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Domming Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 06:17:15 No.253663

I don't feel like I'm dominant enough in bed with my boyfriend.

I've brought it up before and he doesn't see a problem with our sex life but I feel like maybe he wants me to be more assertive. I feel like he might be saying that what I'm doing is okay because neither of us had partners before our relationship (we're both entering our twenties), and so all we know is each other.

How can I break the ice or try something new? What do you bottoms look for in sex with a top? Do I just dig in like a man and take no prisoners or talk about it?

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 06:32:32 No.253670

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>mfw my boyfriend wants to be my slave

I don't know about you OP but I'd say just do whatever and if he doesn't like it he'll either deal with it or tell you to stop

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 14:25:59 No.253907

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>pin him against the wall and thighfuck him

>tie him up every now and then

>force his head onto your cock

Shit like that

>tfw no dom bf

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 15:02:16 No.253913

Of course you talk about it. You may find that you both have very different ideas about what being dominant is. Don't just spring it on him during sex, he might not like it. I speak from personal experience, I had a fwb that started pulling that ridiculous "yeah imma big dik dom, ur my little fukboy bitch" and it really killed my boner

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 15:23:36 No.253918

>>253913

Gotcha. I should have clarified a little more, maybe "dominant" wasn't the best word to start with. I mostly mean taking more of a leading role, or being more of a strong guiding hand and tightening the connection between us. I will certainly talk to him.

And totally, I could never pull off the macho tough guy act because it's not me, where you're coming from is accurate.

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 19:41:24 No.253980

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>>253663

I used to not be able to keep my erection even thinking about doing anything dominant to my bf, but I knew it was something he really wanted every once in a while so I just kept working on it a little at a time. I'm getting more comfortable doing some dominant things and it really gets him off. I'd say just work on things bit by bit and don't expect big changes at once. A truly good relationship is one where both parties can win because giving the person what they love within reason is what you love to because of the happiness it brings them.

Anonymous 03/15/16 (Tue) 22:11:46 No.254050

>>253913

Nobody cares about some sub's bonner lel. Your there to please not enjoy yourself you little whore!

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 01:29:36 No.254127

>>254050

If the dom fails to take the sub's advice on subjects like these, the sub will likely leave for someone better.

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 07:59:56 No.254366

>>254127

>the sub will likely leave for someone better.

Not everyone is a slut.

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 09:19:04 No.254406

>>254366

>leaving someone because they literally don't give a single fuck about whether or not you're enjoying yourself

>being a slut

I don't think so.

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 10:18:38 No.254427

>>254127

In my case there is no one better, so I guess I am just peachy.

>>254366

Thank you good sir, I whole heatedly concur.

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 11:29:54 No.254451

>>254427

>peachy

cringy*

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 13:53:02 No.254485

>>254366

It's not slutty, it's about one party leaving due to not enjoying being with his partner (like every other relationship). Although dom/sub couples do usually have the sub obeying the dom, they still talk and talk about what is/isn't acceptable. If one is too selfish to care about his partner, the other will likely leave and and probably look for someone they actually like being with.

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 23:12:36 No.254648

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>read amazing dom guide here

>goes into amazing detail on how to treat a sub

>intimate shit like stopping occasionally, gently exploring all the marks on their skin, and sneaking a little lube between your belly and their back to increase grinding sensations

>effectively tells you how to leave your sub exhaused and satisfied without pounding them senseless

>make a screenshot of it all

>repost it here a few times

>now I've lost it

Fuck. Anyone else happen to save it?

Anonymous 03/16/16 (Wed) 23:26:38 No.254656

>>254648

Oh shit what? That sounds awesome. I need it.

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 00:09:05 No.254692

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>>254656

Found it. Haven't tried it myself (subby fag for the most part) but it looks pretty promising.

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 05:09:05 No.254803

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>>254692

Oh dear god this is hot.

Im going to go… Conduct some science… in the other room.

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 06:15:58 No.254815

>>254485

Honestly, if you are in a relationship with someone is because you love him, unless you think everything is based around sex ofcourse.

I wouldn't ditch someone just because I don't enjoy sex, if all I wanted was to have sex I wouldn't even go as far as to deeply invest in a relationship in the first place.

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 07:53:14 No.254859

>>254692

Fuck, I miss having sex…

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 16:16:51 No.255022

>>254815

>tfw this is how all cute boys should think

Anonymous 03/17/16 (Thu) 16:56:52 No.255031

>>254815

The point was more about communication issues rather than just sex. It was mostly about how they feel about each other. If a guy doesn't enjoy being with his partner because of how he gets treated by him, even after he brought it up with him in a discussion, he might just end the relationship. Some people are too selfish to care about what their partner thinks or how they feel.

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 01:50:39 No.255255

>>254815

If your partner isn't willing to at least compromise to make your wants and needs a reality, then that is an unhealthy relationship. If you're also in love then it's probably codependent.

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 08:13:13 No.255422

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>>255255

A peace made by compromise is worst then war!

I would much rather fight and subdue my angry cute boy each night with righteous zeal(lust) then bow to such wanton ideas you ignorant serf!!!

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 17:24:47 No.255618

>>255422

cool picture though

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 17:34:42 No.255620

>>255422

Are you literally autistic?

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 17:54:00 No.255623

Find a black bull for him.

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 18:01:14 No.255626

>>255623

KEK

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 19:04:50 No.255647

Kind of related to the topic, not really pertaining solely to sex, what should I do to show I have more confidence when doing anything touchy feely? One guy I had cuddled and stuff with pointed out I didn't seem very experienced and I'm not, but I want to show I can do better when it comes to cuddling and lewd stuff.

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 19:31:50 No.255655

>>255647

By having confidence. You can't fake that, and I'm not sure why you'd think you could.

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 19:42:11 No.255661

>>255647

more experience will help, if you're making an aggressive move then make it like you own it, and if you're getting cuddled/spooned/fucked then don't be afraid to ask for what you want and tell them what feels good

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 20:28:20 No.255675

>>255620

Silence plebeian, thou st must not, should not speak or all shall make you out for the fool you are!

Anonymous 03/18/16 (Fri) 20:39:26 No.255680

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>>255675

That isn't how old English works. You sound like a LARPer.