No.177975
For those of you into bullying, humiliation, and degradation: why? What excites you about name calling or getting abused?
I'm genuinely curious.
No.177984
>>177975
I just get a rush from it.
In context obv, it also helps im also a little bit of a masochist.
Some people get turned on by the thought of them only being useful as a cocksleeve to someone who cares for them deeply.
Others just like fantasising about being pinned up against a glass wall by some stud with a fucking huge dick and a mocking crowd on the other side.
Dunno about everyone else but rule of thumb is if you dont know why they do something, its just because it turns them on.
No.177990
>>177987
see I was treated like shit most of my life as well but I'd never want someone to do that to me in sex. I'd rather they lovingly love me
No.177996
Physical stuff turns me on but verbal stuff just reminds me of family drama and isn't fun at all.
No.177999
>>177975
I've thought about this alot, because i'm into really extreme humiliation and degradation. being objectified, choking, toilet play, verbal humiliation (though nothing public). I think my theory is that I have a ton of different internal psychological complexes about sexuality and when i'm being humiliated or degraded and its totally out of my control, and i'm being completely submissive, i'm able to let go of all of those insecurities and be totally absorbed by the sexual pleasure, as opposed to vanilla sex where i'll get distracted by weird thoughts and shit when i'm having it.
No.178013
>>177999
Wouldn't that just make your insecurities worse over time?
No.178015
>>178013
well its mostly that when i have vanilla sex i'm always the top, and i just kinda get tired and feel like maybe i'm not that good at topping
but when i have humiliating degrading sex i can just lie there and be used and i get so much pleasure and can just allow myself to be a cocksleeve and not have to worry how good i'm doing because the other person is doing all the work
also i'm not sure i just enjoy being degraded by people because its almost always people i know and trust and afterwards we cuddle and feel closer
No.178048
>>177975
What gets people off being dominated? The helpless feeling of being preyed upon and eaten. Your mind releases more endorphins cause its getting ready to die and when you die your body releases the god of all rushes. But since its not going to end in you being devoured it becomes a fetish where you hijack this natural high and get a rise outa being dominated.
The other one who is dominating should be obvious. He feels awesome because he has you at his mercy.
No.178057
>>178048
ummmm….. not really … domination doesn't necessarily involve anything that could come close to death or even pain. It could not involve physical contact at all. There are very extreme forms of domination like breath play that might involve that, but don't say "what gets people off" say "what gets me off" because not everyone wants to pretend to die while being dommed
No.178070
The power aspect gets me off; I'm so overbearing and dominant in my everyday life that the feeling is almost non-existent, so it feels really good when I don't have to be in charge and someone has their way with me. I also have a lot of pride and self respect, so being put into such embarassing situations feels great as well.
No.178074
The feeling of being used and humiliated just turns me on. Since I was a kid I secretly enjoyed getting humiliated.
For me personally, it has to be someone who I find attractive and in acceptable lines. Throat fucking and anal play is completely fine but the elaborate machines that torture you are too weird for me.
No.178075
>>177975
>>178074
pretty much this
If I knew why, that would probably be after years of therapy
No.178076
>>178074
I forgot to mention that I am fairly short and skinny (5'6 and 103lb), it's just a huge turn on for someone taller than me to dominate me.
No.178316
>>177975
I want that picture to happen to me
No.178393
>>178316
Seconded
>tfw not pale, blue-eyed raven haired cutie
No.178419
>>178076
can we ge some pics of you?
No.178428
i just completely love the idea of dominating someone, make'em feel like some worthless piece of shit that only lives to worship my cock and choke on it everytime i fucking want to.
No.178439
I get so fucking turned on when im called a slut and get teased of how much I love being fucked roughtly, I just cannot think straight and my mind completely turns off and all I can think of is dick.
on the other hand I kindda hate this fetish because it has led me to really shitty relationships
No.178524
>>177984
>qt to care deeply for and use as a cocksleeve
No.178526
>>177992
You poor thing. I just wanna give you a hug and cuddle the sad out of you reading that!
No.178565
I'm not sure but it may have roots in my early childhood. I've been bullied and made fun of as long as I can remember (and I've been called a gay fag since third or fourth grade, which is why it took me so long to admit to myself that I'm bi), and it just really turns me on when a significant other does it to me.
No.178584
>>177987
i'd imagine this is it for a lot of people. i've been lonely my whole life and i got bullied hardcore growing up in school. for some reason that ends up translating to me wanting to be bullied sexually. it might have something to do with being hurt so much that you start feeling like you deserve it.
No.178591
My boyfriend is this type of guy. He really gets excited when I call him fag and fuck his butt while I have him pinned.
Sometimes we like to pretend that he is a girl so we can pretend that I'm forcefully impregnating him. He likes that too :P
Other times I will pin him on his back and slap him with my cock and rub pre all over his lips and cheeks, and make him kiss my balls.
No.178620
>>178591
you have a lucky boyfriend
No.178641
>>177975
i have daddy issues>>177975
No.184264
>>177975
Something about my opinions and boundaries being completely ignored in favor of using me for their personal pleasure and my pain gets me off like nothing else.
No.184273
>>177975
It doesn't really turn me on, I'm just an angry person sometimes so I'll let it all out on someone if they're into it.
No.184281
has anyone seem Okane Ga Nai?
thats the type of relationship i like, fantasy of getting dominated and being super submissive to a strong man, but with love at the same time, not too violent…
No.184282
Words like
"You cant run away from me slut, because your body is mine, and as my ownership, your work is to be my cum dumpster"
i mean, as long as the guy loves me, sexually verbal abuse is really hot, sometimes making me feel just like a sex doll wich only work is taking the dick of a guy, makes me feel horny :P
i have this type of fantasies all the time, even when im getting fucked by my gf, even tho she is not dominating at all
im weird?
No.184301
I'm naturally submissive, someone bullying, humiliating, and degrading me is asserting their dominance over me. Ergo, in these ways they dominate me. I'm very submissive so I love being forcefully dominated.
That's how I get excited by it.
No.184331
>>184301
Purely in a sexual context? or do you enjoy being made to feel inferior all the time?
No.184337
I really like beeing the slut.
Beeing told what to do, no own decisions,just be there.
New ideas? I have to do it…
No.184342
>>178074
>>178076
Pretty much this. But it has to be loving too. I have no idea why. I have cold but loving father and extremely caring mother. I had a lonely childhood but my family was there to support me. I came to out as a fgt and atheist a few weeks ago and my mother didn't say anything despite being religious.
No.184366
In general, I like to please people, especially those who I like/love. Being used/humiliated doesn't feel bad if I know the person I love enjoys it, as it means I am pleasing them by being a toy they can play with.
No.184374
I like humiliation because I have a small penis so the thought of getting humiliated by someone with a big cock turns me on and just makes me more submissive.
I'm small too so it just feels more "natural" to want to be submissive and submit to someone strong and fit and let them dominate me or have his way with me.
Basically, a loving boyfriend that dominates/bullies/humiliates me hard in bed.
No.184406
>>184331
It's mostly in a sexual context, since it's otherwise hard to make me feel inferior.
I generally just like being dominated during sex, especially since I'm a pure bottom and can't top.
No.184461
>>184301
Cute, and also pretty hard not to feel inferior when you're being pinned down and pounded so that makes sense
No.184926
I love the idea of pleasing other people so the most extreme of that is basically just being some ones human plaything.
Plus I like following orders.
Good times.
No.185057
>>184366
This is me. I want nothing more than to please people, no matter what it is that that entails.
No.185059
>bullying thread is dead
>no one to bully
fukken typical
No.185184
I don't know why but getting pinned down and fucked while being called a faggot is a feeling like no other.
No.185190
No.185292
>>185059
y-you can bully me anon
No.185349
Fuck, I dont know really where it comes from but it surely stems from some unhealthy obsession in my case.
Ive had this fetish since a long time and while I surely can get off from other more dominant thougths as well, it becomes stronger when im in periods of low self esteem.
(The same goes for attraction to guys, Im biscum and only long for cock and homocuddles when im feeling down and weak.)
It probably stems from the fact that ive always felt very guilty and considered myself weak and despicable when I failed timeschedules or did not hold up to my own resolutions and high standarts. Because I feel/felt awful about it often I actually got scared of responsbility itself and often punished myself mentally (and as a child physically to the point were I had to spend some months in an asylum) when I again chickened out from getting shit done.
From this constant behaviour I probably have developed some subconcious sick pleasure on suffering/selfpunishment to some extend which led to the fetishisation and the desire to give up the "burden of control" and getting abused by someone else.
Its weird and has recently happened to me in another way. Due to being a moralityfag to some extend /pol/tard I always hated myself for indulging in faggy thoughts which led to me trying to nofap for weeks snd other things in order to "cure" myself (im not even religious).
Because I fucked up and again often punished myself mentally with feeling awful or not attending hobbys that would have made fun for example for a longer time, the same thing happened again and ive fetishisized this behaviour and am stuck with a pesky chastity fetish now.
Im just an armchairpsychologist so I dont know if that explanation attempt has merit, but has any fellow painwhore here had similar behaviours?
Like being fearful of holding up to promises and pressuring yourself for stuff youve done wrong.
No.185497
I like to bully people to relieve stress. Using a little stuttering faggot as your emotional punching bag is arousing.
No.185505
>>177975
I'm into maybe light teasing and bondage. it's kinky
No.207329
>>185497
Where do you usually find them? Cant be to common.
No.207354
I've always wanted a cute boy to protect from bullies. But at the end of the day I would still force them down and make them my slut. Tell them that it was always their place to be mine, let them know they are an object only for sex.
No.207367
>>207329
They're a dime a dozen on this board.
No.207384
>>177975
I think I'm into bullying because growing up I lived in a very stable, loving family, but it was also a family that was very christian and traditional. So I grew up loved by my family but hating myself on the inside and trying to hide who I was from my family. Maybe now I associate love and care with that un-acceptance of my faggotry.
Also there is the fact that my brother beat my ass all the time growing up and I think after a while it just became pleasurable.
No.207576
I personally am not, but my boyfriend is and it is really hot. He likes to get slapped, verbally-degraded, and thrown around. Last weekend, when we were having sex I called him a, "spic faggot" as a I slapped his ass and he started yelling back at me in Spanish. I had never had such an intense orgasm, I must have pumped with every single ounce of semen I had into him.
Submissive boys are the best.
No.207593
>>185497
wew lad aren't you banned or something?
No.207597
>>177975
getting called things like "slut" or generally being treated like nothing but a fucktoy allows you to get into a different mindset, and do things sexually that you wouldn't do normally. This allows you to rationalize things, for example whenever I'm bullied into blowing a load all over myself I rationalize it on the fact that I am a slut who enjoys such things. Basically shame allows you to adopt a different persona and try new things. I recommend trying it at least once, OP
No.207697
When I was really little, about 3 or so, I had dreams that involved me being dominated (which sounds weird, but it's the best description I could come up with) in some way, sometimes even in sexual ways, though I didn't know what sex was at the time.
One of the dreams that comes to mind is one where I was stuck in a machine that was basically a cock milker and there were other boys lined up on either side of me in similar situations.
From there, they just stayed in the back of my head for a while. While I wasn't conscious of it, the memories of those dreams must have been what pushed me towards more fetishistic material when I first started to look at porn. There were probably some other factors, but that is probably the most important one since it happened so early.
No.207705
When I was really little, about 3 or so, I had dreams that involved other people having control over me in some way, sometimes even in sexual ways, though I didn't know what sex was at the time.
One of the dreams that comes to mind is one where I was stuck in a machine that was basically a cock milker and there were other boys lined up on either side of me in similar situations.
From there, they just stayed in the back of my head for a while. While I wasn't conscious of it, the memories of those dreams must have been what pushed me towards more fetishistic material when I first started to look at porn. There were probably some other factors, but that seems to be the most important one.
No.207779
>>177975
I don't know man, I'm an odd ball.
my childhood the complete opposite if someone was talking shit I would be quick to end it. still kinda do, but it's a turn on to be trapped into something.
make of it what you want.
No.207819
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for me, i think its more of a feeling of having something that attracts someone that feels superior to me. like yeah you can call me names or tell me what to do, but i still have something that they couldn't resist.
i'm also into worship roleplay. my biggest fantasy is someone dressing up like some occult beast or god/goddess and me doing all their bidding like a good little follower and being rewarded with praise from my deity.
No.207828
>>207819
off topic but have you heard of the brotherhood of saturn.
there videos are pretty entertaining for a cult that had a pretty spoopy past.
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No.207923
>>184282
>:P
this isnt facebook, don't use emoticons
No.207925
>>184342
i will take that rare spurdo if you dont mind
also
check em
No.207926
No.207929
>>178076
5'6 is average height fam
short would be like
5'2ish
No.207939
>>207929
>5'6" is average
Stop it /fit/
No.207941
>>207939
tfw Scotland and average height is 5'4
No.208070
>>207926
u are 1 fucking cheeky cunt
No.230343
I really don't know what causes it. I've been turned on by submission for my entire life, even before I had any idea of what sex is. It's strange because I've never been bullied by anyone. I had a friend when I was a young child who would always basically control me and another guy and would always boss us around, and I was too much of an idiot to realize that he was a shitty friend. I don't think that contributed to it, though.
Also, bump because this is an interesting thread.
No.230456
I think I like the prospect of being honest with someone else about how horny and slutty I am in my mind. Like, he calls me a fag or a whore or whatever, and it's like "finally, someone gets it" and I can be more comfortable giving myself to that person sexually. Probably doesn't make much sense though. Other than that I think my enjoyment of being dominated in general is a fear-of-responsibility thing.
No.230693
Can this sort of thing be taken too far?
I get off on the idea of being beaten and killed, and reciprocating to my partner. Obviously it's just roleplay, and it doesn't do it for me if there's no romance involved.
Pic related, stabbings are hot.
No.230870
No.230880
Humiliation and degradation is fucking hot. However, like any fetish, it's almost impossible to explain to someone who doesn't share it.
Foot fetishism is the most common kink among males. So you often catch people asking "what's so special about feet?" Nothing is special about them, but some people get a boner when they see cute soles 'n toes.
The image in >>177975 is a good example of a humiliated boy. He's covered in his captor's semen, blushing and crying at his own unwilling pleasure, and in a generally ridiculous position. Chained to what appears to be the dishwasher and with his nips clamped and totally exposed to the viewer.
I'd love to bully a cute boy like that.
No.230890
>>184366
>>185057
How do I find people like you exactly? That's adorable and hot at the same time.
No.230891
>>230890
>>184366
>>185057
>tfw feel this way but worried that might make me a bad sub
I want to be uppity and resistant to make it better for them and better for me. I want to give myself completely to them, but only if they're willing to take me.
No.230893
>>230891
lol you don't have to be uppity and resistant, personally it just seems silly coming from someone who very obviously just wants to be yours and serve you. Roleplay or whatever. What's hot isn't dominating someone in dramatics, it's having control of someone who is so honestly in love with being controlled that it transcends any sort of play-acting.
No.230918
>>230893
Roleplay makes it so much better.
No.230928
>>230693
Is this uncommon?
No.230935
>>230928
It is very uncommon, anon unless it's dicks you're being stabbed by
No.230936
No.230976
I always had to be the one in charge. I could have just left it, done nothing, and watched everything crash. Well, I don't really think I could have because I never did regardless of how much of a toll I took. I used to get harassed, assaulted, and exploited far too often to justify how well I kept it together. When you've been the punching bag your whole life until people needed help, which you give, you feel very lonely when you are no longer used with cathartic attention, but turned to in times of crisis by scared people.
I went from one end of the spectrum straight to the other. It's probably just me romanticizing the past, back when I didn't have so much responsibility and could fuck up without destroying so much. It's very tiring.
The greatest pleasure to me is to let someone else have authority for the night, and maybe help me feel the nostalgia of a less tumultuous life.
No.231226
>>177975
>why?
The thrill of losing control. There just isn't anything like it. Also masochism.
No.231227
Taking applications for qts who want to be bullied that are in western mass or New England
No.231262
>>231227
I'd volunteer but I'm certain we've chatted already.
No.245224
cd in PA (pittsburgh) ehhh want a dom bf (T.T)
kik: riron.desu
No.245230
I wasn't always into it, but after lots of failures in life I started thinking lower of myself, thinking that I'm a big loser etc. Then my porn habits started to change and now the thought of someone sexually humiliating me turns me on more than anything.
No.245253
>>185349
I relate a lot to this.
No.245282
>>230976
Shit man, what Hemingway novel did you step out of
No.245291
>>177975
BECAUSE THE WEAK SHOULD FEAR THE STRONG AND I AM THE STRONG
No.245317
>>177975
>>177990
>>178057
That's probably it for me.
>poorly-structured blogpost incoming, first time posting after a long while lurking. Recommended to skip, I'm just venting and answering in too much detail.
I was always treated as the perfect, willful, intelligent, and in-control one whilst growing up and its stuck around as how people see me, I can't bring myself to act any other way at this point.
I've grown up prideful and I can't really bring myself to show weakness or emotion in front of people. I think I don't want people to realise how utterly wrong they were/are about me, and how I don't live up to a single one of their thoughts. Now I'm uncomfortable even being around people, having to pretend to be worthy of that level of respect is crushing. I barely do more than play video games and watch lunar wall-scribblings, at best I'll do a few hours of studying a week.
Deep down I just want to be bullied, humiliated, degraded, used as a cocksleeve, by somebody that loves me or is just using me, as long as they're loyal. Fuck off with being a natural leader, I'm a submissive masochist to the core. ;_;
Eternally too shy and awkward, now, to ever actually meet somebody. Don't even leave the house anymore, studying from "distance"/online. It's nice to dream, at least. M-maybe next year. Or the year after.
>>207941
Holy shit, I thought I was a midget at 5'3.
You've made my day, Scotanon. Not that I don't like being teased about my height. It's a love/hate relationship I have with gravity.
No.245318
>>245317
I linked the wrong post like a colossal retard.
>>178070
rather than
>>178057
No.245327
i've spent my whole life being abused and degraded, but about a third of the way through (at this point) i took control of my own life, removed all influence from the words of my subjugators, and overcame a large portion of my emotional side, which i replaced with stubborn tenacity and brutality.
i've found that one person who i feel safe giving influence over me. life is a ship lost in a killer sea, and you're the captain. i've found someone i trust enough to let become my sea, if only for a night.
No.245364
>>178074
So hot…a firm hand on the back of his head forcing it down onto the cock…being struck with the master's big cock so he thinks of it as a weapon, as an extension of his aggression and dominance. Long conditioning sessions like that couldn't help but lead to a deeper, more natural submissive instinct.
No.245610
>>245364
God damn it, anon, I was about to start some work.
No.245649
I have an intense desire to please and be subservient. Being used as a tool for a man's pleasure and treated like a tool gets me rock hard.
No.245679
>>>177975
Theirs nothing like being used like an obedient little sex toy, being thrown about, used as a toilet, it just really turns me on like the OP pic would be my ideal night.
No.245713
>>177975
honestly, i have no idea. i wish i did because then it would make sense but,alas, i do not.
No.245742
>>245679
toilet training would be pretty hardcore…not sure I could handle that. Maybe for the right owner.
No.245938
It's a fetish, just like any other fetish.