Why don't we help each other out? Why aren't we sharing our Machiavellian manipulation techniques? I frequent a website called seductionbase, which helps me with getting whores and really social interaction in general.
Real Social Dynamics also helps. I would also advocate reading social psychology books, as well as reading in general, to improve your vocabulary. A better vocabulary equals having a better linguistic arsenal as to manipulate others with.
I'm honestly not sure if I can individually offer too much advice. I'm still learning.
A strong, confident and erect body language/posture will make men more respectful and women more attracted towards you.
Men respect shorter hair, as for females, a lot of guys look better with short hair even though you may not think it if you're too used to longer hair.
Women enjoy being teased, being led on emotionally, and thinking you're a high value alpha male who could have any woman he desired. That's the key, thinking in an evolutionary sense, an alpha male has better reproductive value than beta, needy, effeminate phaggots. Emulate confident alpha male behavior, vagina will follow.
Spirituality, contrary to what metaphysical hardasses may claim, can be more easily accessed and practiced by the use of drugs and alcohol, both lucid dreaming and visualization are much much easier after a few nights of smoking weed and drinking beer. I recommend it.