/erp/ - Erotic Roleplay

/erp/ generally has an awful attitude towards it, but there's a small contingency of people who are especially in love with it.

I for one absolutely love the kink. I'm just dying for someone to play it out with, but I'm really quite vanilla outside of that so it's hard to find people who want to do it without getting into bondage or degradation.

>partner has Adultery/Cuckolding in faves

>gets offended if I even mention having another partner

Basically dislike it, bordering on hating it.

A majority of the people that claim to enjoy it never want to be on the receiving end, or, the worst kind, those that expect you to post for both yourself and their S.O. while they jerk off.

Not in the way it's always presented. Chick cheats on nice guy with hung guy, nice guy finds out/ watches/ is forced to watch. That's all I ever see, and it's stupid. If I'd ever want to do NTR it would be as such: guy A and gal A are dating. Guy B and gal B are dating. Both relationships are rocky. Gal A eventually cheats on guy A with guy B. Guy A and gal B each find out on their own, and are devastated. They wind up meeting somewhere by accident, and start talking. Eventually that new pair fucks, and everyone breaks up. Guy A is now with gal B, and guy B is boning gal A.

Make sense?

>>46274

There's a doujin with that actaully.

But I agree with you, most of the NTR is done fucking horribly because people are fucking retards. They either play it out as crying wimpy faggots with no backbones or a super submissive beta that readily accepts the NTR and serves the other two on their hands and knees.

There's no fighting, no conflict, no real jealousy. If you don't have someone fight for their loved one in an NTR scenario, then it's a shit scenario that's literally a penis waving contest without any of the good stuff that is inherit to NTR

I dislike the kink, myself, but mostly due to partner experience.

The concept of cheating is not offensive to me, scenes in which some character is forced to watch their love fuck someone else are good.

Every single time someone on f-list approached me for NTR, though, I could tell they'd just run a kink-match, not bothered to check the profile they were contacting at all, and were just tossing their idea to as many people as they could in the chance someone might like it.

And it was always, "Your character is unsatisfied with her boyfriend's tiny cock/low libido/his commonness, so she cheats on him with me, his best friend, who is super well-hung and almost a literal sex-god."

Basically, "I don't really like NTR so much as the idea of women finding me/my character more fulfilling than their partner, and if your character shows even the little bit of affection for the cheated character or mentions him in the scene, I'm gonna feel challenged, call you a bitch, and end the scene."

So… yeah. Bad partner experience. Cheating went from a yes to a no mighty quick.

>>46275

Honestly, I like it best when the NTR isn't even known about. It's slow. Subtle. Subversive. A guy who plants a seed and watches it grow in a girl until by the time the victim realizes what's going on, it's just too late. The first time he hears of it is the time that he's already lost.

I like the idea of a bit of cuckqueaning with the husband being a shared NPC. Ideally a frigid bitch who treats her husband like an appliance and a spicy Latina who thinks a guy deserves a good time about twelve times more often than he's been getting it.

Not usually my thing though, so not sure I'd be good at it.

Requesting that one "You have made your wife your own so now I'll have to fuck you so you are both my property"picture.

I'd totally be down for playing that kind of NTR.

>>46281

…I like that idea, I would love to RP that.

>>46284

As which side? I guess I'm open to either.

>>46281

That shit's my fetish, yo.

>>46294

I would say probably the husband bu both roles are pretty appealing.

I'd honestly love to have my own big, beefy, super dominant looking shemale lover who is secretly wildly turned on by being cuckolded by my character. Perhaps with a lite smattering of femdom. Sadly, that's hard enough to find for me as is - further complicated by my preference for WoW/and or Fantasy themed settings for it. Plus, while males line up for that shit, shemale cucks who aren't already total sissies seem to be all too rare.

I like being the bull of the cuck

It makes alot of pussies very anal anguished. I personally don't care for it.

>>46272

I'm one of those guys who gets off on being cheated on. Whoops.

>>46275

Could you share said doujin, perhaps? Or at least its name?

I enjoy playing scenes where my character is cheating on her boyfriend, but I can't imagine myself actually cheating, and most of my characters would be apathetic if their boyfriend were cheating on them.

>>47215

I'd be interested if you played Konata

Shit-tier fetish for shit-tier people

>>47478

stay mad bro

I know this isn't actually ntr per se, but I enjoy the incest angle where the protagonist has a crush on his sister/mom/daughter, but knows that trying to make a move is too taboo so instead he just spy's on them having sex

>>47059

I'm pretty sure that anon is referring to Rock, Paper, Scissors from Kawasaki Tadataka, but it's not exactly what you described.

>>47478

lol seriously?

you actually typed and posted that?

>>49254

Of course he didn't, it's all in your mind.

Pretty satisfying to play the role of the bull, though that was my only experience with the fetish.

Cuckolding is meh, I guess. I end up self-inserting as the girl, so it's kind of all the same to me. Cuckqueaning is good, though. I want a girl who loves me enough to steal me away from an unhappy relationship that would otherwise continue only by inertia.

I like teasing others with it, but I don't quite get the folks that dig it in a sexual way. I'm willing to help them fill their fantasy bucket up if anything…

That said, I wish folks who enjoyed it at least had a partner they could invite to help fill the role of the SO. Very dull having to play an NPC, or just work it via implied through teasing :\

I have literally used a woman's womb to create world destroying plagues. I have had boys shit out babies they'd been pregnant with not as an act of birth, but just one of the many shits they take. I have had a pet of mine devour one of my character's breasts while my character was ripping out her spine and forcing her to use it as a dildo, both enjoying it.

I have done so many things that if I applied these ideas to the horror scene of the 70s and 80s I would be a billionaire just at the sheer batshit insanity I bring to the table

I will almost insta ignore or lead people on just to fuck with them if they even remotely suggest NTR even though I hate both of those things with a burning passion

I will imagine myself bashing the other person against a rock until I feel a satisfying bit of give and feel them fall still if its suggested

I would give up my edgelord nightmare fuel RP ways if the concept of NTR was forever removed from the human zeitgeist

That is how much I hate NTR.

NTR is fucking fantastic. Status play, profile play. The amount of messages I get when I ruin people's profiles and vitriolic hatred tossed my way, before they follow the same fate of being my mewling fuck dumpster barely comprehending what they've done from a few simple proddings is just Mrmph.

I literally have a girl who has been 'married' IC / profile wise for over a year, slowly destroying her profile bit by bit for me as me and her 'wife' are fast becoming OOC friends.

This is going to be one of the greatest things ever when I finally make all these changes, the images, the avatars, the links and kinks, the descriptions click in her mind – that well…..

Her wife hasn't been hers since the day they fucking met me~.

I really can't get into it honestly and I've noticed it's been cropping up a bit more than I would like. Problem is 90% of the time it's the same old story of beta pencil dick gets his bitch broken by giga nigga with his giant sequoia redwood dick and then maybe his ass broke afterwards. Very rarely have I seen any real deviation from the formula (though some of those very few were okay I guess, still mostly bleh). It's boring, shallow, and not my cup of tea so, yeah. If I'm doing a cheating scenario I want intrigue, drama, consequences not just "This Thog woman now eat dick girly man."

>>66933

Also shit like this.

>>66967

Real talk, if you think that's what NTR is, it's no wonder you don't get it. Most of that stuff is considered pure garbage by people who are into it – enough that people actively categorize what kind of NTR is being portrayed as A, B, and C types.

The point of NTR for most people is that a woman is stolen, sure, but there are a multitude of ways for it to happen. It's not always "Hurr durr lookit my big black dick". The best stories look deeply into how hard the decisions are for the girl being stolen, how the circumstances lead up to her choosing someone other than her boyfriend. It's about nuance and temptation. I know it doesn't look that way from the outside, but football just looks like people throwing a ball around and grunting a lot from the outside too.

>>66989

>football just looks like people throwing a ball around and grunting a lot from the outside too.

What, are you implying there's more to it than that? Like actual penetration?

I enjoy adultery, but I usually prefer to play it with the person being cheated on entirely off-screen. Actually forcing them to watch seems too mean.

>>66991

You didn't think all the homoerotic stuff was just for show, did you?

>>66999

Considering all the football fans I know pretend they're straight, I guessed they would avoid explicit penetration to maintain the "no homo" illusion.

>>46269

>NTR

Go catch a train. With your face.

I'm pretty into it, though I've got limited ERP experience with it. There's a lot of elements that just hit my buttons. There's usually a fun corruption theme with whoever is cheating, where they gradually (or sometimes abruptly) cave into their unsatisfied lusts, there's a kinky exhibitionist element of "showing off", and of course, there's that sense of dominance not only of the person that's being fucked, but of their partner that is just spectating.

Granted, NTR doesn't necessarily need to have those dynamics. There's scenes there everything is consensual, even with the cuckold/cuckquean, that enjoys watching or even takes part in some limited way. Ideally, I'd love to do a scene where my character seduces a girl AND her femmy boyfriend, like a mutual cucking.

So far I've only ever done NTRing as a femboy's bf's father, which was pretty fun. I'd be into exploring it more. Also don't really get why it makes so many people uncomfortable, given all the other crazy fetishes that pop up frequently. It's one thing to be uninterested, but taking an active stance in opposition seems bizarre to me.

I'm generally opposed to it, but there are exceptions. For example, I've got a yandere character who would allow it for the sake of making her lover happy, then probably snap after actually having to witness it and end up murdering the perceived homewrecker.

I've also got a partner into jealous hatefucking, and we tell each other about how much fun we've had with other people until one of us gets angry enough to rape the other. It's strangely cathartic. Not really NTR since we're not exclusive, but it's in sort of the same vein.

>>67101

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>>67119

Huh, could've sworn this was more common knowledge.

http://exhentai.org/g/628602/25efdc9d66/

For those who can't surpass the panda, go looking for (FF21)[San Se Fang]Wang Er-Xi ― Night Stories from a Chinese Studio[English]

A lot of people get WAY too butthurt over it.

>>67173

This. People take this shit way too personally.

It just feels like a really shitty thing to do. If you find someone "better" then at least have the decency to break up with the first partner before running to the new one. I would derail the RP if some jerk threw NTR in, although there is one scenario I like.

Nice Guy and Bitch are dating. Bitch won't give Nice Guy anything sexually and is already cheating on him. Nice Girl (me, although in my case it's usually shemale or herm) meets Nice Guy and secretly shows him the pleasures of both giving and receiving, hot steamy kinky sex, etc. Nice Girl is either an expert or just really adventurous, and Nice Guy has a major internal conflict. He's about to confess to Bitch when she announces she's leaving him for another dude, and walks out. Nice Guy and Nice Girl (shemale, herm, you get the idea) wind up together.

Alternatively, Nice Guy puts the brakes on the cheating by calling a Super Dom to break Bitch and make her more loyal. Maybe Nice Guy gets caught in the trap too, and winds up in Super Dom's care as well?

Cuckquean is a top-tier fetish

NTR is a top-tier 10/10 fetish so far as I'm concerned. Cuckshit is fun too. I'm more used to NTR because I see it more in doujins, but cuck isn't really a bad time either.

https://f-list.net/c/yoko If you think we'd be a match come forth and talk to me about big fat cocks or whatever.~

>>67380

>click on profile

>gay

Well, there goes my chances. The search continues. Best of luck anon.

>>67381

I'm trying hard to be less of a raging lesbian, I'm sorry. :(

>>67283

>It just seems like a really mean thing to do.

I mean, yeah, it generally is. But so is rape, blackmail, manipulating underage partners, bestiality, and all other manners of degradation. Do those all rub you the wrong way too?

I only ask because I rarely see anyone getting especially upset over these common themes, yet cuckolding/NTR always results in some very vocal outcries.

Also, that second scene you mentioned sounds fantastic. I love the idea of a guy hiring another man to "tame" his wife, then falling for the guy he hired.

>>67410

All but the last one do, and even then it's pretty mild. As for bestiality, that's something I've never gotten the chance to do.

I think the reason why people dislike NTR so much is because it can and does happen frequently in RL. Most people know someone personally who was subject to it, and they know how shitty of a thing it is to do to people. By comparison, the other kinks you listed don't happen nearly as often in the real world so they're less relateable.

>>67381

>gay

>wants to be impregnated

>has a boyfriend

>>67429

Ain't it cool that girls can have cocks?

>>67382

Hey, you don't have to apologize. I'm just always on the look out for great NTR, and you're the first person who's been enthusiastic about it. It's just a shame that we won't get to play is all.

>>67421

One strange exception I have is futa NTR. When girl falls for girlcock it's somehow okay to me, maybe because it's not about who's the "better man" but instead about the bigger dick? Or it might be because the futa tends to fuck both the men and women, it turns into an orgy with the guy stuck with oral/ anal, but no matter what he still has sex. I dunno, it just feels less wrong.

>>67421

So it mostly comes down to guys thinking "Well, I'm not a kid or an animal, and there's not much chance of me being the target of rape, but I could definitely see myself getting cheated on, so that makes me uncomfortable,", yeah?

I guess that makes sense? Though it's also a bit fucked up for a person to base how hypothetically bad something is based mostly on the possibility of it happening to them personally. It's like saying the flu is more disturbing than pancreatic cancer, since you're much more likely to get the former. But I guess there's something to it being too close to home?

>>67671

I wouldn't say it's more disturbing, only that it's more likely to happen. Cheating is more common (or at least more commonly discussed) than just about every other sexual act short of sex itself. Seriously, people are more willing to admit to infidelity than a fetish.

Actually that could be it. People don't even mention fetishes most of the time so we never really associate them with being bad or wrong. Cheating in any manner is despised and that negative view is taught to the kids who grow up thinking there's something inherently wrong with the girl who leaves a normal guy to be with a stud. If you like NTR, were you raised in a household that taught you cheating was wrong or sinful?

>>67671

That sounds about right. "I'm alone because girls would rather sleep with dogs/orcs/vampires" is a rhought that's absurd enough it doesn't really hurt you.

"I'm alone because girls would rather sleep with other men who are more attractive and better in bed than me" is probably true

>>69368

Also on that note, I personally enjoy cuckolding over NTR mostly because of the unique interactions regarding it.

>>69368

I don't really know what the purpose of this was. The OP clearly stated NTR and any responses made by people connecting NTR to Cuckoldry and Adultery were made with that purpose. Even if they're different by definition a lot of people intermingle them in RP and real life.

>>69375

I found it very interesting in any case, I didn't know there was this much to it. Makes me wonder what sources for this information are out there, I'd like to read more.

>>69350

God's work Anon.

I love it when I'm playing two points of the triangle (usually both girls in a netori scene) but I'm a bitch and would feel bad if there were a third person involved.

>>69421

Do you ever play gal and 'stealer' in NTR scenes? It's the dream, but honestly I've never met anyone who would even consider the idea and I always end up playing the 'victim' and the 'stealer', and I'd love to just play 'victim'.

Though from your post I assume you're not into males. I'm just asking because I'm hopeful.

>>69537

Not who you're replying to, but I have a monstergirl character who's an equal-opportunity adulterer, and I'd love to play with a victim and his/her significant other at the same time. I'd say it's probably more likely that you'll find two people willing to engage with you than one other person willing to essentially fuck themselves while you watch.

>>69538

So first off, I'd only want to play a guy losing his significant other to another male. Second off, finding a third person to play a 'stealer' who isn't completely worthless as a writer with "huh huh alpha male get outta here you little dick" tendencies is basically fucking impossible. Then again, it seems just as impossible to find a lady who'd want to write a villain for me too. So the honest truth is, it just seems like I'm stuck in this situation for the long run.

Fuck, I should just write my own stories. Then again, I think I'm the only person who'd enjoy reading a fucking novel with a heartbreaking NTR ending.

I hate it erotically and love it emotionally.

Like, in Anansi Boys, holy shit that one scene got me fucking so angry and hateful I nearly threw the fucking book out the window of the car I was in at the time.

But erotically it just kills my boner.

>>47415

I could do that..

late response is very late

>>69894

Hng. So interested in this. I love the idea of an otherwise faithful girlfriend being tempted and seduced just like you said!

>>69911

[Gone Sexual!] [Gone Bisexual!] [Gone Transexual!]

>>69894

Post your profile. I'd totally take you up on this offer.

>>69894

I would enjoy this a lot.

Shitty flirting sounds like fun- a drunk girl looking for strange cock and hooking up with the first guy who shows an interest?

>>46269

it's ok

>>67734

>If you like NTR, were you raised in a household that taught you cheating was wrong or sinful?

Absolutely. Society in general also strictly frowns upon stuff like loli and shota, yet I'm also fairly into that.

Granted, I would never want to convince a girl or a guy to cheat on their significant other with me, and I'd certainly never go out of my way to rub it in someone else's face if I hooked up with their ex. Just like I'd never consider acting on any number of fetishes that break strict norms, like rape-play or exhibitionism. They just have elements that I'm into, like corruption, domination, and casual sexuality.

>>67734

>If you like NTR, were you raised in a household that taught you cheating was wrong or sinful?

Yes, but I don't like NTR at all. If I have to suffer through it, I usually just self-insert as the girl.

>>70440

>If you guys are interested let me know. I suppose, I can try to rebuild my hub.

I'm not quite one to force the hand on that sort of a subject, but if YOU are interested enough to rebuild your hub, I would certainly love to try and see if we can't set something up.

>>70440

God yes. Please rebuild this hub. I want to play with you so badly.

>>46269

I didn't used to care for it, but it's actually a lot of fun. When I'm not doing rape and/or lolicon RPs It's quite a nice change of pace. It also parallels a lot of my male-sub kinks such as sph and bullying. I especially like fantasy oriented scenes involving races like elves, orcs and so forth- feels a lot less ugly than the real world stuff.