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c038c2 No.405648

27 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:27-28

19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 1 Corinthians 6:19

8 Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8

Post your NoFap successes/woes/prayer requests/ etc.

b37821 No.475989


I know St. Jude is the saint of healing.

299ec6 No.476067

253 days TBQH, desu

1173ef No.477028


Day 82. The date went great. Next one this saturday. Not quite girlfriend/boyfriend yet, but we'll get there i'm sure. I'll be back when were married (just kidding! sort of...)

Never give up brahs, if i can leave the FA chronic fapping/porn addict zone, anybody can.

5ed007 No.477049

File: f5048c9c09e1faf⋯.jpg (123.37 KB, 1024x712, 128:89, 1421639714145.jpg)

>Fap regularly because feels nice

>Stop fapping for a month or so

>Get annoyed at not having some alternative that is as or more pleasurable as the activity i gave up

>Eventually go back to fapping because of boredom

3d1178 No.477070


I did exactly the same until yesterday. May God forgive us.

299ec6 No.477858


who is mr rogers?

93162c No.477982

I am one dick already in Hell.

86c7c7 No.478124

File: d71ad0017423634⋯.jpeg (10.24 KB, 255x195, 17:13, image.jpeg)

Fucked up.

Lasted a whole month that time.

Anyone got some anti-porn material? It's what's mainly dragging me down.

b8501b No.478129

File: cf81c2baa4d208b⋯.png (59.11 KB, 300x284, 75:71, success.png)


Did you know that just after 4-weeks, your dopamine receptors start to grow back in your brain. A reboot lasts at least 90-days, usually much longer. I had a relapse just like you, so don't give up. The road to success is filled with many failures.


7f1574 No.478163

Made it three weeks. This week has been easier for me. In the second week, I was was so horribly tempted to just give up and was heavily mourning the loss of masturbation.

7f1574 No.478170

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.


A WWII marine veteran who created a wholesome children's television show some time after the war.

Vid related.

7f1574 No.478172


Having looked it up, it seems him being a war veteran was nothing more than a rumor. He was a Presbyterian minister though.

d17639 No.478183

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d17639 No.478200

Something I think helps: set an amount of time to reboot and stick to it. You will maybe feel depressed, anxious, annoyed, frustrated, start doubting if it "works", etc. It's normal. It's your brain wanting its feeding. Accept you will feel bad and keep going. Just keep saying to yourself: "I will do this for this amount of time and in the end I will see, at least I will be sure if this works or not. If I wanna screw up again after that, 3 months of my life won't kill me". Take one day at a time and do other stuff. See what are the worst periods when it is harder to resist and do something about it right now, plan ahead. You are an addict so it's not JUST about will power, you have to make sure you have the right environment to do this. And you have the power to do this if you really want it. After about 2 months it gets really easier, and after 3, the urges are nothing but thoughts that pop up now and then, which you can easily block. More like habits you broke and which will take longer to forget, but no longer urges per se. No more need, craving, no more HAVE TO DO THIS. For me it was so. You may feel huge changes even after just a couple of weeks, but don't let them fool you. You are addicted. You can't take one more drink, you will want to binge. You know this is true as you lived it yourself. Trust the process for an amount of time and you will be very very happy for it.

83e213 No.478395

Despite my many failures, I'm starting to finally grow tired of porn. Every time I indulge lately I just feel tired and defeated. If I waste hours I feel unfulfilled and even hurt a little, if I do a usual session of about half an hour to an hour, I feel empty and tired. I don't enjoy it anymore, but the addiction makes me keep doing it. I've even fallen into more extreme genres and fetishes, but still the usual emptiness is there.

So in some small way, that helps. I'll try to go full no PMO but maybe I should focus more on eliminating porn first.

100fb4 No.478422

File: 71fde79d9869a34⋯.png (66.66 KB, 616x525, 88:75, 71fde79d9869a340dfbd48b4db….png)

I've been trying to limit the amount I fap weekly, so I would fap only every second, every third and then every fourth day.

I have finally broken the "every third" barrier it seems and am now on the fourth day. I don't really feel like doing it that much anymore and I hope it will stay that way for the rest of the day.

299ec6 No.478434


thats a lie.

I did like 8 months of nofap and I have not acquired magical magnetism as everyone says I would have acquired.

fapping is merely sinful;not fapping is merely moral.

life is cruel, if you be born with bad genetics you are prone to suffer.

82242d No.478460


wasn't long enough tbh, everyone has different brain damage and recovery periods

299ec6 No.478562



hmm, Ill do 10 more months and see what happens

299ec6 No.478584

File: c8e496cc3b8e8cf⋯.jpg (8.31 KB, 225x225, 1:1, sadfeel.jpg)

How do I stop considering girls attractive?

I have dignity!im a human male, im a good person.

How can a Mere,Meager mammals threaten my peace of mind just by revealing a piece of her skin?

I am deeply disgusted with my own attitudes.

24c9aa No.478645

>day zero

>to fucking boku no pico not even kidding

I hate emotions tbh. The worst part is that I knew I shouldn't have, yet I did. Why am I not crying?? Why am I not angry?? I should at least feel something, yet there's nothing.

73b0b8 No.478706

File: f831e7a07c5474b⋯.jpg (73.35 KB, 457x500, 457:500, wagesofsin.jpg)


ad9d91 No.478717


You are supposed to never fap, not just rarely. Each time you do it, you are gravely sinning, even if with good intention.

b8501b No.478739


>I've been trying to limit the amount I fap weekly, so I would fap only every second, every third and then every fourth day.

Here's what you do.

You need to abstain from masturbation for 3 weeks, then do a controlled release. You do a controlled release because you 'promise' yourself you will release yourself, so there's a realistic goal to reach. It's both realistic, and helps prepare you for the real reboot.

After that, you go through the 90-day reboot process. You eliminate all triggers, etc. Usually reboot will last longer.

Your method will fail in the long run because it's easy to fall back down into relapse very quickly and justify among many other things.


299ec6 No.478759

File: e08dd7347d331be⋯.jpg (89.25 KB, 610x417, 610:417, toro_charolais.jpg)

well fuck I just had to burn my finger again with a hot plastic surface.

Will swear off internet for a few momths I reckon.

WISH ME LUCK!on my retention journey.

587d98 No.478828

Just got caught (via sound not sight) doing it in a friend's bathroom. I could tell she knew what I was doing when I came out. Kys me irl real life fam. Really ashamed.

299ec6 No.478852


>a friend

Its ok,a pal will keep a secret


Man youre under the.bridge junkie-tier addicted

.contact a 12 steps of coursge group ASAP

d17639 No.478861


how good of friends are you?

06bfaf No.479231

File: 5492e8650ecba81⋯.webm (3.06 MB, 640x360, 16:9, WAKING UP.webm)

I failed tonight. I fapped, amongst other sinful acts of lust. I feel nothing but shame for what I've done, and immediately after I prayed to God for guidance, help, and support, and I swore to Him that tonight was the night I get rid of my pornography and other objects of lust, once and for all.

And I have done it. After months of resistance, of clinging onto my 100s of gigs strong porn collection that I had amassed over the years before I came to Christ, I finally brought myself to delete it all. Every piece of pornography has been deleted from my computers.

I feel like I can actually start pushing myself forward, now, and finally purge myself of the sins of the flesh.

73b0b8 No.479316

It's upsetting to see what's going on here. This thread is a really good example of how religion is harmful.

Sexual desire and fapping are natural, you're biologically programmed for it. The teachings of your religion are unreasonable and unrealistic, and also very unhealthy.

Imagine playing a game that's completely rigged. Like dodgeball, but with your arms and legs tied up, and then a truck comes and empties a shipping container of balls directly above you. Then when you inevitably get hit by balls, it's treated as if it's a grievous moral failing. This is basically the position you've been put in by your religion.

It's pretty much impossible for you to live by this rule. So what happens is, you try your best not to commit these 'sins', and your urges build up, and eventually you cave in, and then you feel guilty and beat yourself up. And so this cycle abstaining and then binging, and the spiral of guilt and self hatred, continues as long as you try to live up to the unreasonable standard.

And also, as a consequence of having built up urges all the time, you're more likely to do something rash or stupid or inappropriate that you wouldn't otherwise have done. For example this post:


I doubt this person would have been masturbating in his friend's bathroom if he didn't already have massively built up urges from not fapping at home.

Don't worry about nofap or noporn. Just avoid extreme hardcore porn and maybe just fap every other day, and you'll do well.


82242d No.479322



addec2 No.479323

not even gonna reply. bad troll 2/10

90ff23 No.479333


> It's pretty much impossible for you to live by this rule

Don't spread lies anon. I know you don't believe in sin, but that's no excuse. It's entirely possible to give up porn and masturbation if you really have the will to do so. It's possible even to be completely celibate, though most people are better off getting married and starting a family. The problem for most anons here is that they are far more porn addicted than the average person, more likely to have developed extreme fetishes, all due to exposure to chan culture. These anons face a much bigger battle than the average person. I don't agree with this idea that abstaining turns you into some sort of depraved sex fiend. Long before I became a Christian, I was fapping to weird depressing fetishes, going to brothels, obsessively collecting porn and wasting money on it. Yes, even masturbating in a public bathroom and a friend's house. I didn't need to be repressed to be a pervert.

521103 No.479580


> It's entirely possible to give up porn and masturbation

I used exaggerated language. I'm sure it's possible, but the majority of people won't have that willpower. Note that a significant portion of this thread is people beating themselves up for 'failing'.

I didn't say that abstaining would turn you into a depraved sex fiend, but that it could potentially result in inappropriate behaviors due to built up urges.

People undoubtedly get into bad or unhealthy states without repression being a cause. That doesn't change the fact that repression is unhealthy and can lead to abnormal behaviors or other problems.

>Don't spread lies


eb7c81 No.479611


>That doesn't change the fact that repression is unhealthy and can lead to abnormal behaviors or other problems.


>Note that a significant portion of this thread is people beating themselves up for 'failing'.

That's because a significant portion of this thread has had their brains warped by chan culture, like >>479333 said. (checked)

ad9d91 No.479684


St. Mary of Egypt, Blessed Virgin, St. Michael could be good patrons

15af8c No.479711


>keep jerking off goy

54e6a4 No.479937

I was doing alot better and then this past week I've been consumed with lust. I think Im under some sort of spiritual attack. Bugs follow me where ever I go (yes i keep clean) ive been extremely anxious. Insomnia has suddenly plauged me and everyone else in my household. Please pray for me and my family.

22a0f5 No.479966

i'd like to find a wife soon so i can end this nofap nightmare

0ec17b No.479968

File: 0ed1d3304b82742⋯.webm (1.57 MB, 1920x1080, 16:9, number one.webm)

bd6bbb No.479971


It's not my own downloads.


This is about self-control. Porn is wrong, fornication is wrong and simulating fornication is also wrong. You don't need to touch yourself to survive.

07c54a No.480005


who this?

Started tommorrow, let's see how far I can go. For all anons out there, try to be occupied. If you are, you won't feel the need to fap.

07c54a No.480006



4e099e No.480017

File: 7700b66ba4910ef⋯.jpeg (4 KB, 276x183, 92:61, 2017-07-16-07-00-18--6213….jpeg)


>that dodge ball analogy

Hmm it's almost as if we're nailing ourselves to an ancient torture device on a daily basis…hmmm

For what sake, heathen?

Following who?

90ff23 No.480020


200 AD: Getting martyred and refusing to apostatize is impossible, better just pretend to be pagan.

2017 AD: Not jerking it to porn is impossible, better just keep being a degenerate.

e414b7 No.480043


Two months in, disagree.

0ec17b No.480098

File: 18d278d1dc5981e⋯.webm (2.61 MB, 1920x1056, 20:11, say no to hugs.webm)

b8501b No.480105

File: 611cbb99719cc4f⋯.png (740.26 KB, 1024x512, 2:1, left.png)


I knew of a Muslim girl and she refused to shake my hand. Later I learned in their culture girls never have physical contact with the opposite gender.

That said, I wonder how these Muslims who love to team with the Left handle transgenders and gays.

327001 No.480157


Why did she have to say "gender"?

521103 No.480754


Why are you objecting to the word 'gender'?

2090c5 No.480793

Done it twice today after a three day streak , on the plus side I haven't gone on any porn for a month, should I focus on finally killing porn for good or should I try to stop masturbating entirely right now?

d04d37 No.480814


>he thinks the sin is looking at porn ……

f20499 No.480821

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299ec6 No.480828

File: 65c7fdc592932f0⋯.jpg (13.72 KB, 258x400, 129:200, Homunculus-Donum-Dei.jpg)

>the Seed is the soul

>masturbators already threw all their souls on the ground, they already died

>Now the "human" is just A.I., no one knows but it doesn't know either, it's an empty shell which acts exactly as a human but is just a robot automaton with a lack of soul

I honestly think this. I have a soul becuase I am self-aware, but i cant know if others are self-aware. Masturbation throws out your soul(yourself)and lets the body on as a robot.

299ec6 No.480829


>reviewing a fleshlight

86c7c7 No.480880

File: 2357baff1be0827⋯.png (189.68 KB, 816x867, 16:17, Here we go.png)


>Only talk to girls every so often

>nofap becomes significantly harder when I go without talking to one for a long period of time

54e6a4 No.481508

Day 2. Currently being tempted in a strange way to me, as I've never used this rationalization before. The thought is "why should I even attempt nofap when you're just going to have to battle the urge everyday anyway for the rest of your life"

7c5f8b No.481591

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

I listen to Fascist military songs and it really helps my urges for some reason

ea157d No.481602

5c127b No.481606


>abstain from masturbation for 3 weeks

Not the guy you are replying to, but ive never been able to make it that long, so I don't know how I'll complete that plan

e1ea36 No.481630

File: c798d065c2d3a3d⋯.webm (8.06 MB, 200x112, 25:14, .Know God_Kill Lust - Joh….webm)

Ask God that he would make sin sickening to you, not just morally wrong.

Ask him to make biblical realities, like hell and heaven, terribly and wonderfully real to you — real enough to taste and feel.

Ask him to open your eyes to the glory of the spiritual world “where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.”

Ask him to give you a massive desire for ultimate Pleasure in God that is so strong that it makes sinful pleasures nauseous.

Ask him to transpose the pleasures of intimacy with your wife into foretastes of the unending ecstasies of heaven.

When you have prayed, lift up your eyes. Lift them up to the deep, blue sky. Lift them up to the brilliant whiteness of the billowing clouds. Lift them up to the unfathomable star-filled darkness of the night. Lift them up to misty mountain ranges, and to the rivers that have run for a thousand years, and to the mighty trees that took their time to become strong imperceptibly, and to the orange day-lilies and purple vines and the yellow-souled daisies, and to the ripple-free lakes at dusk, and the great bow of the ocean horizon.

Take your eyes off your computer, off your mirror, off your pain, off your dead dream, off your self-pitying lust. God is speaking to you. He is waving a thousand flags to get your attention. He has more to give you than you have ever tasted or felt or dreamed. The price he paid to satisfy his people, with never-dying joy and ever-new beauties, was great. Don’t push him away.

- John Piper, Husband, Lift Up Your Eyes

e1ea36 No.481637

File: 6986c674035c9df⋯.jpg (39.73 KB, 920x920, 1:1, sibling hug 1.jpg)

File: 06f95d86fe0e6ca⋯.jpg (69.55 KB, 600x399, 200:133, siblings.jpg)

File: 257039c5ed6fce2⋯.jpg (47.17 KB, 600x600, 1:1, sibling hug 3.jpg)

File: b36177884b6302e⋯.jpg (133.27 KB, 720x480, 3:2, sibling hug 2.jpg)


Well, some stay away from alcohol entirely while others can enjoy a simple, modest drink of wine. She is very concerned about keeping every thought captive, I suppose, so fair enough. However, since we are all family in Christ, I would heavily recommend against avoiding hugs - even kisses (on the cheek), and between men, too! We're family, after all. We cannot allow the spiritual molestation growing up in such a perverted world has afflicted us with to damage our natural, Christ-honoring affection towards our brothers and sisters.

Again, if you cannot hug your sister in Christ because you do not yet have proper control and/or are simply concerned that feeling her against you will worsen your war with sin, so be it. No one should ostracize you for that, just like no one should shun you if you enjoy a glass of wine in the evening. However, creating instituting that barrier between the sexes - a barrier not remotely implied in Scripture - leaves room for another kind of temptation: division.

You hug your blood-related sister just fine, right? Why not your sister in Christ? Because you don't view them as your "real" family? That is something we must pray to God to eliminate within us, as it is often the exact foolish, worldly notion which leads us to be rigid or awkward around our siblings of the opposite sex.

>inb4 but incest?

Marriage can only occur within the adopted family of God in the blood of Christ Jesus. If it seems strange to take a "sister" for marriage IN THIS SENSE ALONE then re-read the Song of Solomon sometime, or even what the apostle Paul wrote. The idea of one's bride being his "sister" is not incestuous but rather denotes the ancient concept of how the two become one family - which is also why God Himself commanded that could not marry a woman and her sister/daughter/mother since they were now to be considered as his own daughter/sister/mother (mind you, there's also the ancient allowance for polygamy only for a time, likely to ensure the promulgation of the Israelites, but that's not continued since it was never actually God's desired intention but merely an allowance for a time).

TL;DR Consider the women in your church as sisters, not strangers. Consider also the women not of the faith as people, not potential sexual objects - which is something pornea trains us to think. More to the point: to not deprive yourself or your siblings the godly affection you both are due in Christ unless you utterly must.

Obviously this is not the same as having a grown sister in the faith sit on your lap for too long since, I mean…that's asking for trouble - for both of your sakes don't do that. But hug, kiss the cheek, hang out, etc. They are family and must be considered as family. If God has in mind for you and one of them to eventually grow so close that you fall in love then so be it, but put that type of romance out of your mind until then or else you'll be a sweaty, gibbering mess who cannot interact, let alone befriend, your beautiful sister(s) in Christ.

I speak this to both of our conviction. Of course I find it more awkward to hug my sisters in the faith than my brothers (and some brothers in my local church can only give a handshake because of how they were brought up), but we have to break through that and just go for it (when appropriate) because we refuse to capitulate to this perverted world's poison and, with a clear mind, genuinely love our siblings in the faith - like innocent children.

e1ea36 No.481638


>I just had to burn my finger again with a hot plastic surface



You're not a priest of Baal, what are you doing?! Also, stop cussing.

fd811c No.481681


I have the same thought. Porn is a really bad issue for me, to the point I never masturbate without it. My fetishes/viewing habits have degenerated more and more, year after year.

Its a lesser evil I suppose. I keep telling myself "this time its a full No Fap and if I do fail, then I must fail without porn usage". I always fail with porn usage though, is the problem. I'm horrendously addicted to it.

Try as best as you can and if you have gone a month, then you're well on your way to resetting the brain anyway. 90 days is the maximum I believe for some, others can do 30.

0ec17b No.481690

File: ce86d2f63f3e70b⋯.webm (1.29 MB, 1920x1080, 16:9, designed.webm)


>John Piper


2090c5 No.481702


Thanks anon, funny thing is that I myself have tapped to the most disgusting fetishes, thankfully the urge to view those fetishes or even think of them have decreased.

Another problem is have is praying and reading scripture; I get myself into a loop. I fap which make me feel sinful, when I feel sinful I cannot bring myself to pray or read scripture as I have broken another promise to God, and then I go to fap again. Any advise for that?

06bfaf No.481709

File: 0cdff8efd6ec4d3⋯.png (1.03 MB, 1002x1003, 1002:1003, lenny.png)

I feel overwhelmed by my flesh. I want to give this addiction up. I pray to God, begging for forgiveness and help, I pray for intercession, but I keep falling. I know I can beat this, I know God is helping me beat this. I don't masturbate nearly as often as I used to. I'll go days without it, while just a couple months ago I was doing it once or twice a day. Watching pornography, at all, is almost as arousing now as it was when I first saw it 9 or 10 years ago.

I know God is leading me down a path. Just like when I fell for the fedora meme, and ultimately returned to Christ with greater insight and ability to show people the light. I know that everything I do is part of God's plan for my path, and even in my moments of sin, my bodily temptations will go away as my spirit becomes stronger. I hope that, at the end of all this, I have served God's purpose for me.

And if that means I must struggle, so that those who I may teach in the future will have my guidance, then I will struggle.

I don't want women anymore, I don't want to marry anymore. I want to devote my life to complete and total service to God. I accept celibacy. I want to weaken my flesh's power over me so I may serve the Lord and embody His commandments, and guide His people.

Please pray for me, brothers, as I will pray for all of you.

327001 No.481714


>And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?

>When Jesus heard it, he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

The most harmful work of the devil is not that he causes you to sin but that he prevents you from repenting.

bd1e69 No.481715

File: e45807dfb47b818⋯.png (1.12 MB, 750x1334, 375:667, 1479894199406.png)




>Not a kiss a.k.a. the sign of peace

North Europeans smh…

bd1e69 No.481716


The length of the nofap varies from person to person before you notice the external benefits.

Thing is, you need to also work on yourself to speed it up.

I've cut my fap time to half considering I still failed but even I notice a difference.

06bfaf No.481721


I once did nofap for about 2 months and noticed my confidence and happiness skyrocket. The magnetism thing didn't change, but I wasn't exactly expecting it to. You won't become a sex-magnet by not fapping. You'll just be more confident, happy, and willing to approach prospective wives.

Stay strong, brother.


This. I was able to cut fapping time down and cut my porn use by replacing porn with lustful thoughts of real women (I know, lust is a sin, but you have to start somewhere on the path to righteousness), and eventually made myself stop fapping by doing it less frequently. So instead of doing it everyday, do it once every other day, then once a week, then once every two weeks, then once a month, and by this point you shouldn't feel the constant need to fap anymore, unless you relapse. Which I have done. A lot. Relapses happen, and you just need to pick yourself back up and try again. Pray, pray, pray, pray, pray. Always pray. And always have faith in God's plan for you.

b416b9 No.481723

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

I'm struggling. I had a single good week. Where I didn't do it, I felt good about it, and was glad. I think it was God showing me what could be. But the last month I have sinned at least once every 2 days with little exception.

I know it is wrong, so that's a step up from last year; and I feel shame. But it's still so strong and has a hold of me. I cry out for forgiveness after my orgasm and ask for help. Yet my flash fails me over and over while my spirit longs for him.

I know he is helping me, guiding me, little by little. For the first time in ages I just deleted all my porn bookmarks. Hopefully, having porn an autocomplete away being gone will help. Pray for me brothers.

990de8 No.481726


>a kiss

That's pretty homoerotic, bro

327001 No.481733


You have been brainwashed by the gay mafia into thinking that the brotherly kiss between two men means they want to engage in sodomy.

>Greet ye one another with a kiss of charity. Peace be with you all that are in Christ Jesus. Amen.

299ec6 No.481792


>You won't become a sex-magnet by not fapping

Yes you will, you just have to nofap long enough.

f20499 No.481796



in our church we hug and kiss, so she would probably freak out lol

299ec6 No.481815

File: 9f41042cf8de7c4⋯.jpg (11.03 KB, 480x251, 480:251, cons.jpg)

File: 6648e6508c8dfb8⋯.jpg (62.49 KB, 594x320, 297:160, duke masons.jpg)

WOMEN created nofap to have men that will fuck them. A men was 0 benefit in fucking a woman;nay! he should avoid their company like they were poisonous snakes on fire.

if nofap leads to a man fiddling a woman,and this is bad for the man, it only is reasonable to conclude that it is good for the woman. Women, evil beings, designed and conjured the conspiracy for turning men into"alphas", they are grooming you to be suitable sex parner.

masturbation IS unethical. however nofap as a social trend is a conspirsvy of females.


06bfaf No.481817

File: 218185608d2d43b⋯.webm (265.38 KB, 640x360, 16:9, whatswrongwithyou.webm)


[insert Molyneux picture]

Lets say you do, for a moment:

>27 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’

>28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

>Matthew 5:27-28

Even if the "NoFap sex magnet" meme is true, if becoming a "sex magnet" is one of your motivators, then you're on NoFap for the wrong reasons. You shouldn't be into NoFap because you want to tempt others with lust, or to take pride in your capability for tempting others. You should be on NoFap to raise yourself from sin, not allow yourself to be consumed by it.

299ec6 No.481819


it IS true even if its not my motivation.

It's a fact of biology like Nutrition,

I furthermore defend my stance

e1ea36 No.481826

File: 078a7e089e89949⋯.png (1.36 MB, 1080x1288, 135:161, 078a7e089e899492dd811e5a87….png)


>women are evil beings who designed nofap as a mass conspiracy to groom men into set partners

299ec6 No.481827




Thats why they want men to not fap;so theyll be ripped and with chiseled jaws.

They are grooming and breeding the youth to be secually attractive

f20499 No.481845



0f7fc3 No.481881


The enemy will try any tactic, wow.

06bfaf No.481902

File: e3d7c4886f0cd29⋯.jpg (68.89 KB, 598x792, 299:396, argumentidentification.jpg)



Is this satire?

eb3f24 No.481910

Prayer before making love:

Father, send your Holy Spirit into our hearts. Place within us love that truly gives, tenderness that truly unites, self-offering that tells the truth and does not deceive, forgiveness that truly receives, loving physical union that welcomes. Open our hearts to you, to each other and to the goodness of your will. Cover our poverty in the richness of your mercy and forgiveness. Clothe us in our true dignity and take to yourself our shared aspirations, for your glory, for ever and ever. Mary, our Mother, intercede for us. Amen.

2090c5 No.481932

Fapped 5 times today. I feel so ashamed, so sinful, and so damn angry. Any Christ anons with some tips?

0f7fc3 No.481946


When I get lustful thoughts I completely close myself to everything and think only of God and the woman I love and scream to myself that I will not dishonor them. It's the most important time to refuse temptation, because once you make an excuse to keep looking/thinking etc. you have already given in.

69c3aa No.481957


Amen brother. Great post, we were made to share and and be built up through wholesome affection and, even secularly speaking, it's good for and an important aspect of physical and mental health. mfw i lack it and any other kind of phsycial intimacy so much over so long due to my horrendous porn addiction i've developed a terrible habit of constantly rubbing the tip of my nose and lips to simulate gf snuzzles in the knowledge that it tricks my brain and makes me feel good - it's probably become an addiction itself i really need to stop

bcfc2d No.481958


Good advice, brother. Amen.

69c3aa No.481965


>wholesome affection

meant to specify wholesome physical affection, ofc

6d865a No.481986

Started listening to ASMR last night and it was all downhill from there. I was doing so good too. ;_;

b3fadf No.481988

I have been trying NoFap for a year. Longest has been 17 days. The problem I have is I fap during the night to go to sleep, this has been my habit for a 5-6 years now. I don't know how to avoid this problem even though I can avoid fapping to porn relatively well now. Any tips?

0ec17b No.481995

File: b1a63eee82bccc4⋯.webm (1.75 MB, 1920x1080, 16:9, dress modestly.webm)


>Any tips?

Lots of prayer. You can do all things through God.

f20499 No.481998


only watch guys if you are going to watch it, better quality content and no tits

2090c5 No.482003


Good advise brother, I have a crush on this qt catholic girl and thinking of her helps to push back the lustful thoughts. I'm just worried I'll project my lustful thoughts unto her, how do you prevent that?

bd6bbb No.482005

File: 054e9980431b1f7⋯.png (228.34 KB, 396x458, 198:229, disdain for plebs.png)


>sexualizing ASMR

6d865a No.482013


Oh you sweet summer child

bd6bbb No.482016

File: 65ff8b649b95040⋯.jpg (63.11 KB, 611x715, 47:55, 1474037661931.jpg)


You're supposed to listen, not look.

bd1e69 No.482020


>Sexualizing the voice of a woman

Well, it's not THAT weird but dang.

40b3e7 No.482023



In his defense some ASMR videos are pretty fucking sexual in nature. I mean, realistically, in what situations outside of sex will you hear a woman whispering in your ear? And again, a lot of them go much further than just whispering.

bd1e69 No.482025


>Even approaching dirty talk ASMR

What would you expect?

e1ea36 No.482077

File: 4a47bc9749d6eb0⋯.webm (7.74 MB, 600x400, 3:2, .God's Purpose for YOU_Jo….webm)


>even secularly speaking

No need to bring in that nonsense. What is good spiritually is good physically, my friend, and God has established in Christ what is truly spiritually good.

You are exactly right. Also, I know something of that feel. I would masturbate to porn (later on, hentai - just a fictional difference still not good) and nuzzle my face against my arm to pretend to be affectionate with a wife after orgasm. Man, just typing that out makes me feel sick with embarrassment, but it's good. It's good to shame ourselves here by stating such things since it helps us avoid actually doing these things again.

Some might say that's not so bad in private, especially since it involved fictional drawings and not real people, BUT God showed me that this was all a symptom of idol worship.

Idols are not just wood, stone, marble and metal. My idol was "The Substitute Wife".

Due to life circumstances, I do not have even a girlfriend and, depending on what the Lord wills for my health, I do not know what will ever happen in the future, you understand. So I leaned on JRPGs, hentai VNs, etc. to feel something of that connection I could not. At first it was no big deal, but then I began to search and search. I was not content with a 100+pg hentai romance. I was not content with two massive VNs. I wanted more and more. I had no idea why, too. I had the best artwork for a hentai I could imagine. I had the best VNs. I had JRPGs with fun stories and really fun/great romancable characters, but I still wanted more. I searched harder into hentai instead, of course, and that continued into a cycle. Later on the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see the reason why I was never content: I was cleaving myself to a corpse.

No matter how repetitive your days may be, even if you have the same conversation as yesterday, you cannot have the exact same experience with your spouse. It certainly does not feel that way after years of marriage but it is the truth; everything is new and everything is open. At any point in time you can - hypothetically - without reservation simply snatch up your women mid-conversation and kiss her whole on the mouth. You could switch the experience with a different subject, or go all-out and surprise her with a trip to the fanciest restaurant your credit card could handle (within reason, mate). Most people do not realize this, especially once they have settled in, but real life as God as written it is utterly unlike the fiction man creates. Everything is open at almost any moment, every moment.

Drawings cannot offer this. Hentai, or porn full-force, cannot give you this. JRPGs cannot give you this. By using them together I was chasing after an invisible idol which I call the "Substitute Wife". It is an empty, vaporous, lifeless vanity. In effect, it's the absolute opposite of risen Christ, the living God - it is a corpse.

I have dozens of save files of romantic events in JRPGs set-up to revisit the romance whenever I please without replaying the whole game. You know what that means? I can re-experience the exact same experience as long as I live. Every dialogue choice is the same. Every blushing cheek, every hug, every kiss, everything is the exact same. That, anon, is horrific. God did not create life, weaving the grand tapestry by His sovereign will to be a never-ending loop. It is empty, vaporous, lifeless vanity. This is not what God created and it is not what God wants us to be content with - and so we are not. But what happens when you chase after the very thing you are designed not to be content with? You keep chasing it, like a mirage, until you either turn back to true life (Christ) or you run into oblivion.

Some might argue about the sinfulness of hentai, but I'll tell you that even if it was "technically ok" you lose NOTHING by abandoning it for the glory of Christ. Even if it was not sinful (and I am not convinced of that notion), fasting from it all your days for His love and honor can only leave you with gain.

You don't have to abandon videogames (which I believe are different from hentai - unless it is hentai), but I was using them as a means of chasing an idol.

That was my snare, my great sin. I was making myself a spiritual adulterer and harlot before God by choosing a mirage, the invisible and dead idol of the "Substitute Wife" instead of panting for the living waters of Christ. It was a huge revelation to me, though I wonder if I had known it all along and was just deceiving myself. Now I can enjoy JRPGs without that snare, and I pray to God for Him to remove the desire I have for hentai. I no longer want this nor do I want to want this, and yet I do. Romans 7:18-25, ay? haha Well, we must trust in the Lord and continue to strive for Him rather than against Him.

The living God is greater than the dead idol.

e1ea36 No.482082




Not into polygamy, obviously. haha

e1ea36 No.482091

File: 047c97922fbba36⋯.png (755.66 KB, 850x596, 425:298, Maybe.png)


>in what situations outside of sex will you hear a woman whispering in your ear?

I tried

f20499 No.482169

>female asmr

it's like you want to fail

0f7fc3 No.482184


>how do you prevent that?

I think of something that I want to do with her more. (Marrying her, spending the day together, getting our own house, having kids) It's mostly daydreaming, but God willing, it will be reality someday.

f35b4f No.482220

File: a880ad42f49b2a0⋯.jpg (43.21 KB, 304x483, 304:483, IMG_1426.JPG)


> charity belt

> charity

82242d No.482231


this is fucked, you're fucked

2f32be No.482927

I don't really understand why so many of you consider fapping to be a grave sin. There's nothing in the New Testament that refers to masturbation. Matthew 5:27-28 is being taken way out of context. Adultery only relates to people who are actually married, and moreover, there is no requirement to look at or think of real women while masturbating.

I'm totally on board with the no-porn stuff. Porn is terrible from both a spiritual and physical point of view. But there's literally nothing wrong with rubbing one out once in a while. That's human nature. Just don't become obsessed and let it interfere with your life.

bcfc2d No.483044

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

It's so hard, bros. It's hard to even go 24 hours.

I think, at this point, I am realizing how addicted to pornography I am. It's hard to not hear the voice of your favorite pornstar or remember moments from scenes you've watched. This happens to me constantly and I always end up failing. Sometimes I just lose control completely and watch vids of girls shitting in each other's mouths. I know it's shameful. How will I explain this to my future wife?

I was watching Youtube vids yesterday of people confronting pedos IRL and I can't help but feel sorry for them. Look at this vid. This guy is a former marine. Sure, he's a creep and deserves everything that he gets, but he's probably a porn addict. Watching the related vids, I feel respect for the guy confronting these pedos, but they'll never be able to stop the source of the problem, which is the porn industry.

f20499 No.483065


Victory over the desires of the heart, must be attended with painful exertions. But it must be done. Every thing is bestowed to save us from our sins, not in them. All our senses and powers must be kept from those things which lead to transgression. Those who lead others into temptation to sin, by dress or in other ways, or leave them in it, or expose them to it, make themselves guilty of their sin, and will be accountable for it. If painful operations are submitted to, that our lives may be saved, what ought our minds to shrink from, when the salvation of our souls is concerned? There is tender mercy under all the Divine requirements, and the grace and consolations of the Spirit will enable us to attend to them.

e03f78 No.483250

Came to 8 chan to fap…. Whilst fealing conflicted… Saw this board… Yall kept me from sin ty anons.

d3e0cb No.483298

I went on r/bigdickproblems to get some idea about new underwear, as my circumcision made me irritated for ages. sure, i got some good tips, but looking at some lewd testimonials just broke me. Now I am just fantasizing about these nonsense. Reddit surely is cancer, although it is all my fault at the end of the day. I wish I could be busier, to point of suffocation just to avoid lust, although I'm pretty stressed to max.

4d75c8 No.483363


pride commeth before the fall

4d75c8 No.483366


God Bless You lad

d17639 No.483951

Just Shoot Me In The Dick Fam

0ec17b No.484564

File: 534b4b528677afe⋯.webm (1.87 MB, 1280x720, 16:9, to the knee.webm)

7f1574 No.485134

Made it a little past 4 weeks. Hoping next attempt will last at least twice as long.

1173ef No.485333


Day 93. Last date was great, we're a thing now. I also now have a job until the end of summer, when I start a good program that will get me into teaching in two years, which I am now convinced is my vocation. Life is really looking good, thanks be to God!


3f3cc3 No.485377

almost one month…today I glanced at porn by my own volition.

835e61 No.485382

Almost 2 months in.

0645f7 No.485404

who is this?

e5a925 No.485407

5 weeks here!

7a1473 No.485416

Two days in after months of being indifferent to it, also leaving caffeine simultaneously.

Feels good, keep it up brothers.

15af8c No.485616

3 days! thanks for ciggies. but most importantly, thanks be to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, in Him all things are possible. Lord have mercy

ea157d No.485770

>>485333 (checked)

Good job, you deserve those trips. :D

fd811c No.485975


Hope you stopped at just glancing. Do not beat yourself up over it. Just collect yourself and start again, but keep up the no fap.

7f2e53 No.486095

Little by little I am becoming stronger against these impure urges. It seems to be every five day to a week now, I'll pray that one day I come to terms with it.

And as always the Bible was right, the sin comes from the mind, and as the thought of sin enters it you have already sinned. Yesterday I thought about porn, chased the idea fro my mind. I didn't pray, and later down the day I was full of regret of having jerked one off to those videos from the demon…

I will pray for strength of will and humility before the demons, so I remember to ask Our Father for help before committing the impure. This is a hard fight, my brothers. I really hope all us will be saved from this.

b4ce04 No.486100


Thank God, yes. I closed the page before it was too late…onward with Christ, I'm not giving up with Him on my side and as my lead.

e69617 No.486225

File: d993fa71ef0c01b⋯.jpg (66.14 KB, 1920x1080, 16:9, s5v2x3ofg2ox.jpg)

>try building up a serious interior life, cutting down on the internet and other distracting stuff

>temptations going crazy, trying harder to get me to fap

>fap again today after going only 3 full days since my last time

>back to confession tomorrow to start again, praise God.

Pray for me bros, I need it ;_;

0ec17b No.486904

File: e007d7291c6d64f⋯.webm (1.91 MB, 1280x720, 16:9, girl advice.webm)

Reminder to flee from seductive women (including those on a computer screen)

f67f86 No.486985


what if i find chaste QTs like that seductive?

0a20c3 No.487193


This girl I've been talking to pretty seriously just confessed to me that she isn't a virgin even though she's serious about her faith and has been a Christian since a very young age. I could tell that she deeply regretted it and appreciate that she told me, but I have pretty much lost my motivation to stay pure for her, please pray for me brothers.

d459b0 No.487197


Stay pure for Christ.

d31166 No.487206


There is a Godly woman for you. Stay pure and He will deliver her to you.

c5ec72 No.487209


You're meant to lad. It's unhealthy to be attracted to disease ridden slags, no matter how naked they are.

5e2b40 No.487252


They don't care. You ever wonder why Muslims never bomb abortion clinics? Some Christian fundamentalists do that occasionally but never Muslims. And one Muslim shot up a gay club, but that was a first, generally they target civilian targets that will get maximum public exposure and spread terror, rather than singling out targets for specific sins. Why? Their sole focus and determination is on taking power. They know that once they assume power, their government will execute all of the gays and abortionists. And they also believe that Christians will always be comparably weak and soft on these things, even if they did try to protest them. So they don't waste time. They have no problem smiling and virtue signaling pro-gay and pro-choice support if it means getting liberals elected who will weaken the border and the military and disarm civilians and make it easier for them to take over. They are keeping their endgame in mind. They are happy to fake friendliness with gays and trannies now if it means they can throw them off buildings in 10-20 years or so.

5e2b40 No.487255



There is nothing wrong with the word itself, it used to just be a synonym for sex. But liberals took it over and now use it to refer to the groupings of cultural things associated with the sexes and use this to defend their ideas about transgenderism, that your sex and gender can differ, etc.

36228a No.487512


>in what situations outside of sex will you hear a woman whispering in your ear?

At the cinema or when one would want to tell me something she doesn't want others to hear. Most ASMR videos are not sexual, it's just relaxation to counter stress or to fall asleep.

0ec17b No.487726

File: 01bc6f7f0d3cfe4⋯.webm (2.33 MB, 1280x720, 16:9, no more thoughts.webm)

a4fc00 No.487881

File: d9d9e37f1e88873⋯.jpg (16.69 KB, 768x481, 768:481, f3meXxd.jpg)

Hi. i have a lot on my mind, please be patient.

My life in many respects has improved dramatically. However, the porn is something that still seems to be a major issue. It feels like every time i dip back in, if only for a short while, i fall back into my old line of thinking and old habits, only to rise out of them, fall back in, etc. (for instance i abandoned chans altogether, and online social media, only to return then leave again. The time i'm there is decreasing largely, but the fact i even fall back in in the first place discourages me. I find myself falling back into my old depressive thoughts if only for an hour. i consider things hopeless, and remember my teenage years of absolute angst and degenerate sexuality with a complete sense of self loathing and fear.

i have countless reasons to stop, both personal, and through studying. But still, here I am. I ask seasoned veterans. What did you do to stop? If you help me, you'll be vanquishing the last aspect of my previous life, and I can say goodbye to it forever.

Sorry for huge blogpost, fellas. I want the last thing seriously dragging me down gone. so i'm pretty serious.

ca9aed No.487889


I've been free of porn and masturbation for years now. It's when I started taking God seriously, repenting of sins, reading the Bible cover-to-cover like my life depended on it, and praying that I managed to break free.

The times I would relapse were the times I somehow convinced myself God wasn't watching me.

Keep at it my friend, you're on the right path. God looks at the heart and He will give you the strength that you need to overcome your sin and bondage. Get in the Spirit and Seek God (Jehovah, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit). Seek His Face, and you will find Him. Remember to read your Bible.

d17639 No.488001

if i jerk off again i will probably kill myself tbj

d2a4d5 No.488010

File: 7ec0c3edb6db871⋯.png (180.85 KB, 460x558, 230:279, 1456898867649.png)


ye, same, things got easy when I got serious about God, like, seriously serious

unfortunately, though, I've had like seven wet dreams in the past two months when I've never had them before when I was bound by fapping

03c77c No.488029


Yep, I agree with you. Wet dreams are natural, it's not considered sin because your body needs release:

If any man has an emission of semen, then he shall wash all his body in water, and be unclean until evening. (Leviticus 15:16)

I will also agree it is very inconvenient and messy. Only way out is to get married.

0a20c3 No.488778

Officially past one week. Last night I had two wet dreams, but luckily I didn't wake up with that porn/masturbation head fog. Praying tonight that I don't have more wet dreams as they make me want to relapse badly.

d8468e No.488883

File: 2140537e0f9a3e0⋯.jpg (95.83 KB, 581x751, 581:751, christ-shepherd-2014.jpg)


I am now at 2 weeks. The Scapular around my neck and the 3 Bar Cross I wear make me feel bad every time I touch myself, to the point where I haven't masturbated at all. I think it's God's presence helping me not to sin.

06bfaf No.488884


When I feel the temptation, I cross myself and pray the Lord's prayer. It helps.

d8468e No.488885

File: 4b60f0f87b5c35b⋯.jpg (212.74 KB, 550x700, 11:14, macrame-art-9.jpg)


I kiss my cross, then my scapular, then I go over to my prayer rope and do the Jesus Prayer at least 25 times, up to the first bead. If I still feel sinful I keep going. It's very very helpful. I'm hoping to keep going at this rate.

7f9c48 No.488950

File: d233f13807cec0a⋯.png (399.78 KB, 496x514, 248:257, d233f13807cec0a92ab9dc002b….png)

Gave in to temptation for the first time in a while (for me) and looked at the most vile material. I smelled something like burning hair in the room this time as I finished. I feel like hell actually moved closer to me for a moment. Scared me silly and now I pray I have the strength to move past this weakness with a reminder of what is to come in my mind. Hell is real anons - be careful and God bless you.

1c0cb5 No.489007


>I smelled something like burning hair

You sure you weren't having a stroke or something?

842c6e No.489009

File: 387e948a210de92⋯.png (736.86 KB, 771x590, 771:590, the goggles do nothing.png)

The past week's been awful; every day, sometimes more than once. I need something to keep myself busy.

0ec17b No.489158

File: c5826721a3969cd⋯.webm (430.88 KB, 1920x1080, 16:9, false belief.webm)





I regret posting those webms, btw.

0a20c3 No.489165


I regret you posting all of them.

ef5e14 No.489169


If you regret them so much, why don't you delete them or ask the mods on discord to delete your posts? And why did you even post yet another webm in a post where you claim you regret posting them, what you are thinking man??

Romans 14:13

Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.

6d865a No.489176


It's clearly a joke, you plebbitor.

0ec17b No.489177


I regret posting them IN LIGHT OF the webm I posted in >>489158

bd1e69 No.489228

File: b9f8fd6ee63cfa7⋯.png (995.98 KB, 2000x872, 250:109, WakeMeUp.png)


>When you find a qt christian girl but then discover she has more heresy than there are layers in my mama's lasagna

110e84 No.489242

File: 2b967afffe48d9e⋯.jpg (319.29 KB, 1920x1080, 16:9, 1497483791075.jpg)

4th day here. This is where I usually relapse. Pray for me, bros.

7f9c48 No.489249

File: effb6a2b40a83ad⋯.png (850.95 KB, 854x640, 427:320, effb6a2b40a83adf7d09483ff2….png)


I got your back.

7f9c48 No.489250


Man leads Woman anon, try to bring her back.

7f9c48 No.489253


The thought did cross my mind of course but it's never happened before and hasn't happened since, though I'm gonna pay attention just in case. I'm willing to take it for the warning I think it was until I know otherwise.

d17639 No.489262


Great, i want to cum now

7f9c48 No.489601


I'll pray for you

dfb22b No.489619

File: 64809d17e5da60b⋯.jpg (60.89 KB, 720x960, 3:4, death boot.jpg)

Haven't masturbated since the beginning of the Nativity Fast (November 15)

That's 254 days

If I can do it, you people can do it too

633f29 No.489765


Here I was being impressed because I made it almost a week.

You go, anon!

835e61 No.489789


I used to believe that, but ask yourself this: if its not sexual, do you also give equal listening time to male asmr artists?

Maybe you're different, but my answer was no. And then you may find out that some of the girls you're watching also do pornography on the side where ASMR may or may not be a component.

1c0cb5 No.489800

File: 1130141a48188da⋯.png (380.77 KB, 760x587, 760:587, jesus.png)

0a20c3 No.489828

Made it 8 days and gave in. It was pretty pathetic, yet I don't feel the overwhelming fogginess and general depression that has come with previous relapses, I just feel tired and bored with this sin. I'm hoping this was my very last experience with porn.

bd1e69 No.490009

File: 718fa1ce6e9d6a8⋯.jpg (16.88 KB, 266x375, 266:375, A_Silent_Voice_Film_Poster.jpg)

Aight guys if anyone is having problems with NoFap, is bored or easily tempted I highly suggest watching the anime movie A Silent Voice (Koe no Katachi in samuraispeak)

Bloody hell I watched it 24h ago and I'm still not recovered from the emotional shock.

If you can STILL fap after this movie, you need to throw away your computer.


It was about the girl in the webm.

399c29 No.490143

File: af27a6a03bfea4d⋯.jpg (18.37 KB, 600x338, 300:169, happy gotou.jpg)

I did NoFap quite easily for over six months when I was single but things have changed now.

I'm 35 and I started doing testosterone shots every week (they are legal in my country) just to see how I'd feel and how my strength gains would change at the gym, well everything seems improved; strength is up, my mood is improved, appetite is up and I feel more motivated, I also wake up more refreshed and energized than before. I don't know if I had low-testosterone before but everything just felt "mehhh..mundane" like "okay" whereas now I feel really great.

Problem is I have intense morning and night-time erections, my libido is jacked up and I can't stop fantasizing about girls at work.

I have a girlfriend already and she seems to appreciate the increased libido and energy improvements I've gotten but I feel like my spirituality is taking a hit.

The libido change is the only negative side effect I've felt so far after a few weeks of testosterone. I'm not sure what to do because I don't want to stop doing test and revert back to my low-energy "meh" self.

Also I started thinking about dumping my current gf because one of my assistants at work is very into me, very cute and about 14 years younger than me. Whereas before I did testosterone I was fairly content with my gf even if she is a bit older than me, relationship is going fine atm.

But when I think about marriage and having kids I'm much more inclined to start a family with a 21 year old instead of a 39 year old…


0f7fc3 No.490169


Right? I'm at 2 weeks strong now, but what is it about the 4th day that is super hard?

f20499 No.490173

wouldn't even be mad if i never cum'ed again tbh

fd811c No.490251


Everyone is different. I can do a week easy, but others struggle massively to do so. Its the weeks after the first that I struggle with, but some find it easy once past the first week.

Plus I tend to notice that a couple days of No Fap do nothing for me, but three or four I do feel different.

bd1e69 No.490272


>I'm 35 and I started doing testosterone shots every week (they are legal in my country)

Nigga stop doing T it'll wreck you in the long run.

>when I think about marriage and having kids I'm much more inclined to start a family with a 21 year old instead of a 39 year old…

That's normal.

I mean you'd have to be crazy to marry a woman of 35+ and want kids with her.

If I ever marry a girl it's between 18-26yo.

110e84 No.490273

5-6th day

Had a wet dream about me being a dwarf, raping a she-elf.

Should really stop shitposting on /tg/.

b416b9 No.490322

Damnit. Saturdays are the worst.

Last Sunday the sermon was on intercessionary prayer. And our 'homework' was to pray for others and to ask someone to pray for you. So I asked my sister to pray for me, I didn't tell her any specifics, just that I wanted prayer. I also prayed to God to help me with falling back into fapping. I kept reminding myself that every fap is another blow of the hammer driving the nails into my Lord's hands. And I don't want to hurt Jesus anymore.

I went the whole week up until now without fapping. I barely even had the urge to, I prayed, and even when I would see something arousing I could turn my head or close my eyes and say this is not for me and it worked. The Lord helped me.

Then came Saturday. This morning I woke up and I felt the temptation. Despite knowing what I did was wrong I looked at imagery that eventually led me to porn. I followed links on the boards here and found my way to one of my old haunts that I forgot about after I deleted all my porn bookmarks. And, for two hours I drenched myself in sin, edging and stopping. Ignoring the warnings in my heart that tell me that masturbation without orgasm is still masturbation. And then, near the two hour and a half hour mark I felt it coming on me. I stopped, but it was too late and I felt it well up and began to try to come out. Rather than ruin the orgasm and be pained, I helped it come out. I haven't seen that much semen come from me in a long time, it's been a long time that I've gone for almost a week without orgasm.

I cried out to God for forgiveness, but I feel like I've not only failed myself and him, but failed my sister now too. Pray for me anons. I will pray for you

0f7fc3 No.490340

File: 0757397c01eb42b⋯.jpg (752.3 KB, 1920x1080, 16:9, 1456818052109.jpg)


I've been there before countless times. Praying for you, bro.

7f8334 No.490382

With God's help and my friends' prayers, I made it past one month…but now I am peaking at porn pictures and I am more and more tempted to just have seuxal intercourse.

Don't give up, people! Let's pray for one another and hold fast to our misery so we may ask God for His strenght!

I am a former furry who had sex with a man a few times, if I can change (and start to love women again), we can all do that!

Onward Christian soldiers!

9299f0 No.490521


But you can prefer to look at pretty women just because you find them aesthetically pleasing without necessarily lusting after them.

7f9c48 No.490533


Laddie I…

7f9c48 No.490535


God bless you, you can do it!

ab6897 No.490563


Wet dreams aren't a sin. There is nothing you can do to prevent them.

T. Thomas Aquinas

97ea36 No.490849



the dick was two different glands, one segregates pre-cum so if you have this,it's not REALLY a wet dream,thus,you don' t lose your energy.

If your dick was erect or not tells you which kind of gland you have activated

2090c5 No.491500

Can't even last 12 hours. God have mercy on me.

0a20c3 No.491617

Is it fair to demand a virgin bride if I (we) have defiled ourselves with images of pornography? I find myself getting riddled with angst and depression when I learn many of my Christian sisters are not virgins while I am, but is it really fair that I do this? I've only had the chance to sleep with a few women, not nearly as much as I imagine many girls are tempted with.

f20499 No.491891

I failed today after about 8 days, my longest streak ever, felt great the whole time. I failed because I couldn't think about anything else but sex, and ended up jerking off 3 times. I guess now I'm just trying to figure out how to get over that mental hurdle.

06bfaf No.491902


If you're still a virgin, then yes, it's fine. But if she's watched porn before, be fair and forgiving.

0c585f No.491968

File: 37bae2730d87daf⋯.jpg (947.75 KB, 1500x2429, 1500:2429, 7981677427a9d3e36b0a279ba3….jpg)

I have had success staving off feelings to fap by playing rhythm games that fully engage my mind. I have Love Live on my phone for when I need help on the go and Osu and Stepmania on my computer when I'm at home.

d2a4d5 No.491991

File: 10e0f8aa7e0e1ff⋯.png (61.67 KB, 246x241, 246:241, OSAKA THINKS YOURE STUPID.png)


replacing your sin of sexual immorality with slothfulness is not the answer, I thought this way too in the past "If I spend most of my time playing vidya I end up not fapping!"

c220ef No.492720

I constantly f up .. and then I fap more than once … I feel shameful and guilty. Please pray for me so that I find the strength to resist

ef5e14 No.492735


I prayed for you.

I was in your shoes once and heavily addicted. I know the pain, I know the guilt, I know the temptation. There are resources in this thread if you look around, so please look at them. Also, I know this sounds cheesy, but I would read the Bible whenever you have the urge. You need to identify what is triggering you, and get rid of it. Maybe it's even within your mind. Then start watching Christian testimonies online. Sin is what cuts off our access to God, this is why you feel this shame and guilt. Maybe you need to start to learn the Fear of the Lord so you will be able to discipline yourself. Anyways, you are never a lost cause and the Name of Jesus can break any chain. Pray, pray, and pray. We are all here for you to support you. God bless.

d0510f No.492751


Good work anon. Keep on persevering.

God bless.

0a99e6 No.493037

File: efd1aaf1a87a485⋯.jpg (43.89 KB, 400x461, 400:461, chinese-jesus-11.jpg)

Lads i am on day 3 and i don't know what to do, why can't i stop fapping? i haven't relapsed just yet but i want to, do i really hate God this much?

1955d8 No.493080


Stop thinking about it and stop thinking about how you try to not do it as well. Just go outside.

b42abe No.493084

I recently became Christian, and I want to get rid of my sinful addictions. I'm trying​ to stop faping and stop smoking. But I'm struggling very hard, especially with smoking… I pray every day and beg for pardon, but it isn't enough. Two days ago I fapped, I didn't fap for one week but the urge was too strong…

I need help…

9647b2 No.493095


I prayed for you. Keep in mind if you've been addicted for a long time, it will take a lot of effort to overcome this sin. Sin has consequences. I had to go through a phase in my life as well and it took months. Read your Bible and pray like you've never prayed before. Work on your prayer life, but remember that sin cuts off our access to God. You'll have to decide whether you love sin, or you love God. You cannot serve two masters.

b42abe No.493100


Thanks a lot anon, God bless you. I'll keep these words in mind.

It's not easy, especially in a world filled with temptations and sin.

But I'm happier knowing that I want to become a better Christian and a better man in a society like this.

86c7c7 No.493120

File: 1d4c0c017430984⋯.png (388.14 KB, 710x842, 355:421, image.png)

Haven't broke, but I need someone to pray for me because I'm close to breaking.

I'm not even horny, I'm just lonely and bored.

b42abe No.493131


I've just finished my prayer, but I'll pray for you right now

86c7c7 No.493143


Thanks Anon. You don't know how much it means to me when someone else prays for me when it comes to this, it's not something I feel comfortable asking of my family.

97ea36 No.493165

File: 6f29d81da429547⋯.jpg (376.84 KB, 2042x500, 1021:250, 4eda7087a02f27ba672863eded….jpg)

I want to stop eating food and just drink water for a week, I heard such hunger triggers hormones which give you a "spiritual insight"

I feel quiet sad, my biological insticts pain me.

I know exactly what makes me sad but I can't do anything about it.

b807ac No.493538

Day 21, on day 22 right now. Finally broke my record of 20 days.

God is helping me. I'm exercising a little more but need to do more of it. Biggest problem remains with anxiety and getting a job.

c5ec72 No.493555

As much as I disagree with him, I like to watch Anderson. His kind of preaching gets you in the mood to beat sin

043be8 No.493591

File: f9ea5d591d11c77⋯.jpg (98.2 KB, 800x600, 4:3, along with the flow.jpg)


i tried it once, didn't work in long term

>when I'm at home

if you're the type that faps mostly at home, try leaving home every time you have too much time on your hands

some time ago i felt like doing it but then i decided to drive a bike around the town; it helped me survive the next 12h

bd1e69 No.493606

File: 4fc6a58e5296bcb⋯.jpg (30.84 KB, 250x250, 1:1, I truly hope that ye do no….jpg)


>Posting worst girl

b416b9 No.493621

File: 0697b525b9f7382⋯.jpg (Spoiler Image, 142.82 KB, 453x465, 151:155, crying pervert.jpg)

Damnit. Failed again. I woke up early and tried to read some stuff but it didn't help. I need to start shutting off my computer or putting it out of proximity of my bed. And start putting my bible closer instead.

I wasn't even tempted at first, but then it just grew. I have tears in my eyes, I don't want to keep hurting the Lord like this.

043be8 No.493764

File: cae75b6a80de140⋯.jpg (51.12 KB, 1280x720, 16:9, maxresdefault.jpg)


>derailing thread with an useless opinion

>calling someone worst without giving any argument


also it's 20h since i fapped, hopefully it'll last longer than 2 weeks

f20499 No.493777



it's cyclical bruv

6fa8b8 No.493785


>playing porn games

nigga you're doing this wrong

56e5b8 No.493805


I wouldnt necessarily recommend that dude. Just saying that in my situation I leave my computer out of my room completely and phone and tablet go on airplane mode. Another thing I find helpful is to implement NLP(neuro linguistic programming) on my subconscious. When you think about pmo'ing dont think to your self "I cant masturbate because of "x" reason. (Cont…)

56e5b8 No.493807


That will put your mind into a me vs them state and you'll want it more. Instead say to yourself "I choose not to masturbate because "x". This will will tell your mind that you're in control. With the 'I can't' it sounds like a child being told what he or she cannot do. With 'I choose' you become the decision maker and thus have more power and convince yourself of that more the more you use it. Call nlp hogwash or whatev but it works. Im willing to talk more about this if you guys want.

889a59 No.493851


i'd say in this case he knows he's looking at things he shouldn't be viewing and he kinda brought it on. though wet dreams aren't a sin because you can't control them, i think there's still a sin here because he's putting himself in the near occasion by browsing /tg/

ab43f0 No.494437

File: 674a18b4a9d6fb3⋯.jpg (117.43 KB, 484x461, 484:461, 1416692029675.jpg)


sweet fuck anon what is with that taste

b4ce04 No.494452

one month and a few days under the belt, sadly I looked at porn.

641841 No.494467

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

Failed twice today, was feeling pretty worthless but this song helped me.

e59526 No.494480

It just clicked, in a very real way, what this is. We're all in deep shit.

1 Corinthians 10:21

Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the table of devils.

I like to call others "reprobates" but what am I when I do this? I'm a hypocrite.

Romans 1:28

And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

And what's my excuse? It won't suffice when I'm judged.

1 Corinthians 10:13

There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

I was tempted and I prayed for the solution. Now I'm afraid of God.

Philippians 2:12

Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

God will judge us. He remained faithful to us and we turned our backs on him for a cheap orgasm. We're all worthy of hell. We must all repent, now. Be afraid.

990de8 No.494482


We do indeed deserve hell, and we will indeed be judged, but we need not be afraid, we are not in deep shit. This is why Jesus died, if we have faith, He will save us despite our sin.

<What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God's elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written, "For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Romans 8:31-39

680c7e No.494483

I feel like the worst christian ever. All it takes is just don't place your hand in your genitals. And I do. Everytime I fail. The worst thing is, I masturbated yesterday and today I don't have any sexual thoughts in my mind, and it feels so easy to say now "I will never masturbate again" but after a few days, they come again and I don't even pray anymore since I feel dirty and unworthy of addressing God and I spend days without praying to my next confession.

I don't want this anymore.

680c7e No.494485


This. This idea tortures me. I don't hate God. I want to be better. But sexual images come and go and I'm a weak piece of flesh and sooner or later I end up succumbing. I am not loving God enough? apparently not. My intellect is fully with God but my actions tell otherwise.

e59526 No.494502


Don't ever coast on that.

2 Corinthians 7:1

Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

Get it? We're weak, soft, lukewarm, horrible sinners. This is the solution. Don't let God leave your thoughts ever. Fear God completely. Fall on your face before him. Repent in absolute fear of the Lord and we will be free.

680c7e No.494509


Yeah, I'm not saying that we shouldn't repent or abhor sin, but I don't think that fear is the healthy attitude towards this. I'm not a theologian or something but every time Jesus approach anyone or an angel appears the first thing they say is "do not be afraid"

e59526 No.494536


This is the problem with the modern teddybear God. Ever notice how Christians really aren't much different than atheists in lifestyle? It's because we don't fear God so we don't have the discipline of Christians in the past. God is an oldschool Father who doesn't spare the rod. Over and over the bible says "fear the Lord". Just like a good father to a child. You love him but you also obey him not just because you love him but because you're afraid of him and you respect him. Then what Jesus said about the sabbath, it applies to the whole law. God didn't make man for the law God made the law for man because he knows what is best for us. We are the children of God, God is our father. It's entirely literal. We must be obedient. He loves us we love him, but we're also afraid of him because he's our father and he lays down the law. We have been disobedient to our father. We've done a horrible thing and should be afraid, more the better, because if we were afraid of God we'd be terrified of sin. Like children that's how we must learn because our own wisdom has failed us many many times hasn't it? What could be healthier? It's our father who knows what's best for us.

ec33d8 No.494581

File: 24b0f1dd417366c⋯.jpg (52.92 KB, 500x665, 100:133, 6c8ad81a01029f67dc175f11df….jpg)


>I feel dirty and unworthy of addressing God and I spend days without praying to my next confession.

That's satan whispering in your ear buddy. God loves you and wants you, regardless of how bad you get. Call for His help whenever you have the need, he will never reject your calls

c1f428 No.494585

I was doing well for a while, then temptation came over me. I can't God face like this or any of us who done the same. If anyone here who is truly pure, could you intercede for us adulators, so that we'll be forgiven by Christ?

043be8 No.494720


thx for recommendation

>tfw in a bad mood all day

>go for a ride on bike

>pass a couple on the way, just some strangers from my highschool class

>don't even say hi, just wave at them and pretend smile

>realise i've been living in jealousy ever since primary school and it's probbably the reason i do barely any socialising

>cry a lot

>watch the anime

>cry even more

>blogged on 8ch

okay, what's next

601d17 No.494726

File: d2631e94d52451b⋯.jpg (90.58 KB, 736x867, 736:867, 1500170062485.jpg)

you are all so cute

God bless you and stay strong

d7a16e No.495049

File: 04e8bb71ca938cd⋯.jpg (46.42 KB, 500x500, 1:1, 04e8bb71ca938cdd6a6cf762b5….jpg)

I have been tempted, and fell to it, knowingly, willingly. I am not going to make excuse of abstinence being unbearable or anything. In the eyes of the Lord, I committed the sin of Lust.

I just do not know anymore. I want to be saved, I wanted to be helped, but I cannot keep relapsing like this as if to mock his goodwill. I don't know, I just . . . don't know anymore, I want clarity.

e59526 No.495060


Sorry for the vent yesterday Cathobrah. I was just talking myself out of doing anything stupid, having a rough week, arguing because it let off some steam I think. I'm no theologian either. and silly, so playing knowitall isn't right of me.

But I'm still in on the no fap so if it worked it worked. Hope you are too.

I'm praying for everyone. God have mercy on us.

7b1fde No.495142

Brothers, may this help you as it helped me

>5. When Cyrus of Alexandria was asked about the temptation of lust, he said, 'If you are not tempted, you have no hope; if you are not tempted, it is because you are sinning. The man who does not fight sin at the stage of temptation is sinning already in his body. The man who is sinning in his flesh has no trouble from temptation.'

6. A hermit {man of the desert} asked a brother, 'Do you often talk with women?' The brother said, 'No.' He went on, 'My temptations come from paintings old and new, memories of mine which trouble me through pictures of women.' But the hermit said to him, 'Do not fear the dead, but flee the living; flee from consenting to sin or committing sin, and take a longer time over your prayers.'

(from The Desert Fathers, Penguing Classics)

d9f6f4 No.495575

File: 7726efa66f6292c⋯.jpg (61.16 KB, 640x850, 64:85, d-e-s-t-i-n-y-kung-fu-devi….jpg)

the world is so fucked up, its literally turning batshit insane. im so deep in sin its not funny. porn has literally become like crack for me. I've just binged over thurs, fri and all of sat and done it the days before. this isn't unusual at this stage either. i've done some terrible things and made some terrible choices and this stuff is progressively destroying me. its affecting my start in my career that i have no reason not to excel in, my relationships with my friends and my family. how the fuck can we have reached a stage in which there is demand for, and its considered by some people ok to watch (hence why it's legal and being produced) realistic highly stylised high production value porn depicting scenarios with actresses who are made to look like and are cast because they look like 14yo girls getting violently kidnapped and raped. fuck. if its not explicit then many films made these days are saturated with implicit but heavy undertones of both the underage thing and rape. all in bright super hd seductive colours and endless array of young fertile (physically) beautiful women. fellow men and women made in image of God debasing themselves to the lowest level. i mean i know if a girl has tits and hips there's nothing wrong with your body having a natural reaction of attraction to her and that men are meant to be the stronger dominant ones and there's a place for the carnal aspect of sex in a bibical marriage but fuck me. everything has become so twisted. and i'm a huge part of the problem. this shit only gets made because there's demand for it from ill men like me. many others too who've escalated their porn tastes to films that depict this sort of sickening abuse. the industry's evil. what is being depicted is evil. i'm giving into that evil. somehow some people think this stuff should allowed to be produced and doesn't harm any one and should be banned because of "muh freedoms." it's is insane. any clear headed thinking person who's honest with themselves can see its pure evil. but in alot of cases many people can't. this night i came across a hook up site which, had i found before i found this place, would have led me down a very different path from which i may never have turned back. the road i'm on now is a terrible one but another could have been even worse. there are and will be so many lost souls on that site. people who will never see any of the light. right now i have the opportunity to give in and join them. but i know the truth and can't reject the truth. the world is in such a sorry state. with this and everything else going on. i'm amazed i can still feel such sorrow after the amount of disgusting self abuse i've exercised and abusive filth i've consumed, i might have guessed i was dead inside. there's still the slightest glimmer of hope because i weep. you guys who are on here, 18, 19, 20 21 etc etc. seriously. STOP it earlier while you still can. nip it in the bud NOW. while it's easier. the longer you go on the deeper you go and the harder it is to get out. it;s like a thick sticky treacle that you become ensnared in helplessly falling on your hands and knees with a high risk of drowning or dying from exhaustion anf giving in. or worse you go mad and are ok with being consumed by the treacle, not wanting to see the damage it does and the death it brings and ingnoring the glory of God and all that is good in Him and His creation. that it's your choice and your right to make that choice and there not be consequences. lord have mercy..i can only blame myself because i've strayed and stayed away from God these past few weeks, not going back to talk with Him. I have to go back. I'm also getting professional help. God bless you all. /blogrant

c0c1f1 No.495601


You need faith, you need to pray like you've never done before. Faith without works is dead. You need to identify what's triggering you and eliminate those temptations. Act upon it. Did Jesus not say in His Word that a man who hears His Word and acts upon them, is like a man who builds his house on a rock? Repent of your sins, read your Bible, and pray.

Also, here's a resource, read through it because this helped me break free from my addiction back then: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reboot_your_brain

ca2b61 No.496580

>Day 1 starts now

>say prayer of repentance

>say another prayer asking God to give me strength and protect me from temptation

>immediately feel the urge to fap

No one ever said this was going to be easy.


Every time you stumble beg for forgiveness. It takes courage to face your father and ask him to forgive you after committing a sin. If you truly mean it he will forgive you because he loves you and wants you to succeed in beating this.

2ac4ca No.496819

File: 417ec8c4b3c4ea3⋯.jpg (44.53 KB, 600x600, 1:1, 1496087354052.jpg)

I'm almost considering doing it again

Convince me I shouldn't

97ea36 No.496843

File: 851f906011fd646⋯.jpg (20.74 KB, 460x652, 115:163, cymatics.jpg)

help me, im bad at chesmitstry.

does the curing of Dopamine Receptors influence Pheromone production?

if not;why does nofap produce pheromones¿

I need a scientific answer.

bd1e69 No.497050


Although I blame girls going after men who are already in a relationship to pheromones, fact is no human pheromone has ever been found.

97ea36 No.497082


>implying you-know-who aren't pùshing anti-human pheromone propaganda

scientific american pls, Soviets and such i think discovered an electromagnetical equivalent of pheromones, there's also in SEA a huge market around it

15af8c No.497086


yeah "science" also says Christianity is false so

1d15e9 No.497207


If You do it you will lose communion with God.

112433 No.497428


ef6728 No.498066

Giving it another go. I feel like such garbage. Please, help.

641841 No.498255

File: eae689c1b6b3aba⋯.png (153.66 KB, 500x500, 1:1, IMG_1627.PNG)

Another pathetic failure. I can't keep doing this. I really can't. It has to end now. I've done this so many times. Always the same bullsh*t goes through my head, the same temptations. Why must I be so weak, so worthless? It just isn't good enough. And here I am feeling bad and repentant about what I've done. What good will that be if I just do it again in a week's time? I feel like I'm stuck in a horrifying Groundhog Day of sin, never escaping. I don't know how to escape.

384bf7 No.498258

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.


Watch this

bd1e69 No.498269


Can you link an article on this?


Not an argument.

97ea36 No.498283

File: a3d5c500b8da27d⋯.jpg (40.97 KB, 480x294, 80:49, 2f231574f09ab530e15d64536b….jpg)

DAY 281

384bf7 No.498297

File: 7fd94dc8d61ee72⋯.png (70.63 KB, 409x363, 409:363, approved.png)


Good job!

Matthew 16:24-26

Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?

bd1e69 No.498589

About 3-4 weeks in.

I've been having mild temptations lately, getting worried.

384bf7 No.498633

File: 9bf08a3322f5760⋯.jpg (280.45 KB, 849x565, 849:565, cru.jpg)


I faced temptations too and 3-4 weeks you aren't close to rebooting your brain yet. You need to go for at least 100+ days for a successful reboot. Stay strong, you're almost there.

ebdc8f No.498654

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

what i did

c51af7 No.498713

File: aaffa9e8614cf61⋯.jpg (221.04 KB, 1024x1024, 1:1, 1464500185626.jpg)


>'My temptations come from paintings old and new, memories of mine which trouble me through pictures of women.'

The more things change, the more things stay the same.

1a126a No.498716

I go to mass Sundays and like a church social gathering on Wednesdays. I can usually last through to Sunday, and then I'm encouraged enough to last to Wednesday, and Wedensday then encourages me more.

This is a good strategy. If you can't last that long, then go to mass even more.

bd1e69 No.498884


I know that, but dang the temptations brah…

367488 No.498907

File: 854b339db859d64⋯.jpg (42.37 KB, 728x522, 364:261, 1485214088604.jpg)

How many times can God forgive me of the same sins? It seems sometimes I make no attempt to overcome temptation. I think to myself: 'In a years time, am I still going to be doing this? I'm going to fail eventually, why not fail now?' At times I even feel tempted not by lust but by boredom.

My sins act as evidence that my faith is not yet strong enough. I have a long road ahead of me.

Pleasures of the flesh, I have relied on you for too long.

24de53 No.498910

I've deleted all me porn mates in the name of the lord. Wish me luck, this shit is meant to be as bad as a heroin addiction.

bd1e69 No.498951


>Wish me luck, this shit is meant to be as bad as a heroin addiction.

Good luck m8, I'm afraid that this is worse than heroin (no experience with that though).

bd1e69 No.499027

File: 8d336a04b3c552c⋯.jpg (37.69 KB, 600x453, 200:151, 8d336a04b3c552c6602bb8d70d….jpg)

Aaannd failed again.

About 3-4 weeks, at least I'm increasing.

586aba No.499032


Nice, keep it up anon.

I failed yesterday, so today I'm fasting to repent myself. I know if I associate fasting​ with failure I'll think about it twice before failing and fapping again

017b6e No.499256


I find praying the rosary and chaplet of divine mercy helps if Mass is not an option.

Today was especially troublesome since I woke up really early and could not shake the urge luckily I held out and went to Mass because we were celebrating the feast of St Lawrence and I am a cook so it is very important to me. Then had the deacon bless me… which probably means I should REALLY honor no fap.

20751a No.499797

How do i stop edging?

641841 No.499911

I've come to the conclusion recently that there's never even the slightest excuse to look at porn, if you legitimately want to remove sexual immorality from your life. I can think of legitimately tempting reasons why I might be convinced to masturbate without porn, since God created us with sexual desires. Masturbation is a sin and must be given up, but it is at least an understandable sin. There is however no excuse to look at porn. It does not make us any more sexually satisfied, rather it always increases our desire to masturbate, to edge, to waste hour upon hour watching it, collecting it. Whenever you look at porn, you are deliberately choosing to dig yourself further into the mess you have created. So my conclusion is this, both fapping and porn must be resisted, but you should never convince yourself that since you have chosen to fap, you might as well watch some porn. That is the equivilent to deciding that since you've drunk way too much and sinned in that way, you might as well take some cocaine to go along with it. That is terrible logic. Rather we should always be aiming to fully obey God, and when we do fail, we should try to make the effect as minimal as possible.

71c1ee No.499940

File: 00baa95933c518c⋯.gif (2.53 MB, 280x358, 140:179, 01.gif)


What do you mean by edging?

017b6e No.500090

I am at day 4 and it isn't getting any easier. Also went to Reconciliation today so yeah…

Keep me in your prayers, I will be praying for all of you as well.

017b6e No.500378


Welp back to Day 1.

094d53 No.500383

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

There is a nuclear option.

Cut the net completely apart from a web filter (K9 web protection) with sites on a white list. It will also mean installing anti porn filters on your phones or going back to a candy bar/dumb phone.

Even then that might not be enough. Remove booze, games, tv, anything that can causes arousal

Also keep a passworded journal. Nothing emotional, it should read like this [DATE] - WHAT I DID LEADING UP TO PORN AND MAST and try to isolate the effects.

So 01/01/XX - I watched/read something that had something sexy in it and then went on the net and masturbated to porn.

Bingo - cut that first thing out.

b5f154 No.500419


Only 4 days? Step your game up you pantywaist! Even a chronic fapping loser like me has lasted a week.

112433 No.500507


I too used to be a super edger , but im just coming up to 2 weeks without.

You just gotta remember you are in charge of your hands. and although you thought might go anywhere , you getting your hands where they are. Although i edged alot in the bed at night and these days I super need sleep as i get up super early. Perhaps you need a routine to keep to.

97ea36 No.500790

File: fcc4bc92e9e3a15⋯.jpg (8.41 KB, 194x259, 194:259, ppal funeral.jpg)

Without being morbid ,frequently look funeral and mortuary photos.

Imagine,you're an old man, waiting for the last grain to go down the hourglas.

or your scuba diving stuff just broke and you gonna drown.

What kind of flashback you get? a dimly lit room, and a man "freeing Willy" erryday? or a Knight of valor who went very far to not shed a drop of his Seed in vain?

5c2e16 No.500792

File: 67436b851637473⋯.png (227.59 KB, 394x395, 394:395, 1434984580332.png)


>you are all so cute

What is that supposed to mean?

1c0cb5 No.500797

File: a59b251ef89d558⋯.jpg (1.35 MB, 1045x1920, 209:384, 51df713b-728d-43fe-9b3d-8c….jpg)

2 Weeks! Ave Maria.

205759 No.500825

File: 8806dd52a371720⋯.jpg (71.02 KB, 648x960, 27:40, 18238226_1295546233874365_….jpg)


use a rosary in your wrists when you are alone in your room, if you get the urge to fap it will remind you to resist temptation and not do anything sinful. edging is fapping and is a sin as well, I hope you get better.

205759 No.500826

043be8 No.500898

File: 1ff665562b25a2b⋯.png (17.79 KB, 658x120, 329:60, eAeyS43S.png)


let's try not to get cocky

1 more week to break my PB

15af8c No.501329

ok so i was about to go and jerk off then i had these thoughts:

1. my brain says i need it, but i don't feel any physical cravings. thus i would be willing and conscientiously sinning, i would be doing the action myself, i can't blame an "addiction" or anything.

2. what if God says "well you clearly valued pleasuring yourself more than my kingdom" and then i'm fucked. more than likely that won't be the case but i couldn't shake that thought.

after thinking about those things i just couldn't do it. it's not like anyone is forcing me to cum. after all, i do it myself

043be8 No.501559


tonight i had this weird kind of feeling of guilt as if i fapped while falling asleep

can't really tell if i did it or it was just a dream;

in the morning the temptation was also strong, somehow managed to resist

97ea36 No.502276


if you ha a boner at the morning then you didn't fap because ,you know, you wouldnt want to fap twice in so short time

0a20c3 No.502278

3 weeks brothers. Seek God throughout the day and this burden will become light. I got rejected by a girl from church recently and have been channeling that angst into reading my Bible, reading some church fathers and Kierkegaard, and praying whenever I'm not at work. Let yourself be brought low so Christ can lift you up.

f026c3 No.502311

Please pray for me, anons.

I am beginning now. I believe one benefit will be an increased attention span and so on. But also, maybe I won't die in sin.

Anons, recommend me a book of the Bible and I will read it while passing the time. I would appreciate it, but not so long.

b2d440 No.502384

Well, I'm not a Christian, so I apologize if I'm unwelcome. This is the only NoFap/NoPorn thread on 8chan it seems.

I started yesterday in hopes of killing disgusting porn fetishes that porn has imposed on me. After only 1 day I feel like I could fap to almost anything. I knew based on fetishes I was getting that I may have a porn addiction, but actually trying to get rid of it is something else. My brain is screaming for porn. It's very disturbing the amount of power it has over me. I lost 100 pounds through proper diet, and I think quitting porn may be a greater challenge than losing weight.

I now understand why Christians believe porn is wicked.


You have my support. Don't give up.

7edd65 No.502435

File: c975a11315c1f0a⋯.jpg (67.39 KB, 457x500, 457:500, c975a11315c1f0a5f6080b9f61….jpg)


You are welcome here, I pray that you will find Him, and I pray for your success on both shaking off your fetish and masturbating altogether.

In this day and age, you see people kept saying 'fapping is fine', 'it is natural', 'everyone do it'. Pay no heed to such falseness, for you have experienced it yourself how much it kept you captive, how much control of self it took from you, from us all.

b2d440 No.502469


Thank-you. Its not that I don't believe in God. I think its possible that he exists, but I'm not really sure. At the very least, the self-discipline the Bible teaches is something Western society can really use.

I don't think people saying 'fapping is fine' have ever actually tried to stop. I'm on day one and have been having a very hard time sticking with it. Its really hitting home how addicted I am. "kept you captive" is a perfect way to put it.

3d7fb0 No.502481

I hate myself. I know I should not fap. I live alone, am financially OK right now but only self-employed from the money I saved up. I have constant anxiety about my finances.

Well, that doesn't make it any less worse. I don't have any friends. My parents are saved, but they don't know what I do. I keep a happy face around them.

I know Jesus died for my sins. I know I should be grateful. But I don't feel anything towards him. As sad as it sounds, I almost expect to go to hell. I am not worthy to be a disciple. I have never felt any love from God towards me. And yes, I get, feelings can be manipulated by Satan.

If anyone has read John Bunyans Pilgrimage, that last passage where they go through the swamp where people fall asleep … I am one of those guys who have fallen asleep. And I am afraid I can't wake up.

Last week I approached an elderly woman on the street, asked her if she believed in God. She said "not really" and moved away. I don't know how to talk to people about God, they are not interested. My thought was that even though I'll probably end up in hell, she shouldn't.

My parents expect the rapture to happen any moment. And I'm like … great. What should I tell God when I die? If God would sum up my deeds and put them in a fire, they would all burn away. I haven't lead anyone to Jesus. Not a single person. My life is and was useless. I am a hypocrite and I deserve death.

b416b9 No.502485


Trust the Lord anon. For he loves you, if he did not love you then why would he have made you. Read Psalm 139:13.

If you have no people you can call close friends than start slowly. Go to a local church on Sunday, listen to the service, stick around and chat with people. In general if you go to a church you've never been before you'll be greeted and a good leadership team will notice you're new and talk to you. It may not happen the first time depending on the size of the church, but it will happen.

You know Jesus died for your sins. You are desensitized from his love because you are so full of the world's worries. God Loves you and has not forgotten you.

The wicked go down to the realm of the dead, all the nations that forget God. But God will never forget the needy; the hope of the afflicted will never perish. Psalm 9: 17-18

Approaching people in the street and asking about God is very direct, I personally still find it difficult to respond when someone is so forward about asking about something so personal to me. Still, if you're called to do mission work like that, then perhaps talk to a church leader and get put onto a path that will help you become better at it.

Your life is not useless anon. You may have deserved death in the past, but you know Christ now, and you are washed clean.

c956b6 No.502487


Do something else when you are tempted, preferably away from computer. Today I also have been tempted, as I am wavering, I said in my mind "screw this shit, you demon, I am out of here" despite wanting to do it so bad. Demons can shake your mind, but they cannot control your body, your hand. I know if I am still in my room, I will eventually break, so I grab my bag, gym clothes, and went straight to the gym. And the Lord blessed me with renewed vigor of body and spirit to go further than my usual limits. Praise be His name.

"Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him." - James 1:12

97ea36 No.502571

NOFAP isn't about religion.

even a filthy atheist can stop,fapping is not rational so if you don't have ambient temperature IQ you can stop.

it's nice that, also, by the way,fapping is not moral so nofapping is moral? No, it's the complete standard and nothing to even talk about.

abd292 No.503011

I consider masturbation a sin worthy of not participating in the Eucharist

With that being said, I haven't partaken in the Eucharist in months.

>Feels Bad, Man

f026c3 No.503017

I failed.

Trying again, and this time not so easily.

Will an anon give a book to read from the Bible?

Just say whichever one. Your favorite?

6921e7 No.503019



6921e7 No.503021


I'm praying for you brother, we can all do it :)

7ae516 No.503045


Read the Second Epistle of Peter

b6a137 No.503052

I need this thread so much, I've been dealing with lust for a very long time. Not only is it chronically habitual, it is demonically oppressive. Years ago, I had spirits of lust which would constantly harass me, the manner of desire which would overcome me by my own accord were nothing like the dark and coercive presence which would come at night to fill my thoughts as well as physical attacks when I tried to resist. After much prayer and worship, these episodes eventually stopped, but years later, they are back and worse than before. In fact, the only reason I'm up right now is because though I was exhausted, I remained in a half asleep like state where my mind would become involuntarily bombarded with intrusive and constant sexual imagery which I would have no control over and succumb to the most unholy of acts. It messes with me so much because a part of me wants no part of it at all, like a rape of the mind. No matter how much I want to call out to God for help, no matter how much I want to worship and fill the room with his presence, it's as if I am physically unable to do so. As if my mouth is forced shut by the sheer presence of evil which fills the room. When I get up to leave and get my bearings, the atmosphere of the household totally changes, as if the presence can be felt among my family members but not distinguished, only felt.

I need help /christian/, I'm under demonic attack, I need prayers of protection and affirmation. Please stand by me during this dark night. Amen.

017b6e No.503053


You do know you are obligated to receive the Eucharist at least once a month right anon?

36228a No.503065

File: e2fdf37b8c277c6⋯.jpg (349.77 KB, 1231x1600, 1231:1600, st-agnes-virgin-martyr.jpg)


>if its not sexual, do you also give equal listening time to male asmr artists?

Though I am a male myself, I actually really dislike males in general (including boys) and am annoyed by male touch and male presence so I won't let one whisper in my ears.

>you may find out that some of the girls you're watching also do pornography on the side

I never watch ASMR videos, I only listen to them and I don't have to know about what they do on the side in order for me to relax and/or fall asleep, just like I don't have to know what you masturbate to before listening to something you want to tell me; that's literally none of my business.

c6c623 No.503082


Imagine this. You are a prisoner in the prison of Sin, Lust section. This prison is strange in fact that its warden treats you very well as long you are an obedient little sinning prisoner who knows none the wiser. Then came Jesus whom through his presence, awakens you to the fact that you are a prisoner, your spirit aches in pain for emancipation and thus you began your great escape.

A great prison escape is very hard to pull off, now that the warden somehow know your plan and began to torment you in various form of enticement to get you back, the further you run, the harder you resist, the greater the temptations. Each time you got caught and thrown back into your cell, the warden strengthens their guard and eyes on you. It is 'acceptable' to fail in your path, but it is NOT encouraged.

But know this, the wardens cannot stop Jesus whatsoever, so walk with Him. You know it is demonically oppressive, so fight, fight alongside Him. Do you want to stay in your room and jerk off forever until death claims you, or do you want to stop having to do it and drown in self-loathing every time you do. You feel that pain of loathing because your spirit cries out in pain, and the only thing damning yourself, is you.

In a more practical advise, do not stay in your room alone, go walk in the park, etc. Or try my solution every time I feel the temptation. Grab your gym bag and clothes, and go the gym for light exercise. This put your mind off it as your mind has to stay with your body during the course of working out.

I will pray for your success.

b6a137 No.503298


Thank you

bd1e69 No.503632

Failed again rather quickly.

Ugh, I don't have much longer.

I'm going back to college so if I don't stop fapping I'll lose my extra time to study edge.

Not even mentioning my brain rewiring and the mortal sin I'm in.

b2d440 No.504029


Start again right now. Don't be too harsh on yourself. It is what is is. Begin anew.

I myself failed today after just 2 days of starting. Before, I was masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to tentacle hentai, monsters, bestiality, gangbangs, interracial, ect. Yet today when I failed it wasn't to any of that gross crap, but a softcore image of a anime girl. To me this represents the beginning of my deescalation. Before, such a relatively tame image never would have gotten me exited.

I am starting again. This isn't going to be easy but it must be done.

680c7e No.504101


well yes, I masturbated today and feeling like shit, but this gives me some hope, before my conversion I used to masturbate every day and collect porn and weird hentai in massive amounts, now I masturbate one-two times a week (confessing this weekly is humbling, I got to say, and even if protestants are right and isn't really needed, it's a good practice because of this) but haven't watched porn or hentai even since.

It's something, I guess.

b6317d No.504698

it's weird when you think about it. it's attempting to never cum again (or at least the long term future). weird when that used to be the norm for me atleast 4 times a day since forever

932c9b No.504724

Hey guys, I downloaded one of those UV light reducers onto my computer, flux, and the darkmode really helps tbh. Even the hottest woman looks like a demon in almost-infrared

984ea6 No.504786


Wonders it does to you is it not? We believed or were led to believe something like "fapping is normal, 1-4 times a day is normal, healthy, science guaranteed" and stuffs is normal life.

Now we know Him, and He has shown us another way, another life so that little by little we can move closer to Him.

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