/erp/ - Erotic Roleplay

OP here, should specify that when I say "significant other", I'm taking about having a traditional "boyfriend/girlfriend" monogamous relationship with another person.

I don't ERP anymore, but I felt like visiting the board for nostalgia (despite it not having been that long since I first came here). I also fell in love with one of my coworkers recently, despite having a boyfriend. I think it's because ERP helped me realize I wasn't that into my boyfriend as I thought I was.

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

It's made me realize how dissatisfied I was with the way my relationship was going.

>Do they know you do this?

I have the feeling my boyfriend knows, but won't say anything since I haven't said that I roleplay specifically.

>How do they feel about it?

He thinks I'm just browsing F-list to laugh at furries, so I'm not sure how he feels. I think he's just skeptical or wary.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

No, I do not.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

My boyfriend likes to pretend he was my older brother (nii-chan, blah blah blah).

I'm leaving my boyfriend eventually. I'm giving it some weeks just to make absolute sure I'm not just infatuated with my coworker and that I'm actually doing the breakup for myself alone. I guess I'm just venting on here. Huh.

Have a great life, anons.

>>44183

Speaking of which, I took a fantastic dicking from my coworker today. Fuck yeah.

>>44183

>>44186

Cheating on someone who loves & cares about you is not something you should be proud of Anon.

Not a lot of people around these parts are fortunate enough to be in a relationship. If you don't love your boyfriend anymore, you shouldn't continue a relationship with him while having a relationship with your coworker behind your bf's back. That's very heartless of you.

>>44188

Thank you for being caring enough to worry about someone you haven't even met. I don't mean that sarcastically; I honestly do find that to be a noble trait, and I respect that.

I just wanted to let you know that I will be breaking up with my boyfriend soon, not eventually. I don't like cheating on anyone, and I'm hardly proud of it. I'm just taking it slowly so that the transition from in a relationship to out of one will be as smooth, natural, and as painless as possible for my boyfriend. I don't plan on letting him know it's for someone else, either. That's too much unnecessary pain for everyone I've involved.

I don't think I'm that heartless, honestly. I try not to be heartless, anyways, or at least tactful with my selfishness.

>>44197

>soon, not eventually

Too little too late, if you're already lying, cheating and being a general fucknut. If you -really- cared for making it painless for him, you wouldn't cheat behind his back and be all 'fuck yea' about it.

Like holy shit, a thread with a first genuine and honest post from Fai and on a flipside an utterly blinded and self centered post from NOT-Fai.

This thread is going places.

To the point though:

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

Not really, other than adding more spice and more clothing to our wardrobe.

>Do they know you do this?

Yes, she sometimes help. I can keep my hands busy with typing while my cock is pleased, so in a way this is good for my partners too. She gets off to the RP unfolding before her eyes as well.

>How do they feel about it?

Doesn't think it's cheating in any way, even when pics are involved. But it goes a little bit outside of the ERP, as I can fuck boys freely, but I'm forbidden from doing girls, except from those rare occasions when she wants me to fuck some girl while she watches. She's a bit of a cuck.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

If I understand the question correctly, yes.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

All the time.

>>44198

>Implying I'm never not honest and genuine.

W-what the f-fuck b-bro.

>Will you stop RPing when you live with your SO?

fuck no, this is for life. if anything I'd be finding my SO through RPing.

>Will you tell them about any of this or let them in on the idea that you enjoy it?

yes

>Would you stop if it made him/her feel uncomfortable?

they'd get dropped

>>44198

But, see, I'm not going "fuck yea, I cheated on you" to his face; there's a difference. I'm not worried about being an altruistic and pure person right now (because, obviously, I'm not). I'm merely venting on here.

What he doesn't know won't hurt him. I was going to break up with him regardless.

>>44216

>What he doesn't know won't hurt him

>I'm not going "fuck yea, I cheated on you" to his face; there's a difference.

Women

>>44237

Men are guilty of this too, but yeah, I can't say I approve of it either.

>>44224

That is fucking glorious… Are you still into fleshing out ideas and fantasies with a playmate? Would really like to know the kind of things you like to do to a boyfriend that's open to talking about erp.

Wouldn't have expected there would be so many supposedly female anons here on this board, or participating in ERP in general. Not that I didn't think they existed at all, but, you know, they always seemed extremely uncommon to me. Perhaps because I never asked much and assume most ERPers to be male. If I knew any of my female partners actually were female, I'd end up hoping for them to indulge me in one kink that no male partner ever could, which would either lead to awkward situations if I brought it up or to me just never bringing it up and wishing it would happen.

>>44224

That sounds really great, you two both seem like you're lucky to have each other. Not just because of the hot ERPing either, but just because your relationship is apparently really stable and all the stronger for it. Have you ever fucked while watching anime or hentai together?

>>44237

>>44239

Ignorance, or at least lack of knowledge about the bad things happening around you, is bliss. Withholding information to prevent others around you from hurting is something that is necessary sometimes. The only reason people ever "confess" about any form of infidelity is for a false sense of closure. I think that desire to be self righteous at the expense of someones feelings is much more selfish. Nothing personal, since I don't even know you guys.

Also, I never said I was a girl or a guy (at least I don't remember doing so). You just reached that conclusion on your own.

GF and I met through ERP on RPH. We've been friends for ~4 years now and dating for three years.It's been great. While we haven't had time to roleplay lately it's done wonders for our relationship. We've been incredibly open and cool about each other's fetishes.

>>44271

>Withholding information to prevent others around you from hurting is something that is necessary sometimes.

This idea is like communism, pretty on paper, doesn't work in reality. Don't even pretend that what you do is noble.

And I'm sure you're deceitful enough to make the guy feel like 'everything is fine'. Because he can't possibly pick up on any of this.

Doesn't matter if you're a woman or not, you're acting like one. Fuck off with your excuses and your need to reason this bullshit out. You're nothing but a cheating whore to me and you're clearly very fine with that fact, enough to keep up the charade.

Don't even bother answering, I don't chat with my fridge, I'm not gonna listen to a cockwarmer either.

>>44324

Ye Olde needs to know fucking this.

>Will you stop RPing when you live with your SO?

Yes, of course. I use erp as a substitute because I am too shy irl when it comes to relationships and I hate going through the loopholes and courting that goes through it, but if I do have a gf/bf I will love them and only them

>Will you tell them about any of this or let them in on the idea that you enjoy it?

Only if I know they also erp.

>Would you stop if it made him/her feel uncomfortable?

Yes, unless they have been doing things that make me uncomfortable, then no.

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

>Do they know you do this?

>How do they feel about it?

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

It has definitely affected us. It turns out that my girlfriend had been into certain sorts of ERP in the past and was sexually active in a lot of different ways before I had even met her. Needless to say, she's been the more experienced one.

The whole ERP thing came to light when I introduced her to Second Life and explained the sort of stuff I did there. At first I sort of hid it, but she seemed actually interested enough to plunge in with me. Now we run around as two magical futa succubus sisters that capture and seduce men and women alike to drag them off to our sex-island home and do things together sometimes, or separately.

The biggest issue we have faced is that I have concealed my own ERP in the past and she's caught wind of it. In a way this has carried over from turbulent times in our own relationship, but I've been guilty of it in better times and it has been a strain. The worst it's ever gotten is heavy OOC-flirting when we've been through a rough spot, which only made it rougher. Not too long after that, I broke down enough to end it for a while and she fell head over heels with another guy.

He was from similar ERP scenes in Second Life and although he wasn't local to her, he was only a state away. The asshole ended up abusing her hardcore, both physically and by playing some really controlling mind games with her. The breakup left her harshly depressed and slipping into becoming alcoholic, a habit which only got cut off because she ran out of money.

We're back together now, I've slipped up a few times due to my own problems with being addicted to the sex and thrill of ERP with other people. We've agreed though that as long as I'm open about it and don't cum I always edge anyway then it's fine, and she does the same with her friends. Our physical sexual pleasure is always reserved for each other, and there's been more than one weekend that she teases me with ERP, gets me to edge all day and finishes me off at night with a gigantic load.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

This doesn't come up. We take enough satisfaction in each other not to have to roleplay or anything and I'm enough of a clumsy dorkass to not be good at it anyway

The closest we get is dirty-talking some fantasies relating to our online fetishes / fantasy / roleplay.

>>44186

I agree with >>44188, but god damn this still gave me a boner. I wish I was fortunate enough to have hotties at my workplace… that are also into me ;-;

>>44188

Cheating cockwarmer anon providing an update here.

You were right. I decided to grow some balls and end the relationship already. Thank you for opening up my eyes. I hope you all take care.

>>44406

I think this site has some good tips for wooing the ladies. http://alphamalelifestyle.com/

Of course, don't let me decide if it's good or not for you. I wish you luck, anon.

>>44181

>will you stop RP after getting a partner

hopefully not

>will you let them in

I would bring it up, but more likely than not I'd meet someone through role play anyway

>would you stop

I would not; It's like playing video games or watching movies.

>all the moralfags in this thread

>>44562

Props to you for doing things you enjoy; human beings were not made to be monogamous, so fucking dudes or dudettes is totes gabotes

>>44566

>on the board where people treat fake-fucking as if it were dating

>expecting them all not to be protestant moralfags.

Its like you don't even know where you're at. Plus, it's more an issue of with holding information with me. Go ahead and be a swinger.

>>44566

>human beings were not made to be monogamous

>According to the Ethnographic Atlas, of 1,231 societies from around the world noted, 186 were monogamous; 453 had occasional polygyny; 588 had more frequent polygyny; and 4 had polyandry.[6] However, this does not take into account the relative population of each of the societies studied, and the actual practice of polygamy in a tolerant society may actually be low, with the majority of aspirant polygamists practicing monogamous marriage.[7]

Huh, more than I thought.

Regardless of that - if your significant other isn't okay with you having a sexual relationship with someone else, you should never do it behind their back anyway. For any reason.

>>44369

This post really bothered me. It's like these people in this post exist in a completely alien world to me.

>We've agreed though that as long as I'm open about it and don't cum then it's fine

This is the part were I really lost it… I can't really even comprehend the logic of this relationship…

Being open and honest with your partner is very important…but, not cumming? If you cum it's like you're cheating then? What?

I think what would make sense if you guys agreed on no OOC interaction with anyone anytime or something, but…

Actually, I can't even tell if you guys are together IRL or have a romantic relationship online with the occasional visiting one another…

>>44562

Good - you kinda did the right thing.

Let it be a lesson to always be honest with your partner and never betray their trust.

In the future, when you're a monogamous relationship, don't cheat and then jump into a relationship with the person you're having an affair with. If it's clear you want to fuck someone and enter a relationship with someone other than your SO…end the relationship.

Or maybe get into an open relationship with someone if you constantly want to fuck other people but still have that deep emotional connection with a single individual?

>>44606

you don't need wikipedia man

It's natural

Survival of the fittest, and if you can't put your seed into ladies you're not fit, just as if you can't carry eggs.

>>44616

>>44566

>what people out of the loop for at least a thousand years say, for 200$

Fucking lotsa things and cheating are not the same thing.

>>44610

"Lost it?" Why? I can understand not seeing the picture I portrayed or just not getting it, but to go so far as to seemingly upset you.. Sorry for that, I guess.

First off, we're together IRL. seriously, we're pretty much a step away from marriage if it weren't for shitty finances and circumstances right now

Let me put it this way. She enjoys the thoughts, feelings, sensations of pushing me over the edge to orgasm. The bigger the load, the better; It helps that she's sort of a cum fetishist. I enjoy it myself because it's a tease, and holding myself off time after time again until I can't stand it, finally being able to get time alone with her and blow my load.. It's fun.

If you're for some reason worried about it being controlling, it's not. It goes both ways, and it's fair since the way she gets off to sex is different than I do, but we're still compatible with each other.

Again, sorry if my post somehow upset you. I could say likewise, that it is completely alien that anybody would come out and be genuinely bothered by it.

.

>start doing garden work for friend

>she comes on to me

w-w-w-w-w-wat doooooo

>>44616

That's nice and all as far as fantasy-talk goes, but I'm not a huge fan of trying to argue natural selection with humans. It no longer applies to us, son, don't bring in biologic concepts you're not actually familiar with.

No one gives two fucks if you want a monogamous or polygamous relationship, but if you commit to a monogamous partner and want to fuck someone else without their explicit consent, break it off and establish a polygamous relationship from the get go. Then feel free to tell anyone off for being upset you're fucking around: your established game and rules, your right to various fuckholes. That's how the responsible-adult-who-is-not-a-shitstain-to-society-as-a-whole world works.

>>48939

>natural selection doesn't exist with humans anymore

it still does, it's just neutered mostly.

>son

>don't bring concepts you don't grasp

>"natural selection isn't a thing, here's my evidence ___"

nothing personell kiddo

>>48990

>strawman

It's not a thing in humans, sorry. It still applies to animals, and even then it's diluted due to the effect of humans on the environment.

I cannot prove it does not exist: you say it does, burden of proof is on you. So please, go ahead and prove it: I'll accept peer-reviewed studies regarding natural selection in first-world countries, it doesn't even need to pertain to breeding antics. I'm eager to read them.

>>48938

trim her bush

plow her field

plant some seeds

have an SO

we both chatfuck others like crazy

I tend to keep my chatfucking on a seperate schedule as do they, masturbating in the room with them feels akward.

Basically were swingers without threat of bringing disease into the house.

Its all good.

We dont share everything, we both know its happening but we dont share details always, it puts a bit of strain on our personal sexual lives at times, but we manage.

I do get concerned for the emotional attachments sometimes but that is actually not about the sex and more about the intimacy so we can address that openly.

I'll take this a step further. ERPing as a femboy made me realize I too have femboy aesthetics. I never knew I was bi until I started RPing. Now I crossdress.

I'm still alone and a permavirgin

Disclaimer: I am perfectly aware that I am a horrible person doing bad things in a dysfunctional relationship that should probably be ended by most people's standards. You guys asked so I'm just answering.

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

Constantly draws attention to how sexually unsatisfied I am in my current relationship. She basically expects me to sate all of her fetishes while being extremely flaky about doing anything I like that isn't specifically her fetish. I love her for other reasons but when it comes to sex it's either her way or vanilla.

>Do they know you do this?

I've mentioned that I've done it before, with my previous partner specifically while we were together. She doesn't know about my current scenario, though it's possible she suspects it but says nothing.

>How do they feel about it?

See above, but I've asked her about doing it together during times that we were physically apart, but she refused saying that it felt weird.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

That just sounds kind of weird to me, like some sort of virtual cucking unless you're both enjoying it together.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

Yeah but see above. Only really to satisfy her fetishes. If she was more open things would probably be a lot better.

I love her for lots of other reasons but I'm left sexually frustrated. ERP helps fill the void and sates urges that she won't fulfill. If we could fix that problem life would probably be a lot better.

There's a girl I have this ongoing thing with and after talking for a few days about rpg games, I suggested a solo game and she's down for it, and keeps telling me how much she is really into it now, considering I have a special rule. If her hp falls to 0, her character doesn't die, but just gets used by whatever she is fighting.

The system is Lamentations of the Flame Princess…so shes fucked. Now I just need to actually plan out a mini campaign for her.

when it happens I'll report back

OP here, made this thread as perhaps I'm looking for some advice.

My long-term SO of seven years is moving in with me in a month. I love masturbating and I love masturbating & ERPing and the like for hours upon hours. Usually I'll spend a weekend day doing nothing but that.

She has perhaps an idea that I ERP after stumbling across my browsing history, but has never asked me about it. She's also super vanilla - which is fine by me. I'm sexually satisfied with her. But yet I don't want to give up the hours of fun I have on my computer every other weekend or so. It feels pathetic thinking about asking her to leave for a few hours as I typefuck strangers on the internet and masturbate while doing it…

Advice?

>>49917

Drop ERP. Save time, enjoy her company.

Every time I got on a hiatus from the stuff I get a boatload of stuff done. Dropping it for several months and coming back briefly for a little bit has worked nicely for me.

I have a long-distance relationship and both my bf and I don't ERP, since it feels like cheating. If we were both fucking each other IRL, that would be one thing, but since the best we can get is skypesex, ERP is too close for comfort.

>>44181

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

My partner is very jealous so I've not let it affect my relationship.

>Do they know you do this?

No. But since I don't watch porn I have limited means of getting off so this satisfies. I've tried a variety of other means including software Mistresses but they're all terrible.

>How do they feel about it?

TBH probably better than if I watched porn but she'd hate it, and might even break up with me if she knew.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

Absolutely not.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

We tried once but we couldn't keep a straight face.

>>44606

>>44566

>Human beings were made/designed to do x

Having a propensity towards a particular practice or behavior doesn't necessarily make it the best choice. "Natural" isn't automatically ideal, and it baffles me why so many people fall back on that as a means of justification.

I mean, look at having your tonsils removed. They're a natural part of your body, but typically you're better off having them cut out entirely.

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

It hasn't. I started to practice, continued because it can be fun. If anything, helped me stop being such a shy virgin fuck.

>Do they know you do this?

No. She's close to being the stereotypical yandere.

>How do they feel about it?

She'd go crazy. She still can't understand the difference between rp and real shit.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

No.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

No.

____

>Will you stop RPing when you live with your SO?

No.

>Will you tell them about any of this or let them in on the idea that you enjoy it?

Second option, probably.

>Would you stop if it made him/her feel uncomfortable?

No. I can live without 'em.

>>44183

You fucking suck. You get a partner and you decide to cheat on them? Kill yourself, nigger.

>>44181

>>44182

ERP'ing it is one thing, but you are an actual piece of shit.

>>62918

Fuck, I meant these two. Sorry, OP.

>>44183

>>44186

Gay female here, 26. In a long term, long distance relationship. We meet up in meatspace a few times a year, largely when she's on break from school.

>How has ERPing affected your relationship?

Positively, I think. We do it together.

>Do they know you do this?

I should sure hope so.

>How do they feel about it?

Apparently I'm pretty good? She sometimes asks for details about what I do with other people, and sometimes I share logs, but generally when she's in that kind of mood I just typefuck with her instead.

>Do you have nights were you're getting lewd on the computer playing, with them fulling knowing what you're doing?

When we're in close proximity I'm all about her, tbh. I don't even bring my computer, and I'm usually a total PC addict.

>Do you both roleplay together in the IRL bedroom?

Ayep. Lots of D/S stuff. Some stuff with our characters from various roleplays over the years, sometimes. We bonded over doujins and stuff, and so she likes it when I say silly hentai shit for her, so I do that too.

I suppose my relationship is somewhat different/unique because of the distance, but we met through roleplaying on an MMOG and things sort of escalated over the period of about three years or so. We didn't ERP though until after we'd already been 'together,' and made everything official really. Which is sort of backwards for how these things tend to go.

ERP has definitely improved my relationship. I'm gradually getting more or less exclusive to doing stuff with her, but that's… more of time constraints than anything.