>>244017
Eh, nothing wrong with it IMO, just keep it going if you're actually considering fucking him and be incredibly careful. A few good rules to consider:
>be wary of people offering to buy you shit
Remember that talk you had when you were little about taking candy from strangers? Unless someone has a huge crush on you or cares about you significantly, unprompted gifts are usually given with motive, and can/will be used to control you and guilt you if you won't follow through with what they want (e.g. "I bought you that toy and this is how you repay me?")
>Have him fly to you and stay in a hotel. If he complains about cost, offer to pay or split the hotel bill.
Flying to him and going to his place before you can trust him is how you get raped and murdered in a soundproof basement. Be cautious as hell until you know you can trust him.
>Be seen in public
Don't get down and dirty, go to a café or restaurant to break the ice first. It'll make you more comfortable around each other, and if the worst happens and you end up kidnapped or whatever, you'll be caught on a buttload of CCTV cameras together which is more insurance for you.
>Demand he wears rubbers until you're comfortable with him
You have no idea if he's totally clean unless he gets tested, and he seems a little shady pushing for barebacking before you've even met. See the above suggestions too, he can't make you fuck him without one if you're on neutral ground like a hotel, plus there's people around who can help if he gets grabby and violent.