>>260087
Yeah, I think that often when someone is raped or molested they involuntarily get aroused by it. There are a lot of women who have orgasms against their will when they are raped for example.
https://www.reddit.com/comments/193e3x
https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/1t8c16/i_was_rapedand_i_liked_it/
Some of them end up fixating on what happened to them and can't have sex with men without thinking of it. They feel guilty and ashamed. For some it's too traumatic to even be with men any more; some 'turn lesbian'.
Others try to have 'rough sex' with their boyfriends to try to re-experience the arousal they felt. So for example if you look at the porn industry, it's a cliche, but often an accurate one, that many porn stars were raped or molested. This flipped some switch in them at a young age.
So rape/molestation victims often either turn away from sex because of shame (especially that reminds them of their rape, i.e. the same gender), or turn towards sex by becoming a 'slut' or in the case of guys who were molested by guys a 'fag'.
Gay guys were often molested by guys. There are also cases of lesbians molesting girls and that event triggers something in the girl and the girl goes on to become a lesbian. In 'The Vagina Monologues' there was a monologue called "The Little Coochi Snorcher That Could". It was a woman telling about how she was molested at age 13 by a lesbian who got her drunk, and it glamorizes the whole thing. There's actually a line in it that says "If it was rape, it was a good rape".
Also, Oprah Winfrey was molested by a cousin, an uncle, and a family friend when she was 9. She has never had children or gotten married and there's been a lot of speculation that she's in a lesbian relationship with her friend Gayle King. She's also made the point that abusers try to give pleasure to their victims, here's a quote from her:
"When you are groomed and seduced by somebody who's really good at it, that the aim and intention of that person is to make it pleasurable so that you will be confused. So it's OK to say that it was pleasurable. And that's part of the shame that you as a little boy develop and carry as an adult because your body betrays you. Because it is pleasurable."
This undercover video by Ryan Sorba shows many gay guys admitting that their first sexual experience was being molested.