No.137486
My boyfriend constantly teases and bullies me. Everytime we go out he plays with my ass, or he calls me these really embarrassing pet names. Sometimes he coerces me into servicing him in a public setting.
At home he makes me wear degrading feminine clothing. He's teased me into doing chastity, and convinces me to do things for him
He's never threatened me or been physically abusive. I feel like he might believe he's entitled to me, since he's older, taller, and he's supporting both of us.
Whenever I try and speak up he always manages to distract me. Does anyone else know what I'm talking about?
No.137488
I'd be ok with that
if I had a bf
No.137491
no, im a virgin who's never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. Honestly, that sounds nice but if you have a problem, talk about it and stop letting him distract you
No.137492
Tell him what you just told us. Write it down if you have to.
No.137497
>He's never threatened me or been physically abusive
If you ask him really nicely I'm sure he will.
No.137506
>>137491
>stop letting him distract you
He knows how to push my buttons and what exactly to bribe me with.
>>137492
I'm afraid that it might hurt his feelings
>>137497
>mfw
You stop that.
To be clear I don't hate him, or resent him. I just think that he could maybe tone it down sometimes. Having him paw all over me can be annoying but it does make me feel rather good about myself.
Atleast he hasn't gotten me a fursuit
No.137508
>>137506
>I'm afraid that it might hurt his feelings
Okay, well, you can attempt to get what you want via communication, or you can just whine about it to us and get nothing done.
I'd prefer you didn't whine to us, it's coming off as a humblebrag.
No.137510
>>137508
I'm not an assertive person. I try to make people happy even if they sometimes walk over me.
What do you think would be the easiest and most pain-free way of broaching this topic?
No.137511
>>137510
Like I said, write it down if you feel you aren't going to get it across verbally.
No.137521
>>137510
I understand what you mean.
From what you have said, it sounds like he is manipulating you into doing what he wants, and making sure you are unable to say anything about it, so he can pretend that you don't mind.
Think about everything he does to distract you from speaking up. Get yourself into a situation where he can use none of these distractions, and then take it up with him, and make sure he knows. Just because he is supporting the both of you, doesn't mean he owns you. But since he is supporting the both of you, you should be willing to some things he wants to do, even if you're not that big on it. But not everything.
idk tho
No.137531
>>137521
>he is manipulating you into doing what he wants
>and making sure you are unable to say anything about it
Hot
No.137537
>>137486
If your bf's feelings are that vulnerable he just might be autistic.
No.137551
>>137486
Ah, it's not exactly the case with my LDR lover (although he does persistently try to get it to be that way), but what you say about being distracted whenever you try to speak up reminds me of the situation with a rather troublesome therapist I'm seeing for medical treatment when it comes to discontentness about my sex.
It's become notably better when I started dressing femininely and passed more, but before that, whenever I brought up the subject of cross-sex hormones or growth hormone blockers, she's somehow managed to distract me until the time of the appointment was up and I was none the wiser about when I could expect to get them or what I was supposed to do in order to qualify for them.
She has become a bit less obnoxious now, but I still don't trust her at all, and whenever I have an appointment with her, I get nervous because I feel like I'm headed into battle.
I'm trying to switch over to another one that was actually helpful the one time I talked to him.
To get back on the situation with my lover, he once tried to get his way by threatening to block me, saying he'd block me and never talk to me again if I didn't take off my pants at that instant (after claiming he has full control over me and trying to convince me to do other things).
I told him it would be a hassle and that I'm not in the mood, and that it'd be quite a shame if we never talked with eachother anymore since I really enjoyed it and thought he did too, and he revoked his demand. He explained it by saying it would be cruel to make me take my pants off, as I stated earlier in the conversation that it was cold in my room, although he then added the remark that he could've made me done it if he wanted to, which I sheepishly agreed with with the connotation that I didn't really care.
Ah, that said, he's only occasionally in a mood like that, and he can semi-respectful too, although he does tend to put up a somewhat disagreeable front. I suppose I like him because I feel like his ornery behaviour is actually caused by a sense or fear of powerlessness and worthlessness, and I think he's actually a kind person at heart, even though that only becomes clear when I think about the reason behind his words. His words themselves are often offensive or rude, although he does occasionally get into a mood where he says really sweet things. I think the contrast between his behaviour and motivation is kind of cute.
No.137641
>>137537
He is a furry so take that as you will
>>137521
>>137511
so I tried to talk to him, we were both on our couch. He was playing vidya, I was reading and sitting on his lap facing him. I asked him why he liked degrading me and if he respected me. In response he tossed the controller away, grabbed my butt and told me that it's cute when I'm flustered.
He pushed me onto my back and started to touch me and whisper into my ear, told me how adorable I was. He eventually managed to get my panties around my ankle. I just crumbled the moment he was the least bit aggressive.
He literally sweet talked my pants off, I'm such a doormat.
>>137551
I'm fairly sure my BF doesn't have much or any respect for me, seeing how easily I can be disarmed. I know he loves me, I just can't stand up to him.He always has an excuse or a rationalization or a promise.
No.137649
>>137486
Yeah, it's called you're a sub and he's a dom. You're his property.
No.137652
>>137641
You might actually be overthinking this, It's probably not a respect issue. He reacted exactly as I would have, It might be that you really are REALLY cute when flustered, I know people like that, and they are REALLLYY hard not to tease
No.137669
>>137486
do you enjoy it?
Or do you actually not like it?
It's important to speak up if you don't like it.
No.137679
>>137652
I suppose from his point of view it isn't a very much of an issue because I've never just straight up told him "Nope, I'm not doing that, never going to do that. Absolutely zero & chance"
I just hate being a disappointment, and I don't want to disappoint him.
>>137669
I don't exactly hate or loathe anything he does to me or asks me to do. A lot of it is maybe a little embarrassing or demeaning but he knows just what to say or do to make the worst of it at least tolerable.Most of the weirder stuff can be enjoyable when he's praising me and being affectionate.
No.137682
>>137679
Idk, maybe drawing a distinction between stuff being demeaning and hating it is something you should think about?
It might just be something that makes you feel uncomfortable because you aren't used to it, not because you don't like it?
On the other hand you should probably just express that sentiment to him and see where it gets you. It could actually be a good thing.
No.137687
>>137486
You're right, there's something wrong with your boyfriend. I will gladly take him off your hands for you. <3 u <3
No.137694
>>137641
Hmm, maybe >>137652 is onto something, even if he seems to partially miss the point (I think it's that he addresses you in a degrading matter or insults you, based on what you said). If rather an LDR, the lover I mentioned was actually at the same place I'm at, my situation may have been more similar to yours.
Have you considered that maybe your boyfriend believes it turns you on if he does degrading things? Although I suppose I still have my virginity, my lover was the first and is still the only person that I have done something sex-like with not counting my older brother, and that wasn't really anything that counts as virginity-taking anyway.
At that time, he was giving me instructions on what to do through Skype, and I followed his lead. At some point he insinuated that I needed permission to come, and I intuitively called him "Master".
The next couple of times we did stuff, he referred to me as a slut, and acted rather degrading in general, which kind of triggered my own inferiority complex and really hurt, so I explained this and at first he didn't believe me, explaining that he figured I was into it because I submitted to him so much that I called him "Master" without being asked to. I insisted and he accepted it, and addressed me with friendlier things like "sweetheart" from then on.
I suppose I got a bit distracted while writing this post, but I think that last but may have been relevant to the posts I referenced. Now, I'll complain a bit about my own problems.
My lover and I haven't done that sort of stuff in months since then up until now, even though he consistently offers at least once a week. I feel like something is holding me back for some reason, and I seem to be withdrawing a bit (although strangely I am capable of writing messages of the same length I used to write to him on boards such as this one).
He also started addressing me in rather obnoxious manners over that time; his favourite seems to be "Good boy". That one is especially hurtful because it not only makes it sound like I am some sort of pet to him, but also explicitly emphasizes my "maleness", which is rather hurtful because of my gender situation. I've often complained about it, but he justifies it by saying he doesn't want me to get any delusions about my gender, and thinks I should be referred to as male until I'm further into transition. I managed to make him stop that a few days ago, but now he just addresses me as "faggot", "bitch", "cunt" or "whore", which isn't much better.
He seems to be insuniating that if I do sexy things for him, he'll change his attitude, but I just can't get over the mental block. It's almost like before the first time I did it with him, except without the curiosity. I just feel like it's a hassle even though at the same time I kind of want to do it, but due to some unclear factor the "hassle" part outweighs that.
Well, I guess I wish you luck with your situation, at least.
No.137711
>>137682
>>137694
I don't have many fetishes and those I do have I assume are normal or average for a homosexual to have. He has a few that I don't look forward too or appreciate very much. I don't like being 'marked' or the taste of urine. When he drags me off into a public bathroom and has me suck him off I feel like puking from the stress. But when he ruffles my hair, kisses or tells me how much he loves me I don't think of it as 'Watersports' or 'exibitionism' or whatever else we're doing. I just think of it as a way of making him happy.
>Have you considered that maybe your boyfriend believes it turns you on if he does degrading things?
The crossdressing wouldn't be so bad if what I get wasn't so slutty and impractical. A lot of it is very revealing and extremely uncomfortable to wear sometimes. A nice soft blouse and non-constricting skirt might be nice.
I'm also sorry you're relationship isn't doing so well
No.137752
OP it sounds like you need to be a better bf.
No.137757
How do relationships even work?
I just don't get it
No.137808
>>137641
>>137711
>>137506
>>137486
As a neutral third part who only knows as much about your relationship as you have told us, my advice for you is to weigh the value of this relationship
I know you have said that you love him and he loves you but a relationship can't survive on love alone. If you're not happy with how things are you might be better off with out him.
But as >>137521 says, idk tho.
No.137834
>>137711
>I don't have many fetishes and those I do have I assume are normal or average for a homosexual to have. He has a few that I don't look forward too or appreciate very much. I don't like being 'marked' or the taste of urine. When he drags me off into a public bathroom and has me suck him off I feel like puking from the stress. But when he ruffles my hair, kisses or tells me how much he loves me I don't think of it as 'Watersports' or 'exibitionism' or whatever else we're doing. I just think of it as a way of making him happy.
this has been said and i say it again. write this down on a piece of paper and give it to him.
>I don't look forward to fetishes you have or appreciate them very much
>I don't like being 'marked' or the taste of urine. When you drags me off into a public bathroom and have me suck you off I feel like puking from the stress.
>I do these things because they make you happy but I wont do them anymore.
plz anon this will work
No.137895
>>137506
If you didn't want to be abused then you would have left by now. What the hell would he do about it, after all? Face it, you love it. Figures.
No.137938
>>137641
>so I tried to talk to him, we were both on our couch. He was playing vidya, I was reading and sitting on his lap facing him. I asked him why he liked degrading me and if he respected me. In response he tossed the controller away, grabbed my butt and told me that it's cute when I'm flustered.
>He pushed me onto my back and started to touch me and whisper into my ear, told me how adorable I was. He eventually managed to get my panties around my ankle. I just crumbled the moment he was the least bit aggressive.
>He literally sweet talked my pants off, I'm such a doormat.
No.137941
Would your boyfriend like another sub
No.138107
>>137808
My family and school friends want nothing to do with me. While my parents disliked me being gay. If I broke up with him I wouldn't really have any place to go.
>>137834
I put a small note in with his lunch, I really hope he reads it.
>>137895
He loves me for who I am. He gives me validation and praise, he doesn't think I'm completely worthless. I don't want to lose all of that
No.138111
>>138107
I'm sorry to hear that anon, would you mind telling us why you've been alienated?
Is not having anywhere else to go a big motivator for you to stay in this relationship or is it just a fact of life?
I'm sorry anon, but I still stand by my assessment that this relationship might not be the best thing for you. I hope I'm wrong though and everything works out to make you happy in the end.
No.138152
>>138111
I hope this doesn't sound too cliche, but I didn't have the best childhood. We were poor, my parents fought all of the time. I never lived up to my parents expectations.
I know both of them resent me, though they've never said it to my face. I distinctly remember my mother telling me I was the biggest mistake she ever had.
My dad was disappointed that I was short, that I wasn't into sports or cars or girls. My mother hated the fact that I was terrible in school and that I found church boring.
My older brother was on the basketball team, got okay grades and had a steady girlfriend. My parents showed him with attention. I normally got his hand-me-downs whenever possible. It was tolerable, It was what I was used to.
I had known that I had liked boys since I was 13, but since Fag and Queer were really popular insults at my school I thought I would be smart and not tell everyone I was gay. I was friends with a guy called Jordan, he would occasionally act gay or slap someones ass as a joke.
After a few years of homoerotic jokes I actually thought he might be gay, so I told him I was gay. A few days after that the whole school knew. People would taunt me in the halls, my locker was defaced, I was pushed around, a few people threatened to beat me up. All of my friends and even my brother would have nothing to do with me. From 10th to 11th grade I was a complete pariah, the guidance counselor and Principle were somewhat supportive but only in the most nonhelpful ways.
My brother had told my parents. Having to sit at the dinner table with both of my parents calling me a sinner, quoting bible verses and yelling at me is one of the most acutely uncomfortable things I've experienced. Having 1 on 1 sessions with a pastor who tried to help me stop being such a degenerate or going to a counselor who was convinced I was merely pretending to be gay for attention.
I hated being in school, so my grades dropped like a rock, my attendance started to become spotty until I just stopped going. Got a part time job in the morning, and I spent the rest of the day biking around town. I eventually ran into my future boyfriend in a gamestore, we hit it off and after a months of on and off chance meetings we went on a few actual dates. He learned about my situation and invited me to live with him if I wanted. I didn't move out of my parents house, I just left everything and moved in with him. I don't regret that derision very much
No.138155
>>138152
I'm not going to tell you I know how you feel, since I never was stupid enough to spill it when I knew the coast wasn't safe. Still, I know the feeling of not having options and being alienated though, so you can have that satisfaction at least. That shit's been getting to me lately. So I DO know how you feel in that regard.
Do your best in life anon. You're going to happy someday.
Know this though: If you NEED someone in a relationship, for any reason, then it isn't genuine. Truly good, healthy relationships are formed because of the choice to put up with each other, to be with each other and to do your best for each other. Need is a relationship killer.
No.138241
>>137711
Your relationship is almost ideal-tier to me. It's weird.
… but ah, trying to be at least a little bit helpful: Have you looked at getting a job or something?
You seem to rely too much on your bf for self-worth, and that may have something to do with the fact you're living for him and off his money.
If you had your own stuff to do and could buy yourself the things you liked, and had the funds to get the hell out on your own if need be, maybe things would improve for you two with a healthier relationship.
Idk, tho. Since I'd be more than happy being marked and dragged off to public bathrooms.
No.138360
>complaining about having a boyfriend that bullies you and then fucks you
Goddamn, rub it in why don't you.
No.138361
>>138360
I know that feel.
maybe I could bully fuck you?
I'm not really good at bullying though, so it would probably turn into just a fuck
No.138398
>>138155
I am dependent on him for a lot of things, maybe a little too dependent. But even if he was just using me for sex it's far better than what I had to deal with.
>>138241
I did have a job, but after I moved in with him I had to quit since it was too far to bike and it was too far out of his way to drive me there. Whenever I offered to get another job he always got a little defensive and made it clear that he could support both of us. He does give me some spending money each month but he's the one paying for everything. He does so much for me I feel guilty sometimes.
No.138415
OP is baby bitch complaining about what half of us wish we were and the other half wishes we had
FUCK ALL I WANT IS A BITCHBOY TO BULLY
No.138419
>>138415
all I want is some affection man. Maybe love too, but I feel like that is a bit too much to ask.
No.138435
>>138415
What sort of bitchboy?
No.138458
>>138435
A cute one
with a penis
No.138459
>>138458
I think I may qualify.
No.138463
>>138459
Post Skype/Steam, alleged bitchboy
No.138464
>>138415
I just wish I wasn't so diminutive and meek all the time. I'm happy but I do feel a little powerless in the relationship sometimes.
No.138697
So my boyfriend and I had a little talk last night. I asked him if he could maybe tone down the teasing and the number of sexy times while in public. He's also agreed to help me feel a little more control during sex. I made a few concessions but I think it's an okay deal.
No.138774
Glad to hear it anon. Being submissive's all well and good up until it actually starts hurting.
I hope the is the beginning of a bright new chapter in your relationship.
No.138973
>>137757
tops and bottoms. Bottoms like being used/abused and tops like using/abusing but to different degrees. Some like literally being shat on others like light bully.
>>138152
well fuck your parents for being shit parents.
Try to get your GED and get an associates in something.
No.138979
>I made a few concessions
I can't be the only one that's curious, can I?
No.139085
>>138973
I'm working on it anon. Don't know what I would actually go to college for though.
>>138979
When I mentioned that I'd like to have some more comfortable clothes, a little bit more agency in determining where we go and do on dates, and doing a few things I've wanted to do in bed.
I guess since I was asking for things and he was agreeing to them that he also deserved something. He had a few dragon dildos that I've always considered to big for someone of my stature. I'm pretty sure guys under 5'5" aren't normally allowed to ride those. Anyway he has one that's like a foot long and has a large knot. I'm not sure what it's called but he wants to videotape me knot myself for him while wearing some of the clothing he's bought for me.
I'm a little camera shy, I've also never taken something with that much girth before.
No.139099
>>137486
that sounds like my ideal relationship ;_;
No.139147
>>137506
>be me
>sees Sasha
>whispers his name
>must fap now
Also I wish my bf will let me be like that towards him
No.139155
>>137652
>tfw I'm one of those people that gets flustered really easily and people (playfully, they think) tease all the time
>tfw I really hate it, it turns me off completely and it makes me feel terrible
No.139165
>>139155
I wish I could just learn to take a joke, but the jokes are hurtful
No.139231
>>139085
What are some of your interests or hobbies?
No.143969
>>139231
>>139231
I like knitting, I'm not very good yet so everything I've made so far is a bit off. My boyfriend appreciated the scarf I made him over the winter though. I like to play video games with my boyfriend even though the number of local co-op games are pretty small. I also like to collect and press flowers, although I have managed to find most of the ones in my area, there are supposedly a few kinds of Indian Paintbrushes around but I haven't managed to find them.
8chan ate my post the first time
No.144001
>>143969
Only thing that comes to mind is video games can lead to a career in computers.
No.144002
>>139085
Only thing I would do is stretch beforehand so you don't break anything. Sounds kinky
No.144026
>>144001
I'm not overly worried about it at the moment. Besides we only have one car and I never managed to get my license. Things might change in the future though.
>>144002
I've been trying but it is very large, I honestly don't know where all of it is supposed to fit inside of me. I don't normally use dildos so it's actually pretty frustrating.
No.144248
>>143969
Are you considering ditching him just because you dislike some of these traits? Some true love you've got. Maybe you should spare him the wasted time, though he'll probably miss the sex.
No.144253
>>144248
you'll have to be a bit more specific.
No.144256
>>144253
I think he's saying that if you are considering leaving your bf because you dislike some of his traits then you you're not worth it as a bf. Kind of hard to translate from Bongistinian to English, I know.
No.144265
>>144253
>>144256
That's bullshit. No relationship is perfect. Just because there's some doubt doesn't mean its worth throwing away.
No.144273
>>144265
m8 I have no dog in this fight because >no bf
I'm just a messenger
No.144291
>>144256
I haven't thought about leaving him, I don't think I mentioned anything to that effect. It's just a little confusing, I'm fine with him bossing me around and having him do things to me. I'd just like to be able to make a few more decisions in the relationship, like where to go for fate night for example. If he had told me "Nah, just do what I tell you too" I'd most likely go along with it. What I get out of the relationship more than makes up for anything he does to me or makes me do.
No.144403
>>144291
Just out of curiosity, what state are you in? The only state that I can think of that has both the crazy religious and Indian paintbrushes is Oklahoma.
No.145133
No.145228
>>137486
> I feel like he might believe he's entitled to me
> he's supporting both of us.
No he's EARNED YOU. Subconsciously you know this or you'd have put a stop to it.
No.145233
>>137694
>not counting my older brother, and that wasn't really anything that counts as virginity-taking anyway.
> but also explicitly emphasizes my "maleness", which is rather hurtful because of my gender situation
http://yiannopoulos.net/2014/08/15/transgenderism-is-a-psychiatric-disorder-its-sufferers-need-therapy-not-surgery/
No.145334
>>144403
I live in Wisconsin, It's not the most impressive state, but at least it's not North or South Dakota.
>>145133
My butt is my boyfriend's and I doubt he'd like me waving it about like a common sloot. Besides, I've never been comfortable with pictures.
>>145228
That is how I feel sometimes.
No.146438
>>137486
It's called being a woman you fag.
All lasting relationships have a first mate and captain. Can't have two captains. you're the bottom. dealwifit
No.146439
>>137486
bite his weewee OP.
Just say you know and appreciate how much hes doing for you and you love him but its a bit too much what hes doing
No.178498
>>137486
>He's never threatened me or been physically abusive.
try slapping him
he'll hopefully give some if not more back
No.178508
Your boyfriend sounds like a lucky man.
I would kill for someone who was like you.
No.203841
>>145334
Wisconsin here too. Take the sheet of paper advice from above.
No.203878
>tfw when I scrolled down and saw this and burst out laughing for a few minutes.
>good thing my roommate is literally deaf
No.203883
20 Year old yuppie here on a business trip from Fargo to Minneapolis here in a few weeks. Any of you cute fuckers whom this sounds like your dream boyfriend interested in a meetup?
Dinner, Movie, and a private hotel room getaway for some kinky fun guaranteed.
No.203893
>>138360
It's like reverse cuckolding, two bitches competing to be the sluttiest. I like to make my pets compete for my cock like that. Whoever begs for the sluttiest thing gets rewarded while the other gets punished.
No.203898
>>138241
Hey there anon-chan, where in the world do you live?
No.203900
>>137649
This anon is right, I don't think you qualify as a dom unless you have at least one sub who wants you to own them.
No.221268
>>203893
If you're still here after three weeks…I'm interested :-)
No.235347
>>137486
He is entitled to you because you're his bitch
No.235363
>and he's supporting both of us.
I might be 7 months late but there you go.
No.235430
>>145334
>My butt is my boyfriend's and i doubt he'd like me waving it about like a common sloot.
>mfw
So satisfying to see you post this. Fucking Yes, we need more people like you on this earth.
On a serious note. I think after reading what you have generously posted, i can come to this conclusion: He thinks that you are his property.
Your dependance on him and your submissive behaviour turns you into something similar to a dog. One that needs to be fed, watered, bathed, and overall taken care of for a reward, which is sex and mutual love. This is not to say he doesn't respect you, he just shows it in a different way. Much like you would show your respect and love for a dog by petting it, brushing it, giving it a treat, etc. etc. The way he shows his respect for you is by treating you the way he thinks you want to be treated, like his bitch. The lack of resistance and also the reinforcement of this ideal by giving in only makes things worse, as now he has become so used to the situation that it has become absolutely normal, and any attempt at change will be seen as teasing, playing hard to get, or just trying to be cute.
You fucked up good homie, but i assure you, there is a way out of this mess.
Good ol' body language. You must express your discomfort not through words, because he won't believe you if your actions say otherwise. During the situation, you must make yourself noticably uncomfortable, give obvious signs of distance and resistance to the whole idea. Do not go along with it, go against the grain. If he isn't a complete autistic retard, he will see what his actions are doing to you, and as a result, will probably lead to a discussion between you two in which he will be wondering why you've become disinterested. At this point, you must tell him with your words and with your actions as evidence that you are not okay being treated like his slave, and that the both of you should take gradual steps in forming a healthier, loving relationship between the both of you.
Also, getting a job would help, he would also learn to see you as not a house wife, but an independant man with his own interests in mind.
No.235933
>I practically treat my boyfriend like this everyday
>Minus the shit exhibitionist shit (Only really master/slave, dominant/submissive, bondage we do)
>This thread treats it like horrifyingly different occasion
Both amusing and interestingly virgin or naive.
No.235947
>>235933
/cuteboys/ maplestory server when?
No.235948
>He's never threatened me or been physically abusive.
I think that is the problem with your relationship
As a bottom bitch, it is your place to be smacked around as he sees fit.
So I think that is what we should work on first.
What is your plan to get your bf to spank you?
No.236026
>>235430
>You fucked up good homie
On multiple levels I'm afraid.
>Good ol' body language. You must express your discomfort not through words, because he won't believe you if your actions say otherwise. During the situation, you must make yourself noticably uncomfortable
A while ago I went though a dark time in my life. For whatever reason I reflected on my life, all of my screw ups, fuck ups, the people I've alienated, the fact that I'm not even sure I have a family anymore. I felt like a complete failure.
I tried to hide it, but after a few weeks of me feeling worse and worse he noticed something was wrong. We talked and I broke down and cried into his shoulder until I calmed down. He was very reassuring, he told me that he loves me, that I don't have to do anything he says. He also got me into taking night classes once a week, he thinks it would be good for me. Since then he's been much more affectionate, showering me with praise, cuddling more, even getting me some more conservative clothing..
I'm afraid to admit that I still do just about anything he asks,whether it's dressing up for him, cooking for him, doing something sexual. It feels so nice to make him happy.
>Also, getting a job would help, he would also learn to see you as not a house wife, but an independant man with his own interests in mind.
He doesn't believe that having a job would be the best for me.
I'm sorry if this doesn't make any sense, I got a little emotional while writing it.
>>235948
He's not the guy that gets off on violence, and it's not as if I've ever given him any excuse to hit me. He has spanked me during sex and sometimes just to be playful, but I wouldn't call that physically abusive.
No.236271
>read this thread
>want someone like op, feel for them but also find it kind of hot
shit
But yeah, good on you for not being a whore at least. I hope shit works out for you, you sound adorable and decent.
>>235430 is prooobably right anyhow
Also, him saying you probably shouldn't work seems like it might be something more akin to parental concern, but it's still a kind of "I have to protect them from the world" deal. he doesn't sound like the kind to isolate for the sake of that though. Or maybe he is, but yeah.
No.236280
>>236026
This whole story is so god damn sweet that I feel happier than I do bitter about being alone. I hope your relationship works out for the better, OP.
No.236406
>>236271
>he doesn't sound like the kind to isolate for the sake of that though. Or maybe he is, but yeah.
I have a few problems that might make getting a job hard. I'm pretty incompetent and I'm a push-over. He does like to keep tabs on me, he'll call me on his lunch break, we'll walk to the store together if I need eggs or something. It's nice and it makes me feel safe. It might look to be a bit controlling, but having someone a head taller than me at my back really helps my confidence in social situations.
>>236280
It's nothing too serious, nothing for anyone to worry about anyway. I'm sure you'll find someone to hold hands and cuddle with on a cold winter night.
No.236421
>>236026
I think you need to work on becoming tougher, wiser and more competent. Take it one step at a time, and think about what you could do to earn your own respect back.
Because I think the problem isn't the BF, it's your own lack of self-worth and inability to think for yourself. Once you have those things, it will be much easier to communicate your feelings and figure out what you want in your relationship. The fact that you take creepy shit like >>235948 seriously is a dead give-away.
Just bear in mind, in case the responses in this thread aren't obvious enough, that there's nothing wrong with being the bitch in the relationship. It's fun and sexy. Just don't be a bitch in your heart.
No.236423
Fuck you, I wish I had a boyfriend.
No.236465
>I think you need to work on becoming tougher, wiser and more competent
I wouldn't know where to start if I'm going to be completely honest. I don't think I'm physically capable of becoming 'tougher' as I'm not a very big person. I guess going to my night classes might fall under becoming wiser. As for competent? I'm completely lost.
> Take it one step at a time, and think about what you could do to earn your own respect back. Because I think the problem isn't the BF, it's your own lack of self-worth and inability to think for yourself.
I've never had any real respect for myself, my entire childhood consisted of people calling me a failure and a faggot. My boyfriend treated me better than anyone I can recall. He cares for me and loves me.
I'd base much of myself worth on him and making him happy, and I normally just let him decide everything because what do I know? I sometimes feel guilty asking for things other couples might take for granted. I know that all of this sounds really pathetic but compared to the life I was living it's heaven.
No.236468
>I think you need to work on becoming tougher, wiser and more competent
I wouldn't know where to start if I'm going to be completely honest. I don't think I'm physically capable of becoming 'tougher' as I'm not a very big person. I guess going to my night classes might fall under becoming wiser. As for competent? I'm completely lost.
> Take it one step at a time, and think about what you could do to earn your own respect back. Because I think the problem isn't the BF, it's your own lack of self-worth and inability to think for yourself.
I've never had any real respect for myself, my entire childhood consisted of people calling me a failure and a faggot. My boyfriend treated me better than anyone I can recall. He cares for me and loves me.
I'd base much of myself worth on him and making him happy, and I normally just let him decide everything because what do I know? I sometimes feel guilty asking for things other couples might take for granted. I know that all of this sounds really pathetic but compared to the life I was living it's heaven.
8chan might have ate my post
No.236539
>>236423
this
op
people would pay money to be you
No.236554
>>236539
Besides my boyfriend, my life hasn't been very good. Sometimes I'd like to know what being a normal person would be like, having a family I could go back too, actual friends.
I can see how what I've said about my relationship would be attractive to some and I won't deny that the sex and physical side of our relationship is really good.
No.236557
>>236554
>tfw no bf who dicks me when ever i like
reee
No.236581
>>236557
I'm sure you'll be able to find a cute, well hung welshman who'll stick his carmarthen oak up your butt.
My boyfriend and I have been together long enough that we have a lot of trust in each other and we can read each other fairly well. I know well enough when he wants his dick sucked or when he wants something more, even if I'm not really in the mood at that moment I know it's something he really appreciates. He'll also know when it's a good time to pull my underwear down and fuck me into a drooling mess, sometimes he's not really in the mood but he'll still milk me even if it's just to shut me up.
I'm sure you'll find someone to fuck you right good. I can never tell if my posts go through, even if I wait minutes to check
No.236583
>>236581
>pull my underwear down and fuck me into a drooling mess
stop rubbing it in
does he ever raep u?
No.236585
>>236583
He sometimes gets a bit rough and decides he's just going to take what he wants and surprises me. But he knows how to make me agreeable. Other times he'll zipcuff, blindfold, and gag me and do whatever he wants to me. Having a vibrator forced right against your prostate and being forced to deal with it for hours while someone does lewd things to you and makes you to blow them until you have a prostate orgasm is pretty fun. It's really carefree, I can just turn my brain off and enjoy getting the submissiveness.
But those don't happen often, missionary or doggy style is normally good enough for both of us. Missionary is nice because we can kiss and hold hands while we fuck
No.236587
>>236585
going to an hero
why don't i get this
i'm the supreme cuteboi
No.236590
>>236587
I don't have much experience dating, or sexual experience with other people besides my boyfriend. But I'm accommodating to what my boyfriend wants. I'll do whatever he suggests, if he wanted me to get down on all fours and bark like a dog I'd do it.
You just have to get with someone you love and trust and be open to what you want in your relationship. He was very patient with me, he eased me very gently into sex and built up mutual trust before asking me to do anything too obscene.
From what I understand though, if you just want a casual relationship based on sex it shouldn't bee too hard to find someone willing too willing to man-handle you. I'll just restate this, I implicitly trust my boyfriend. When I get cuffed, gagged and blindfolded I trust that he'll know when too stop, that he'll know if something is too big to stuff into my butt, and to make sure I don't hurt myself.
I trust that if you go looking for someone then you'll find someone.
No.236592
>>236590
>tfw no bf the owns me like one would a pet
>tfw being a slave is banned
No.236597
>>236592
I'm not a pet or a slave, I just trust my boyfriend to make the right decisions. I could veto anything he wants me to do if I wanted too, but I've never felt the need too.
I'm still my own person, not just someone who gets fucked.
No.236603
>>236597
> I could veto anything he wants me to do if I wanted too,
0/10
would not bf
No.236675
>>236581
>>236585
>tfw no welsh bf to get drunk with the nectar of submission with
No.236680
>>137486
He is going to get the both of you gay bashed
No.236712
>>137486
>or he calls me these really embarrassing pet names
Can you give us some examples? That sounds really cute tbh, i would love that
No.236751
>>236675
You'll find someone to eat sacred salmon of wisdom with.
>>236680
I trust him enough to not get in trouble. I think most people would just assume I'm his girlfriend from behind just from the height difference, he is much taller than me.
>>236712
One of the more embarrassing ones is chicocito which I'm pretty sure means something like "fuck boy", bubblebutt, cutie, honey, huck, doogie howser he especially likes calling me this in public, he also uses 'amorcito" which makes my heart go Hnnnnnnng.
No.236756
>>236751
But will I find someone to bring in the night with? I just want to come before Christ and murder love.
No.236831
>>236751
Chicocito means little guy
t. Alberto Barbosa
No.236837
>>236831
Are you sure chicocito doesn't mean anything filthy and lewd? Doesn't mamacita mean something lewd?
No.236959
>>236837
It's just a diminutive. It makes a noun small, but it could also be interpreted as meaning it has a lower status than whoever says it, sort of like how "little" doesn't always mean physically smaller in some contexts (i.e. many of the sexual ones you see on this board).
No.236975
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>>236751
doogie howser? Whats the story behind that one?
Also does he ever wedgie/pants you in public?
>pls no bully
No.236991
>>236959
I guess I should just take it as a compliment
>>236975
I wasn't alive to see Doogie Howser when it aired. However we share some similar qualities, the however there is one that is very prominent. We are both very small. I also met my boyfriend when I was a similar age to Doogie but in all likelyhood he was probably watching a rerun and the name just stuck for him.
No.237273
>OP is literally all I want
well shit
No.237284
I'm dating a mtf she rarely gives me anal it's the worst. I want the trap ass.
No.237313
>>237284
You can probably find someone better for you, then. If you both want different things then dump him and find someone more suited to your interests.
No.237320
>>237273
I made my boyfriend pancakes, bacon and fried eggs this morning, it was pretty comfy. It gave me an excuse to try out a cute apron he bought me for christmas. Seeing him off to work every morning is just nice in general.
>tfw I'll never be able to cook everyone nice meals
I'd even give you a nice chaste kiss on the cheek.
>>237284
I enjoy getting things shoved up my butt, don't know why anyone wouldn't want to get it up the butt.
No.237321
>>237320
>tfw no burly bf to cook for while wearing an apron
Also pancakes, eggs and bacon are a god-tier breakfast. They're really fun and satisfying to make tbh.
No.237327
>>237321
The domestic lifestyle is a nice way to live. I get up early to make breakfast and to pack his lunch. If we have time we might do a little fooling around before he leaves for work.
After that I clean the house, do laundry, make the bed and then exercise for a little bit, then either watch netflix for a bit or shitpost. Depending on what he wants to do I'll either start prepping dinner or picking out an outfit, sometimes both. He knows exactly what he wants when he gets home sometimes it's a nice trout dinner, other times he just wants lift up my skirt and fuck me raw.
No.237329
>>237327
You don't know how good that sounds. Why is this not a life that I can have?
No.237346
>>237329
>>137486
>He's teased me into doing chastity
Has he actually locked you in chastity in the past?
No.237349
>>237346
You have two different people linked in that post, m8
No.237353
>>237349
The question was for the OP. Sorry lad.
No.237357
>>237349
It was for the OP
No.237395
>>138152
You owe it to your bf to tell him the issue and get him to help you feel better, not feel more bullied. He loves you.
No.237414
It might be bias from my own family experience, it might not, but if your partner tells you he doesn't want you to get a job it's a bad, a very bad sign
No.237486
>>237346
>Has he actually locked you in chastity in the past?
Yes. I think he first got the idea from me, Before I'd occasionally jerk off constantly and then I wouldn't be in the mood for sex or I'd finish way before him when we fucked. So he teased me into getting locked up. The first day or so wasn't too bad but I got consistently more and more horny. When he fucked me I really got into it, but I was left feeling really pent up. After a few weeks I was constantly horny and spent a lot of time hoping my boyfriend would get done with work so he'd come down and fuck me. Eventually he broke me down, we were fucking and he hit just the right spot to make me moan. So naturally he did it over and over. He reduced me to a quivering, twitchy, barely coherent mess, and then continued fucking me for an hour. It felt like an hour long orgasm. I eventually developed the right mindset during sex that makes those orgasms obtainable anytime, even when we're not playing around witch chastity. He tells me I just learned my place. Being totally fucked up on molly makes the entire experience 1000 times better. uncontrollable crying, eyes rolling into the back of my head, fullbody shaking good.
>>237395
I've talked to him a little bit. A lot of those problems he can't do much about.
>>237414
What I would be able to pull in a week compared to him would be nothing. He makes enough to comfortably support both of us, all that he wants from me is a clean house, some nice food and companionship. Am I essentially just a maid that he fucks? Yeah, but it's a nice life even if he occasionally takes advantage of me.
No.237490
No.237497
>>237490
Would you like your boyfriend whoring himself off on the internet?
No.237502
>>237486
That's actually really hot
I'd do it lol
No.237503
>>237490
>>237497
You just said you are his maid, nobody gives a shit what their maids do on the internet, trust me on this.
No.237504
>sweet-natured girly-sounding boywaifu
>reliable and true and yet total slut in your own bedroom
>even has adorably heartbreaking backstory to make you feel even more sympathetic and lovey and protective
Normally it just sort of annoys me when people who do nothing to change their own situation look at those of others and bitch that they wish they had the same, but I have to tell you, it hits me somewhere but good because you're basically what I thought I had before my ex went full crazy. I'm still happy you at least have something nice and would take the breakfast, though.
No.237507
>>237503
Essentially I am a housewife, his housewife. I wouldn't like it if he went around banging sloots on the side just like he wouldn't like me spreading my pictures all across the internet.
>>237504
I'm willing to admit that I'm a spineless jellyfish but I do appreciate everything my boyfriend does for me. The relationship might be a bit unconventional but it works for us.
No.237515
>>237507
> Am I essentially just a maid that he fucks? Yeah
^ Didn't you just say that?!?
Now your his wife? Which is it boy?
No.237521
>>237515
In all honesty I'm his boyfriend but I take care of all the domestic work. A role typically taken up by wifes and maids. You just want to see my butt, you pervert.
No.237523
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>>237521
you sound more like a boytoy then a boyfriend, no offence
and I do not want to see your butt, I want to see you naked for curiosities sake, I am not even gay tbt
No.237540
>>237486
>Yes. I think he first got the idea from me, Before I'd occasionally jerk off constantly and then I wouldn't be in the mood for sex or I'd finish way before him when we fucked. So he teased me into getting locked up. The first day or so wasn't too bad but I got consistently more and more horny. When he fucked me I really got into it, but I was left feeling really pent up. After a few weeks I was constantly horny and spent a lot of time hoping my boyfriend would get done with work so he'd come down and fuck me. Eventually he broke me down, we were fucking and he hit just the right spot to make me moan. So naturally he did it over and over. He reduced me to a quivering, twitchy, barely coherent mess, and then continued fucking me for an hour. It felt like an hour long orgasm. I eventually developed the right mindset during sex that makes those orgasms obtainable anytime, even when we're not playing around witch chastity. He tells me I just learned my place. Being totally fucked up on molly makes the entire experience 1000 times better. uncontrollable crying, eyes rolling into the back of my head, fullbody shaking good.
Yeah, keep on bragging, why don't you? What's the point of this thread, anyway?
No.237546
>>237540
I don't really know anymore, but people seem to think it's interesting and as long as they do I'll respond. There was a few months were I forgot this thread even existed before some anon resurrected it.
No.237550
>>237546
Well it's only making us feel bad, so stop it. I didn't ask for these feels you're giving me.
No.237555
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>>237550
You just have to go out, be personable, an most importantly talk to people. My job was talking to people and trying to get them to sign up for shitty magazines and cards they didn't need. I talked to a shitload of people, one of them happened to take an interest in me, then we started seeing each other casually, and that's how I met my boyfriend. I thought he was a big guy for me and he crashed my heart with no survivors.
I had a really shitty life, I'm not going to say I didn't. However it's only because I opened up to someone that I was able to meet someone I love. As someone once said "It's better to regret the things you did than the ones you didn't do" or something like that. If your an adult or live independently what's the risk in asking someone out or just talking to someone? As liberals keep telling everyone it's CURRENT YEAR, you're not going to get lynched for being a queer. Homos even have gathering places you can go too if you don't want a bunch of normies giggling at you.
No.237704
>dirty gypsy being dirty gypsy
why am I not surprised
>>237555
Good advice honestly.
Especially considering traps are leeches, even the nice ones because the nice, true ones tend to be total fuckups and half of why they're true is because they're dependent. So you kind of need to at least be independent to put up one.
Good motivation for it, actually.
No.237722
>>237486
So he uses chastity to control your how horny you are? Not as a punishment?
No.238570
>>137486
> really embarrassing pet names
>mfw I get called buddy, kiddo and champ
No.238617
>>237486
Are you fucking COMPLAINING about that shit? Fuck you, man.
No.238622
>>237722
It's a bit of both, but I'd say it's because he likes to be in control and bully me. Sometimes he'll leave me locked up for week or however long he wants. Before it wasn't that big of a deal because I wasn't getting pounded every single day or the week nor did I know how good a prostate orgasm actually felt like. Now? Now, it's much worse because I've been accustomed to really good sex. He'll keep me locked up until he feels like letting me loose. He won't fuck me or let me get myself off, he will tease me and tell me if I give him a good enough blow job he'll consider it.
I just need to tell you that after a few days I become extremely pliable and slutty which he relentlessly takes advantage of. But afterwards when he finally decides he's going to fuck me it's such a cathartic experience.
>>238617
Sometimes he calls me faggot and queer and decides he's going to push me around and bully for a day. Sometimes he asks me where I want to eat and then decides for both of us before I can answer. Sometimes after I get ready to go out with him he'll decide he wants to fuck so I'll need to wash up twice.
Bullying is real.
No.238655
>>236756
>tfw no bf to take down heaven street.
>tfw no little black angel
No.238754
>>238655
>tfw Douglas' handshake is as firm as you expected it to be.
No.238755
>>137486
Sounds like an ideal relationship
No.238783
>>238755
It's pretty decent and he always manages to make it up to me. Today we got some overly expensive coffee and held hands at the park, it was a bit chilly but he kept me warm.
>>238655
When we have guests over I normally cook the entire meal. I sometimes wish I could make most anons a nice meal, a warm hug and a friendly kiss. It would probably be nice for a lot of anons.
No.238807
>>238754
>qt trap into death in june
will this thread ever stop making me feel jealous I wonder
No.238968
>>238754
>tfw DIJ always skips over my area on North America tours
Just kill me.
No.239016
>>238968
I thought I would know that pain, but sure enough a good friend of mine made the necessary arrangements for them to perform. For my first and apparently last DIJ show according to the rumor mill it was amazing even if the first night was crowded with edgy fucktards.
No.239138
>>239016
Shit, they're quitting? is it too late for me? I'm in the northwest.
What'd they play for the most part? My favorite's the Brown Book stuff though I may be alone in that.
No.239153
>>239138
Quite fond of Brown Book myself, the set list was little bit from each era and album and different songs were played on different nights. My expectations that they would play Death of the West and a lyrically updated We Drive East was correct though. We should probably get this topic back on track though.
No.239238
>>239153
>>239153
>Death of the West & We Drive East
YEEEEEEEEEEEE
I may or may not have remembered your throwaway email from another thread and sent shit to it because "qt with good taste" is a reality that demands it.
I swear to god Come Before Christ and Murder Love is the best song title ever, like something Gira would've come up with if he were more edgy but in a better way and direction
But yeah we should.
OP the whole cooking for us thing is cute and I would eat it. What would you cook, you think?
No.239248
>>239238
>What would you cook, you think?
I'm not sure what nationality is predominant on /cuteboys/ which makes deciding what to feed you a hard decision. A beef stew, a nice brisket, roasted goose, steamed clams, stroganoff, maybe an orange salad for those weird vegan types.
I can follow a recipe, but I'd have to know what people would be comfortable eating.
No.239252
tfw no tall bf to push me around and bully me. bonus points for play wrasslin
No.239259
>>239238
Skype:MechanicalOctopi
Also
>tfw you manage to talk someone into calling you a whore and choking you.
No.239280
No.239286
>>239252
You live in Cbus don't you? I do too. Want to chat or hang out?
No.239315
>>239280
I've made a post or two on /furry/ if that's what you want to know.
No.239404
>>239238
I'd really like to hear Gira do a cover of Come Before Christ… His voice would compliment that song so well.
No.239507
>>239404
Honestly don't know if he would though. I mean I doubt he'd give a shit personally but it seems like most people into Swans are the same people that'd get uptight about DI6.
He'd do Heaven Street well too I think though. A lot of their shit really.
>>239259
looooooool anon I'm that guy that you quoted mgs and talked about your cuck pm to, that recognized you from the gunthread and all. I added you on steam, btw.
also, nice
How glad are you to somehow no longer be part of the most autistic internet fanbase, OP? :DDDD
No.239593
>>239507
>it seems like most people into Swans are the same people that'd get uptight about DI6
That probably would have been different in the '80s, but Swans are way too popular in the wrong scene these days.
No.248030
>>138152
wow your parents sound like fucking NORPs
No.248055
No.248192
>>248030
They were expecting things from me that I couldn't give them. I try to not think about it too much.
>>248055
It can be fairly embarrassing but he's worth it.
Also, hypothetically. If one of was you was in my position how would you bring up the topic of maybe taking our relationship to the next level or something.
No.248215
>>248192
I don't want to be pushy or anything of that sort so I'm hoping to frame it in a way that I could brush it off if he wasn't into it.
We've been dating for some time but I've never really met any of his family, I think i'd be nice to meet some of them just to see how a normal family life is like. but I don't want to put any pressure on him.
No.251196
>>248192
>>248215
Anon you're really fucking sweet and it sounds like he loves you. Just fucking ask him.
I mean I guess I'd say be all subservient and cute and shit to butter him up but you already are, so…
No.251211
>>143969
knits warm scarfs for when it's cold for boyfriend and collects-presses wild flowers.
ughh… I can't even start to express how much I support this. Having a qt like you should be basic human right.
>>238754
qt with great music taste (apparently, I wouldn't know)
this thread is awesome.
i don't even care if OP story is true. I want to believe.
No.251222
>>251196
We did make plans for Easter, we never travel much so I'm a little excited. I'm sure his family is going to be as nice as he is.
>>251211
>knits warm scarfs for when it's cold for boyfriend
I normally have plenty of free-time so I try to keep busy. I will admit to not being able to understand how to make gloves though, I either make it to wide, the fingers to small, or for get one. Scarfs are really easy to make.
>collects-presses wild flowers.
I'll have you know that plant pressing are manly and not homo at all! Lewis and Clark made plant pressings and they were really manly.
After Easter we're going to go to a farm out in the country. I'm really looking forward to playing with the animals, I want to go up to a cow and give it a hug because they look so cute. I might also get to play with some baby lambs which would just melt my heart.
>I want to believe.
I don't see whats so unbelievable about two people meeting and falling in love. I had a hard life and he's given me a chance to be happy so the least I can do is make sure he's happy. Today for dessert I'm making a double layered cake with chocolate whipped cream for filling and icing, because I know he loves it and won't expect it. I think that if everyone tried to compromise and work to make each other happier the world would be a better place.
No.251235
>>251222
I think you're super adorable op, I'm glad you're getting yourself figured out.