as you stick to our moral rules yourself and all your children are Catholic baptised and raised. ALL

is incompatible with this

>Yes, if you love them.

Maybe in the olden days when you could treat a woman like property and order her around this would have worked, but a modern woman wants at the very least an equal say in the relationship (in practice, as much as you're willing to relinquish), and would not sit idly by as you assert this religion she doesn't believe in unto *her* children, see?

This would happen regardless of whether she's religious or not, but for a person as devout as yourself, your children choosing anything other than Catholicism would be a big deal.

>That SJW

Its going to come up eventually m8. Its not my place to tell you when or how to address it, but its going to come up and its going to be a fork in the road for you because you've made it abundantly clear here that Catholicism is of the utmost importance to you, an integral part of your life.

>>6624

Hoping that this thread will go one for long enough to warrant a part 2, we'll see ;_;

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 15:12:02 No.6629

>>6623

> brings to shamed of your faith on a not life or death situation

Your ancestors are sth tbh smh

>>6627

I'm hoping this thread become huge enough so that christian qts posts and we can meet and marry ;-;

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 15:53:05 No.6631

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>>6623

Don't do it with SJWS man

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 16:15:19 No.6632

>>6627

>Any "religious" person that marries an Atheist in the first place is not really all that devout. Especially from the position of the Woman (I'm assuming you're a man), you want a husband who is going to be an early analogue for God, especially during Childhood. An atheist cannot do that.

I thought we were speaking about men only tbh. I would never recommend any woman to marry a non-christian ever. But the Church also allows this.

>Maybe in the olden days when you could treat a woman like property and order her around this would have worked, but a modern woman wants at the very least an equal say in the relationship (in practice, as much as you're willing to relinquish), and would not sit idly by as you assert this religion she doesn't believe in unto *her* children, see?

This is an idea that leads to much frustration. No woman in the history of history ever wanted to have "equal say", it is just unnatural.

Every woman, even the most radical feminazi, wants to be lead and guided by a strong man, if she admitts it or not.

This does of course not mean that she is your slave, it is just a natural situation. Of course she wants to be respected by you, taken seriously and comforted. But she does not want to be in the leadership role, in no way. She is just not suited for that and it makes her feel uncomfortable.

I agree that this rule might lead to problems, but it is just the red line that we cannot cross. She has to agree to that before marriage or it is it.

back in the day you literally had to sign a contract in front of the priest before he would grant you the permit to marry a non-catholic

>Its going to come up eventually m8. Its not my place to tell you when or how to address it

I know ;_;

It's just such a serious topic and I really like her I haven't been in love with a woman for several years now At the moment we are just getting to know each other better, we're no official couple. But it will come up when we spend more time, and if I don't bring it up she will know eventually when she wants premarital sex ;_;

Maybe she is fine with it, I have no idea. Maybe she herself is interested in religion?

I said she is like a SJW, but she is no stereotype. I asked her once ie if parents should beat their children, and she said that's ok if they deserve it. So I still have hope

We've never even scratched the topic, so far I only judge by prejudice about city girls.

>>6629

>Your ancestors are sth tbh smh

I did not deny to be a Christian, if she were ever to ask me that I'd be truthful to her of course.

I just avoided the topic when she was about to bring it up.

>>6631

I will not shun people because of their political beliefs, I've never done that. If I did that I'd have to live innawoods because the vast majority of people disagree with me on about everything. Including our clergy.

I just think that this would be superficial and rather judge people according to their character than according to meaningless ideologies.

Which is sounding quite naive now that I read it ;_;

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 16:58:23 No.6635

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>>6631

Saved.

>>6632

Pic related is the ad that 8ch gave me

Anonymous 10/01/15 (Thu) 17:25:48 No.6638

>>6635

The cuteboys are stepping up their game.

Anonymous 10/02/15 (Fri) 17:03:40 No.6653

>>6632

>This is an idea that leads to much frustration. No woman in the history of history ever wanted to have "equal say", it is just unnatural.

I agree, but the feminist ideology is so strong that it takes time and steady, not sudden, but steady doses of reality.

I hope things will turn out well with this girl honestly. Hopefully you can persuade her to at the very least abandon all these poisonous SJW ideologies.

Anonymous 10/06/15 (Tue) 06:37:41 No.6690

>>6613

I don't think that it would matter to me as long as they are a Christian, regardless of the sect. I wouldn't think there would be too much disagreement other than the differences that come with the differing sects.

The wedding might be tricky, depending on the type of church it'd be in, but other than that, as long as they are a Christian, I'd be fine with that.

Anonymous 10/06/15 (Tue) 07:26:15 No.6691

>>6690

And if she's not a Christian?

Anonymous 10/07/15 (Wed) 15:32:57 No.6707

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>>6627

I think this pic represents anons future if he goes down this route.

discipulus !qBzTcerKDk 11/29/15 (Sun) 21:26:32 No.8235

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>>6653

I know you are not here anymore, like all the others from the beginning TOM ;_;

I don't know why I'm writing this, maybe writing itself helps a little bit.

So she has a boyfriend, and she got him while we were dating, she just used me as a filler ;_;

I felt so emotionally attached to her, I've never had so deep conversations with a girl before;

I'm not angry, I'm not even sad, I feel just empty. Worthless. I am … I don't even know, she di I'll just stop.

I think I'll take a break from 8ch, this board, everything. I'm just saying this because I want to thank all of you before I just leave, there've been great folks here, I remember them all, I was sad about everyone that left ;_; It was really an interesting year.

TOM I hope you will find your faith again, you'd really deserve it, I've never seen someone so patient.

Oolf, I really hope you come back once to read this. You are a great dude, I really really always liked you, already in the akita thread on /christian/, I'm just bad at this stuff, sorry. I wish you so much that you'll find whatever it is you are looking for, and I feel so guilty because it is not only that I couldn't help you at all, I even made it worse, I was thinking often about that,, good luck.

There were so many lads that just stayed for two or three weeks, I can't mention them all, but I was happy about every new user, all were interesting.

Also those with that I used to "fight", I never took it that seriously, negative affection is affection too after all.

The atheists that came, namely shinigami, were so helpful and interested and polite, I was really delighted by that, it gave me some hope.

Cathmod, I'm the only one here that doesn't thik you are the antichrist most likely, so it will get lonely here. I know you have the best of intentions, but you really need to learn some Bescheidenheit ;^)

Then the most recent ones, adventist and lutheran dude, that was maybe just a few weeks by now, but both of you have always been helpful and dedicated, this really has broadened my mind a bit, even if you maybe don't believe me ;^)

Lastly desubong, I'm not even sure if we interacted that much here, but you did some good moderation, it's almost a year by now. So this is more an old /int/ thing, I'm just happy that you exist pal :^) Hopefully this crisis will break Germany apart finally ;^)

I hope I missed no one important, but I have to take a long walk now, best regards folks!

Anonymous 11/29/15 (Sun) 22:14:45 No.8237

>>8235

man, this was a sad reading.

too bad for your gf m8, she got the shorter straw.

man, tom really left didnt he? he kinda had a breakdown a few weeks ago, but i thought it was momentary.

since this is probably the last time you come here, you need to know that im venezuelan anon , thanks for the support you gave since the beginning. what a blast

see you at the day of the rope :^)

we are all waiting for it

God bless you man

Anonymous 11/29/15 (Sun) 22:20:35 No.8239

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>>8237

wanted to add pray for me and venezuela, this country is going tru hard stuff, theres a major election next sunday, at most likely will be like the protest we had last year -awful- , im probably gonna take some time off too for a while.

lets go full circle and finish this post with /christ/chan

Anonymous 11/29/15 (Sun) 23:59:33 No.8240

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>>8235

Goodbye desu~

t. Desubong

Anonymous 11/30/15 (Mon) 23:32:52 No.8248

>>6620

>sending kids to sunday school

>not just teaching them yourself

I think it is much much better for a father to teach their children about the good news rather then some essentially faceless teacher at some church school. My friend who went to Sunday school didn't like it but I never went to Sunday school and I loved and still do love learning about the one true living god and his son, Jesus Christ. I think that close personal connection is vital to the teaching and bringing up children to fear the lord.

Anonymous 12/01/15 (Tue) 03:43:30 No.8249

>>6623

Stand up for your faith, get it off your chest. I recently converted and I did not tell any of my friends for a while for fear that they would dislike it.

Show pride of your relationship with God.

Anonymous 12/04/15 (Fri) 08:33:31 No.8307

>>6613

Why is your list so weird?

Get it right, then we'll talk.

Anonymous 12/04/15 (Fri) 10:34:36 No.8311

Marry any Christian that is not a follower of the ways of the world, but the Bible.

Everyone else that doesn't have Christ in their heart is a huge liability to you. They are essentially a tool of Satan. Being a strong Christian, he will use them against you. They can totally ruin your life, achievements, and the lives of your children.

Be very very wise in who you choose to marry.

Anonymous 12/05/15 (Sat) 05:10:45 No.8318

Asatru is a meme religon

Anonymous 12/05/15 (Sat) 05:11:01 No.8319

Asatru is a meme religon

Anonymous 12/05/15 (Sat) 13:20:26 No.8320

>>8307

whats so weird about that list?

Anonymous 12/21/15 (Mon) 09:00:04 No.8591

>>6690

Same, as long as she is a devout Christian (ideally not charismatic). Crushing on an evangelical whose parents used to be Catholic (father) and Lutheran (mother). She's precious.

t. Catholic

Anonymous 12/22/15 (Tue) 04:44:16 No.8607

>>8320

It's full of neologisms.

Anonymous 12/22/15 (Tue) 05:01:00 No.8608

>>8607

>Feel free to add any to the list

This apparently solved your problem before the complaint was made.

Anonymous 12/22/15 (Tue) 16:38:04 No.8638

>>8608

Not really because the starting list indicates the qualitiy of the company of the other individuals who are participating in this discussion of a rather personal topic.

Anonymous 12/22/15 (Tue) 17:14:26 No.8640

>>8638

Ah, OK. Let's not, then.

Captcha: bskkkx

Anonymous 12/23/15 (Wed) 09:41:13 No.8679

>>8640

>bskkkx

You sound upset.

Anonymous 12/23/15 (Wed) 16:20:36 No.8686

>>8679

No, that's just the captcha that I got and I thought it was a weird one so I shared it.

Should have taken a picture actually.