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>22

>muh loneliness

You're not even a wizard yet you faggot

Wait for the right person

>>258329

you only need one of the 3.5bn women in the world

the right one will come. be patient

god does not work on your schedule

we exist to give and receive love. be good and good will come

be patient, dont try to fuck everything that moves, and when you meet the right girl, treat her well. you determine your future, don't blame god for your shortcomings

>>258334

>god does not work on your schedule

Never heard of that one before

Let me get this right …

You're angry with God … because you're not gettin' laid.

You are angry with the Creator of the Universe, who breathed life into you; who gave you an entire planet upon which to hold dominion; who gave you an entire universe to study and learn from; who gave you His only begotten son as a sacrifice for your sins; who loved you so much that He forgave everything you have ever and will ever do for only the asking; and who will give you everlasting life …

because you don't have a girlfriend.

I'm just going to shake my head and walk away.

>>258335

Then maybe you should spend a little more time thinking about the Bible and a little less time thinking about getting your dick wet.

Isaiah 55:8

For my thoughts are not your thoughts: nor your ways my ways, saith the Lord.

>>258347

;_; well when you word it that way….

>>258356

Had you not considered this already?

Ask yourself this: Would you be able to endure the temptations that arise from being with someone? You won't be able to escape the sexual cravings and surrendering to them, giving in to lust, is sinful. You should be praising God and thanking Him for maintaining your single status. Fight for control of your body. For control over the desires of the flesh. I know it's easier said than done but struggling with lust suggests you might not be as ideal a partner you believe yourself to be.

>So many girls say I'm "good", "pure", "have a great heart" and yet I've never been given a chance.

'Nice guy' = womb trying to keep it PG-13 here kryptonite. Don't be too eager to please.

>I've grown cold to the world, and I even have become somewhat of an asshole.

That's a great first step! Kidding, sort of. Don't act bitter towards women, just act indifferent, talk to them and be friendly but don't care too much how they react to what you say. They can smell desperation.

>>258370

Basically what I mean by 'don't care' is give your honest opinions about things and don't try to mold your responses to please them or fit what you think they want to hear.

>>258329

>Between 15-25 years of age

>Angry of God because tfwnogf

Get in the line.

>>258356

I'd say the vast majority of individual people find it tremendously difficult to just be themselves.

>>258373

Is the line for the pity-party long?

Out of curiosity, do you ever watch porn?

>have become somewhat of an asshole.

embrace it girls like the bad guy

>anger and disagreement towards God

>anger and disagreement with the entity that created all entities

>anger and disagreement with the entity that is righteousness and justice

>anger and disagreement with the entity that died on a cross for mankind

Check your pride, OP

>>258451

Truth, Remember in the end what God accused Job of, was arrogance.

Let us look at the root though. What have you done to try to meet Christian girls? Do you look for some on the internet? Do you improve your education, career, and appearance to attract better ones?

You are making it about you. How can YOU be the guy who is the answer to some girl's prayers?

First tell me the type of girl you want and we can start. Don't spare details. I want denomination, looks, interests, culture. What is your wishlist? From there we work backwards to figure out what that kind of girl would like.

Maybe you are bad at flirting and dating. If you are doing it on the internet ask questions and take notes about the stuff she won't shut up about. You can study them later. If she feels you really know her she may fall harder.

Where are you looking anyway?

>>258462

^I just wrote this.

Forgot to mention I had my first kiss at age 23. I met her on what was going to be a mission trip. Yes, I married her. (Got a virgin for the win btw)

>>258329

>So many girls say I'm "good", "pure", "have a great heart" and yet I've never been given a chance.

And here is your problem. Were you a part of a church for a long time - since your teens or so?

Have you have a bunch of people in your church tell you to "just be nice" or some other stuff like that?

You sound much like a typical example of churchian rubbish. It's a well known thing that most guys who go to church as teens or kids, end up desperately lonely and have no idea why - after all, they did what they were meant to, no?

This guy runs a very intelligent blog, and he has a series on *exactly* what you are going through. He also outlines ways that the bible can bring you to being a better man:

http://freenortherner.com/omegas-guide/

http://freenortherner.com/biblical-alpha/

Have a read through, see if any of it applies to you and relax a bit. You'll do a lot better with women (and with yourself) if you take to heart what the bible can teach you about being a man.

>>258329

I'm only 21 and recently I've literally got cucked.

I ain't even mad fam. Better be a kissless virgin than cuck. White bois really can't compete.

>>258329

Why do you think it is God's fault that women act so degenerate?

If you don't think you can handle it, then clearly you aren't giving yourself enough credit. When it comes around, it will be like your whole world changed over night and you won't believe how easy it was. You will feel foolish for being so angry and frustrated about things that will just fall into place. You might also then realize that having a girlfriend/wife does not change the way you feel. You long for peace and love. Do not seek God's promise of paradise in things other than God. Be not anxious, do not despair. Do not be led on by the instincts clamoring within your reptilian brain; they are merely material. They shall not last.