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>>262061

>>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

Neither. If someone asks I'll tell them and I'm hardly ashamed of it, but I don't go out of my way to let everyone know because I'm not an autist.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant

Yes

>or one of those "born-again virgins"?

No

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

I'd say from the beginning that I'm waiting until marriage.

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

I'm proud to remain celibate until marriage.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

Maybe, depends on how bad her past was, and whether or not she was a complete degenerate

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

Not sure, haven't tried yet

>>262061

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

I don't say it to everybody, not much of a friendly guy tbh. But I'm proud tho.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

Honestly, no, I don't like the idea.

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

Depends, even the subject pops up I will tell her.

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

Nothing to boast about but I'm proud I haven't fallen to temptation. At the same time I'm worried I will fall for temptation.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

As long as she wasn't a whore, depends on her past and how she felt about it and her background. I actually dislike the thought but you never know, God will show me the way.

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this

Beginning. Lay it out so no problems occur later on. Never had a "proper" gf or anything I but it's important to state it in the beginning. Once youre in that stage of talking ofc

>>262061

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

I don't mind telling anyone who asks about it.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

Yes, but she needs to own up to her mistake.

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

The only "girl friend" I've ever had was when I was 14, and she was shoved on to me by a mutual female friend. I'm 22 now, and just might be a natural born celibate.

>Stories

About a year ago at work I was working with this black guy when he asked me if I was a virgin in jest. I told him I was, and he proceeded to mock me. The rest of the week I had to hear all about his promiscuous lifestyle. How he had received a blowjob from his girlfriend's mother. One month latter he was earestly asking me for counsel on how to fix his relationship.

>>262061

1. Not a virgin anymore. Former "as lonv as she's my gf" lukewarm here.

2. Repentant absolutely. Born-again absolutely no (this shows her lack of penance, and it's bullshit anyway).

3. Good question, pretyy early on I guess, but not in the first few minutes obviously.

On the subject of marriage and engagement: From a theological standpoint at least, wouldn't a couple technically be considered married the moment they declare so, right? In that case, could it not be said that the initial proposal would be the "true" declaration of marriage, and that weddings are mainly just for show?

>>262139

>From a theological standpoint at least, wouldn't a couple technically be considered married the moment they declare so, right?

No

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

WUT???

Nothing to be proud of, you're born that way. It's like being proud of having two arms. No adult man should be proud of virginity. It's a sign of developmental problems and being socially retarded.

If you are a religious christian man, over 21, you should already be married and have kids. If you are an atheist you should have lost your virginity to a girlfriend…There's really no excuse to be an adult virgin male, whether you are religious or non-religious. You are doing something terribly wrong if you are a virgin.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

pointless question.

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

depends on the girl and the relationship.

>>262061

>1. Are you an out and proud virgin or do you hide it to fit in?

Not virgin, and used to carry a heavy burden when I was a virgin. What is done is done, though, I have repented and intend to not do it until marriage.

>2. Would you settle for an unvirgin girl if she was a repentant or one of those "born-again virgins"?

My girlfriend is also not virgin. I had 2 partners, she had 4 (including each other).

At the start of the relationship we ended up doing it, but we are both Catholics and at some point felt that that was consuming the relationship and what it was supposed to be (that is, preparation for marriage). Then we decided to not do it anymore.

So, I'm ok with settling for a non-virgin, but knowing what they think of sex and what its purpose is.

>3. At what point do you TELL a girl you are asking out or dating about this?

After my previous mistakes now I think you bring up the topic as soon as possible. No one is leaded to something they aren't looking for, and if the girl is not OK with it, less time you lose with her. I would start by talking about faith in the sacrament of marriage and what it means, then go from there.

>>262144

So if two people in the arctic, how would they get married?

>>262151

talk to God, express their vows to each other.

marriage is between a man and a woman, so it's really up to them and no one else. no third party, the only third party is God himself.

People in funny hats and dresses need not mediate a marriage, that's just a human contrivance for show,.

>>262153

Which is exactly what i said in >>262139