No.234772
So this thread is about red flags.
What did you do that gave away/you think gave away you being a fag?
Have you ever been wearing kneesocks or women's clothing that your parents or could have seen? Did you have a weird taste in cloths, music or art? Or even did you sleep with a plush toy at like 15? fuck me… What are your things that you realized too late without even thinking it over beforehand?
Don't forget that this is not a spaghetti thread, not mainly at least. It's about people knowing everything all along or maybe knowing
No.234782
>>234772
I've never tried to hide the fact I've never had a girlfriend, my parents jokingly thought I was gay but then they stopped cracking jokes because they probably started to believe it was true. I don't tell them and they don't ask because we're not close.
My father probably doesn't even wanna know considering he's a huge homophobe, he'd rather ignore it than think about his son being gay.
No.234870
>>234772
im 19 and i still sleep with my teddy bear from when i was 5 ;-;
does that make me weak?
No.234899
>So this thread is about red flags.
Got you covered.
No.234902
>>234870
yes
but weakness is cute.
No.234908
I'm not sure what I've done to give people the idea that I'm gay, but I was with some folks in high school a while ago and they were rating each other's appearances, so I jokingly asked a friend of mine (a tall black guy) to rate me, and literally everybody thought I was telling him to rape me. And they all thought I was serious. That just blew my mind, considering how off-topic it would have been.
No.234916
For me it'd probably be never being interested in girls, acting more "girly" than other guys i knew, you know the general thing.
>>234908
> and literally everybody thought I was telling him to rape me
how would they get to that conclusion
No.234936
I don't know. I don't try and hide it, but I'm not camp either. I'm also asocial, introverted, and a bit autistic. So I get the feeling that if I don't have girlfriends, or act gay, or do things normal guys don't do, they would attribute it to those things rather than being gay.
When I came out to everyone in theater in my last year of high school, everyone was shocked. Which is kinda weird, considering I was IN FREAKING THEATER!
No.234945
>>234772
My father caught me masturbating to traps
No.234957
>>234916
>how would they get to that conclusion
I guess the way I said "rate" sounded like I was saying "rape." I wasn't saying it in a strange way or anything, so I have no idea what caused that confusion. What's even stranger is that they actually believed I was serious.
No.234959
>>234936
>FREAKING
Yeah, you definitely are gay.
No.234960
Not sure what it is about me, but I think it's the way I speak/type in terms of certain words that make me seem gay. Everytime I meet someone new online their first question is "are you gay?"
No.234972
No.234982
>>234772
>>234870
Cute boys sleeping with stuffed animals is my fetish
No.234988
I started spending all of my time every day with my new cuteboy "roommate" every day and when I visited my parents with him for a few days we shared a bed and my dad saw us cuddling on the couch when we thought they were asleep
It turned out pretty okay.
No.234999
>>234960
Okay, that's odd. Any example?
No.235047
I don't really think it's about red flags. Some people just seem weirdly perceptive about this stuff. I had a female friend who I made out with on several occasions who still thought I was at least bi. I denied it of course but that din't really help. On the other hand she did have this weird fantasy about me sleeping with her boyfriend so maybe it was just her wish fulfillment and not some uber gaydar.
No.235094
>>234782
Exactly the same.
I'm pretty sure everyone just assumed me gay even before I thought of it myself.
I'm sure it'll make coming out easy if it ever happens.
Not that thinning the hell down and growing my hair long isn't helping that happen already.
No.235097
>>235094
>Had my hair really short my whole life
>Start growing it out
>"Anon when are you gonna get a haircut?"
When I start getting mistaken for a woman from behind, that's when.
No.235101
>>235097
>When I start getting mistaken for a woman from behind, that's when.
I was already accused of that several times
Still not cutting, long hair feels good, I just wish it would grow faster, right now it all curls upwards (otherwise completely straight) and just too short for a small ponytail.
No.235102
>>235101
Mine is really wavy but luckily not curly so I'm going for that greek statue/twink fuccboi look.
No.235103
>>235102
Aren't greek statues all curly af?
I don't have the balls for faggy hairstyles though I like some, I'd prefer anything over my super straight hair, probably just the grass is always greener though.
We maybe going offtopic in either case
No.235108
>>235097
>When I start getting mistaken for a woman from behind, that's when.
That's already happened to me, but I still hate haircuts.
No.235111
>>235103
Yeah I suppose, I want something like this.
One downside of wavy hair is frizz and waking up with a hairlick that won't lie flat.
No.235137
>>234999
I say buddy/pal a lot, honestly most of the girls I meet seem to mistake kindness for flirting
No.235152
>>234772
Red flag: a LGBT person hating on another LGBT person for being a different letter of the LGBT.
No.235160
No.235184
>>235152
I'm not an "LGBT person". I just happen to be gay, don't lump me in with trannies.
No.235206
when i look around the classroom i notice i sit like the other girls
No.235257
No.235259
>>235152
/cuteboys/ is only the G and male B friendo :^)
No.235268
People used to joke a lot about me being gay, but in denial, I have had a few girlfriends, and they eventually gave up.
But surprise, surprise.
I heard recently that the shoes I wear are pretty gay, but other than that I'm extremely straight a passing, though recently I started listening to some pop music, and got some more brightly colored clothes, so hopefully I'll be more obvious to cuties?
No.235526
>>235268
What's an example of gay shoes?
No.235550
>>234772
>impulsive, get energetic, and barely any boundaries around guys I like outside of actually saying my feelings
>turned red faced around guy I had a crush on in highschool, when he took off his shirt
>somehow a conversation with the same guy about internet censorship on private networks came to the Family Research council, and about websites that reference and quote the site get banned for gay hate speech while FRC isnt censored
>in grade school I used to think the word pussy was actually a term for female orgasm and squirting or giving a female an orgasm (I mean who would just crudely brag about just "getting sex" why wouldnt it be "the sex was so good she came on my dick"
No.235583
Shit like getting erections in the showers after swimming classes or while changing after sport happened but, as far as I know, no one ever found out that I'm gay.
I'm a quite masculine guy, I don't do any stereotypically gay thing, I don't have a gay "accent". If someone asked me if I was gay, I would tell them that I am, but that has never happened. And I would have no problem presenting a boyfriend to my parents, friends and family (it would probably come as a shock to them, but I don't think they would mind too much), or holding hands and kissing in public.
I don't see any reasons for doing a big "coming out" before I'm in a relationship, though.
No.235806
>>235152
>lgbt
Please leave
No.236028
>Or even did you sleep with a plush toy at like 15?
exactly the same as you i was cuddling with one of this giant teddys and fell asleep
>whats with the bear
>uh um uh *spills spaghetti stumbles over words* i dont know how that got out here must of been sleep walking
>mom just looks at me but drops it since im a horrible liar
No.236085
There was this dude in grade nine. He thought I was gay but I have no idea what gave it off. He never even told me directly, one of his buddies did. I didn't even really think that I was at the time but then I thought about it and came to the conclusion that "yeah, I'd fuck a dude given the opportunity" biscum btw. Granted, I couldn't be open about it at the time since I lived in a shitty rural town and the students were pretty homophobic.
No.236088
>friends ask me "if you could have sex with anyone who would it be?"
>start panicking
>desperately trying to think of female celebs
>say "Oprah"
>Friends fucking laugh their asses off.
I tried to play it off as a joke.
Luckily they didn't press any further, but I think they knew
No.236185
>>236085
Umm, what is your name? This sounds pretty much exactly like the opposite end of a situation I was in in ninth grade.
No.236191
>>236185
I doubt I know you but my name is Jason.
No.236201
>>236191
OK, good, you aren't who I was afraid you were.
No.236208
>>236201
Oh, that's disappointing. I was actually kind of excited at the idea of finding that dude on /cuteboys/
No.236209
>>236201
>>236208
Well, have a good night anon
No.236235
i sucked a dick and liked it
No.236419
No.239300
>>234899
sorry comrade, not those red flags
No.239301
>>235152
Red flag: being part of the LGBT community
No.239392
>>235152
Did you just read the title and not the OP? This isn't about those kinds of red flags. Return to Tumbo.
>>235583
>Shit like getting erections in the showers after swimming classes
>or while changing after sport
>no one ever found out that I'm gay.
How the fuck
>>236088
OPRAH
No.251648
i try to hide it from my family but i think my mannerisms give it away
No.251676
For me, it was probably when my parents found out I was posting pics of my ass on a gay amateur forum when I was 17.
No.251729
>>235257
As far as I am concerned, when it boils down to fighting for muh rights and what not, the T can stay. Otherwise I would not like part in any group…
No.251793
>>236088
lawl
Kinda the same for me. Friend asks what female celeb I'd fuck. I panick and say Emily Haines since I had just bought Old World Underground. Shes not exactly 'wet dream material' for a lot of young guys…
No.251816
>>234772
Everyone I tell is surprised to hear.
But I barely tell anyone anyway, so for the most part, people assume I'm straight.
I swear, I'm not that masculine, but not too feminine either. I'm surprised more people aren't catching on, since I never had a girlfriend.
No.251823
>about a month ago, was away visiting friend for a week
>dad thought it would be a nice gesture to do my laundry for me while I was away
>to get a full load in the wash, my dad went in my underwear drawer which is where I hid my few girly clothes
>threw my panties, dress, and kneesocks into the washer
>come home, find them mixed up with all my other stuff
>one of my panties are missing
>nobody ever said anything
Thing is I don't know if he thinks it was leftover from my ex-girlfriend or not. He has said on other occasions he wouldn't give a shit if I was gay, but I have to keep it secret because my mother on the other hand would go out and tell everybody because it'd be interesting to gossip about.
But dammit, my best pair of panties are now gone, and my mom is probably wearing them.
No.251833
>>251823
your dad took a pair, ones with traces of cum in them.
he holds them to his dick/face while masturbating, still unwashed.
expect a nighttime visit from him soon.
he also likely set up cameras in your room to watch you dress up.