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>>259449

I just think you might be limiting your options a little if you really limit yourself to virgin wife without exception. But i think i can speak for most virgin men here, in that we want a virgin wife. Most non virgin christian girls under like 25 are probably not very devout, but its not impossible to find one.

I guess what im saying is that i care a lot about current devoutness more than if she is a virgin, but the two have a strong correlation so by looking for a devout girl ill probably end up with a virgin. If you asked whether I favor them or not, id probably answer that im looking for devoutness and that devoutness is more concentrated in the virgin crowd, so yeah. Dont know if i made myself clear. I guess i just sympathize with non virgins. Honestly, im a virgin, but i wouldve forsaken that easily back in HS when i wasnt religious if i had the chance. Yet i changed. So if a girl happened to have a dude she liked in HS and she dated and bed him, i cant really blame her.

To be honest, you will have to get an extremely ugly woman thay may look 50 years old despite being 25 that not even niggers want.

Just like a manlet would have.

It's certainly preferable. On the other side, women should demand men who don't watch porn or lust after other women.

>>259458

Actually I want to expand on this.

There is seriously a sex crisis right now. Our culture's perversion of sexuality is abominable, and the lack of single virgin women (and men, for that matter) is one of the more dire symptoms of that, along with rampant porn addiction.

We're in a bit of a bind here. In most cases, the deed is already done. It can be forgiven through repentance, but it has already left its mark on our mortal side. The battle for virginity is already lost for most of our relationships. It doesn't have to be this way in the future though, and our generations can be the turning point if they so choose.

As men, we have to lead the way out of this. We can't wait around for women to start being pure too. Male leadership is not a privilege, it is a responsibility. We must start living in purity, regardless of whether we see any payoff in our own lifetime. We are not called to seek the best for ourselves, but to obey God unconditionally. We have to forsake porn, lust, promiscuity, and even fantasy. We have to take full responsibility for our own thoughts and actions, instead of blaming media, modern immodesty, and hormones. When men begin living uprightly and become true men of God, and begin to set higher standards, women in the church will begin to take notice and follow. And even if they don't, it's still our duty. We have to submit to God's will at the expense of self, regardless of whether there is any reward in this life. We are commanded to lead in righteousness even when no one follows.

How old are you? If you are young, I'm sure you can find good young Christian women who are still virgin.

I have had sex before, fool that I am I believed my ex when she told me it was okay because we would get married one day. After we broke up I went rogue and shagged around like a fucking idiot.

Because of this I would feel uncomfortable taking on a pure virginal woman. I really just want a girl who went through something similar to me, and came back to the light, that we may strengthen and rebuild our lives together.

If I was a virgin I think I would prefer a virginal woman, but it all depends on how she lost it. If she was getting fingered behind the bike shed by jamal at 13, it's a no from me. If she had a relationship and had sex with her boyfriend, I think I can get over it.

I've got a virgin waifu I plan on marrying. It's still possible.

Get a bf instead. Women are disgusting and aesthetically unappealing.

>>259602

25.

>>259610

I also would consider a girl who has been raped as pure as it was not her intent.

>>259610

>fingered by jamal

I still find this funny, i have to admit, but at the same time Im going to have to say something. I know this board is overflowing with pol retards who become sedevacants everytime the pope says something, but i just warn you guys to be carefuly with playing around with racism. Other day I was watching a movie, and a woman in it was with a child who was mixed, and i basically reacted with disgust and "whore" came to mind. I then brushed off the thoughts and kept going. My conscience was racked again when in the movie you learn thats not even her child, its her sisters, and the father is just some decent character blah blah blah. I honestly hold that the amount of remorse and disgust i felt towards myself for being so blindingly driven by hate in a mere moment of reaction from some strange psychological conditioning must of had came from the divine. Later i watched some stuff about the catholic churches in Uganda and again was moved to regret by the memory of those thoughts. Do not forsake our African brothers, and be wary.

Oh yeah and an honest "Lord help you" to any kids posting about "race mixing" or some crap in response to my post.

>>259677

it was righteous anger, stop cucking yourself. what christian wouldn't be rightfully angry getting attacked with satanic imagery.

>>259677

It gets on my nerves because shit like this starts leading people away from their christian brothers and sisters, and instead leads them to disregard them because they are foreigners or another colour. When I used to have a Facebook some time ago I ended up following some popular traditional pages, and some popular alt-right christian ones, but what was interesting was that these "christian" pages were nothing more than sellouts. A lot of them ended up posting subtly racist things (saying out of nowhere racemixing is wrong, conveniently forgetting moses married an Ethiopian), and posting more implied white European ethnocentrism. One christian page went as far as posting that it would be better living with pagans than another race. And these were popular pages. As great as it is that the alt-right gives exposure to traditional ways of life, the problem is that the focus is on nationalism and racialism even among those with faith, and they rather choose to see racialism and nationalism as above having fellowship with all your christian brothers and sisters. This is also why I am scared to join the Russian Orthodox church- I keep hearing the term "ethnic club" being thrown around.

Full disclosure: I'm mixed and like white women. It's not the mean comments and racism I have an issue with, its the fact that /pol/ beliefs are bleeding into some people here and that will lead them astray and fracture bonds within the church far worse than denominational shitposting.

The solution is simple: get bf

>Tfw no burly bara bf

;__;

>>259684

I have no problem if you are mixed. I believe it is possible that you could indeed marry outside your race, but it takes a lot of effort on both parties, and one party will have to change their ways.

It's not for everyone. For most people, it probably actually is better to stay married within ones race. Conflict can arise, and I'm not talking White and Black, this happens with White and Asian combos too.

Would I date outside my race? Probably not. Most of the non white people I know are very stereotypical of their race. It would simply lead to excessive strife that wouldn't be worth it. I would, if the right person came around, but with the traits I'm looking for in a Woman, that's probably not going to happen as White women tend to be the only group of women that have them.

By the way, the reason why the Russian Orthodox are like that is because they've seen what letting in certain things can do to a group. They see the things happening in the Western World and it terrifies them. I'm not Russian Orthodox, and I don't blame them, I would probably do the same in their shoes too.

For race dating, I think most of the rage though comes from White women who will ignore a White man who may not have alot going on for him, for a man of another race who is in the exact same position. A double standard if you will.

Not going to find one in america or western europe. American and european women are Feminist Whores.

>>259684

Dont worry, this board makes up a very marginal amount of actual believers. I say this because im pretty pessimistic about the possibility of pol being driven out. Of course, plenty of non-8chan browsing believers are "i wont wait till marriage/damn jerry that guitar solo at mass was dope af bruh" cultural catholics, but God made a promise to restore us in His Church, i take his word for it. Also, im a catholic but the whole thing that the orthodox church is an "ethnic club" is bs spilled by the same idiots who freak out and threaten to leave the church because of Francis. I will say this, though, that even though the orthodox's traditionalism is cool, the church of Rome contains the seat of Peter, and is unified af in comparison to decentralized (imo) eastern orthodox (I blame it on lack of seat of peter) . Also their tradition is much richer and the intellectualism is dope (again, its my humble opinion).

https://youtu.be/4MYMMcSI4MY

Thats my honest effort as a loyal catholic, brother. God be with you.

>>259451

>So if a girl happened to have a dude she liked in HS and she dated and bed him, i cant really blame her.

But doesn't that eat you up inside?

>>259735

That's a big eye opener. I had no clue it went this far! Saved for future reference.

>>259735

It's actually the residual DNA of the baby:

http://blogs.plos.org/dnascience/2012/10/25/male-dna-in-female-brains-revisited/

>>259736

No, or else i wouldnt be ok with it. Are you dense?

>>259735

Yeah, my cousin got a girl pregnant that was with a mexican, a russian, and a black guy before him.

Kid came out 5' 3, kinky haired, and with genetic alcoholism.

dont believe me i got links

www.ur.com

www.dum.com

www.ok.com

>>259449

You backed up your position with facts, data and studies.

They backed up their position by… prejudice, projecting, and name calling.

I don't think is it a mystery who is on the right side. There is a reason the bible tells people to save themselves for marriage, after all.

>>259824

Well, I guess that does make me feel better on the topic. Thanks brother!

I mainly posted this because I feel like I'm going insane when the topic comes up and I'm derided for wanted a virgin (I too, am also a virgin).

>>259857

*wanting a virgin

I can't write to save my life right now because I'm very exhausted from my trip to the gym.

>>259858

>>259857

There's nothing wrong with desiring a virgin wife as long as you don't denigrate people who've repented after breaking their chastity (which I don't think you do/did).

>>259859

I don't. Unless you count not dating women who have.

>>259917

That's not denigrating someone no