/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>"Am I hetero or bi" (in reference to a post you made about making out/ being sexually attracted to a guy)

You're not straight

>"What do I do?"

If you like him then go for it. If you don't want to go for it because you're insecure about sexuality then your loss.

Can't we just have a general for confused or "I don't think I'm gay I just like dick" types?

>>255150

You're a virgin. Most of this anxiety would plague if you dealing with a cute girl. Yeah, bad things can happen. I pushed rope my first time. We laughed about it and I plowed her many times after that. Pretty decent relationship. Nobody can predict the future. Good things can happen, too.

As for sexual identity it doesn't matter. Really, nobody who cares about you will care. I'm not an SJW, but looking at things as gender identity makes more sense. A lot of cultures did that. Not many categorized your whole being for a simple sexual action. Worry about this isn't helpful and doesn't matter.

If you're attracted and get along then take a chance. Take people case by case. Take opportunites as they come. Take only the identity you find usefully descriptive and true. Don't take any shit.

>>255159

I always get pissed off at this, I'm the opposite. No matter how much I try, I can't get myself to be attracted to dicks. I like guys ranging from feminine to thin but muscular (not a fan of bears or any of that shit) but dicks just don't do it for me. Like I'd suck one if it made him happy, but it would be like sucking an ugly misshapen stick at best, and I sure as hell wouldn't want one in my ass, and I wouldn't really want mine in someone else's. No one at all seems to have the same issue.

Anyway OP, just go for it. If you think you're attracted to someone enough to question your sexuality, it's usually legitimate attraction. You're passing up a great opportunity if you turn down someone whose personality you like and who you find hot just because of some BS where you're needlessly afraid that you're straight.

I was molested when I was 4 by my cousin and I'm 20% gay (cuteboys, traps, and shemales but I'm married to my wife… but she fingers me and dildos me every few days.)

>>255240

I dealt with my issues and met a woman who can deal with them in an adult manner?

It's not difficult. It just takes some confidence in the things you're good at and knowing what you can offer as a partner.

>>255230

ok lets assume that i'm gay. but then the big question becomes, why has it taken me over 20 years to find a person of the same sex that i MAY be attracted to in a way i don't fully understand?

>>255497

clarification: 10 minutes after walking around in a random mall i see tons of women i am certain that i feel sexually attracted to. and then boom 20 years of lurking life and this happens.

seems too weird to me.

>>255150

>can external circumstances cause bisexuality?

Didn't read past the title. The answer is yes. You aren't born with sexuality, it's entirely determined by external circumstances.

>>255500

I'm bisexual and I didn't really know it until I was around 17 when I met a cuteboy I was really attracted to. It was really confusing but I got over it and we are still dating to this day (im 21).

You have to remember that effeminate cuteboys aren't all that common and that you probably just haven't been near one long enough until now to realize that you are attracted to them. Lables are retarded, just stick your dick in stuff that makes you feel good, and maybe don't just immediately to sex? Maybe let him suck your dick or just make out and cuddle and see how you feel about it?

>>255559

I think normal people are born hetero and circumstances turn them this or that amount of gay. Then you have the people who were born that way.

Trauma carves a wicked path. Genes don't. Same destination, different road.

>>255614

>The word homosexual is a 19th century invention

>hence it's not gay OP

This guy gets it. Nobody remembers Hadrian or Trajan as homo emperors. Just awesome dudes who also enjoyed boy butt.

>>255793

Ancients didn't do much if any anal, they did mostly frotting and thighs fucking, oral and stuff like that.

Also op, I got my first guy craving when I was over 20 and I am straight.

Having a bf does not make you gay, especially if he is cute.

>>257010

You're confusing stuff.

You mean the Ancient Greeks of Athens (little is known about their neighbors)

We're obviously talking about the Roman Empire.

-4.c vs. first century and onwards

they had anal (we know this from vase art, which is also how we infer among other things the behavior of the Greeks)

the Greeks prolly (?), had some too, but it was looked down upon and they had the dignity to keep it out of their art if so.

I'm actually not sure about oral as for the greeks. I think not. Because it would imply a position of inferiority.

>>255154

is Kanye cute?

>>255150

If you're really not sure, meet him and tell him how about your confusion. He's the one that admitted attraction to you, make him "sell" himself to you, convince you that you want this.

>>255230

>never date women

wew

topfag m8

I didn't realize I liked cuteboys until i was like 17. Beautiful effeminate guys aren't that common, so that's probably why it has taken you so long to realize it.

At least try to cuddle/fuck him. You'll regret it later on if you don't.

>>255150

Just tell him you are confused and not certain you're homo/bifag, but that if he doesn't mind, you'd still like to see where things go. That way he knows what he's getting into if he tries to pursue a relationship or anything.

Almost a guaranteed awkward moment, but it seems like the only fair thing to do.

Just don't say outright "no" anon, if he's cute and you like his personality, plus you already made out, you never know, next time around your dick might turn diamonds.