/cuckquean/ - Women Sharing Their Men

>>2147

Well I think the first thing that needs to be understood is that this is, for the most part and the majority of what I have personally seen, the female's fetish first and foremost. As hard as it is to believe most cuckqueaning relationships are initiated by the woman not the man. Whether the woman enjoys the humiliation aspect of becoming a cuck or if they're just compersive and enjoy the sight of their man having a good time doesn't really make much of a difference. The main reason queans have this fetish is because they're submissive by nature and love more dominate and assertive men. This submissiveness is also the reason many queans are into things such as BDSM and other fetishes like it. On top of this many men naturally have this fetish as well, or at least the majority that I have seen, so it works out well in the end.

>I think husband and wife should be so close together that no one gets between them.

Now this is an interesting thing about the dynamic that I really want to touch upon real quick. Many queans very much have a mentality of "So long as my man comes back to me at the end of the day, it's all good." A big thing about cuckqueaning is that it's very much a thing about trust, just like BDSM. A quean enjoys her cucking because she's getting several things from it: seeing her partner be happy/Humiliation/Seeing her partner be dominate and strong, etc and so forth. But at the same time there are many queans that also have a fear and natural anxieties that perhaps next time they let their man out to have some fun he might not come back. This as well has its appeal to many queans as it acts as a kind of adrenaline rush. An emotional roller coaster that could end badly or, which is more likely than you probably think, everything will still be the same and with no issue. Everyday just continues with little to no problems.

This is a fetish about communication. The woman in the relationship is the one that usually goes out and finds the woman that will cuck her. Many times it's a one night stand kind of thing but at the same time there's an equal number of women that pick other women that they will see many times throughout their daily lives such as: Friends, Coworkers, and even FAMILY. Sometimes these relationships develop into a natural polyamory and sometimes it's just a one or two time thing that isn't anymore than just a fun time. Each couple is different in how they treat the third.

I hope this helped you to gain a better understanding of the fetish. I doubt this would change your feelings on it much, but at the very least I hope you learned something new.

>>2148

That makes sense, but it got me thinking: are cuckqueans ok with their husbands fucking guys, or is it off limits?

>>2147

>I think husband and wife should be so close together that no one gets between them.

This is a very beautiful sentiment, and I completely understand. I can't speak for others in this, but for me personally, cuckqueaning is merely a sexual component to my relationship; I have no sense that my husband would put another woman before me, emotionally. We've talked about it in depth, and his love for me is strong and pure. I just love it when he fucks other women.

>Is it about roleplay, where you imagine you're the better woman?

>Is it about fear or power or a little bit of both?

This is outside the realm of my cuckqueaning. My man deserves more than just me, in my opinion. He's a great guy and should be drowning in pussy. I'm not afraid of him leaving me, and it's not that he's rubbing it in my face that he's fucking so many other women, because I really want him to do that. I don't view it as a better woman thing either; it's more like at Thanksgiving, you might have a personal preference for one special food, but you wind up eating more than just that, right? It's just not Thanksgiving without getting some of everything you like, and maybe trying a few new ones. That's how I see cuckqueaning. My husband deserves to gorge himself on all the different kinds of women he wants.

>I'm not an assertive guy

Mine wasn't either, at first.

>>2164

There's a thread on that here: >>1590

If my man even floated the idea of screwing another man, trap or not, he would die. Thankfully, he hates fags too.