/erp/ - Erotic Roleplay

>>30234

>google this

>find steam account

>so many friends, all of them anime grills

How? I'm not trying to be a cunt, I'm genuinely jealous. I'm not too good at social things, I want to find friends but I have no idea where to even start!

I could use some pointers.

>>33072

You sound like you're in it more for the attention than for the RP.

>>33073

I'd like to think it's an even 50/50 split, at least. I've got some pretty good partners.

>>33072

>because it gets people to talk to me.

I know how that feels. Wish I could fix this problem too, but then again if I won't do these things, nobody will talk.

I hate when people get clingy because I get bored with people easily. But I have a hard time saying no. I even has it as a kink on my f-list profile saying I don't keep slaves or pets. But really good RPers come in wanting it anyway, and I entertain them. And then one or two gets super clingy. They keep messaging me in hopes of playing, even if I played with them yesterday and the day before. Even if I manage to tell them "no" or "not for a while, go fuck someone else you stupid slut"

Then when they keep messaging me I just jump onto another accounts with different characters entirely to stay away from them for a bit. I have 3 accounts on F-list that I jump between.

>>33076

I wish I had that, actually.

Please don't reply with 'no you would not', because unwanted attention is way better than complete loneliness.

>>33079

No I get you. I like attention, I just don't like people who get super clingy. I just don't have the heart to tell them to STOP being so clingy, so I just move to another profile for a while.

>>33081

So uh… how do you get friends and attention like that?

I could use some handholding with that.

>>33083

I'm not quite sure. I'm a dom (even though it may not sound that way). Sometimes I get approached by people, sometimes I approach people and take charge. It's probably my profile. Or my kinks are clear (even though most of them are kind of extreme) and the description is usually short and sweet, and I use good pictures. Erotic pictures seem to attract people. No long boxes of information, no rainbow colours or special formatting all over. Just a quick description of how she acts and maybe a little bit of how she looks.

I think a long profile with a shitton of information is intimidating. What's also intimidating is if you have "Don't approach me with "Hello"" or similar in your no list. And asking other people for ideas in your profile/kink list too, like "Only approach me with a scene".

I tend to be friendly with people who I don't want to RP with, but I make sure to tell them that I'm not interested in them almost right off the bat. I talk a fair bit in some public channels and am even open on them sexually so that might attract people too.

Not really sure about anything else. Hope I helped a little.

I keep discussing fun RP ideas with people interested even though the chances of actually getting around to doing those RPs are practically nil due to how little time I actually get to RP.

I honestly like the ideas and think they would be fun to do, but the same could be said of all the other ones I've already made/started, and its literally impossible for me to do even most of them.

>>33099

I often do the same, usually with extra lewd/weird/fetishy ideas that are overcomplicated to actually play out.

I once had a feudal chatango slave empire that was all destroyed by one crazy chick. I had a bunch of really shit-tier slaves who I kept around for my upper-class slaves to play around with and abuse. I had a sort of queen-slave who was above all the other tiers of slaves and was the best roleplayer out of all of them, We'll call her Queen. She was hyper-chill and did no wrong throughout this story. The other relevant one will be called Cat, she wasn't the greatest RPer but she was loyal. The last one, the one who tore apart everything, will be called Nati. Nati was transgendered, Male To Female, but I didn't discriminate, and they roleplayed as a female.

Anyways, I actually really liked Nati, but I had designated her as the bottom slut. She was constantly put down and degraded. I would have my slaves do a sort of sex-battle that I would observe and whichever one I liked better would win and move up in the hierarchy, and I always had Nati humiliated. She acted like she enjoyed this so I didn't stop treating her as the lowest slave. Then one day, in the middle of recruiting a new slave, someone else popped into the groupchat. Zoe. Zoe was mysterious, an excellent roleplayer, and then proceeded to do things that made me question Nati's mental health. Nati seemed to Obey any order, in or out of OC, be it from me or Zoe. Zoe had also been takling to my other slaves beforehand and offering to take them under her wing if I didn't "Let Nati Go" for being too cruel, and apparently they had agreed.

At this point I had checked the IPs of Nati and Zoe, didn't look the same. Zoe claimed I had broken my slave in pms. I was thoroughly incredulous about the whole matter and figured this was some kind of prank. However, it didn't seem implausible since I had known several people on chatango who took their ERPing as if it was really sex. Somehow this led to an intense fucking cyber with Zoe, I don't remember exactly how it transitioned into this. I had an intense orgasm and then, in my post-fap clarity, I realized I had misread the IPs, they were identical.

Nati and Zoe were the same person. Why would she go through all this trouble to get away from me though, if that's what she wanted? I didn't understand and was thoroughly conflicted. I confronted her, rather angrily on this matter. I was being wrathful as a character, her cruel master, I didn't intend to actually hurt anyone but apparently she was taking it seriously. This is where the bad part begins. She starts having a breakdown and I start immediately backpedalling, breaking character and addressing her person to person. She starts telling about how she has to work 2 minimum wage jobs a day, and live with her abusive parents who force her to pay rent, while she suffers from depression. She lived in a very conservative town and was also a transgender, not a good recipe and had been molested by a classmate in highschool and never told anyone. She had managed to go to college but made "Friends" who abused her and leached money off of her. She had to stop college after one year because she couldn't pay for it, and now had no skills, no money, and no means of getting any, plus the abusive parents who constantly told her how much of a failure and disappointment she was.

Contd.

>>33276

It got worse and worse. She basically used chatango to escape from her horrible real life and that's why she took it so seriously. It was her life. She was considering suicide, her life daily was so hard and full of suffering. I tried to get some personal info or some shit so I could get her some kind of help, or at the very least call the local suicide hotline. It was a futile endeavor. Eventually I resorted to trying to help her think of something she could do to actually escape. She told me what her budget was and I tried to come up with some kind of plan. Except there was no Budget, everything she had went to rent, or gas to get to work. She couldn't leave if she wanted to, unless she wanted to be homeless. I knew how dangerous dealing with this kind of situation was, so I tried to make sure I was giving proper kinds of advice, but forgive me if I was shitty. I tried to convince her to get some kind of help, but she had no friends left, no money or time for therapy, and since she was transgendered in a conservative town, the church was off-limits. I stayed up multiple nights talking to her and making sure she was still alive. One night she told me she tried to hang herself, and then chickened out because she had a "Wait maybe life is worth it!" Moment. She said she regretted this. I talked to her some more, tried to get her to contact SOMEONE about this, eventually she logged out and never logged on again. I deleted my account after 2 months or so. A few days ago I made a new account and looked her up. She hadn't logged in since, hadn't even bothered deleting the account. I felt sick to my stomach, it's been about a year.

I still wonder to myself whenever this comes to mind, if she was really telling the truth and had killed herself, was simply lying for attention, or maybe just moved on. This is probably one of the few cases where I wished I was simply a retarded gullible person. I constantly think of what I could have done differently, maybe if I had told her something different, had avoided her completely, or tried harder to get help. Just now I was thinking maybe I could have contacted the website for help or something. I just hope she was lying.

I left her a message "If you're still alive and ever read this, I just wanted to let you know I still think about you"

Moral of the story: Don't stick your ERP-dick into crazy.

>>33277

I think I know who you're talking about.

;_;

>>33276

>>33277

In our real life, we present to others a persona. The version of us we want them to see. In role play, we present another. It's a balancing act to walk between them. A beautiful, dangerous duplicity. Some people can handle it, others can't.

It's a sad story, but you just can't help everybody.

>>33277

Moral of the story is 'don't drag real life into ERP if you're not prepared for it'. You brought up the IP being the same, you confronted her.

Why people ERP, play games or do whatever is none of your concern and you are not a superhero that will save innocent children by a peptalk and guilt-fueled 'concern'. I'm not trying to be mean to you, but the lesson you took from it seems misguided and one that will make you repeat this mistake.

I have a fetish that lots of people froth at the mouth over when played straight as a fetish on regular characters, but that can get even the most vanilla of people to happily do it when played by a certain kind of character, so I've been taking advantage of roleplayers for years by playing as that kind of character to make them fulfill my fetish unknowingly.

Of course, I won't go into more detail than that, as it's a pretty great source of quick yet nice roleplays.

>>33571

man, now I'm really curious. You can't just leave us hanging like that

>>27113

I'm a gay guy who plays a female character. I don't even know why at this point.

>>33571

Now I actually want to roleplay with you just to fall completely into your trap.

I think IM Roleplaying sucks.

I can't stand the feeling of having to race against a clock to get a certain amount of lines down. And when I'm role-playing on f-chat, it's all I can think about. I'd consider myself a pretty okay writer, but the enjoyment of writing becomes work. There's no time for edits. No time to be unique. No time to give this other person who has took time out of their day to play something that they haven't had before.

And after a roleplay, when I think I've failed to uphold the standard of quality my partner had throughout the roleplay, I often end up deleting the character out of embarrassment or something else.

It feels good to finally get that off my chest, /erp/.

>>33588

Completely agree about the IM pressure, I tend to avoid it unless I'm in a really confident mood. IM roleplaying is more immediate and responsive and probably fits some people very well, but I'd much rather create a more immersive and interesting experience with more thought behind posts.

Also I kind of suck at social interaction and can't seem to handle the pressure of setting my status online and talking to a lot of people.

>>33588

>I can't stand the feeling of having to race against a clock to get a certain amount of lines down

I know that feel. It has probably done a lot to negatively affect me, as I'm a lot less patient and feel a need to rush to meet some arbitrary goal that ultimately won't matter in the end.

>>33588

You automatically fail my standard of quality for making me wait on notes too so nice job.

>>33588

This is only a problem for some. You just need to find a person who isn't in such a goddamn hurry to come all the time.

>>33588

I get the feeling you're one of the people who I note, who take three days to respond to three paragraphs because it wasn't 'just right, I need to edit more', which in all reality actually has less content than my own posts that I send out to them within the day :/.

>>33665

I don't understand the constant need for multi-paragraph diatribes. One or two well thought-out, evocative lines are all you need sometimes.

>>33577

Huh. That is a little confusing.

Unless you like luring straight dudes in and tricking them into fucking your ass

>>33575

>>33580

Hint: What's seen as endearing when it comes to some, suddenly gets them loathed by most people even if they can't help it.

>>33647

Not at all. I don't know how I came across there, but what I find comforting in notes is that there's a lot less pressure placed onto me. That's it. :/

>>33723

I don't think it's that, though who knows. My brain's all kind of fucked up.

>Got an opinion regarding rping that you want to get off your chest?

Yes I certainly do.

I fucking hate Public RPing. I used to be okay with it when I first started, but the more and more I get into the intricacies of roleplay, the more I end up typing. When Cock1 and IkeaCunt2 over there are one-lining, and a partner wants me to public play with em' because they won't notice me otherwise? I feel awkward as shit busting out a massive monster jam of a paragraph or two that creates a rift in the chat.

I feel the judgment. I feel the eyes, and I feel the ignores firing my way just to get me to shut up.

Bonus points for partners who fucking insist I play in shitter public rooms, then disappear AND I KNOW THEY ARE STILL ON AN ALT., then add "Oh I missed your messages. Not only on this one - sorry!".

Guess it boils down to "people fucking suck" like usual, but I'd much rather do things in PM's, or at the least, a -locked- private session if it's more than a one on one.

On that note, fuck notes too. Fuck em'. People who do note play only are a cancer. I don't regret saying it, but by the time we back and forth in 10 notes, we could have churned that out in an hour if we were being LAZY.

>>33859

>People who do note play only are a cancer.

It's good to feel the love while I have to deal with 8 hours or more worth time zone difference and notes are the only feasible option.

>>33861

I'm sorry, but I know a trifecta of players who are eastern time zone, and are pinging notes back and forth reliably enough where we could eschew the nonsense and jump on F-List chat and get it going. THAT is what burns my ass.

I'll still stand by my word, but you at least have a reasonable situation. Maybe I wasn't specific enough..

>>33862

Trifecta?

>>33867

>Group of three.

I once ERP'd in the style of A Clockwork Orange and liked it.

I hate people not replying. Or ditching in the middle or conversation, or pretending to be busy but very clearly being around, just doing something. This of course extends to normal conversations too, not just ERP.

I know it's my issues, I have no friends and doing this is the only real interaction I can have with people, but Jesus. Are some people really that busy/popular/swarmed with friends that they can't answer to things?

Every line, every note, message, anything I get is a blessing. I see people with 50 friends on steam and that's just unthinkable to me. I cannot imagine living in such a state, but I would love that. Fuck, there's people with 150 or 300 friends.

I just can't imagine. I can't imagine ignoring someone outright or acting this way, even in that situation.

Yes it bothers me to unreasonable levels, but I never lashed out on anyone. At least I'll vent here.

>>34789

I'm just now realizing that trying to find friends within erp is like paying a hooker to talk to you.

What the fuck did I do with my life.

>>34794

You should just relax. There's plenty of great people out there who make great friends. If you fancy doing something of a lovey-dovey/cutsie rp or just talk avout random stuff you can drop your email or steam or something and I'll send you a message when I'm around a computer :3

>>34857

Would you mind leaving yours? I don't wanna leave mine here as an identification after an outburst like that.

I'll message you right after waking up.

>>34866

Sure. My email is bomberkingsla@gmail.com

This isn't my confession. I have a desperate love for romantic, loving, happy romances but I also have an incredible desire for those romances to turn out in a tragedy. Almost everyone who RPs NTR scenarios is looking to jump straight to that, but it's not fun for me that way.

My confession is that I frequently advertise for romance scenarios and try to sneak in the NTR at some point later down the line. I really wish there was a better way to do it, but I've literally never found someone who liked both of those things before.

Even worse, right now I'm trying to convince my favorite partner that cheating is okay even though she's wholly uncomfortable with it. I want her to cheat so badly it hurts. I think the worst part is that the scenarios I describe to her are always met with "that is so hot", but the second it's put into the context of cheating and NTR she gets hesitant about it. I just want her to be collared, knocked up, and fucked into pure love by another man.

>>33231

Protip: Most problems people have with ERP could easily fixed by abandoning F-list. I can't play on F-list at all but when I play through Skype I get boypussy wet like nothing.

Don't use F-list. It kills the fun.

>>34789

People think they need to abandon all fucking manners and just be a fucking asshole in ERP. Fuck them man. You should just continue till you find someone relaxed and chill man. Like >>37185 said, people on F-list are shit.

I made a cuddly, affectionate, dominant shemale

I did it because I'm sick of seeing these bitchbreakers and heartless doms always trying to put people down. The submissive folk have become Stockholmed into likimg callous douchebags because that's all there is these days. Since I can't see myself doing that, I took a loving approach to dominance.

I've been getting IMs thanking me for making my character, and Lord help me when I post an ad.

I tend to rp exclusively canon characters. I don't really know why, I have a few original characters that I spent the time building and developing. However I just get really attached to canons I like, it's fun to play a character I already know and love, and play with others who also like the character, especially if they play another character from the same canon.

I feel like this is a confession since most of this board seems to look down on canons. I understand why though, a lot of them tend to act very high and mighty even though they don't have the skills to back the attitude up. Plus a lot of them just use canons so they can copy and paste a wiki and let leave it at that, it's really lazy.

>>37202

I am not even a big fan of shemales but you and your character sound awesome. Keep up the good work.

>>37269

She's my third cuddledom, the other two are a herm and female. I encourage anyone reading this to try a kind dom, one sentence ads net me about 5-7 IMs. Even if I'm not advertising for RP.

>>33577

Are you really gay though, or do you just want to be a straight girl?

I use asterisks and hyphens to show actions.

I use emotes and tildes.

I'm sorry.

>>37281

how do you cuddle dom?

I ask because im a sub and im kind of.. attracted to this other sub who wants me to be more dom, but I don't like the idea of what doms are usually like

Any tips for cuddledom?

>>37365

https://www.f-list.net/c/sable%20panthera/

I start by getting hug happy, making them feel comfortable with gentle rubbing (like back massages). My main goal is to get them nice and relaxed, before we strip.

I don't like using constant characters for every RP. I have a ton of different ideas and my moods change too often so I get bored of characters within days of making them. Plus most people are never as keen on the things I make as I am. I just like making people happy, really.

>>27113

I'm a male who plays a female character because my fetish is large breasts. I could go out of my way as a male character to play with busty female characters, but it's so much easier to simply play one myself.

I sometimes log out of F-list and say I'm going to sleep when my favorite partner (who plays on YIM) logs in so I can devote all my focus to them

>>26622

Yeah, I got emotionally attached. Big time.

Not romantically, but as a friend. When they weren't really interested in that, I think.

They got busy with life and I'm like a retard and still miss them, like I'd miss a friend. Fuck the lewds, I enjoyed being around them a lot.

They had big tits and a big heart, but there's a lot of fat boobs around and not enough caring people.

I still check their profile to see if they're back, even though I know we wouldn't be friends either way.

>>37383

Teach me how to cuddle, senpai..

>>37609

Send me an IM and I will! A quick tip, focus on things that are soft, or sensitive.

I would love to do a reverse corruption themed role play. So many profiles are all about corrupting others and turning them into wanton sluts. I'd like to see what it would be like to do an rp where the reverse is true, huge slut turned into a monogamous and loving character.

I must be insane.

>>37737

What a weirdo.

[spoiler]This sounds really appealing….Email or f-list pls.

https://www.f-list.net/c/tempest%20the%20bangaa/ [/spoiler]

>>37737

This actually sounds pretty great and a nice change of pace considering how few people actually like doing anything that isn't just a huge slut being slutty.

I'm a 4'11'' woman, and most people instantly associate me with being cute because of it. I specifically wrote a female character who's a femme fetale so I can experience what it's like to be seductive.

(I also have to wonder how much my height and perspective effects things. I always think when I play a tall character I'm really exaggerating. Anybody over the 6'2'' mark is a giant to me. )

>>37772

>4'11"

That sounds cute.

>>37756

>>37766

Well, glad to see my strangeness isn't all that strange.

So, we'll see about doing a reverse corruption Rp with someone. Surely it has to work out somehow

>used to fapbait in the morrigan threads back when they just moved here

>see them in decline now

>"boy maybe i should try taking it up again someti-"

>slutslutsluttyslutslutsluttinessslutslutsluttymcslutslut

I probably sound like a stuck-up cunt, but I really hate the word slut. Slut, and whore, and cumdumpster, and all that crap. I don't want to say "offensive" and risk sounding like a SJW, but really, it's offensive and tacky and ungrateful, to boot.

>>37977

>ungrateful

Oh shit I just died a little.

>>37264

Hey anon, I like canons. What's your F-List?

>>37977

Just make it clear that you personally don't care for the term? Most people in those threads are pretty willing to work with one another to get the best experience for everyone involved.

>>37264

I know just how you feel. Majority of my profiles are canons too. I make original characters once in a blue moon, but They're 150% always bad.

I can emulate what I love, and I find much enjoyment in some canon characters!

I lurk the /erp/ lounge as one every now and then, and I always feel ostracized, since everyone else is a carefully crafted OC :(

>>37986

>>37264

sup canon buddies? For every OC I make, I make five or six canons. It just feels so good being in control of the fate of a character you know and love and to have them degraded into cumdumpsters for degenerate males and shemales. Unf!

Given there's some canon character players around…

https://www.f-list.net/c/samuss/

I have a confession for you /erp/ and it's one I just found out about.

Person I have been Rping with plays a loli, good stuff for the most part, but now I find out quite by accident that they have a child.

It just, does not sit well with me for some reason to be Rping with someone who has a kid, that plays a kid getting fucked. Not sure if I want to keep going, or delete the character all together and just move on to other characters.

>>38128

>deleting characters because of one partner

Are you some kind of autist or somethin'? Just tell them it doesn't make you comfortable and fuck off.

>>38128

I get IRL pedos messaging me about RPs on my shotas. Even got one telling me to pick out a boy from a lineup of soccer players and I had to explain to him why I found IRL boys unattractive while cute anime boys where different.

I got one that keeps forgetting we've talked before and keeps asking me if I'm really old enough to be on this site and it's okay to tell him because he wont tell anybody.

I'd take your shit any day.

I chat with some partners often enough that we talk about life events (and logged on mostly to chat with them during an RP lull), but I wouldn't feel comfortable telling them I've been in a relationship for several years.

I know who The Mentalist is, and why he's the exact opposite of Fai.

And that isn't the reason, whatever you're thinking of

>>38193

I bet its because 'It is fun.'

>>38193

Why did you call that fucking retard in here?

>>38196

Not even close. In fact, after you posted your logs he got rather depressed.

>>38198

He was already in this thread, scroll up.

>>38199

I wish he offered more critque than just grammar inconsistencies. I was honestly hoping for more. )= No lie, I don't like how my shit flows for the most part, and it sounds bad but I can't really pick out how to make it sound better. Some of the more jagged bits are like that for a reason, but a lot of them aren't.

>>38198

I bet you're one of the types who get pissed when I respond -on topic- in a thread and derail it into ruin.

>>38203

I asked, then got this: "Two reasons. One: I find my prose is my weakest area. I tend to form rough drafts and shove them out without bothering to refine.

Two: even if I helped him, what would it accomplish? He'd still be his same old self, a horrid man OOC and a detriment to the quality he craves. His advice would still be met with scorn, he'd still try and make breakers out of his subs to inintentionally scare away people. If the site gets flooded with more of him, then what happens to the skilled roleplayers who can't find anyone else who is both skilled and not a breaker? They leave.

I wish Fai was a better person OOC, or even cared about others as much as he cares about himself and his post quality. As things stand I can edit his stories and never reveal them.

**So yeah…*

Let's turn another thread into worthless namefags circlejerk collective.

SO -ON TOPIC-

>>38207

Thanks for your contribution.

I love musk, and crotch sniffing, and everything that goes with that odor. Well, almost everything. I dislike fat and slob (chubby is a yes though). I also dislike the fact that I'm a dom because apparently crotch sniffing and cock cleaning are submissive acts. Even if I have a sub pinned and am about to rape them, as soon as I take a whiff they ask OOC if I mistyped or something.

>>38207

>points to current bitching read

>Fai bitches

>rabble rabble rabble how dare fai bitch #thread ruined

As you were saying?

My phones wigging out else I'd type out a response, mebtalist frienduu.

I like to look at the shitty profiles people link and save their character images.

Lately I've been in the worst rut I've ever been in since I started erping years ago, and it's all because I can't get over this amazing scene I had with someone from here that I dropped due to constant time issues.

It doesn't help that I met them through the fapbait thread during our hiatus and didn't realize it was them until we exchanged contact information.

I still rped with them for a bit anyways until I got too annoyed at them and myself to continue, which eventually led to my decision to stop.

>>38260

what's a breaker?

>>38315

Bitchbreaker. Shemales and herms usually, that target females and rape them. They're rough, brual, ruthless, and egotistical. Take a chick, give them a dick, make them a prick; that's a breaker.

My secret confession is that I judge and hate most people I RP with. They're all so boring but I'm too polite to say it to them.

>>38260

Mentalist can I touch your chest under your shirt?

I hate having long-winded ERP sessions. Unless your character is a damn porn star, there is no way they are going to be lasting very long.

>>38396

I personally tap the actual sex at a maximum of twenty minutes, purely because once the actual penetration begins it gets repetitive and boring.

That said **I've had sex for an hour and a half once without finishing, and can usually go for about thirty minutes. Though I have great stamina and control.

My regiment is as follows.

>Make a new character on F-List.

>Set my status to Looking.

>Enter every single channel imaginable and talk a little bit so I become exposed.

>Flirt with everyone, but anytime someone asks to actually roleplay I give them an excuse and say I can't

>Rack up the bookmarks

>Get bored with the character after a week or two

>Delete the character

>Wait two weeks

>Create a carbon copy of the same character (since I'm not very creative)

>Repeat

I find this far more exhilarating than actual ERP. I think I have issues.

I've done this to some of the people on here, and I feel bad about it because you are good people who put up with my bullshit.

Profiles with real people in them. Man, I don't know I just can't groove to it.

Is there something wrong with me /erp/?

Oh no, I totally agree. It just feels really creepy/stalker-ish to me.

>>38409

shit, meant to respond to >>38404

>>38401

Oh I know who you are, I did that twice with you.

>>38426

>>38426

If you are who I think you are, I'm sorry. It's not you, it's me.

Although it's possible I'm not who you think I am. Regardless, it's pretty shitty.

>>38636

Who do you think I am? Cmon, give me a hint.

>>38645

There was a tough cat girl and a cute little space girl. I think I hurt them both the most, twice.

The better question is, who am I?

I just started into this whole thing, and I made the mistake of getting too attached to my first partner. I make it a point not to show it, and I've been trying to distance myself, but it hurts so much when I'm ERPing with him and he's clearly distracted talking to somebody else at the same time. In fact, I've always hated that about internet friendships – the ease with which one can hold multiple conversations. I miss being able to have a single conversation with one person, and being secure in the knowledge that you weren't a bother to them, or a fifth chat-tab on their list.

The person I mentioned earlier, I'd told him when we'd started that I didn't care if he ERPed with others, because at the time I legitimately didn't give a shit and just wanted to textfuck without any clingy bullshit. But after a few months I started to get a jealous when I'd wait for him to sign in only for him to go off and do lewd things with somebody else. He recently met somebody new, and I can tell that he really enjoys being with her. Lately when he's with me, his replies take forever and they're always really short. It just sucks. I'm probably not cut out for this kind of thing with how attached I get, but writing collaborative erotic fiction is the only thing I enjoy doing.

>>38658

You are exactly the sort of clingy I wish I could have in my life, because I'm exactly that way too. When my partner goes off and has fun with other people, posting ads while I'm clearly there wanting to RP with her, it makes me feel a little bit jealous and sad. Not because I'm wanting the person to myself, but because I always feel like I'm bothering her =(

>>39073

Did you get any messages?

>Want one of every type of character

>Eventually get bored of the old ones and delete them

I wish I wasn't into nearly everything. It's so hard to be satisfied with one character. Luckily most of the characters I delete haven't actually gotten used so I don't let anyone down.

>>39148

I know how you feel.

I FUCKING POOF & BLOCK OFTEN!!!

I IGNORE PEOPLE JUST BECAUSE I'M HOLDING OUT FOR SOMEONE BETTER

I MIGHT DROP MID RP BECAUSE SOMEONE BETTER CAME ALONG

I'M SORRY

>>47670

>I MIGHT DROP MID RP BECAUSE SOMEONE BETTER CAME ALONG

Literally the worst.

I'm a passive aggressive jerk in chat to profiles I don't like. I just can't ever turn someone down so it's a lot easier to be mean than to spend 4 hours of my time doing something I don't want to do.

sorry ;_;

>>47710

That's cute and lewd.

I used to be one of those fuckers that would find pictures I liked for my character then edit them in paint to have different hair colours.

I…I also used to rub/crop out the artist’s signature. Literally the worst.

At least now days if I’m using someone else‘s work I try to make sure I know the artist’s name and recommend them when people say they like the picture.

>>47714

I usually only edit eye colors. Hair color tends to look out of place if you tweak it too much.

>>39148

A variation of this, really.

>get really inspired to make a specific type of character

>RP as that character for weeks or even months, ignore most of my other characters

>eventually get bored, go back to a few of my old favorites

>never play that character ever again

I still occasionally get notes from people asking where I'm at.

>>47714

I delete artist signatures too, but I still give them credit if people ask.

I just don't like words on my pictures, especially not scrawled all over the characters I'm trying to display.

>>47710

The worst part is this works.

>>47714

I do this all the time with my characters. A nice unique image and a well designed profile is all I have going for my characters.

I also definitely remove the artist's signature, putting a small little note as to who made it recently though.

I actually don't enjoy the sex part so much. I enjoy the other parts kinda but not the insertion part. Also whenever someone messages you and you get into the rp and they are obviously not an English speaker and keeps saying "He smiled gently towards you" or anything with "as he would" and then something that made no sense, that makes me so mad.

>>47839

you mean when they erp in third person or when they use broken english?

>>47844

Broken English they say stuff like "as he would put his penis in her vagina and thrusted. he smiled gently." Like EVERY person that has broken English talks like that on F-list it seems.

>>47850

Hmm, I know what you mean. It absolutely kills it for me but I feel mean asking them to learn english.

I never want to put any effort in my profiles so I have one bland profile. Everyone I RP with however loves me as a partner and think I play better than most they've played with.

If I don't like the way somebody treats me, I put them on ignore and don't tell them anything about it.

Reasons can be anywhere from being flaky about RP, to being too clingy and cuddly when I'm sending clear signals that I'm not in the mood, to pretending that they're AFK, to having shitty grammar and spelling, to having me suspect they have an underage player.

Basically if I think you're dissing me or that I'm not getting the full story from you, I'll block you, will never tell you why, and hope you disappear and go be somebody else's problem.

>>48191

Because that's pretty good for a community, right?

I have a new fetish and it's unfortunately scat related… I hate everything related to it, I don't want a mess, description of Anything or even acknowledging that it exists. But I wanna see cute girls poop. It's extremely degrading and gross which goes hand in hand with an image of aroyal elf girl or something. such a hartd way to dominate and or break someone.

I hate myself but that's how it is.

>>47742

>>47714

I helped a friend do that with an ahri pic recently. If my artist friends found out I would be crucified.

>>47710

I'm doing that right now with your post! How bout you share your profile (even if this is a month too late).

>>47992

Fascinating. It kind of contrasts with the i've kinda learned to roleplay as i was sort of briefed to not type out the feelings or thoughts, and only hint at it through facial expressions etc; but that might come from the RP i first learned not being the "erotic" type, the reason it causing a lot of (unintentional) metagaming/godmodding.

In ERP it makes sense though, just like it's done in nearly every doujin, that readers want to know how the person feels etc. I think this is a great thing to actually have a poll about, if people wanna read what the other character is thinking/feeling during smut.

>>53218

I think quite a few of us can relate to having a kink that they don't really want but still get aroused by. I for one am consciously telling myself repeatedly to find scat disgusting because i feel my tolerance to it increasing.

There's also a thing with bestiality, i find sex with animals kinda hot, but there's a pletora of stuff near that is an instant turn-off, like "kissing" dogs, slobbery saliva is disgusting.

>>26622

I get a little pissed off whenever I see "The Usual Suspects" as a custom in the No column

Even though most of my profiles say you don't have to indulge me in my nasty kinks, sometimes I'll ignore an otherwise nice profile that dislikes the usual suspects

>>53239

And how would people say that was a turn off? They're not stating they don't want you, just not interested in that.

>>53239

>instead of naming the kink "the usual suspects" and listing said kinks in the description

>listed the kinks in the name, separated by commas and wrote "The usual suspects" in the pop-up description

I like talking about things our characters would do, or what we would do to a celeb and each other more than erping

>>53299

and jerking off with the other person while talking about those things

>>53277

Jesus christ that's insanely hot.

I totally want to set something up with you. Something where I get to watch you seduce a girl away from me.

>>53299

>>53302

Me too! I've almost completely abandoned actual ERP, and these days I just find cute guys to chat with about characters and ideas, and then flirt like crazy, get dick pics, and make them cum!

It's much less hassle than the lottery of trying to find decent ERP.

>>53401

Hng. I want to "play" with you so bad.

Please make me cum ooc. I'll send you all the dick picks.

>>53410

Skype name is: glideadon

>>53245

I know it's not directed at me personally, but I can't help feel a little bummed out some of my favorites are so maligned without even a second thought

My #1 alltime favorite isn't the usual suspects, but very closely related, and half of the people that do like it don't like it in the ways I do and have a tendency to be creepy autists. Being an /abdl/fag on F-list is suffering

>>53247

You know what the worst part of all this is though? I used to be one of those people. I'm not sure where or when I dived down the rabbit hole, but here I am.

>>53277

I like your style, though it really isn't hard to make a more desirable profile than "generic anime niceguy"

I'm really tempted to start RPing some of them just to fade off for a few weeks, and when they try to contact me again I could say something like "Oh sorry, I've just been spending a lot of time with [character] as a change of pace. Have you seen his profile? He's a lot of fun!"

>>53401

What's your skype?

>>53417

Ooh that's real evil, I love it! And yeah, it's not hard at all but you still see an abundance of them on F-list or in any RP community. I mean yeah almost every possible theme or schtick for a character has an inherent cliche or stereotype to it but generally for the more appealing motifs (like let's say the dashing rogue, the grizzled knight, the bishounen aristocrat) the reason for the stereotype is its attractiveness for the 'consumer'. Fabio on ye old romance novels wasn't for men reading it but women reading it. With the generic anime niceguy (think tenchi or Kirito since the latter is one of those insufferable "milquetoast anti-hero") the core reason for the stereotype is its appeal for the 'producer' - a largely blank and relatable canvas for them to project themselves into. Unless their partner is actively searching for a slice of life 'boy next store' experience the character concept is inherently very selfish - the guy gets some buxom anime vixen the likes of Leafa or whatever while their partner get average height, average build, average features average personality milquetoast I love that word motherfucker. Which is the remarkable thing about this RP netoraring - it's not selfish, on the contrary it's almost chivalrous. Giving someone neglected by bland ineffectual chumps a real thrill for a change.

>>53410

Gib love

abottledpoe

>>53423

Don't you talk shit about Tenchi. That man is a brick wall of willpower. Generic anime niceguy likes a chick but is too fucking socially incompetent to do anything about it. Tenchi is literally drowning in pussy, but he's savvy enough to see that favoring any side will send the rest of the house into more chaos than it already is, so his answer is to favor no side, no matter how persuasive. It can be said that Tenchi helped kickstart harem comedies as a genre, but Tenchi was approached from a very different angle than the other kings of the genre, such as Oh My Goddess and Love Hina. It's not about romance, it's about harmony.

Seina Yamada on the other hand….

>>53432

Nigga don't judge. There are threads for judging, but this ain't it.

>>53437

I wasn't judging, I have no idea what it is, I just saw /abdl/ and thought "Abdul" and couldn't resist posting him as a reaction image

>>53441

Well if you don't know, just hop on over to our little board and be prepared to be mentally scarred

I feel like the only channer that doesn't watch JoJo

>>53444

>I feel like the only channer that doesn't watch JoJo

Amusingly, we balance each other out, I'm one of the few oldfags who's known it forever rather than only getting in because of the new animu. I really need to pick up more of the manga thoughespecially now that I'm actually in the country where I can walk to the store and buy it

>>53446

I've known of its existence for a while, thanks to Dio's legendary steamroller, just never got into it. I'm thinking of changing that soon though

>>53449

It's pretty great if you like over the top action and bizarrely detailed similes.

This was a SL moment, not F-list, but it still applies

I was away from SL for a couple of months, approaching half a year, and this guy PMs me talking like he's my daddydom. I have no recollection of this guy whatsoever and I tell him as much.

He starts pulling out stuff his chat history had saved of our past interactions. I actually did try to start some babygirl/daddydom play with him. I was kind of stunned, since I never felt too big on daddydom.

I panicked and blocked him