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I know a guy who faps six times a day. As for how to control it, I guess just do other stuff or put ice on your crotch or something.

get a hobby

learn some self restraint. Make a conscious effort not to. Set up allotted times and stick to it religiously, slowly weaning yourself off of it.

How much is too much? I do it once or usually twice on most days, maybe up to 4 times if there's nothing else to do.

As a former daily masturbator:

if you find it hard to not masturbate, you either have little self control or/and are subconsciously using it as a way of relieving stress that you should be facing up to or relieving it another way. Getting off feels great, but after it becomes a habit, it won't relax as well as it did before and it can get into your schedule, fucking you up even further.

I went to a psych ward for a week because of depression. And because of the controlled (and somewhat boring) environment, I was able to relax and identify some of my stressors and bad habits. Work, studies, social pressure, politics; life in general can be stressful.

Doing it once in a while is fine,

if you have a lot of free time, try to do something else instead.

If you find yourself masturbating instead of doing more important thing, (to the point that you consider it an addiction) you should get help.

>>5212

>going to an alcoholics anonymous meeting to get better

>going to a doctor saying you don't want to take your medication

Good thing for Op masturbation doesn't create much a chemical dependency. Quitting any actual drugs, cold turkey, that your body is used to taking will make it go into withdrawal.

He should get a hobby or try to identify what makes his life so shitty that he needs to get off every day. It's stress relieval he's looking for.

I routinely fap at-least once a day. Sometimes twice.

I've found that it REALLY is just about having "stuff" to do other than be on your computer.

Whenever I'm away from my house for multiple days (visiting relatives/friends), I don't experience any anxiety to fap whatsoever.

>>5143

If anything I have gotten pretty bored

>>5243

Is it bad if I want to masturbate MORE if I'm at someone else's house? Sort of like how a dog marks its territory, I fap where ever I go.

I masturbate on average five times a day. Do I have a problem?

I don't feel it stops me from important responsibilities, I just enjoy filling my spare time with pleasuring myself, and if I don't, I feel I turn embarrassingly perverted in public places.

I used to fap on average 3 times a day. If I went a day without fapping I couldn't think straight. Once I started working out though I stopped getting such an urge to fap. Exercise releases a lot of the built up tension. I still fap if I feel like it, but I can also go a week or two without fapping if I want to, it's just not as big a deal now.

I do it twice a day. i can't fall asleep without doing it, and I can't wakeup without doing it.

I used to fap so much I ended up developing painful fucking headaches that lasted for hours. That really killed my career as a serial masterbator.

Is It addiction even If It does not mess with my school?

>>7259

Underage, leave

>>5143

fap once to reset, then completely avoid porn

>>7501

He could be going back to school to get a degree or he's in college.

>>6518

>I used to fap so much I ended up developing painful fucking headaches that lasted for hours. That really killed my career as a serial masterbator.

Winner! A proof that §3 works. Next time, I will add “develop migraine”.

>>5189

>If you find yourself masturbating instead of doing more important thing, (to the point that you consider it an addiction) you should get help.

What’s more important than masturbating? Any such thing is itself an addiction. Gambling, drinking, work, family obligations... many people find them more important than masturbating.

>>6517

>I do it twice a day. i can't fall asleep without doing it, and I can't wakeup without doing it.

You don’t fap for pleasure, only for side effects. Post >>5189 applies here.

>>10371

Being addicted to masturbation honestly doesn't seem that bad compared to most of these.

>>10371

All these suggestions sound horrible. My home remedy sounds more reliable.

Just fap until nothing comes out and your dong hurts. If done right, you don't want to fap for at least a week.

Nofap, at least everything that is branded with it, is based on bogus belief system. The people who came up with are puritanical fags who look like they never had done anything lewd ever and plebbit usually exaggerates its positive effects. A faggot free alternative may be quitporngetgirls.com . That site is run by a former porn addict who can at least relate to OPs problem.

Every time you want to fap just punch yourself in the balls. Unless you're into that. In which case probably don't.

>>10713

>I have some anti-depressants actually... unless i threw them away, i might have, ive seen a lot of people fucked up by anti depressants

forgot to add, didn't want to take them, i considered it to try and get focus, as getting back on adderal was too expensive (no insurance)

apparently theres sex addicts anonymous groups too

It depends on how far you're okay with going.

If you use salt peter, you physically are incapable of getting a boner. That would impede anyone's ability to masturbate I would think. Unless you're a grill.

>>10715

where the fuck does one find salt peter?

Any downsides?

they say they didn't put that shit in our food in basic and that its a rumor, but I call bullshit, I didn't fap the entire time I was in, that shit works wonders

woah, looking into antiandrogens led me to hypersexuality led me to sex addicts anonymous meetings

theres like, a gorillian groups, but some are nearby and actually tonight, and one even does video call meetings.

Groups are free, doctors are not, so im thinking starting with a group, Perhaps they will know what the best route with doctors is, whether it be to see a regular doctor "pls gibbe meds" or a psychologist or a therapist or whatever works best (and is cheapest)

>>10713

Jesus anon, use cream. I find that putting a dollop of coconut oil or even olive oil on the chapped part before going to bed means my skin is healed in 1-2 days. This is just like chapped lips.

>>10716

I'd have no idea, they're not really something commonly bought and I'd be very careful if you buy and use that stuff, Anon. Don't want to overdose and never be capable of getting a boner in your life again or some shit.